Hot and Unbothered: Mental Glow Up and Mindset Shifts

Jul 20, 2024

Hot and Unbothered: Mental Glow Up and Mindset Shifts

Introduction

  • Host: Brianna Gomez
  • Podcast: Hot and Unbothered
  • Episode Theme: Unlocking the hottest, happiest version of yourself by focusing on mental glow-up and mindset shifts.
  • Context: Consistency in uploading episodes despite life's chaos; appreciation for audience engagement.

Main Discussion: Mental Glow Up

Internal Work Over External Habits

  • Importance of internal happiness and fulfillment over external appearances.
  • Personal Experience: Despite looking great externally, feeling unhappy and unfulfilled internally nullifies the glow up.

Healing Girl Era

  • Acknowledgment of past struggles (anxiety, depression, lack of structure).
  • Importance of internal glow up and mental health during difficult times.

Audience Engagement

  • Weekly podcast review feature: Alana's review highlighted Brianna's influence.
  • Personal touches like texts from best friends providing motivation (e.g., Bible verse about perseverance).

Key Aspects of Mental Glow Up

Developing a Forgiving Mindset

  • Patience: With the universe and oneself.
  • Self-talk: Be kind and patient with yourself; avoid critical inner dialogue.

Accountability and Forgiveness

  • Acknowledge and address past mistakes instead of brushing them off.
  • Example: Acknowledging the 'feral era' and realizing it contributes to current self.
  • Importance of shadow work (e.g., journaling, reflecting on inner child, and fears).

Protecting Your Peace

  • Social Media: Balance between sharing successes and struggles; avoid oversharing or seeking external validation.
  • Inner Circle: Reassess the people you spend time with, focus on positivity and support.
  • Learning to Say No: Choose activities that align with your true self, offer alternatives to friends when necessary.
  • Avoid Comparison: Focus on personal goals instead of seeking others’ approval; understand social media highlights only the best parts of others' lives.

Importance of Solitude

  • Build a relationship with yourself; enjoy alone time and self-reflection.
  • Avoid using social media as a distraction from being alone with your thoughts. Practice activities that promote inner peace and self-love.

Practicing Gratitude

  • Gratitude as a key tool for attraction and positivity.
  • Daily Practice: Be thankful for small things (e.g., job, car, body) to shift to a mindset of abundance.

Related Episodes and Future Topics

  • Previous episodes on exiting 'lazy girl era,' self-concept, confidence, and more.
  • Future topics may include Law of Attraction, Law of Detachment, and maintaining a positive mindset.

Conclusion

  • Encouragement: Listen to previous episodes on Spotify, YouTube, Apple Music.
  • Follow social media channels for updates and additional content.
  • Audience interaction: Encouraged to leave reviews, comments, and share topics of interest for future episodes.
  • Sign-off: Love and gratitude towards listeners with a promise of more valuable content in the future. Upcoming weekly episode every Friday.