Lessons from My Life Journey

Aug 28, 2024

Three Stories from My Life

Story 1: Connecting the Dots

  • Background: Dropped out of Reed College after six months but stayed for 18 months as a drop-in.
  • Adoption: Born to a young unwed graduate student, placed for adoption.
    • Biological mother wanted me adopted by college graduates.
    • Adopted by a couple who had never graduated from college after the initial adoptive parents backed out.
  • College Experience:
    • Chose an expensive college, depleting parents' savings.
    • Dropped out after realizing I didn't see the value in it.
    • Began taking classes that genuinely interested me.
  • Calligraphy Class:
    • Took a calligraphy class without practical application at the time.
    • Years later, this knowledge influenced the design of the Macintosh computer, incorporating beautiful typography.
  • Key Takeaway:
    • "You can't connect the dots looking forward; you can only connect them looking backwards."
    • Trust in the process, believing that dots will connect in the future.

Story 2: Love and Loss

  • Early Success: Co-founded Apple in my parent's garage at age 20.
    • Apple grew rapidly, releasing the Macintosh and reaching a valuation of $2 billion with over 4,000 employees.
  • Firing:
    • Hired a talented individual, but our visions diverged, leading to my firing at age 30.
    • Experienced public failure and uncertainty about my future.
  • Realization:
    • Despite the setback, I still loved what I did.
    • Started over, founding Next and Pixar, leading to a creative renaissance.
  • Outcome:
    • Apple's acquisition of Next brought me back to the company, influencing its resurgence.
    • Personal life flourished with a happy family.
  • Key Takeaway:
    • "You've got to find what you love. Don't settle. Your work will fill a large part of your life."

Story 3: Death

  • Motivation: At 17, read a quote about living each day as if it were your last.
    • Reflect on this question daily to evaluate life choices.
  • Perspective on Death:
    • Recognizing death helps prioritize what truly matters.
    • Avoid the trap of external expectations and fear.
  • Embrace Life:
    • Death is life's change agent, clearing the old to make way for the new.
    • Your time is limited, urging the importance of living authentically.
  • Final Thoughts:
    • Cultivate courage to follow your heart and intuition.
    • "Stay hungry, stay foolish."