Awkward Social Scenarios: School Dances

Jul 8, 2024

Lecture on Awkward Social Scenarios: School Dances

Introduction

  • Social awkwardness in daily life (e.g., handshake/fist bump dilemma, waving mishaps, awkward replies)
  • School dances as one of the top awkward social experiences

School Dance Dynamics

  • Uncertainty whether it's a party or a school event
  • Questions about dancing or standing awkwardly
  • Poor quality DJs and their performances

DJ Experiences

  • Inexperienced DJs mostly just using Spotify
  • Frustrations with DJs leaving songs abruptly
  • The absurdity of mixing incompatible songs (e.g., drill with Ed Sheeran)
  • Good DJs getting both students and teachers hyped
  • Social impact of music selection at dances

Middle School Dance Breakdown

  • 6th graders fresh out of elementary, too shy to ask for dances
  • Fortnite emotes prevalent among younger students

Grade-Level Behaviors

  1. Grade 6: Shy, not likely to dance with opposite gender
  2. Grade 7: More mischievous, often playing pranks
  3. Grade 8: Avoid dancing to maintain 'street cred,' prefer mosh pits
  4. Freshmen: Lose street cred, fall back on awkward dance moves
  5. Sophomores: Begin to show better dance moves; start gaining confidence
  6. Seniors: Don't care, openly experimenting with even risky dance moves

Event Highlights

  • Hype moments: successful flips, failed flips
  • Notable songs that bring everyone to the dance floor

Personal Stories

  • Anecdote about a student named Troy planning to fight at a dance
  • Importance of avoiding fights unless certain of a win
  • Social ramifications of fights at dances (everyone records them)
  • DJs oblivious to fights, playing upbeat music regardless

Asking for a Dance

  • No help for girls on how to ask a boy to dance
  • Humorous take on boys seeking help to ask girls to dance
  • Example of Bob's unusual method to ask a girl (includes moonwalking)

Conclusion

  • Recap of the awkwardness and unique dynamics of school dances