Things I Wish I Knew About Being Trans
Introduction
- Opening statement referencing Hilary Clinton and societal issues like COVID-19.
- Transition to the main topic: being trans and personal experiences/advice.
- Disclaimer: This is not an anti-trans channel; advice for 'baby trans' individuals.
Key Advice for Trans Individuals
1. Don't Overthink It
- To be trans: desire to be the opposite gender.
- No need to justify or rationalize your feelings.
- Ignore external validations or expectations.
- Personal desire to be the opposite gender is enough.
2. Acceptance of Sexual Desires
- It's normal to have sexual desires irrespective of being trans.
- Dispel the myth that trans people should not have any sexual desires.
- Feelings of wanting to cross-dress or have sex as the opposite gender are valid.
3. Avoid Self-Hatred and Toxic Environments
- Experiences of self-hatred often stemmed from 4chan and similar sites.
- Such platforms amplify bitterness and create false self-expectations.
- Importance of self-acceptance and discarding toxic external opinions.
4. Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT) Experiences
- Started HRT at 16 with low initial dosages (0.025 mg estrogen).
- Now on 4 mg estrogen with a proper provider.
- Ensure proper medical supervision and regular blood work for effective HRT.
5. It Gets Better
- Personal struggles and suicidal thoughts in high school.
- Importance of retaining optimism and hope that things improve over time.
- The understanding that improvement is possible is key to resilience.
General Tips
- Self-love and acceptance are crucial for a healthy transition journey.
- Rely on personal experiences and desires, not societal pressures or norms.
- The journey is personal; compare less with others and focus on self-progress.
Conclusion
- Encouragement aimed at young trans individuals.
- Reflection on making serious videos and wanting to help others.
- Light-hearted sign-off with love and humor.
Note: Engage with constructive and supportive communities but always self-validate.