Lecture Notes

Introduction

• Speaker expresses reluctance towards self-reflection
• Finds such reflections boring and uninteresting
• Aims to answer a set of questions genuinely

Hobbies and Interests

• Loves drawing and art since childhood
• Enjoys sketching people; had supportive environment
• Prefers to avoid formal classes to keep art instinctive and enjoyable
• Feels personal about art, having negative experiences with criticism

Assertion and Personality

• Doesn't see self as assertive; prefers being sly
• Adapts to others' interests to build rapport
• If criticism is necessary, prefers to be clear and assertive
• Balances obtaining goals with minimizing conflict

Best and Worst Qualities

• Best: Patience and faith in abilities; driven and hardworking
• Worst: Lack of warmth; distant even if friendly on the surface
• Determined to resolve problems, sometimes comes off as cold

Ideal Living Situation

• Comfortable in own room, prefers a mix of indoor and outdoor space (e.g., room with a balcony)
• Enjoys personal space and comfort

Biggest Pet Peeve

• Dislikes overly helpful people who invade personal space
• Feels annoyed when help is extended without request
• Prefers autonomy even if it means making mistakes

Greatest Life Goals

• Strives to surpass parents' achievements
• Aims to honor ancestors by living a fulfilling life
• Current goal: Maintain and cherish personal relationships

Most Stressful Life Experience

• Recalls a traumatic incident of being watched while showering
• Felt violated and confused; took months to identify perpetrator
• Experience impacted view of men and personal security

Best Times in Life

• Cherishes moments with close friends and sister
• Values laughter and authenticity in relationships
• Feels deeply connected to sister, sharing a unique and close bond

Conclusion

• Completed questions with relief
• Expresses gratitude and relief for finishing the reflection