Understanding the Human Emptiness and How to Fill It

Jul 16, 2024

Understanding the Human Emptiness and How to Fill It

The Concept of Emptiness

  • Humans experience an inner emptiness that needs to be filled.
  • This emptiness often leads to a cycle of consuming to numb oneself.
  • Unlike animals, humans are not fully programmed by instincts, leading to restlessness and aimlessness.

The Human Mind

  • The human brain is extremely active and complex.
  • Meditation reveals how incessantly thoughts flow through the mind.
  • This active mind contributes to the feeling of emptiness if not properly directed.

Coping Mechanisms

  • Mindless consumption: binge-watching, eating excessively, addiction to various habits, etc.
  • These activities serve as a temporary fix to numb the mental restlessness.

Finding Purpose

  • Essential to recognize the emptiness and actively work to fill it with purposeful activities.
  • Having a clear goal or purpose can guide daily activities and reduce the aimlessness.

Discovering Your Life's Task

  • Younger individuals (under 22) have an easier time finding their life purpose than older individuals.
  • The process involves:
    • Identifying what makes you unique.
    • Reflecting on childhood interests and inclinations.
    • Peeling away external influences (parents, peers) to find what genuinely excites you.

The Importance of Uniqueness

  • Every individual is unique due to a combination of DNA, parenting, and personal experiences.
  • Embracing unique qualities separates you from the billions of other humans who have existed.

Following Your Primal Inclinations

  • Find what naturally attracts you: sports, mathematics, music, literature, social activities, or construction.
  • This exploration should be exciting and fulfilling.
  • Determining these inclinations provides clarity on how to channel your energy and what to ignore.

Advice for Different Age Groups

  • Ages 21-22: The best time to discover your life's direction. It doesn't need to be specific but should give a general sense of purpose.
  • Ages 30+: Reflect on past decisions and correct the path if necessary. Unhappiness and frustration often signal that one is on the wrong path.