on kisses and hugs club today for singles and couples episode 77 from Discord to Harmony the story of Nady and TBA in the heart of the vast African savannah where the golden grass swayed gently under the warm breeze and the great Muka tree stood tall like ancient Sentinels there lived a couple named Nady and TBA their Village was a place of tradition and Community where the Rhythm of Life followed the Cy of Nature and the wisdom of the elders Nady was known throughout the village for her grace and strength she moved with the agility of a gazelle and possessed a beauty that rivaled the first light of dawn TBA her husband was a respected Hunter strong and brave whose skills provided sustenance and security for their people their Union had been blessed by the elders and celebrated with much joy and festivity however as time passed the Harmony in their home began to unravel replaced by a Discord that neither could fully understand TBA often Sat by the evening fire his brow furrowed with frustration Nady he would say you do not make me happy his words cut deep into nal's heart leaving her feeling confused and hurt she tried to fulfill her duties caring for their home and family but it never seemed to be enough for TBA nadi's upbringing had been starkly different from what TBA had experienced her mother a woman of great resilience had shouldered many burdens and never showed much affection towards her husband Nady grew up learning to be strong and self-reliant traits that had served her well in many ways but had left her ill-prepared for the kind of emotional nurturing TBA desired in contrast TBA had been raised in a household where love and affection flowed freely his mother was the epitome of warmth and tenderness she made sure that her husband felt cherished and valued every single day TBA had grown up witnessing this constant shower of love and affection and he had come to expect the same from his own marriage the differences in their backgrounds created a Chasm between Nady and TBA a gap that seemed to widen with each passing day they argued frequently their words filled with frustration and disappointment TBA would accuse Nady of not caring for him while Nady felt unappreciated and misunderstood their once joyous home was Now overshadowed by a cloud of unhappiness one day as the sun dipped below the Horizon casting a golden hue over the Savannah The Village Elder simply known as Uncle noticed the growing Rift between now and tber uncle was a man of great wisdom whose eyes had seen many seasons and whose heart held the stories of countless Generations he called the couple to his Hut and sat them down to talk my children he began his voice gentle yet firm I see the pain in your eyes and the sorrow in your hearts but love like the great bobab needs strong roots to withstand the storms let me share with you a story that has passed down through the ages Nady and TBA listened intently as Uncle told the tale of the warrior and the Maiden in the days of old he began there was a great warrior and a gentle Maiden The Warrior was mighty and commanded respect but he was often troubled because he felt the maiden did not make him happy the maiden graceful and Swift had never seen her mother make her father happy and did not know how to do so the war Warrior's mother however was known for her tender care and made the Warrior's father feel cherished this difference in their upbringing caused misunderstandings between the warrior and the Maiden but they loved each other deeply and wanted to bridge this Gap so they sought the wisdom of their Pastor who had seen many seasons and understood the ways of the world the Healer told them to find happiness you must learn from each other and respect each other's ways Warrior you must understand the maiden's strength and Independence for it is her way of showing love Maiden you must learn to show the warrior your softer side for it will warm his heart and bring peace to your union the Elder looked at Nady and TBA and said just as the warrior and Maiden learn to understand each other so must you he then offered Nady some wisdom on how she could make TBA happy one respect and honor always be eager to respect and defer to TBA honor him as the head respect him both publicly and privately respect him in words thoughts and deeds to Shared decisions do not always insist on your own opinion let him take the final decision but share your thoughts and listen to his three cheerfulness be Che cheerful and expressive do not let your heart be weighed down by silence share your Joys and sorrows with him four playfulness be playful there is a little boy in every man and he needs to play sometimes to ease the pressures of Life join him in his play and laughter five avoid nagging never nag at your husband constant complaining will drive him away instead speak with kindness and patience six intimacy never deny him the warmth of your Embrace be eager and excited to share moments of love for it strengthens the bond between you seven priority only God should be above your husband assure him that he is not competing with anyone else for your love or attention eight prayer Pray For Temp daily pray for wisdom strength and understanding talk to the almighty on his behalf and ask for blessings upon your marriage the trials and tribulations with uncle's guidance Nady and TBA began to make changes in their relationship Nady tried to show TBA more affection and respect while TBA made an effort to appreciate nadi's strengths and Independence slowly but surely they started to find Common Ground however their path to Harmony was not without obstacles One Day tragedy struck the village a severe drought took hold of the Savannah causing the rivers to dry up and the crops to wither the once Lush and fertile land turned Barren and the villagers struggled to find enough food and water to survive TBA along with other Hunters ventured further and further from the village in search of game the long and arduous hunts took a toll on him and he returned home each night exhausted and despondent Nady on the other hand worked tirelessly to find ways to sustain their family drawing upon the strength she had learned from her mother despite their efforts to support each other the stress of the drought began to wear on their relationship tamba's frustration grew as the days passed without success in the Hunts and he started to take out his anger on Nady Nady feeling overwhelmed by the demands of survival and T's growing resentment found it increasingly difficult to maintain her cheerfulness and playfulness one particularly harsh evening Timber returned home empty-handed and in a foul mood he snapped at Nady over a trivial matter and she exhausted and fed up snapped back their argument escalated quickly with harsh words and accusations flying between them you never support me TBA shouted you don't care about my struggles and you never appreciate what I do Nady retorted you think everything is my fault their voices echoed through the village drawing the attention of the other villagers Uncle hearing the commotion hurried to their Hut he entered to find them them both in tears their anger spent but their hearts still aching enough he said softly but firmly this drought has tested us all but we must not let it destroy what we hold dear he sat them down and reminded them of the story of the warrior and the Maiden you must remember to learn from each other and to respect each other's ways this drought is a trial but it is also an opportunity to grow stronger together a lesson in unity inspired by uncle's words Nady and TBA Made A Renewed effort to support each other through the difficult times nity began to involve TBA more in the decision-making process at home valuing his input and making him feel respected TBA in turn started to express his appreciation for n's hard work and resilience showing her the affection and understanding she needed they also found solace in the simple joys of Life despite the drought they made time to laugh together to play and to share their hopes and fears Nady remembered uncle's advice about playfulness and began to engage TBA in light-hearted activities which helped to lift his spirits TBA realizing the importance of emotional connection started to open up to nity about his worries and frustrations creating a deeper Bond between them the drought persisted but the strength of their relationship helped them endure the hardships they found ways to support their Village working together to dig Wells and find new sources of food their Unity inspired others and the village slowly began to recover drawing upon the Collective Strength and resilience of its people the return of prosperity after many moons the rains finally returned the Savannah once parched and Barren burst into life as the rivers flowed again and the crops flourished The Village celebrated the end of the drought with a grand Feast filled with music dance and laughter Nady and TBA having weathered the storm together found their love stronger than ever they had learned valuable lessons about respect understanding and the importance of emotional connection their home once filled with Discord now radiated with Harmony and joy Uncle witnessing their transformation smiled and spoke to the villagers Nady and TBA have shown us that love is not just about grand gestures or material Comforts it is about understanding respect and the willingness to learn and grow together May their story Inspire us all to nurture our relationships and to find strength in unity as as the sun set on The Village casting a Golden Glow over the Savannah Nady and TBA stood hand in hand grateful for the journey they had undertaken together they knew that there would be more challenges ahead but they were confident in their ability to face them side by side the Legacy of Love years passed and Nady and TBA became Elders in their own right sharing their wisdom and experiences with the younger Generations they told their story to their children and grandchildren emphasizing the importance of understanding and respect in a marriage Nady often shared her mother's lessons of strength and resilience while also teaching the importance of emotional connection and affection TBA on the other hand taught the young men of the village the value of appreciating their partners and expressing their love openly their story became a cherished part of The Village's folklore a reminder of the power of love and unity the tale of the warrior and the Maiden and the wisdom of Uncle were passed down through the generations guiding the hearts and minds of the villagers conclusion the story of nity and TBA teaches us that every relationship has its challenges but with understanding respect and a willingness to grow together love can endure and Thrive just as the warrior and the Maiden learn to appreciate each other other's strengths and differences so must we strive to understand and support our partners may this tale from the heart of the Savannah Inspire us all to nurture our relationships and to find strength in unity no matter the trials we face and may the wisdom of Uncle remind us that love like the great Muka needs strong roots to withstand the storms do you want more read the full blog by clicking on the link in BIO or description to navigate to the devot or go to www. kisses and hugs. org watch full video on youtube.com/ Pastor dunamis for one-onone therapy counseling or an intervention in your marriage or relationship go to bit. li/ theapy needed to get courses for singles and couples go to bit. licour to partner with us go to www. kisses and hugs. org