How to Spot a Liar
Introduction
- Presenter: David Mohammed
- Title: Forensic accountant and fraud investigation expert
- Experience: 20 years
- Topic: Identifying when someone is lying
The Foundation of Lying
- Lies often begin in childhood to avoid punishment (e.g., lying about eating candy).
- Lies are used as a defense mechanism to avoid negative consequences.
Physical Signs of Lying
- Common signs (though not foolproof):
- Face touching
- Covering the mouth
- Touching the throat
- Pausing before answering
- Repeating themselves
- Using full forms instead of contractions (e.g., “I did not” instead of “I didn’t”).
- Eyes or feet pointing towards the door
- Increased blinking
- Pupil dilation
- Important: No single sign confirms lying; look for clusters of signs.
Procedure to Catch a Liar
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**Establish Baseline: **
- Ask non-threatening questions to understand normal behavior.
- Look for quick answers with no delay or pauses.
- Observe gestures, posture, and eye contact.
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Shift to Hot Spot:
- Ask open-ended and provoking questions to induce stress.
- Look for changes in baseline behavior.
- Watch for grooming behaviors, face touching, and body squirming.
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**Observe Body Language: **
- Signs such as closing up body, nail biting, fidgeting.
- Good liars may not show obvious signs but look for baseline deviations.
- Watch for lack of eye contact.
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**Micro Expressions: **
- Quick, involuntary facial expressions, e.g., nostril flaring, lip biting.
- Difficult to detect without training but are key indicators.
- No universal micro expression, but changes are noticeable.
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**Changes in Cadence, Tone, and Sentence Structure: **
- Liars might speak quickly or slowly.
- Voice may drop or rise in pitch.
- Use of complex sentences, avoiding contractions.
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**Focus and Pronouns: **
- Liars deflect focus from themselves (e.g., using “they” instead of “I”).
- Look for relief when they shift focus.
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**Inconsistent Details: **
- Look for details that do not make practical sense.
- Sequence of actions should be logical and natural.
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**Insincere Emotions: **
- Genuine emotions involve specific muscle groups (e.g., true smiles).
- Long-held smiles or mixed emotions can be red flags.
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**Inconsistent Communication: **
- Mismatch between verbal responses and physical gestures (e.g., nodding while saying “no”).
- Storytelling inconsistencies, especially under pressure.
- Technique: Ask them to tell the story backwards.
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**Too Much Detail: **
- Overly detailed responses can indicate fabrication.
- Excessive descriptions often mean the person is overcompensating.
Techniques to Spot a Liar
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Open-Ended Questions:
- Ask the same question multiple times to check for consistency.
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Element of Surprise:
- Unexpected questions can reveal inconsistencies.
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Reversed Storytelling:
- Asking the story backwards to disrupt rehearsed lies.
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No Delay Response:
- Immediate responses can indicate pre-planned answers.
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Detailed and Lengthy Answers:
- Liars tend to over-explain.
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Saying “No”:
- Look for physical tells when answering “no” (e.g., closing eyes, looking away).
Conclusion
- No single method is foolproof; look for clusters and consistent changes.
- Practice and training improve ability to detect lies.
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