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Guidance for Righteous Husbands and Fathers

Feb 26, 2025

Being a Righteous Husband and Father

Introduction

  • Address given to the brethren of the priesthood.
  • Focus on the role and responsibilities of husbands and fathers.
  • Applies to both current and future husbands and fathers.

The Sacredness of Marriage

  • Marriage is considered a sacred privilege and obligation.
  • Man and woman are not complete without each other.
  • Marriage is ordained by God, necessary for eternal blessings.
  • Avoid unduly postponing marriage; heed the counsel of the Lord and prophets.

Fidelity and Love in Marriage

  • A husband should show perfect moral fidelity to his wife.
  • Love her with all his heart and cleave unto her, none else.
  • Infidelity leads to broken trust and family discord.
  • Avoid pornography, flirtations, and unwholesome fantasies.

Reverence for Motherhood

  • Motherhood is a sacred privilege and near to divinity.
  • Husbands should honor their wives' role as mothers.
  • Responsibility to support and nurture children together.
  • Express respect and reverence for your wife regularly.

Family as Ordained of God

  • Family leadership is a sacred responsibility.
  • No other success can compensate for failure in the home.
  • Leadership requires quality and quantity time.
  • Family governance should not be left to wife alone.

Partnership in Family Leadership

  • Wife is a partner in leadership with full participation.
  • Presiding in the home is a priesthood responsibility.
  • Shared responsibility and mutual respect are essential.
  • Avoid unrighteous dominion and domineering behavior.

Respect and Tenderness in Marriage

  • Marriage is sacred and should be based on love and respect.
  • Any abusive or domineering behavior is condemned.
  • Work differences out in love and kindness.
  • Nourish marriage with expressions of love and affection.

Fatherhood and Children's Welfare

  • Avoid abusive behavior towards children.
  • Govern family with principles of love and respect.
  • Fathers should express love to children equally.

Providing for the Family

  • Fathers have a responsibility to provide temporal support.
  • Avoid shifting the burden of responsibility to the wife.
  • Encourage a stay-at-home arrangement if possible.

Spiritual Leadership and Home Environment

  • Lead family participation in church and gospel activities.
  • Set spiritual climate of the home with wife.
  • Engage in regular scriptural study and prayer.
  • Teach the gospel through family home evenings and other activities.

Conclusion

  • Encouragement to improve where needed.
  • Testimony of the importance of these teachings from the Lord.
  • Blessings in efforts to be righteous husbands and fathers.