How to Spot a Liar

Jun 5, 2024

How to Spot a Liar

Introduction

  • Presenter: David Mohammed
  • Title: Forensic accountant and fraud investigation expert
  • Experience: 20 years
  • Topic: Identifying when someone is lying

The Foundation of Lying

  • Lies often begin in childhood to avoid punishment (e.g., lying about eating candy).
  • Lies are used as a defense mechanism to avoid negative consequences.

Physical Signs of Lying

  • Common signs (though not foolproof):
    • Face touching
    • Covering the mouth
    • Touching the throat
    • Pausing before answering
    • Repeating themselves
    • Using full forms instead of contractions (e.g., “I did not” instead of “I didn’t”).
    • Eyes or feet pointing towards the door
    • Increased blinking
    • Pupil dilation
  • Important: No single sign confirms lying; look for clusters of signs.

Procedure to Catch a Liar

  1. **Establish Baseline: **

    • Ask non-threatening questions to understand normal behavior.
    • Look for quick answers with no delay or pauses.
    • Observe gestures, posture, and eye contact.
  2. Shift to Hot Spot:

    • Ask open-ended and provoking questions to induce stress.
    • Look for changes in baseline behavior.
    • Watch for grooming behaviors, face touching, and body squirming.
  3. **Observe Body Language: **

    • Signs such as closing up body, nail biting, fidgeting.
    • Good liars may not show obvious signs but look for baseline deviations.
    • Watch for lack of eye contact.
  4. **Micro Expressions: **

    • Quick, involuntary facial expressions, e.g., nostril flaring, lip biting.
    • Difficult to detect without training but are key indicators.
    • No universal micro expression, but changes are noticeable.
  5. **Changes in Cadence, Tone, and Sentence Structure: **

    • Liars might speak quickly or slowly.
    • Voice may drop or rise in pitch.
    • Use of complex sentences, avoiding contractions.
  6. **Focus and Pronouns: **

    • Liars deflect focus from themselves (e.g., using “they” instead of “I”).
    • Look for relief when they shift focus.
  7. **Inconsistent Details: **

    • Look for details that do not make practical sense.
    • Sequence of actions should be logical and natural.
  8. **Insincere Emotions: **

    • Genuine emotions involve specific muscle groups (e.g., true smiles).
    • Long-held smiles or mixed emotions can be red flags.
  9. **Inconsistent Communication: **

    • Mismatch between verbal responses and physical gestures (e.g., nodding while saying “no”).
    • Storytelling inconsistencies, especially under pressure.
    • Technique: Ask them to tell the story backwards.
  10. **Too Much Detail: **

  • Overly detailed responses can indicate fabrication.
  • Excessive descriptions often mean the person is overcompensating.

Techniques to Spot a Liar

  1. Open-Ended Questions:

    • Ask the same question multiple times to check for consistency.
  2. Element of Surprise:

    • Unexpected questions can reveal inconsistencies.
  3. Reversed Storytelling:

    • Asking the story backwards to disrupt rehearsed lies.
  4. No Delay Response:

    • Immediate responses can indicate pre-planned answers.
  5. Detailed and Lengthy Answers:

    • Liars tend to over-explain.
  6. Saying “No”:

    • Look for physical tells when answering “no” (e.g., closing eyes, looking away).

Conclusion

  • No single method is foolproof; look for clusters and consistent changes.
  • Practice and training improve ability to detect lies.

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