Vincent asks why is pornography bad oof why is pornography bad pornography is bad for one simple reason and that is that you are getting false dopamine hits from doing something that makes you feel guilty and gives you shame if you look at this uh all of you can Google vibration chart like all of us have a vibration everything in life has a vibration in fact there's a there's a true story there was a bridge in Baltimore that was built like in the 60s dude it's crazy and the way they built the bridge Etc it had the same vibrational frequency as wind at 22 miles an hour right so when wind kicked up to 22 miles an hour that 22 mile an hour wind and the vibrational status of that bridge were in line and this bridge would start vibrating and shaking and swaying and cars were getting like tossed around they had to demolish that whole bridge and rebuild it vibration is real like you've been around people you walk in you meet them and immediately you feel this weird like low energy like they're just sucking out the energy of the room right that's a low frequency person right and you've been around high frequency people and so if you look up the frequency chart or vibrational chart of humans you'll see that guilt and shame are at the very bottom and they rank it like vibration level like five and six right in the middle is acceptance acceptance that I'm going to accept that I'm a flawed human but I'm gonna take action in becoming a better human that's vibrational level 400. at the very top of that pyramid of frequency or vibration is self-actualization happiness fulfillment gratitude that is a vibration level of 12 to 1400 in terms of frequency right right and so when you were watching porn you're getting dopamine hits and those dopamine hits you're conditioning yourself okay when I do something shameful and that I feel guilty about I get dopamine heads oh my God I do not want to get this awesome great dopamine hit that's supposed to be good for me like working out that's a dopamine hit right making love to your spouse that's a good dopamine hit right um doing A Hard Day's Work and feeling accomplished that's a good dopamine hit watching porn secretly because you don't want to be found because you'll feel guilt and shame and getting a dopamine hit you're conditioning yourself to get dopamine out of negativity negative things number one number two guilt and shame are very low on the frequency chart so you just feel like a low vibrating human and you attract low bad negative stuff into your life and number three and this is recently has recently been found in the last 12 months 12 to 14 months there's something called porn induced erectile dysfunction porn induced erectile dysfunction so there used to be a time that people were starting to get impotent or would have erectile dysfunction in their 40s and 50s and 60s as they get older right right now young kids teens kids in their 20s and their 30s are are unable to get an erection and have sex because they're so used to watching a porn scene that is so exaggerated so over the top that has released so much intense dopamines when you're watching the threesome for some gangbangs whatever the [ __ ] it is that you weirdos are into and I don't judge you I've been down that path but I stopped but when you're into that [ __ ] and then you come home to your beautiful spouse and you just have to make love to her you're like well I don't know man like it's not eight of you on top of each other with weird tools and gadgets and a swing and a ball gag from Pulp Fiction right shout out to Quentin Tarantino and Paul picture you know what I'm talking about Maine by the way Ed's not here today Maine's got the mains got the cameras and so uh [ __ ] bro how are you gonna be able to make sweet love to your wife if you can't get hard because you've got porn induced impotence yeah that's sad so that is why pornography is absolutely bad for you well what about the people that because I know there's going to be comments people like oh well he's one of those guys that's just anti whatever what about the people that ask okay what if I just do it every once in a while like I'm not addicted I could stop whatever I want what do you say to those people hey guess what if you're not addicted and you're not getting any of the negative side effects this is a free country go for it I'm not your daddy I will give you fatherly advice on the show but I'm not your daddy I'm not your God I'm not anyone other than some guy on YouTube and ended with a podcast who lives an awesome life who is congruent with his core values who has been down all the weird Paths of all the different vices that these guys have gone down and I'm telling you right now they have designed pornography where even a little bit becomes a lot because then you want the next you want the next you want the next then you realize that holy crap I'm addicted it's just like a vape pen it's like oh I only take a hit here and I take a hit there and then you see the dudes on a plane who are feening for a hit from a vape pen because they've been on a three-hour flight and they can't wait to just run out of that terminal and take a hit of their vape pen right I don't ever want anything to enslave my mind and heart that way not not pornography not nicotine not alcohol not food not television not any addiction out there not gambling gambling will create such an addictive component to it none of it not not even money like money is very intoxicating as well right but money is something we need and you can learn to be good and generous with money but you can also start getting so addicted to it that you can start doing illegal things that are outside of your core values and character and justify it by well I'm just making money and doing good with it until you end up in jail plenty of great nice good people are in jail because they made bad decisions and it was The Addictive Factor right so people like hey man look porn doesn't affect me I I just do it occasionally just to let off some steam listen I got no beef with you but I'm just letting you know that those companies that produce porn have designed it to take you down the rabbit hole and hold you there for as long as they could I also heard a quote too I'm going to butcher it but it basically was if someone's asking can I just do it in moderation whatever the diction is whatever the thing is if you have to do in moderation you're still a slave to it because you couldn't you can't even stop because you still have to do it a little bit so anyways there's that very well said