Guide on How to Flirt
Introduction
- Three Types of Men
- Non-Flirters: End up in the friend zone.
- Awkward Flirters: Come off as awkward.
- Skilled Flirters: Know how to flirt well.
- Importance of Flirting
- Separates you from just being a friend.
- Creates romantic interest and sexual intent.
Why Flirt?
- Platonic Conversations: Example given highlights lack of attraction.
- Spark and Attraction: Flirting creates a romantic context.
Common Mistakes in Flirting
- Overtly Obvious Flirting
- Kills mystery and excitement.
- Example: Direct compliments on physical appearance.
- Non-Sexual Banter
- Lack of sexual undertones in interactions.
Techniques for Effective Flirting
Subtle Flirting
- Indirect Approach: Show interest without being blunt.
- Implication Over Directness: Create intrigue.
- Example: Girl loves sports bras – imply attraction without direct mention.
Passing Tests
- Being Tested: Attractive women test men's confidence.
- Agree and Amplify: Agree with snide remarks and exaggerate them to show confidence.
- Example: "I bet you use that line on all the girls."
Acting as the Prize
- Reverse Dynamics: Frame her as the pursuer.
- Examples:
- "Are you trying to seduce me with a sports bra?"
- "Trying to get me drunk to take advantage of me?"
Push-Pull Flirting
- Creating Emotional Rollercoaster
- Mix of pushing away and pulling in emotionally.
- Examples:
- "You’re too cute for me, shoo."
- "You’re awesome, like my little sister."
- Value Demonstration: Shows high value by not being easy.
Pretend It’s Her Fault
- Role Reversal: Accuse her playfully of seducing you.
- Sexual Illusions: Subtly bring up sexual prowess without stating it directly.
- Encourage Her to "Use" You: Light-heartedly suggest she's using you for other things.
Conclusion
- Comprehensive Guide Summary
- Online Course: Course available for deeper understanding of attracting women beyond superficial traits.
This guide emphasizes subtlety, confidence, and creating intrigue to successfully flirt and create romantic interest.