The Attachment Theory: How Childhood Affects Life

Nov 4, 2024

Attachment Theory Lecture Notes

Key Concepts

  • Attachment Theory: Proposes that a strong emotional and physical bond with a primary caregiver in early childhood is crucial for development.
    • Secure Attachment: Results from a strong bond, leading to feelings of safety and the ability to explore the world.
    • Insecure Attachment: Results from a weak bond, leading to fear of exploration and insecurity.

Types of Attachment

  • Secure Attachment: Leads to greater trust, better connection with others, and greater success in life.
  • Insecure Attachments:
    • Anxious Ambivalent: Displays anxiety and unpredictability in relationships; self-image may suffer.
    • Anxious Avoidant: Avoids showing emotions, struggles with forming relationships; negative self-image.
    • Anxious Disorganized: Experiences conflict between seeking security and fear; very negative self-image.

Case Study: The Smith Family

  • Parents: Mr. and Mrs. Smith exemplify loving caregivers until Mr. Smith's death.
  • Luca (6 years old): Securely attached, trusting, positive self-image.
  • Anne (3 years old): Anxious ambivalent, reacts to unpredictability by becoming clingy.
  • Joe (2 years old): Anxious avoidant, avoids emotions due to strict caregiving.
  • Amy (1 year old): Anxious disorganized, experiences fear without resolution.

Biological and Psychological Effects

  • Stress Response: In times of anxiety, stress hormones like adrenaline and cortisol are released, raising heart rate and blood pressure.
  • Toxic Stress: Frequent stress can impair brain development and weaken the immune system. It can even alter gene expression.

Assessment of Attachment

  • Strange Situation Experiment: Observes a child's reaction to their mother's return after being left alone.
    • Securely attached children calm down after reunion.
    • Insecurely attached children may continue to cry or refuse to play.

Long-Term Effects

  • Attachment style can predict life outcomes:
    • Early attachment correlated with academic success.
    • Relationship with parents linked to later health outcomes (e.g., coronary disease, hypertension).

Importance of Early Years

  • Early experiences set the foundation for future behaviors and worldviews.
  • Secure attachment leads to successful social and professional relationships.

Reflections by John Bowlby

  • Emphasizes the difficulty insecurely attached individuals may face in understanding themselves and their emotions.

Key Quote: "What cannot be communicated to the mother cannot be communicated to the self." - John Bowlby