Finding Strength in Rejection

Aug 26, 2024

Lecture Notes: Overcoming Rejection

Introduction

  • Opening with a prayer and invocation of God's guidance.
  • The speaker originally prepared a different passage but was led to discuss a topic relevant for Children's Day.
  • Focus on the story from the Gospel of Luke, Chapter 9, paralleling Matthew Chapter 10.

Central Theme: Overcoming Rejection

  • Personal Story: Speaker's 10-year-old son experienced rejection, a universal and challenging experience.
  • Rejection can occur in various life scenarios: job applications, personal endeavors, etc.

Biblical Context: Luke Chapter 9

  • Jesus empowers the 12 disciples to preach, heal, and have authority over demons.
  • Jesus prepares them for rejection, emphasizing that not everyone will be receptive.

Key Instructions from Jesus:

  1. Be Cautious of Connections

    • Choose 'worthy' connections; not everyone is deserving of your value.
    • Importance of self-awareness and understanding your own worth.
    • Reference: Matthew Chapter 7 - Be discerning about 'pearls before swine'.
  2. Brush Off Bitterness

    • Rejection can lead to offense and bitterness if not properly managed.
    • Book Recommendation: "The Bait of Satan" by John Bevere - Offense as a tool of Satan.
    • Learn to let go of rejection and not be burdened by bitterness.
    • Moving on is a testimony against those who rejected you.
  3. Learn to Take the Loss

    • Accept that not everything will go as planned, regardless of one’s gifts and qualifications.
    • Rejection is not necessarily about your value; sometimes it's about understanding and accepting rejection.
    • Avoid pride; learn when to move on without seeking explanations.
  4. Perceive Another Possibility

    • Don’t get stuck; see beyond the initial rejection.
    • God often uses rejection as a tool to redirect towards better opportunities.
    • Example from the speaker's life: Rejection in the past led to greater success later.

Conclusion

  • God has a plan and purpose beyond immediate rejections; trust in divine redirection.
  • Emphasize the importance of seeing closed doors as opportunities for growth and new possibilities.
  • Closed doors may be God's way of guiding you to a better path.
  • Personal Story: Speaker's rejection from a church led to a more significant role elsewhere.
  • Closing remarks on gratitude for God's guidance and redirection.