Elia Onora's Talk: Choosing Not to Care

Introduction

• Theme: Letting go of caring too much.
• Key Question: Are you here to give or to take?

Key Points

Intentions in Relationships and Projects

• Initial Question: Examine your intentions when starting relationships or projects.
  • Are you participating to give or to take?
• Example: Elia shares a personal experience with a stalled project and realizing mixed intentions.

Detachment from Outcome

• Key Insight: Attachment to outcomes signifies a need to take rather than give.
• Practical Advice:
  • Show up daily without care for opinions or setbacks when your intention is purely to give.

The "To Whom" Question

• Strategy: Identify who you are giving your power to by asking "to whom?"
• Example: Elia’s experience tied to family reputation and personal relationships.

The "Why" Question

• Technique: Ask "why" five times to understand the root of your feelings or actions.
• Example: Elia’s relationship with her first boyfriend revealed a need for external validation.

Creating a Supportive Circle

• Importance of Community:
  • Surround yourself with supportive people.
  • Engage in activities to meet like-minded individuals.
• Personal Practice: Elia participates in spiritual events and dance classes.

Empowerment and Personal Power

• Avoiding Rejection: Avoid scenarios where you can be rejected.
  • Particularly important for women in romantic pursuits.
• Self-Worth: Recognize your value as a gift.

Changing the Narrative

• Mindset Shift: Altering your mindset can change your reality.
• Spiritual Teachings: Some beliefs suggest that time is an illusion and shifts in consciousness can alter your experience.

Protecting Peace of Mind

• Information Control: Only engage with information that is beneficial.
• The "Three Questions" Rule:
  • Is it good or bad news?
  • Do I know the person?
  • Will knowing help me assist?

Being the Chooser, Not the Chosen

• Empowerment Mantra: Assert that you are the chooser, maintaining control over your life.
• Narrative Control: Ensure relationships and engagements are mutually respectful and supportive.

Energy and Illusions

• Projecting Energy: We project value onto others, creating illusions.
• Reclaiming Energy: By recalling your energy, illusions die and true perceptions emerge.

Conclusion

• Final Thoughts: Focus on your path and projects, not illusions.
• Invitation: Gratitude for participation in the channel and a farewell until next time.