the balance between being a challenge and pushing your eggs away hello guys and welcome to love advice city my name is Alex comment and I am your relationship expert in today's video I want to answer this question that I received by email because you know my philosophy I'm always asking you to come back as a challenge so this girl sent me an email and asked me Alex what is the difference between being a challenge and pushing your eggs away I want to make sure that I will not do any mistake thank you so much for this email because it's really important in my philosophy and with all the people that have helped so far if you want to be sure that you will be a challenge and not pushing your eggs away it's a simple answer you need to do the job for you why do I mean exactly I have coached so many people and they were able to get back with the eggs because it came back as a challenge someone knew someone was change your life someone was just change their mindset and to the opposite people that are pushing their eggs away it's because they are not changing for themselves they are just playing a game listen to that if you're just playing a game your eggs will be mad your eggs will be angry because he knows or she knows that you're just playing a game that you're not changing for becoming the best version of yourself to the opposite being a challenge just means that today you're rebooting your life and your life would be better than your eggs life maybe you're going to the gym maybe you changed your look maybe you socialize maybe you'll have a new project maybe you're traveling maybe you're just doing new activities that can show your ex that your life is amazing this is being a natural challenge and if you're watching our videos today the mister that you're doing so far it's being a challenge with anger being the challenge talking down to your eggs being challenged by just playing a game you will push your eggs away just because he or she is mad at you because you are disrespectful and because you just play a game and when they test you you cannot respond to their test because you're not feeling confident so the reality of your situation it's really important to do the actions going to the gym doing yoga and meditation adding new activities socialize and set some professional goals it's really important for you to understand that you need to act you need to be strong you need to give everything that you have all the power within yourself in these actions because then you don't have to build challenge you will naturally be your challenge people who want to build challenge most of the time they do something that they will regret and this is where you push your ex away because you're not you didn't change for wheel so you're just playing a game and because you just you're just playing a game then your ex will not give you some attention and this is not okay so this is why you need to be careful guys because when you do something wrong that you will regret you're pushing your exper way when you do something good for you even if your ex is mad why did you do this actions now and not before when we were in a relationship have heard this sentence a lot why now and not before if you have a simple and so an said you know I just run I just go with the break-up and now I'm feeling happy I'm feeling myself your ex cannot move away your ex cannot think that you're guilty for everything that you're doing today you're just the best version of yourself so it works it works very well to be honest maybe 90% of my coaching I'm using this being a challenge naturally as a technique to get back with the one you love and it works very well if you have any question you can leave a comment just write below you can give me a like and subscribe to this amazing YouTube channel every single day you have a video to change your love and your personal life because everything is to empower yourself everything that we are doing here today it's for you not just for your eggs not just to get back with the one you love but really for you so I will see you soon for a new video now if you want to go further if you want to build challenge if you want to get back with the one you love come on with my ex again calm / coaching you can book a private session with me together we can become the challenge naturally we can be that person that your ex will regret we can work together on it in just one session one session guys can change your life I will see you soon for a new video and I encourage you to become the best version of yourself I will see you soon guys bye bye