How to Ask Your Parents for Social Media Permission

Introduction

• Rosie Hernandez introduces the video on asking parents for social media permissions, specifically focusing on Instagram.
• Collaboration with friend Bill, who will create a video on convincing parents to let you pursue acting.

Importance of Compromise

• Emphasis on compromising privacy when asking for permission.
• Parents may initially say no; preparation is key.
• Personal experience with own daughter to support strategies.

Key Points to Prepare

1. Show Responsibility

   • Offer parents your username and password.
   • Allow them access to your account (messages, follows, posts).
   • Assure them that they have control over the account.

2. Initial Approach

   • Ask parents politely: "Can I ask you a question?" before making your request.
   • Explain that you are responsible and willing to have them monitor your account.
   • Agree to ask for permission before posting anything.

3. Building Trust

   • Parents often worry about inappropriate posts.
   • By demonstrating responsibility, you’ll earn trust over time.
   • The goal is to gain their permission and show you can handle the responsibilities of social media.

Additional Strategies

1. Involve Them

   • If parents have Instagram, encourage them to follow you.
   • Be honest and transparent about your posts.

2. Account Privacy

   • Suggest setting your account to private to limit exposure to strangers.
   • Emphasize that only friends will have access to your posts.

3. Managing Screen Time

   • Address concerns regarding distractions and grades.
   • Inform parents about app settings for time management (e.g., limiting time on the app).

4. Age Concerns

   • If they think you’re too young, ask them what the appropriate age is.
   • Plant the seed for future permission; it may take time.

Conclusion

• Encourage viewers to comment about their age and reasons for wanting an Instagram account.
• Invite viewers to ask for more advice in the comments.
• Rosie expresses well wishes and appreciation despite challenging times.