Core Values and Family Engagement

Aug 22, 2024

Core Values Lecture Summary

Introduction

  • Core values defined and differentiated from mission, vision, and strategy.
  • Emphasis on establishing a biblical culture in the organization.

Core Values Overview

  1. Love God, Love Others

    • Loving God leads to loving others and obeying God's commandments.
    • Importance of obedience as an expression of love.
  2. Obey God's Word and Submit to Authorities

    • Obedience and submission as acts of love.
  3. Serve Others

    • Serving joyfully and willingly as a demonstration of love.
    • Encouragement to be contributors rather than consumers.
  4. Engage the Family

    • Everyone is part of a family, either physically or spiritually.
    • Responsibility to engage and influence family members.

Engaging the Family

  • EFAD: Every Family a Discipleship Group
    • Discipleship can happen in any family setting.
    • Influence is present in all family structures.

Importance of Family

  • Reference to authors who connect family stability with civilization:
    • John Unwin: Correlation between family stability and civilization's rise and fall.
    • Edward Gibbon: Insights from "The Decline and Fall of the Roman Empire."
    • Carl Zimmerman: Emphasis on family as foundational to civilization.
  • Current statistics on family structures: 25% of children in single-parent homes, rising divorce rates.

Spiritual Family Engagement

  • Discipleship should begin at home.
  • Every member has the potential to influence their family.
  • Importance of modeling Christ-like behavior within families.

Principles of Engaging Family

  1. Be Intentional
    • Develop relationships to positively influence family members.
  2. Importance of Relationships
    • The closer the relationship, the greater the influence.
  3. Modeling
    • Children imitate their parents' behavior.
    • Emphasis on authenticity rather than perfection in parenting.

Biblical Foundation for Family Engagement

Deuteronomy 6:1-7

  • Teach God's commands diligently to children.
  • Importance of modeling behavior consistently throughout daily life.

Three Key Principles to Impact Family

  1. Modeling
    • Importance of authenticity and living out values.
  2. Relationship
    • Building strong relationships to foster influence.
  3. Intentionality
    • Be purposeful in teaching and engaging with family members.

Conclusion

  • Legacy of faith and love should be the focus for future generations.
  • Encourage everyone to engage intentionally with their family and community.
  • Importance of loving God fully (100%) rather than partially.

Call to Action

  • Reflect on personal relationships and engagement in family settings.
  • Consider how to better model Christ-like behavior and influence others positively.