Two, three. Mabuhay! Hi, I'm Beanie Collette. Hi, I'm Beanshina.
And we are Beanie. And what we're going to talk about today is about Pogi or sense of humor. Yeah.
Is it you? Yes. Pogi or sense of humor? Of course, Pogi.
No. Of course, Pogi. No, but...
What do you consider as handsome? Of course, we have different tastes. You go first.
I want to be... Handsome? No. Type it.
What do I consider handsome? I feel like he's gentle and has a soft voice. How he looks at me when I'm talking to him. I just remember that.
How is this? Paano siya tumingin and malinis tignan. Una ko tinitingnan, smile.
Smile? Yeah. Dapat ilang ngipin.
Yung kita from... Hindi, mas smile and ilong. Ilong? Di ba yung iba mata?
Pero ako ilong. Ilong? Pat ilong? Hindi ko alam. Para pag...
Ang random. Pero, oo, ilong. Ikaw?
You. I want someone tall. Someone taller than you.
Of course. With dimples. Dancer. Kind. Funny.
I'm also a singer. What else? I feel like that's it. But.
I'm mixed up in the topic. Pogue or sense of humor. How about both?
No, jackpot. We're jackpot. Full package.
Don't let that go. Yes. What did you read? I really have a lot of experience.
Wow. Actually, it's like you have the best experience. Oh, actually.
Because I feel like I'm faster. I think people will crush on you instead of you. Yes. And from my experience, the difference is when I crush on a handsome guy, I can easily crush on them. Do you get it?
Like, Oh, he's handsome. I'll crush on him. And then after one day, it's not like that anymore.
You realized it. Yes. But when I crush on a guy, I gradually get to know him.
And that's the sense of humor. It's harder for me to move on from them. Have you tried it before?
Got it. that you have something that's just handsome. Just handsome? It's a bit... But it has a sense of humor.
Yes. What... What...
What do you say? What's the difference? With someone who's just handsome, you know the typical cute at first, that's like the thought that oh my god, I have a handsome guy.
I'm cute. kinikilig ka na agad na oh my god naka jackpot ako I think this is it this is the one pero parang hindi siya nagtagal alam mo yung sa simpleng chat lang ang dry na dun palang halata mo nang walang personality sorry po sorry pero I mean di naman di naman sa ano sa mga taong hindi talaga machat pero parang for me kasi as a person na sobrang parang binavalue ko yung gusto ko comfy na agad ako sa chat na parang The chat was just flowy. I realized that maybe our way of speaking clicked.
But with that guy who's just handsome. I said earlier that I quickly uncrushed him. I forgot that he's handsome.
I only forgot that he's handsome. But after, maybe days. The conversation took days.
But there's nothing. I feel like your first impression was... Yeah, first impression last. My first impression of him was handsome. What's under handsome?
Just handsome. But with that someone who has sense of humor. At first, it was the opposite.
I wasn't that attracted to him. It was like, okay, I'll chat with him. He's like your friend because you're close.
Yeah, he's like a friend. It was normal. We talked, we were like that. We were joking and stuff. That's how it developed.
Right? Like, because of the day, it's not like, because usually, the lovers, on one day, talk all day, update and stuff. But our convo, it's like...
He replies to stories. That's when the convo starts. He's not really updated on, like, have you eaten?
He's not like that. He's not really a boyfriend. He just talks to each other.
But I feel like because I enjoyed his company, that's when my heart dropped. So because he has a sense of humor, he's gotten handsome. It's really a plus point. Yes, it's like... It's not like that.
It's the first time I've seen him. But when we were talking, his face structure changed. It's like that.
His face is now shining. He's so handsome. As for me, I don't think I've ever tried being handsome.
Oh wow. No, because... Well, when I told you, I'll tell you again here.
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No, I'm not like that. I think it's also because I have attachment issues. So, I'm easily attracted to people who have a sense of humor that...
I feel comforted. Like, you know the example, you're tired of watching the whole day. Then, you talk to that guy who has a sense of humor. You know, because you're thinking too negatively, he balances your thoughts.
Because he's a very positive person. So in a way, it's not just because you're a person like this that you want to laugh. He also helps you on a daily basis. It's much more deeper than making jokes with someone. He brightens up your whole day.
You count it and it's like, okay. But sometimes, there are things, not all, I don't mean to say all, but there are some people who, for example, me, when they find out that I crush them because they're handsome, when they know that they're handsome, you know, they feel that they can't do it. GGS.
Just one kiss, they'll chat. I don't like that. Those who don't last long.
Talking stage. You know, talking stage is when you're with a girlfriend. I think that type of guy, when the talking stage is not finished, it's gone. It's gone.
It didn't work. There's no spark. There's no spark.
Yeah. But I feel like we're both introverts. So, we're both in need of a guy that will show us our true self. That will show us our true self. We're careful around them.
Yes. Especially, Kasi kami ni Ate Colette, hindi namin kakusapin yung tao hanggang hindi nila kami i-approach first. So for me talaga, ako rin personally, mas need ko ng guy na may personality.
Gets ba? Yung madami siya, curious siya about sayo. So wala kang choice kung hindi mag-reply lang ng mag-reply.
Gusto ko yung siya yung nagbubuhat nung convo namin. Hindi yung pinapafil niya na ako lang yung may gusto kumausap. It's a mutual thing. Yep.
That's what's good about funny people. They think a lot. They throw a lot of things, even in chat or in person.
So I like that. Even in small things, I remember I had a conversation with him that we were so tired, as in we were tired back then. But when I chat with him, he's like, how are you?
He just jokes about how he can't do it. So I have no choice but to laugh at everything he says. So I didn't think that I was tired.
Usually, when I'm tired, I'm tired all day. Usually, our chats with that guy, at night, like 10pm, even if you're that late, you still have to stay up to talk. I think that's when I realized that I was shocked and that I was falling.
I was so tired but I didn't tell him to continue the convo. Because the good thing about him is that he doesn't end the convo. There's a guy that... you feel like you want to finish the convo.
That blah blah blah blah. Okay, you replied. Okay, what reply?
What reply? Ikembot. Okay, Ikembot.
You'll just like it. So, finish the convo. True. But I want the direct convo. Yes, like you don't know that...
Tapos na palang araw. Ay, ganitong oras na pala. Parang, hours feels like seconds.
Ah, wow! Totoo, nag-start kayo mag-usap 9pm, tas 2am na pala. Doon mo maano na, uy, baka pwede. Ganon.
Pero kasi, sense of humor depende sa tao. Depende sa tao kung gaano kababaw yung kaligayang. Ah, kasi sobrang babaw.
I'm not you're not so I feel like for people who are not that happy it's more tested to you if the person has a sense of humor because I feel like no matter what joke people say I laugh so you know so I feel like it's more if you say he's funny ah he's really funny because you can't laugh fast but you laugh to that person yes like when funny for you it's funny right? like for me You're questioning if I'm funny or not. But when she's funny to me, it's literally passed on to you.
Ah, so funny. She's confirmed funny. She made Ate Colette laugh.
Because I'm not really funny. True. We're like a picture.
We're like a picture. I'm faster at laughing and moving on from a bad mood. I'm faster at laughing than Ate Colette. Of course, we're here in ABS. Of course, there are many artists that we work with, that we meet.
There are instances like, Hey, you're handsome, I'll crush you. Of course. Every hallway.
Every time, Hey, handsome, I'll crush you. What's the name of that? I mean, the typical, especially the first time we were in ABSB. I mean, because it's a province.
I mean, compared to other members that are not that provincial, that are always Not always, but I see the artist more often. I don't. So I'm easily starstruck.
So the first time we were on ABS, especially the ones I watch, Showtime, ASAP, Active, I was with my family. Family, yeah. I was just with my family.
So I had a lot of crushes. Sometimes I would list them. This day, I liked this person. Then the next day, I liked him. Then I stalked him.
But like I said earlier, it's not something deep. It's not something serious. It's just a temporary feeling that I'm going to crush on that guy. But it doesn't mean that I'm going to do everything for him.
Crush on the person, especially if you see him. If you see him at the moment, you'll crush on him. But if not, he's gone in your mind.
Because I feel like people are general. The looks are the first thing you see. So that's when you'll first... You won't see the person and think, Oh, she's nice. Like that.
I'm joking. No. You'll first say to yourself, Oh, she's handsome.
Oh, she's beautiful. Oh, she's tall. Oh, her smile is beautiful. Oh, she's so handsome. Right?
You'll notice that even if you say you're more into personality. That's the first thing you'll say to your friends. Me too.
We're the same. But with girl crushes, I'm like, Oh, she's really beautiful. Right? I'm also beautiful.
The first thing is physical. But... The first one is more physical, but you'll deepen your relationship with her.
With her. With her personality, with her sense of humor. I feel like in relationships, it depends on the person's relationship. How healthy or toxic you are, how long you'll last.
How long you'll last. How you'll communicate. It's true.
If you're a close-minded person, you're handsome, but... you're immature, so it doesn't last long. You can have it all. Yeah, you can't have it all.
But if you have it all, congrats. Congrats, babe. Deserve.
You deserve it. You deserve it. Yeah.
I always need someone to make me laugh. The person who's true, because I have fake love. But the person who's true is the one who makes me laugh.
So if she makes me laugh like that, it's different. True. Yes, guys.
If you made Sheena laugh, you're so lucky. You have a space in her heart. You have a spot here.
Dark spot. Sorry. Sorry. There are also other girls who they're trying to be like the guy because they're handsome.
Actually, they're handsome. You know, they can post on IG a story like, date with Bobo. Like that.
Then, But when you go home, you'll fight. It's like that. For the gram, for the trending, that you're in a relationship with a handsome guy, but you're not happy.
So don't be like that, girls. Don't be like that. Yes. But there are girls who are also looking at you.
Yes. I feel like there are more. Because according to Google... Actually, I'll tell you. I also searched.
There are a lot of comments that... Mostly, girls look at each other in a different way. And then, boys.
Well, not all of them. But, yes. They really look at each other in a different way.
With everything. Yes. It's true.
But, yes. We can confirm that we're into different looks. It's just the looks at the beginning. But, it's more on the personality. Yes.
What are your experiences? For me, because… You have more experience than me. I experience handsome people with sense of humor. Tick tock tick.
I feel like it's true. Who? But not really. I feel like he's handsome. But he has a slight sense of humor.
He's not considered funny for you, but he's funny for me. So if he's funny for me, ask yourself if he's really funny. Do you believe that...
funny or the sense of humor is the new pogi. I read that on my search and I saw that's the new pogi. Yeah. You. The one with sense of humor is the new pogi.
Yeah. Because when you're pogi your face structure changes. When you have sense of humor your face structure changes.
When you have sense of humor your face structure changes. Your eyes look good, your nose looks good, the way that girl looks at you. It's like there's a shine behind you.
There's no such thing as the old first meetings. It doesn't matter. It depends on the person. What you want. But I feel like, not all of us have one.
You're handsome, but you don't have a sense of humor. You're not handsome. There's really both. Yes, there are.
Yes, there are a lot. Have you met someone? person that is just right. Below just right. The face.
But you're attached. But I'm attached. But it's funny.
Just right. So both looks are just right and the sense of humor is just right. No. No. I'll think about it.
I need to think about it. Maybe I'm saved. No, because for me it should be And it's, what is this?
It's my own preference. I don't know everything. But for me, I really want a higher sense of humor. I mean, I don't really choose looks but I really need someone to brighten up my bad days. But I don't expect my mood from that person.
It's just that, I feel that in the long run, I prefer someone with personality and funny. And that's it. It depends on his style if you're gonna be in a healthy relationship that is long-term. So that's what I'm looking for. I'm not just looking for someone funny.
I'm more thinking about our future. That's a lot of future. Right?
I haven't met someone like that. Just enough? Just enough. Yes. Because you're not entertaining me.
They say you should be handsome. I don't really change. For example, you have a lot of crushes. For me, grade 5 to grade 6, I only have one crush.
Oh wow. Just like that. For me, from kinder to grade 6. Different?
No. There's one consistent. But you know the consistent one?
But there's a lot of under. For me, my first crush is grade 5. Grade 5. Then he was the same when he was in grade 6. Grade 5 first crush? Yes.
That's when I felt like I was going to crush him. Grade 5. Really? Yes. Was Kinder 1 so young? It's like...
I don't think he knows. Because when I was in Kinder 1, I was a seatmate. I was like, Lord, I was only in Kinder 1 that year.
No, I'm just kidding. That's why I told you that I was quick to crush. Because there's a crush on Kinder 1 already.
Yes. That's it. But you didn't stop that while you were sleeping? No.
What are those? Grade 2. Oh, grade 2. Right? I got grade 2. Then, I'm the next crush that grade 9 to 4th year. You're also the only crush?
Really? Yes. Grade 9 to 4th year? Yes.
Grade 9 and 4th year, I only had one crush. Grade 9 and 4th year. Grade 9 and 10. I only had one crush. Senior?
No senior. You also didn't have a crush on a senior? There's a thing like that when you're in junior high. I had a crush on a senior. I had a crush on a 12th grade.
Who did you crush on senior? I remember someone! Dancer. that has a sense of humor. That's the jackpot for me.
Because you like dancers. Because I like dancers. So, for me, it's the same if you're not like that I mean physically. But because you're a dancer, you're handsome in my eyes. I mean, that's for me.
He's handsome in my eyes when he's a dancer. And when he's a dancer, it's fun. Because my face is like Lamin Ho.
You know, your face is not like that but for me, it's different. But it's really like that. You like the person because you have similarities. True. For example, idols.
For example, you're biased against Jungwon because you have similarities. It's really like that. Same with age, with dancers. You're also funny.
You also have dimples. Actually, I just look like him in my opinion. So, actually, it's true. It's true. Where did I see that?
I saw it somewhere and I read it. It's really like that. It's true that when you meet the guy that fits your type, your world changes. But there are also other girls that don't follow their type.
Yes. I know someone that has a type. She has a type but what she has now, she doesn't have a type. It's really like that.
When you find your feeling for you. Parang paliwala lahat ng anong gusto mo. Basta ang important thing, gusto mo siya.
Ay, panis. Galing nun. So, stay strong sa inyo guys. Shout out to that couple.
Joke lang, joke lang. Pero, ikaw, dati ba, meron ka talagang list na standards mo? Ay, talaga.
Meron talaga. Parang for me, if pogi ka pero di ka dancer, di ka pogi. Yun yung isa sa mga list mo. Meron mga pogi noon.
Do you know what's awkward about sumayaw? I know someone who does that. I'm like...
I know someone who does that. It's cool too, guys. Not here. But he's not handsome in your eyes. When I was with him, I really crushed him.
I feel like he's too... Even though he's not good at sumayaw, I judged him. But because...
Oh, no! I liked the handsome one. What? He's just handsome.
You still like the handsome one. I just realized that. But he's also funny. He's a handsome funny. But he doesn't want to dance.
He's still not good at dancing. Yes. So I don't know why. But you're asking yourself, It's okay, he's handsome. Yes, yes.
And I'm watching their dance. I'm cheering because... But I'm judging him many times in my head.
You're cheering because you don't want to dance? You're just making fun of me. I'm not.
Sorry, Lord. As a judgemental. I'm sorry. I'm just a good person. I'm not perfect.
Yes, but... It's your own... But you have your standards. Yes, I have my standards.
Because if I'm not a dancer, I feel like my dancer is not my type. Do you get it? True. So I just act according to what I have to click.
What are your standards besides being a dancer? You should be tall. That's my standard.
So, that's it. What's on your list of standards? You're tall. You're happy.
You have dimples. You have dimples. Those are the things you have. So, that's what you're looking for in other people.
For me, first of all, I don't really think about when I'm asked, I'm cornered. What type? I really don't think about it. No. Because I don't have a set.
I have a boyfriend. I don't have one. I don't know if...
Maybe that's why it's hard for me to crush someone. I don't know what I want. What do you want?
What do you prefer in a man? It depends on if you like him. It depends. I mean... That's right.
It depends on if you like that guy. If you're lucky, you won't like him again. True. So, you're lucky.
Wala, wala, wala. Wala ganun. Joke lang yun.
Maras po kami lahat. Ano po ba? Okay, wala na akong maisip.
Pero parang ano na lang din siya. Kunwari, kaya ka nagkakagusto. to a person because you have similarities.
You're looking for the person you like. So sometimes you guys look alike, right? Ah.
So if you guys have been talking for a long time, you guys look alike. You didn't look alike at first. Right? At first, you guys looked alike.
But because we're always together, and you guys are already lovers, you guys look alike. So that's true, guys. I've seen a lot of couples who look like they're dating because of them.
You know what I mean? Actually, I believe in the saying that if you're dating, you'll last longer. But some people know that it'll last. It'll last. It's like you'll last longer.
Maybe you'll date your sister. You'll get married. You'll get married.
You'll get married. But yeah, it'll last longer if you're dating. It's just a saying.
But it's not proven. But that's what I believed back then. So I tried to look like that. Have you tried it?
Because I've tried it already. Have you tried it that you have a micro that you're trying to be like that guy because either he's funny but He always has a pero. He's handsome but So what do we mean by funny but? Because we're all like We're all handsome but We're all complimenting each other. What do we mean by that?
There's a sense of humor but I tried funny. But she's smaller than me. Ah, she's smaller than you. So, I look like a big person.
But she's small. You're like her older sister. She's older. She's older.
She's just smaller. She's a bit smaller than me. She's so small, babe.
Yes. So, I'm okay. But I'm not attached. I'm not falling for her.
She's just funny in my eyes. You saw her? Yes. Because it's cute.
It's cute. It's cute. But I didn't fall for it. Get it?
You? Funny but always wearing a uniform. Okay.
It's okay. It's okay, right? It's okay.
Yes. It's also handsome in your eyes. Even if you don't want to.
You know what? I don't know. It's funny.
But I feel like need. I mean, it's a need too that you need to take care of yourself too and your appearance too to other people. But because it's funny, you can just ignore it.
It's funny. I'm the one who plans it. I plan it.
There are things that you should... What do you call it? Consider?
Yes. Not like... I'll just plan it.
It's okay. It's like a joke. Just chill there. You're funny. Just like that.
Yes. There are things that are set aside. It's okay. Just do it. I mean...
Technically, we all have flaws. And I feel like other people have something to say about you that's not all positive. But it depends on the person who likes you.
You'll defend them. Yeah. So if someone likes you, don't worry. You'll have a superhero that you'll defend. Yes.
Because there are people who feel like no one likes them because they're like this and that. No, guys. Believe that someone likes you.
There's no God to confess. But there are people in the world who are interested in you. There are.
You don't know that they're interested in you now. Even in small things, I admire them. There are people like that. It's not like I want to get married.
I mean, we're just saying that we feel like there's someone out there that na-appreciate ka for who you are. It's either siguro because of your looks or either because of your personality. Chance of humor, personality. Yeah. How you act around them.
Totoo. So don't lose hope. Yeah. Yes. Pero ano, I think ako unang mag-share ng learnings of the day.
Sige. I got it here na eh. Wow!
Yeah, it's here na oh. Nandito sa third paragraph. Na don't Let yourself get too attached to someone that you don't know that well. Like me, you know, it's like don't really depend on someone's look. It's very important to know the way of a person first.
Because that's where it's at the core of how long you'll last and how healthy you'll be. So you have all the time to get to know that person. So take... Take all the time, you know that. So, yeah, don't fall agad-agad.
na deep. Okay lang crush-crush basta don't fall. Sobrang lalim na ikaw lang din yung nag sarili sarili na expectations mo lang din yung binrake mo dahil sa mga illusion mo sa utak.
So that's your take away. Ako naman take away ko wag kang nakadepende kung what society tells you to do or kung anong trendy kung anong trendy kunwari pogi sige magpogi yung mga pogi yung mga jowa ng mga friends. O, sige, ganun nalang din ako.
Yung mga ganun. Wala. Parang kung anong gusto mo, go for it. Parang, wag kang makinig sa kung anong sinasabi ng ibang tao.
Basta, kung gusto mo ng pogi, then go. Kung gusto mo ng may sense of humor, then go for it. Parang, walang say ang ibang tao sa buhay mo kasi you know yourself more.
Yeah. Should follow your heart not others'heart. Yeah. Yeah.
Well, there are some sense when your friends advise you like this or that. But at the end of the day, you take what you know that you can do and you can apply to your self. But that's still at the end of the day. It's you. It's you.
It's your decision. It's all you. It's all you. You know your self better. You know what you're good at and what makes you happy.
your heart and your mind. And yeah. Yes.
That's my takeaway. Yeah. That's it.
I hope, guys, you also have a takeaway. Yes, with our podcast of Dire Direcho. You should also drink water. Because we had a water break earlier. I feel like when we drank water, you should also drink water.
You should also drink water. It's just near you. So, that's it. Yeah.
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