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Trauma-Informed Interventions

Unlimited CEUs for $59 at AllCEUs.com this episode was pre-recorded  as part of a live continuing  education webinar on demand CEUs are  still available at AllCEUs.com/Trauma-CEU hi everybody I'm dr. Donnelly Snipes and I'd  like to welcome you to today's presentation   on trauma-informed interventions now I had  originally planned to do this based on a book   called 101 trauma-informed interventions and  I got the book and I really didn't like it it   has a lot of great activities for grounding and  it has a fair amount of activities if there's   family related or attachment related trauma but  it was very general in its presentation it really   didn't talk about trauma-informed so much it  just said you can do Taichi or you can do Chi   Kong or you can do this activity and didn't  draw it in so what we're gonna try to do in   this presentation is draw together some activities  and some principles that we need to consider when   we're doing activities in order to ensure they're  trauma-informed and many activities that we do   many interventions group activities etc can be  trauma-informed if they help us accomplish a few predetermined goals if you will and we'll  talk about those so we're going to review   the components of trauma-informed care so we  understand what kind of interventions were   really looking for and what the goal of those  interventions hopefully will be we'll identify   a variety of interventions and considerations  for the provision of trauma-informed care so the   principles of trauma-informed care and this  is a review for some of you so I apologize   we'll go through it real quick safety this is  first and foremost people who've been exposed   to trauma really need to feel safe they need to  feel emotionally safe like you're not going to   push them too far where they can't come back they  need to feel cognitively safe like their thoughts   and their opinions are valid and they can state  them without fear of repercussions and they need   to feel physically safe and that goes without  saying but there are some things you can look   around your office and go looks perfectly  safe to me I don't see what the problem is   but something as simple as shutting the door  and locking it if you do that for some reason   could be very traumatic to somebody who'd been  in a situation where they've been confined with   their abuser before so we do want to consider  safety we want to make sure that clients feel   physically safe that there's nothing in our office  that is exceptionally triggering to them and if   there is then we need to figure out what to do  about that we need to develop trustworthiness   and transparency do what we say say what we mean  and tell clients with trauma-informed care it is   so much more important and since most people have  experienced trauma I think this should just kind   of be a standard but we need to be transparent we  need to do more than just this informed consent   thing at the beginning of treatment ago well  this is kind of what we're gonna do and these   are the benefits potential drawbacks and risks  and options but of being signed the paper let's   get moving well yes we've got to do that at the  beginning but with people who've experienced   trauma we need to help them understand where it is  feasible to what we're getting ready to ask them   to do if we want them to do a cognitive interview  for example I was watching a show yesterday that   was one of those police procedural shows I don't  remember which one but the police officer told   the victim okay I want you to close your eyes and  you could see her just tense up which really good   acting there because she's like okay why in the  hell am I gonna close my eyes I don't know you   from Adams housecat so it's important if we're  going to ask clients to do something that we   explain to them okay this is what we're gonna do  this is why we're gonna do it I'm going to first   ask you to close your eyes and this is the reason  if the person is not comfortable closing their   eyes but for some reason it's necessary which is  rarely necessary but if it is necessary what can   I do to help you feel safe while your eyes are  closed and working with the person before you   launch into the act vd or intervention whatever  it is is so important and this is true even with   things that seem very benign like meditation many  people who've been exposed to trauma have a lot   of difficulty obviously hyper vid with hyper  vigilance so they want to be aware of what's   going on they don't want to be closing their  eyes because they don't feel safe yet as your   relationship with that client develops and they  begin to trust you they are going to be able to   be more vulnerable in your presence so you may  get to a point where they're willing to you know   without question close their eyes before in order  to go into an activity but that's not something   we can necessarily expect and certainly not demand  from the get-go trauma-informed care provides peer   support and mutual self-help we want people to  be able to connect with others who've experienced   similar things who've experienced traumas who are  experiencing PTSD who have come through and are in   remission or recovered from PTSD we want people  to be able to connect with others not just us as   the therapist so it's important to encourage them  to engage in support groups and mutual self-help   where appropriate and this is really true well  it's true across the board but when you're working   with groups such as clergy counselors doctors law  enforcement firefighters people who typically are   there for people they're responsive for people  and they feel somewhat responsible for people   and may not want to talk about this trauma for  some reason military's another one because for   fear of reprisal in some way shape or form I've  worked with a lot of counselors and I mean work   illegally collegially with a lot of counselors  who recognize that they have been experiencing   secondary traumatization but they don't want to  go to counseling because they're afraid that it   would come back to the board and then the board  would start instituting excessive supervision   or something so even clinicians despite the fact  that we know what we know can be hesitant about   seeking help so it's important to encourage  people to seek help but it's also important   for people to seek help from like others because  what clinicians experience is very different   than what cops experience and law enforcement  as a profession tends to be somewhat isolated   if you will they like to keep it within the law  enforcement family if you will so it's helpful   if they can find support within their occupational  community that's what we'll call it occupational   community okay so number four is collaboration  and yuechu ality we're not doing things to the   client this is what happened whenever the  trauma happened something happened to the   client whether it was an act of God whether it was  an abusive parent whatever happened the client had   no control over it so we want to make sure that we  are asking what do you need to do what has worked   before what do you think is the best outcome  which direction do you want to go from here   and what role do you want to play some clients  want to be much more active in their treatment   than others what role does this client want and  as treatment progresses that can change because   some some people when they start treatment feel  very disempowered very helpless about the whole   situation and they're just exhausted from the  PTSD symptoms or from the trauma symptoms but   as they start moving through treatment and  start feeling a little bit better and feeling   like there's hope then they start feeling more  empowered and wanting to take more control of   the reins and that's awesome that's what I want  so we need to regularly revisit this concept of   collaboration and mutuality one of my biggest  pet peeves and I have a few of them is when I   would see a clinician writing a treatment plan  for a client and then walking over and giving it   to them and going here's your treatment plan and  the client didn't participate in the development   of the treatment plan at all maybe a little bit  of discussion in the assessment about well what   kind of goals do you have but the client didn't  participate in the development of the objectives   of the interventions of the pacing of anything  the clinician did it for the client and even   more of a pet peeve is if a clinicians treatment  plans look cookie cutter for PTSD for example or   for depression every single person that clinician  treats who has PTSD has the same nearly the same   exact treatment plan drives me a little bit batty  that tells me the client did not collaborate did   not have a say it wasn't a discussion it was an  edict empowerment voice and choice and this kind   of goes with collaboration when we're asking  them to participate to help us understand what   works for them what doesn't work for them we  want to empower them to say yes that works and   I tell my clients from the beginning whether I  know they've got a history of trauma or not over   the time we work together I'm gonna make a lot of  suggestions for different activities you might try   to address particular things some of them will  work well for you some of them won't and some   of them you're not even gonna want to try I need  to know which category each one falls in because   if something doesn't work for you I don't want  to keep suggesting it and if there's something   that you're just not even willing to try okay you  know I'm not going to force you to try it but I   again I need to know so I I know that you don't  like to think about doing meditation for example   if that's something a client says no that's not  something I'm gonna do okay at least for now we're   gonna write that off and in the back of my mind I  think I might try reintroducing it in a couple of   months if it seems appropriate but I don't want  to disempower the client or make the I feel like   I wasn't listening by saying well you really need  to try at least try this you know most of us had   to sit through something similar and obviously  wasn't traumatic but when we were little and   your parents put something like Brussels sprouts  on your plate and you're looking at it going that   smells disgusting sorry not a fan of Brussels  sprouts and but your parents said you have to at   least try it and you tried it and you're like that  tastes disgusting I told you I don't want clients   to feel like I am handing them Brussels sprouts I  want them to feel like I am listening and giving   them options so empowerment voice and choice also  means that we look at strengths and we build on   the strengths that the client has how have they  dealt with their trauma until now how have they   built their life the good parts of their life  up until now let's build on that because those   are the strengths that they have we may need to  sharpen those tools a little bit or switch from   a manual tool to a power tool but we're gonna  build on them everybody in the team everybody   in the team from the clinician to the doctor to  the support people to the client everybody needs   to believe in resilience of the individuals the  organizations and the communities and you might   think well that's kind of broad for everything  but we have to believe if we're working with a   rape victim or a rape survivor we have to believe  that that person has the ability to work through   that trauma and integrate that trauma we have to  believe that the people in different organizations   that interfaced with that youth after the trauma  they're going to be impacted by it we have to   believe that those people can be resilient the law  enforcement officers the attorneys etc and we have   to believe that the communities can be resilient  if you're living in a neighborhood that you feel   is safe and you find out that the 13 year old down  the street was assaulted the day before that's   gonna shake your whole community because all of a  sudden it doesn't feel safe anymore and people are   going to start feeling more uneasy but we have to  believe in a trauma-informed perspective that the   individual that was the primary survivor as well  as secondary survivors can recover and we have   to believe that that organ is that community can  find a new normal it's never gonna be the same I   lived on the University of Florida campus when we  had a serial killer go through unfortunately and   that really shook the community of the campus  to its core but we were able to come together   as a community and we were able to recover  after a hurricane after Katrina after Harvey   you know it shook communities to their core and  that was traumatic for millions of people but   the communities were able to come back together  so we need to believe in this resilience if you   don't then you want to stop right there because  that will be communicated you need to have that   belief in your heart that people can integrate  and I use the word integrate not accept they can   integrate that experience into their life we need  to build on what clients staff and communities   have to offer rather than responding to perceived  deficits and again this is an unfortunate pattern   that we generally have instead of seeing a  person who comes in as a survivor and saying   wow let's build off of that strength and that  courage you have a lot of times we see them as   a victim and we're trying to ameliorate what's  broken in them it's a semantic shift but we want   to build on that strength and that courage that  that person has brought to us we want to build on   the strengths of the communities yes the houses  may be devastated yes on that campus you know   you didn't know when it was safe than people had  curfew and everything and it was really scary for   a while but as a community we bonded together  and started watching out for each other more so   there were strengths that were brought out and  we want to respond to cultural historical and   gender issues leveraging the healing value of  cultural connections remembering this doesn't   just mean ethnicity this can mean religion this  can mean occupation this can mean well I guess   for example being a u.s. college student would  be sort of a an occupation because as Gators at   that point in time we needed to come together to  support one another and we recognize and address   historical trauma in in people okay so those are  the principles and and I'm gonna summarize it for   you in just a couple of slides so don't think  oh my gosh how am I gonna remember all that you   got it the events the three E's of trauma  the event is what happened objectively was   there was somebody victimized there was a tornado  there was a car crash whatever it was this is the   event now every person who goes through an event  experiences it differently based on how old they   are you know kids are gonna experience things  very differently than 20-somethings who are   going to probably experience it very differently  than sixty somethings okay experiences can be   affected by people's developmental age their  prior history with something like that if   they've had prior traumas if they have had a prior  experience with something similar if the incident   occurs close to what's considered their safe  space if the incident if they're not a primary   victim if the incident reminds them of somebody  that's close to them there are a lot of things   variations or variables that can go in to making  an experience much more traumatic for one person   than the other even though the quote objective  experience is exactly the same the third thing   that affects experiences is available resources  when it happened does that person have support   within the first two to four hours did that person  have support within the first 24 hours within the   first 72 hours after we get out of 72 hours people  have started to really compartmentalize and try to   stuff it down because it's just so overwhelming  so important for people to have social support   as well as necessary resources in that first  period if a house burns down the red cross   goes out there and makes sure that people have  somewhere to stay they have clothes they have a   toothbrush they have the things they need and that  happens not instantaneously but it happens within   a couple of hours so those available restore says  get forgetting basic needs met think of Maslow's   triangle Maslow's hierarchy those happen and that  tends to make help the person feel a semblance of   normality a little bit sooner and I'll have a  little bit more of a sense of control so that   can make the traumatic experience a little less  traumatic or help the person with their resiliency   and the third E is effects so you have the event  the experience and then you have the effects of   it what happened to the person is going to affect  them emotionally is going to affect them mentally   in the way they understand the world and perceive  things and maybe their outlook for a while it   will probably when people are in trauma it will  probably affect their memory because when you're   in trauma you're not your memories not good always  just put it that way so if somebody is in acute in   an acute state of trauma making sure that they're  told it's okay you're gonna feel kind of scattered   for a while write things down keep it simple if  it's been awhile since the trauma you're probably   looking at cognitive distortions and cognitive  restructuring that took place as a result of the   trauma physical effects because of the emotional  effects there can be physical effects such as   not getting in being able to get enough sleep  hyper vigilance increased arousal those sorts   of things there can also be physical effects  from the trauma if you're in a car accident and   you break your hip it's a physical effect of the  trauma so we need to look at that social effects   of the trauma a lot of things go into this the  trustworthiness of other people the reliability   and dependability of the people you thought you  were your supports your willingness to engage in   interpersonal relationship some people try to  withdraw after a trauma because it's just too   overwhelming to deal with other people so there  are social effects spiritual effects as we've   talked about in our spiritual steps to happiness  after a trauma people's understanding of how the   world works and make the way they make meaning  out of things is often shaken up a little bit   so we need to help people work through that and  then the environmental effects of trauma it can   be as obvious as the destruction of a house or  car or something like that - something that is   a little less obvious for example someone who  is the survivor of a home invasion robbery may   start putting bars on their windows and triple  lock their doors and their environment becomes   more like a prison than a inviting place to live  so we do want to look at the effects of the trauma   when we're helping people work through their  trauma these are all potential treatment plan   goals when we're addressing trauma and we have  to let the client guide us at their pace on what   they're willing to or able to address it's also  important with trauma to help clients understand   and in the trauma-informed care certification  tract there's a class on the neurobiology of   trauma but our brains are kind of cool and one  thing that people learn in that track is that   during an intensely traumatic event the brain  actually secretes certain chemicals in order   to prevent the formation of memories because the  brains going oh dude I don't want to remember that   ever which is why sometimes people can't remember  the details of a trauma their brain was protecting   them yes it is frustrating it is so frustrating  for somebody who felt so out of control to still   feel out of control because they have these blank  spots and we can work with them on that helping   people understand that that's a normal part of  the trauma and that some of those memories may   come back when and I make the analogy if you will  that when your brain thinks you're strong enough   to handle it when the brain thinks you're ready  to and all that tidbit of information you might   get it back when I do autobiographies with my  clients I have them write their autobiography   on a sheet of paper and every sheet of paper is a  year so they start with their earliest memory and   then whatever age they were so six will say they  answer a bunch of questions about what was going   on when they were six as best as they can then on  the next sheet of paper is when they were seven   next sheet of papers when they were eight and  sometimes people can't remember the age so I say   when you were in first grade second grade third  grade whatever it is that helps them cognitively   connect with that age why do I have them do  waste so much paper if you will because as we   go through therapy people often remember things  they're like you know I forgot that when I was   six I used to do this or when I was six this was  going on well we can add it to the autobiography   now so they're able to start filling in some of  those gaps and it feels helps them feel a little   bit more complete if you will in some ways okay  so the four R's we need to help clients realize   the event what happened recognize the experience  help them come to terms or understand how they   experienced that event and the effects of that  experience so if somebody experienced a trauma   when they were 4 or 5 you know cognitively  children are thinking dichotomously at that   point in time they don't have much of a point of  reference they are dependent wholly dependent on   their adult caregivers so their experience  and the effects of that trauma and their   reaction could be very different then well if  they experienced the same thing heaven forbid   when they are 26 we want to help them see that  they may be reacting they may have those memories   stuck for lack of a better term right now kind of  stuck in their amygdala from when they were 4 or   6 this happened and they're still feeling when  they're exposed to those triggers they're still   feeling like that terrified child to help them  understand why they're reacting the way they're   reacting we want to help we want to respond  to help people live a high-quality life and   acceptance and commitment therapy for trauma  is one approach cognitive behavioral therapy   for trauma is another approach or trauma focused  cognitive behavioral therapy cognitive processing   therapy is another one there's also exposure and  desensitization type approaches there's a lot of   different approaches that people can use EMDR is  yet another one we need to educate clients about   the options that are out there so they can most  effectively choose what's gonna they feel will   work for them and then we need to ensure you  know sort of that above all do no harm thing   we need to ensure that we are doing everything  possible to resist rhe traumatising the client   we want to make sure we're not taking their power  we want to make sure we are not recapitulating   that event and if something happens that starts  to do that we need to be able to help them stop   and take action so they don't feel like they're  immersed in it again unless you know obviously   unless you're doing exposure therapy or something  and even then exposure therapy needs to be done   by a trained professional somebody who's trained  in exposure therapy you don't want to just pull   that out of your hat and go hey you're terrified  of spiders so let me bring a spider in and see   if you want to work with it please don't do  that okay so summary of the intention of the   interventions we're getting to the interventions  in just a second you want to create safety and   develop trust with clients through the use of  cultural resources peer support transparency   collaboration and empowerment so you're getting  this whole support system together you're you're   gathering up the resources and and sort of  stocking the fort if you will so this person   feels like they are totally support it and protect  it and cocooned if if you want to use that term we   do this in order to help clients get to the place  where they can explore events the experiences and   the effects of those those events and respond in a  way that will help them live a rich and meaningful   life without feeling like they are being regularly  retraumatization happens when people feel a lack   of control can we make these memories go away no  can we help them develop a different relationship   with those feelings reactions and memories yes  where they feel like they have more control where   they feel like they can live a rich and meaningful  life yes we can so create safety these are some of   the activities that can be kind of fun encourage  people to develop a nurturing voice and we talk   in group a lot about what a nurturing voice means  because some people are like them what what would   you tell a six-year-old what would you tell  a small child what would you tell your best   friend if they so again back with my stack of  index cards that I have when people have trials   tribulations and troubles in their life I have a  whole stack of cards that I have developed that   of issues that often come up and I'll pull a card  out and I will say okay if you got fired from your   job what might you tell yourself what might you if  you were using a nurturing voice what what would   you tell yourself and if they kind of look at me  like I all know what would you want a nurturing   parent to tell you you want to develop the voice  of a nurturing parent in your head instead of a   critical heckler so we'll go through those cards  for the better part of group and then we'll talk   about how it would feel and how it felt switching  from a critical voice to a nurturing voice we also   talked about experiencing trauma so if somebody  goes into a shopping mall for example and they   whenever they're around crowds it triggers their  PTSD the critical heckling voice can say you are   so weak you are so broken you're no good to  anybody the nurturing voice can say I don't   blame you for being stressed out and anxious right  now what can we do what tools do you have to help   you get through this moment so we talked about  symptoms of PTSD and situations that trigger   PTSD symptoms for people we talk about what  they tell themselves and then we talk about   what an alternate nurturing voice in their head  could tell them instead another activity you can   do and I really strongly recommend this at the  beginning of treatment like when you're doing   the treatment plan develop a crisis plan help the  person develop a crisis plan so they can identify   signs of impending crisis and they can also this  is also goes along with their advance directives   they can identify where they want to go if they  have to be hospitalized who they want involved in   their care etc they can also identify what's the  most helpful thing thing or things that people can   do and what's the least helpful or potentially  damaging things that people can do you want to   have that in a plan and then in a post crisis  plan we generally forget this part after the   person goes through the crisis after the person  gets stabilized and you know they've gotten gotten   grounded again what is it that they need to do  because after a crisis whether it's a three or   four hour thing or a three or four month thing  you know it doesn't matter after a crisis people   tend to be exhausted which means they're more  vulnerable to dysphoric emotions and reactions   so in this post crisis period what is that going  to look like how can they start taking care of   themselves again or continue to take care of who  do they want involved and at what point can those   supports do they feel like those supports can  step away from them a little bit mindfulness   activities our third group of things people can  do because we want people to have an awareness of   self in order to feel safe we need to be aware  of what's going on within us and around us not   hyper-vigilant but if we are mindful and we notice  you know what I'm feeling really uneasy here for   some reason we can intervene before it becomes  a full-out anxiety attack if we are mindful of   what's going on we can explore with curiosity you  know I'm feeling really uneasy I wonder where this   is coming from and develop a greater awareness  so then we can identify ways to deal with that   so we're not having to close things out we're not  having to escape or leave we're able to identify   triggers reminders etc and develop a plan for how  to handle those so we feel safe we feel like we've   got control we feel like we have the ability to  be empowered in our life grounding techniques   awareness of the present when people start having  flashbacks if they've been exposed to trauma it's   not uncommon for people to have flashbacks when  they start having flashbacks or feel like they're   getting ready to have a flashback it's important  for them to be able to ground themselves and I   have a variety of grounding techniques that we go  through one of my favorite is the 4 3 2 1 I have   people identify for things they see in the present  moment 3 things that they hear 2 things that they   smell and one thing that they can feel and that  just helps them really focus on the moment and   staying in the present instead of going back there  because remember PTSD pulls our mind to the past   about what happened and could happen again and  pulls our mind to the future worrying that the   worst is going to happen we want to encourage  people to stay in the present what's going on   they're grounding techniques can be as simple as  calling a friend and you know but the hands-free   phone if you're in the car and and just talking  and staying focused in the present one of the   things I do and it's not trauma related so to  speak it's more to my own weird phobias but I   have this unreasonable fear of bridges so whenever  I go over a bridge I sing songs whether it is the   ABCs or mary had a little lamb' it's usually some  kind of little kids song that I can just sing over   and over and over again until I get across the  bridge it helps me stay grounded and focused on   what I'm singing instead of looking around going  oh my gosh encourage clients to brainstorm how   have they grounded themselves before when they've  had flashbacks how have they gotten react limited   to the present if they've woken up from a  night terror how can they get reground a--   dand reoriented unhooking we've talked about this  in other classes helping people unhook from their   emotions when we feel like we're hooked to it  imagine going fishing and you are just out there   you're cruising along and suddenly this 12-foot  great white shark and yeah you've got really   strong fishing line 12-foot great white shark  takes your line and starts pulling you and you're   afraid it's gonna pull you right off the boat  and gobble you up that's the way our feelings can   feel in the middle of an anxiety attack or in the  middle of PTSD so encouraging people to understand   that they can cut that line they can see that  great white shark out there they can notice that   great white shark out there and they can cut that  line and go you know what I ain't going overboard   today Pandora's box is another one that I really  like doing with clients because it starts to give   them a sense of control and we practice this when  we start talking about the trauma and the effects   of the trauma and all that stuff this is one of  the early exercises we do and we talk about how   when there to something that reminds them of the  trauma it opens up Pandora's box and most people   know that that's this box that's filled with all  these emotions and there's lots of other stories   that go along with it but we talked about how  it's this box that's filled with emotions when   they open it some people are afraid that if they  open it everything is going to come pouring out   and they will never get the lid shut back so they  they're afraid to go there so we start talking   about Pandora's Box we look at it and if it's  somebody who's more visual I even have some boxes   that I've gotten at the craft store that are like  treasure chests that are locked and we look at   the box and I we talk about what it feels like to  look at that box that might be filled with their   emotions what does it feel like to think about  taking the lock off of that box what does it feel   like to and we gradually step to the place where  they unlock it take the lock out and gradually   open it up just a peek just a peep just a little  bit and then start opening it a little bit more we   talk about what their fears are if they open that  box too much we talk about strategies for closing   that box again if it starts to open and when we  start processing trauma issues or talking about   something that might trigger intense emotions they  have the key word that I need to shut the box and   that's my clue and that's their clue that okay you  know this is getting too intense for me right now   instead of running from it or changing the topic  I need to shut the box and we may be able to open   it again in 15 minutes but right now I need  to shut the box and we work on that with each   client each week help clients develop boundaries  depending on the trauma they may have had their   boundaries violated in one or more different ways  so help them learn about boundaries sometimes when   people are in a traumatic experience other  people are so well-meaning that they want to   comfort they come up and they want to give hugs  and they want to touch and people who've been   traumatized sometimes don't want to be touched  they're like personal space you know this is my   bubble encouraging people to develop the skills  to know what's a comfortable personal space and   the assertiveness skills to be able to kindly  articulate you know I need this kind of space I'm   not a hugger I'm I just don't do well with that  it's nothing personal I'm just not me emotional   boundaries encouraging people to be able to set  those emotional boundaries and say I feel how I   feel it's not right or wrong it's just how I feel  if you feel differently that's okay doesn't mean   anything's wrong with me and cognitive my thoughts  are my thoughts and I can choose to hold them or I   can choose to change them but it's my choice and  that's my boundary I have this is all my stuff   in my little bubble and I can choose what I do  with it in there and our bubbles can connect with   other people's bubbles but it doesn't mean they  necessarily it doesn't mean they have to intersect   you know they can touch and connect without  having somebody else's bubble gobble yours up transparency like I said earlier always  explain the rationale behind activities   encourage clients to improve communication and  this is goes to their transparency we talked   earlier about informed consent but we also want to  encourage clients to be more transparent they need   to stop mind-reading and how does that relate  to transparency well if I'm in a relationship   with somebody and I expect them to do something  or get me a present or something and they don't   do it and I get angry and then I get frustrated  with them and I give them the cold shoulder for   the next two days they're probably sitting there  going what the heck if we encourage people to stop   mind-reading and stop assuming that they know  other people are thinking or wanting or needing   than this open communication which can feel  very threatening for a lot of people this open   communication will help them garner support if we  are mind-reading if we are assuming that somebody   has ill-will towards us for some reason if we're  assuming somebody has not nice motivations for   what they're doing then it can make us feel  like we're less safe it can make us feel more   in danger many times we are mind-reading and and  having transference reactions based on past trauma   so encouraging people to stop mind-reading to  communicate openly will reduce stress reduce   hyper vigilance and increase a feeling of  connection and support finally encourage   clients to start using I statements this helps  improve communication and transparency because   they're saying I feel this way when this happens  they're not saying you did this you did this you   did this they are communicating their wants needs  and feelings so other people understand and can   meet their needs or try to meet their needs and  encourage people to develop an awareness of the   motivations behind their thoughts feelings and  urges so this mind-reading act activity we do I ask people to think about times when they have  read people's mind or thought they were reading   people's mind and felt like that person meant  something not nice towards them for whatever   reason and it hurt their relationship or  it negatively impacted them in some way and then I asked them how did they know that and  do they know that for sure do they have facts to   support it how could they have addressed it in a  way that may have prevented some of the distress   that it caused and then obviously we practice  using I statements and identifying what they   need and I'll go around the room and I'll have  everybody say I feel however they're feeling at   the moment and I need and you know if you do this  too close to the end of group they're like I feel   exhausted and I need to go have a smoke break  or something a lot of people will say that but   it gets people starting to use I statements and  empowers them to start getting their needs met   collaboration and empowerment multi multi sensory  guided imagery can be empowering because it gives   people the ability to transport themselves to  a different place for a moment to take a mini   mental vacation sometimes it's very stressful  sometimes you're just in the middle of something   that's traumatic I've used the example of getting  shots before when you go to the doctor and you're   getting ready to get a shot it's not a pleasant  thing if you can transport yourself for a second   that can be helpful now this can be less than  helpful with clients who have a history of   dissociating as in a response to trauma I don't  want to encourage dissociation I wouldn't want   to encourage intentional vacationing values  identification helping people recognize what   is important in their life and empowering them  to take steps towards that and we talked a lot   about that in acceptance and commitment therapy  for trauma we also talked a lot about living in   the and and this is very empowering have clients  identify times in their life where they've been   scared to do something but they did it anyway  where they didn't think they could do something   but they tried and they did it anyway or maybe  they failed but they tried encouraging them to   explore how they have embraced or walked with  fear and dysphoria at times will help them see   that they can continue to do it have them explore  how they're different now than they were when the   trauma occurred this can mean exploring how  they are stronger how they have grown up how   they have more supports how they have they're in  a healthier environment whatever it is so they can   recognize how they're safe now and how they have  survived until this point and then encourage them   to identify and enhance strengths for coping with  PTSD or trauma symptoms you know my favorite flip   charts all around the room one for irritability  one for hyper vigilance sleep disturbances   flashbacks numbing and withdrawal having clients  go around to each one of those and identify ways   that they cope with those specific symptoms can  and then we bring it all together and I put it   together in a handout for them that I give them  the following week but this helps clients identify   some new techniques that may work for some of  their colleagues or whatever you want to call   them group mates and helps them start exploring  new tools that they might have have them create   meaning and this needs to be approached delicately  creating meaning from what happened yes it isn't   unfortunate whatever it was it was traumatic and  it stinks that you had to go through that how can   you create meaning from it how did you grow how  did you become stronger what can you get out of   it play it out is another empowerment tool that  we use sometimes with clients who start having   extreme reactions to certain situations they're  afraid to go into public because they're afraid   that something Bad's going to happen and so  we asked okay what what do you what are you   afraid is going to happen and then what and then  what and then what so we have them play it all   out and then we talk about the likelihood of that  event happening in the and and generally it comes   out that it's pretty unlikely that it's going to  happen but in the unlikely event that it should   happen you know is there do they want to create  some sort of plan of approach encourage people   to identify triggers and modify them whenever  possible if going into super crowded places is   a trigger for you well then don't go shopping at  the mall on Christmas Eve you know that may be   one of those things that you just choose to avoid  there are some things you can't avoid I've told   you about my my friend who was a law enforcement  officer who was involved in a particularly nasty   car accident well he went back to duty he couldn't  avoid driving he couldn't avoid the interstates   but he knew the interstate was a trigger for him  so he had to figure out a way that he was able   to deal with that being those sights and smells  even a smell of exhaust fumes was would start   triggering flashbacks for him so encouraging him  to be aware of those things and he knew that if he   got on the interstate you know at least at first  until he desensitized to doing that he would have   a plan in place for what he would do obviously  this was back before before he went back on patrol   duty and then once he got to the place where he  realized you know what I've been able to go on to   the interstate and there hasn't been a problem  and it's not so bad anymore then he was able   to progress back to to full duty how people use  red flags and green flags red flag warning means   that they're feeling triggered or they're feeling  anxious it they may not be able to identify why   but if they know that they're feeling stressed  out that day that's a red flag day kind of like   when there's a riptide at the beach knowing that  there's red-flag what do you do differently that   day and how do you need the people closest to you  to behave differently that day I know in my red   flag days I cannot take a lot of sudden loud  noises they just make me jump out of my skin   I recognize them and they still happen we've got  four dogs we're not gonna have a quiet household   however I recognize that when I'm having a  red-flag day sometimes I need to go in a different   part of the house from the dogs because if they're  barking too much it really grates on my every   nerve and that's okay systematic desensitization  is another way we can empower clients to be   exposed to trauma reminders to trauma triggers and  have those triggers not elicit the same emotional   response narrative therapy written or charted  depending on your clients some people love to   write some people hate it so if they want to write  a narrative I say okay your life is a television   series and you are in season 15 right now season  15 is coming to a close now tell me about season   16 what is it gonna be like and just like when  you watch a show like ER or something that's gone   on for many many many many seasons you develop  emotional attachments to particular characters   and when they go away it's like oh you know that's  you have this little little mini grief thing going   on however you don't forget that they were there  when there's a traumatic event that happens one   season you don't forget that that happened but  how do the writers write that in to make meaning   from it obviously they put it in the script for  a reason how does it play out and how can you   make it play out in season 17 in a way that is  meaningful and positive if somebody doesn't want   to narrate that much they don't want to write a  prose story that's fine chart it out do it mine   you know this is what happened then this is what  happened then this is what happened last week and   this is what's gonna happen next week next month  next year you can do the broken pot activity which   you take a big terracotta pot you want to get one  of the bigger ones and you don't want to smash it   into a million pieces so breaking it is a little  bit dicey until you get the hang of it you want   to break it into large pieces I've found the  easiest way to do this is to just leave it out   over the winter and it just naturally cracks on  you found that out the hard way anyhow take the   pieces of the terracotta pot and on the inside  of the piece or each piece right and effect or a   result of the trauma that has impacted the person  and then they glue it back together and on the   outside of the pot they write something that  they're grateful for or support that they have involve cultural supports and this can be faith  healers pastors or like I said earlier colleagues   sometimes people will feel and it's true to a  certain extent I don't know what it's like to   be an emergency room doctor I don't know what  it's like to be a firefighter I can empathize   but I haven't been there I haven't lived in  that sort of structure I haven't been a cop I   have lived with cops and firefighters and soldiers  but I have never been in that situation I've never   been in Afghanistan so my empathy can only go so  far so sometimes it's helpful to have colleagues   that are involved that can use terms and phrases  and words that are meaningful to the person that   may not be in our vocabulary identify peer based  resources like specialty groups where people can   go without fear fear of reprisal and encourage  family support and therapy because somebody who   has experienced trauma doesn't live in a  bubble and their trauma and the effects of   that trauma affect their significant others and  their significant others which is why we have   intergenerational trauma we want to make sure that  we're bringing in everybody who has been touched   by that trauma in some way so we can break the  trauma cycle responding without retraumatization   tabat EMDR in just a second we want to help people  build resiliency and prevent vulnerabilities so   when they are going into a situation and they  feel triggered in some way they feel like it's a   dangerous situation they need to ask themselves or  they can ask themselves challenging questions one   what are the facts for and against my belief that  this is a dangerous situation or this is could   be a dangerous situation looking at the facts  usually when they start feeling that they may   be being triggered and using emotional reasoning  this reminds me of a time that was unpleasant   their friend was very traumatic therefore I am  anxious about going into a similar situation   that's emotional reasoning reasoning there is  no evidence that this situation in the present   is going to be traumatic is there a higher low  probability that your belief is or will be true   is there a high or low probability that this  will be a dangerous situation going to your   kid's basketball game what else contributed to  the situation that was traumatic in the past   and is that present now you know a lot of times  there are other extenuating factors that are not   there in the present and are you catastrophizing  or using all-or-none thinking are you expecting   the worst or thinking every time I go into a  crowded place something bad happens or I have   a panic attack those are questions that clients  can start asking themselves in order to help them   feel more empowered about what getting ready to  do in order to help them get grounded now when it   comes to EMDR yes I think EMDR is priceless for  many people who have experienced trauma does it   work for everybody no you know I've talked to  clients who've gone to MDR therapists and said   not didn't do much for me but I've also talked to  a lot of clients who've gone and said yeah it was   the best thing that I ever did I wish I wouldn't  have waited so long so it's something that I feel   needs to be presented as an option to clients to  help them see if that's something that works for   them okay so we need to create safety and develop  trust through the use of cultural resources peer   support transparency collaboration and empowerment  we want to do this in order to help clients feel   safe enough to explore events the experiences  of those events and the effects of those events   and respond in a way to help them live a rich  and meaningful life without reach Ramat izing   themselves we want them to be able to accept and  experience reality without feeling like they are   going through the trauma over and over and over  again when you're working with a client no matter   what intervention you're doing ask yourself if  it is in any way disempowering non-transparent   or could be triggering whether that is having  them hold hands dimming the lights lighting a   candle doing something ritualistic whatever it is  or even ropes courses can be somewhat traumatizing   for clients because there's a lot of times on  ropes courses where you're often really close   and your personal space is kind of invaded  so we do want to recognize those things and   and be transparent about what's going on and as I  said multiple times but I'm going to say it once   more inform clients before every intervention of  the potential benefits and effects and what tell   them what they're going to do you're not doing a  psychological study it's not like you have to have   a double-blind or something so let clients know  I'm going to ask you to close your eyes because   it will help you in visualize what was going  on or I'm going to ask you to take three deep   breaths because it will help you slow down your  heart rate and breathing so you can trigger that   rest and digest action in your brain if clients  understand they're a whole lot more likely to go   along with it but they feel empowered because  they're able to say okay I understand and I'm   making a conscious choice to do this it's not  being done to me alrighty everybody thank you   so much for being here the day before Thanksgiving  and I hope you have safe travels and a wonder one   wonderful wonderful holiday whatever you're  doing or wonderful wonderful unhallowed a if   you're not participating in the Thanksgiving  festivities it should be gorgeous weather   and a lot of the United States so hopefully  maybe you can get out and do something fun if this podcast helps you help your clients  or yourself please support us by purchasing   your CEUs at all CEUs calm or getting your  agency to sponsor an episode a direct link   to the on demand CEUs for this podcast is  it all CEUs dot-com / podcast CEUs that's   all CEUs dot-com / podcast CEUs to sponsor  an episode of counselor toolbox and reach   over 50,000 clinicians per week go to  all CEUs dot-com / sponsor thank you