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Mastering Emotional Connections with Women

[Music] what's good with Charles Cameron video straight like that comment down below what you want to see the next One Last Cry brand new let's go ahead and hop into the video man make sure that you go in the Discord and links in the description a whole lot of good tips a lot of community in there it's real lit just make sure you join it man Link in the description go ahead and click that but this video is going to be a banger bro it's going to be about how to get any woman obsessed with you now when any woman gets obsessed with you it really just means that her emotions are involved right and a lot of y'all have never experienced this you've been dealing with women with low interest and stuff like that you've been dealing with women who not really feeling you like that or their emotions just ain't involved and what that looks like is you get left on on delivered you get left on red you get left on you know I mean you get stood up on dates you get put in the friend zone and nobody's trying to deal with all that bro that's why it's so important to get a woman's emotions involved because that's really ultimately what they run off of you gotta understand this bro women they run off of emotions brother emotions drive them how do you think that they stay in relationships when they shouldn't even be in them relationships is because their emotions are involved with them bro all right so you got to understand that as soon as you get her emotions involved bro boom you don't got her bro you know I'm saying she obsessed over you you know I'm saying you got everything that you want you got everything that you need she gonna be loyal all this other stuff but if they're not involved bro then it's pretty much a wash now you got her talking to a whole bunch of other guys brother she looking for something she's looking for all the answers and stuff like that but you could be the answer you know I'm saying you could be the guy that she keep you know what I mean she keep thinking about all the time she can't stop thinking about you bro this is how to do it I'm about to give y'all a step-by-step guide bro all right so stick with me all right this is the first thing that you gotta understand the first step to making any woman knows that's what you is familiarity she cannot be obsessed with you she cannot get her emotions involved unless she is familiar with who you are which means that you have to talk to her all right a lot of guys they think that they just gonna do it by just like looking at her stuff like that you just gonna look at her from across the lunch table and she's just gonna one day look at no bro she just she that's not how it works bro you have to build a rapport with her you got to go up and talk to her now understand this uh whole big part of obsession a big part of her being emotionally attached to you is physical attraction alright so if you are physically attracted to her all of these steps are going to be very very easy all right so the more traged she is to you physically the easier there's gonna be if she's not attracted to you physically it's going to be very very very difficult for you and it's going to take a lot more time you feel me but understand that it can still work which is why I'm talking about familiarity bro but if my familiarity is so important is because you ever be looking at a girl and you like dang like she's not it but then over time you keep seeing her and seeing her and seeing her over and over and over again and she start to look a little bit better and then one day just click one day just click it's like dang wait she kind of look good you know what I'm saying like I kind of I'm kind of feeling it the reason why is because the more you are around somebody the more attractive they are generally to you right so that's why it's so important to talk through her so that you can start building that Rapport when I say talk to her bro it doesn't have to be on no like slide stuff you don't have to be like super duper so don't do me nothing like that but you also don't have to be super duper friendly just get to know her on a general level you know I'm saying skip the small talk and stuff like that but get to know her for real you know I'm saying just you know I mean just be cool just chill you know I'm saying don't take it too seriously that's a big part of it it's not taking it too seriously bro so start talking to her build a rapport with her you know what I'm saying and when you see her around campus you see her around work wherever you seeing her at bruh always look at her say what's up or you know what I mean what's up what's up what's up you know I'm saying a good way to build a rapport with somebody is to have like a little inside joke with them something like that bro if you got an inside joke with her boom but that's an easy end right there now y'all already got a little something between y'all it's a bond you feel me just build something with her bro all right and once you start to do that she starts to get more familiar with you bro this will help if her attraction to you physically isn't all the way there now I'm saying she's gonna see you more and more and more and more and more she probably gonna start feeling you more and more and more and more and more and if she was already attracted to you physically a lot bro and this is just gonna keep adding to that more and more because familiarity or not equals attraction but helps attraction all right that's what you got to understand now this is the second thing that you got to understand when it comes to who you want to be emotionally attached to you you are not in control you have to let go of control bro I understand that y'all got crushes and stuff like that but here's the thing a woman cannot be forced to be emotionally attached to you right so you have to go where you're wanted bruh okay go to the girls that want to be attached to you go to the girls that are already physically attracted to you all right so that way you make it easier on yourself bruh and now you probably thinking well cam I don't never know you know I mean who's physically attracted to me blah blah blah blah blah that's why you gotta treat every girl that you meet the same bro right with respect you know what I'm saying and when you talk to them confident body language strong body language you're looking up at them in the eye you know I'm saying you always in that mode where you're not too too friendly but you always getting to know stuff like that because you never really know where it could come from right and then the whole point of approaching it is you see you talk to her that way whatever you see the little signs see the little signals that she might be into you and then you make your move you ask for the Snapchat you asked for the number Instagram whatever the case may be bruh all right so these are all the things that's what you can do before y'all really start talking like that get her familiar with you right now this is not a video on how to approach women and stuff like that I got a ton of those if you want to know how to do that you can go watch one of new videos but after you'd have made the approach this is where the this is where the hard stuff happens all right this is the this is a nitty-gritty of getting her attached to you all right understand this bro you have to make her comfortable but you have to remain unpredictable bro all right this is what I mean by that you have to get her comfortable so that she gets more open with you so that she gets she she feels as if she can be around you more she wants to be around you more she desires to be around you more but you can't be super duper predictable because predictable equals boring as soon as she figures out your PR your pattern bro oh man it's already a rap bro she already figured out your pattern oh he's gonna talk to me this day this day this day this day this day oh he's gonna do this this this and that bruh she already done figured you out she's on to the next one bro I'm telling you that's just how it is bro that's just that's the way that it goes bro you know I'm saying predictability is never ever ever ever gonna be helpful bro all right don't be predictable remain unpredictable and it's not anything that you have to like necessarily even try to do all right but I'll get to that a little bit later this is the thing you gotta make her comfortable right so y'all start talking and stuff like that when you hang out with her one of the first few times you hang out with her you have to enter seduction mode what I mean by that is this whenever you're hanging out with her start by being in a more playful mood right that's always going to be helpful for entering that seduction Mode start being in a playful mood right and y'all just chilling y'all just talking y'all laughing y'all having a great time and then you slowly slowly slowly start to make it more into seduction right you start going from the playfulness to the more seductive stuff right so y'all just chilling y'all just talking ha ha ha I mean yeah if you gotta enter like that flow state of conversation is what I really mean you know what I mean the conversations where it's been hours but it really don't feel like it's been outward and I don't mean over text I mean this is in person right in person if you got to do it in person bro I'm telling you over text is not gonna work it's not gonna work in person bro all right so you enter that flow state of conversation then you eventually eventually get to the point where it's like yeah like so so what's up with you man lifestyle playing like when we when we finish when we finna go out you know what I'm saying like stop playing like but you still do it in a playful tone right you don't get serious with it don't get too serious with it because then you're gonna start it's gonna start it's turning weird and awkward and stuff like that you know I'm saying always keep your seduction playful so that way it's not even like a safety net or anything like that but it's more digestible to her right always keep your seduction playful and stuff like that and if she goes along with it which she probably will if she's attracted to you bro then understand that you got her bro you got her right and you can really just make up stuff on the Fly really when you being when you're in seduction mode you don't have to say like a certain thing you don't have to compliment or you don't have to do much of anything bro you can really just say anything but you know what I'm talking about you know what I mean you just got to get into that mode it's other things like man like why are you playing with me like bro stop stop stop why are you talking to everyone else like you know you should be talking to me but you know it's not like seriously you saying that like you know what I mean it's still in a playful kind of tone whatever and then she's gonna be like oh you gotta stop playing ah I do like you whatever she gonna start playing back you know what I'm saying because she's picking up on the vibe that you putting down you feel me so she gonna start picking up on these playful seductive Vibes and use that to your advantage now when you do this do not hook up with or nothing like that bro don't do none of that don't give her the status don't don't do all that bro you can't be going all the way you feel me you just stop it right there and you keep it pushing now after you do this after you don't enter seduction mode in person and stuff like that this is where the unpredictability comes maybe the next day you don't talk to her at all maybe the next day you don't you you ignore her text or something like that right you maybe I don't know you know what I'm saying maybe she send you a meme and maybe you just like it you just react to the meme maybe you just don't do you don't give her a whole lot of attention now again this is not an exact replica of what you should do but this is like a template of what you should kind of follow right unpredictability you know what I'm saying maybe you don't talk to her for the next couple of days you know I'm saying give her a chance to talk to her friends about you and stuff like that give her a chance to man like oh he was this this this and that you know what I'm saying because the whole point of this the whole point of getting a woman obsessed with you is not that it's you playing the game it's really you're doing you're doing the bare minimum and she's playing the games in her mind right so you have to get her space give her time to play the games in her own mind so that way you come out on top right because the more she thinking about you the more she's playing games or her own mind the more attack she's gonna be to you because she's thinking about you more right so now after this you know I mean you maybe didn't talk to her for a day or two whatever the case FaceTime around the blue and the reason I say FaceTime is because FaceTime is always better than text text message you know what I mean you can easily ignore that but when you want FaceTime when you FaceTime somebody bruh you know I mean it takes a real special type of person to just press decline or something like that she's probably just gonna let it ring but facetimer out the blue boom she pick up yo let's hang out you know I'm saying let's go to I don't know Knott's Berry Farm something like that bro boom y'all start hanging out again you enter seduction mode again you start playful you know I'm saying you start getting you start building that tension you know what I mean start building that tension between y'all you know what I'm saying but you don't go all the way obviously bro you don't go all the way at least not yet bro you know what I'm saying or you shouldn't be doing that I ain't even condoning that but I'm just saying you don't go all the way but you're building that tension you're building that attention you're building that tension you know what I'm saying and you know I mean you can do things like break the touch barrier you're obviously having good body language and stuff like that bro so you building that tension between y'all and then next day maybe you give her a little bit of attention maybe you act more friendly a little bit you know what I'm saying less less interested maybe you have more interested another day the whole point is that you just got to be more unpredictable stuff like that now this is what I'm thinking now this is what I'm saying bro it's not something that you should actively be trying to do bruh it's something that you should just be living the reason why is because the reason you're being unpredictable is because you should be having things to do in your life right you shouldn't be devoting your entire life to just talking to this one girl you have other things that you need to be doing you got a job that you should probably be going to get you got school work that you should be trying to do you got homework and stuff that you should be trying to do and stuff like that bro so when you're doing all these things you don't have time to just be talking to her and that's where the unpredictability comes from it doesn't come from you trying to do anything it doesn't necessarily come from a tactic it really just comes from the stuff that you got to do in your life you know I'm saying maybe you don't feel like talking to her all the time and you don't feel like texting her all the time that's why I said that this is a template this is not an exact replica one-to-one that you should follow I'm just giving you all a template of what being unpredictable but also making her feel comfortable in the moment looks like bruh and when I say make her feel comfortable in the moment you got to make sure that it's an experience for her right because women they like fun they like experiences they like these moments that's what builds attraction that's what builds attached right so when you out with her again the reason why you're in seduction mode is because it's fun and when you go out with it you know what I mean don't just go on these regular dates you know I'm saying don't just go and eat food and whatever the case may be go do something fun you know I'm saying go to an amusement park go watch a show you know what I'm saying or or you all can just make it fun I don't know just whatever do something fun give it an experience you know I'm saying don't just make it boring give an experience that way that your uh her emotions can be more involved with you bro all right now once all this is said and done you know what I mean you being unpredictable you know what I'm saying you introduction mode sometimes you know what I mean having fun experiences you know I'm saying maybe you go to Six Flags one day maybe you just go to Red Robin another day you know what I'm saying you just being up and down up and down up and down you're not always available stuff like that bro that's what that looks like you know what I'm saying so at this point you keep doing that until she says the question so what are we or something along those lines right if she say that then you know you got it bro you got her now this is what you got to understand you being unpredictable you doing all that bro you not necessarily playing the game but you not playing the game you're not taking it serious is what is building attraction that is what's building attraction right the times when you wither them experiences and the times that you're not with her bruh all right they're all valuable in terms of her attachment to you all right now once you've done this for a while again she's gonna say what are we she's gonna say you know I mean where we gonna go with this whatever the case may be and at that point you know I'm saying now you have free reign to enter that relationship because your emotions are definitely involved by that point women don't just say that when their emotions are not involved when they're not thinking about you not obsessing over you bruh but if you want to know uh uh where you stand because she hasn't said nothing like that yet you can just ask questions relating to what do you think about me right so you could be like what's three words that you think about when you think about me something like that bro or it doesn't have to be that exactly but you could just think of questions like that to ask or to kind of gauge where you at in that level right and if she's not at that level yet bruh then you just keep doing what you're doing bro keep having fun experiences unpredictable there sometimes unavailable other times because you've got other things to do bro and eventually she's going to get attached to you the reason why this is going to set you apart from other dudes is because other dudes is going to take it so so seriously that they just gonna be there all the time a lot of dudes have this mindset it's like oh I have to be there I got to be there all the time I gotta be there talking to her all the time all the time all the time all the time and this is not what builds attraction it builds desperation right she thinks that you desperate now right you know she want to distance herself from you you not taking it seriously you kind of being on your own timetable with stuff like that bro you not giving her all the attention in one day and all and all the attention at one time bro is going to help build that attachment to you right you know what I mean because you're not always there that's what's going to separate you from every other dude because they taking it mad serious the more serious you take it the worse you gonna be bruh take it less serious bro you know what I'm saying especially knowing because a lot of these girls is not even worth dating you know what I'm saying but if this girl is worth dating still you gotta do this so that you don't come across as best for nothing like that now Boom the final step is this once you've already you know what I mean she already then said oh what are we you know I'm saying you got to figure out what you want you got to figure out what you want at this point because once you enter a relationship Things become very very easy you know what I mean she already got her emotions involved and stuff like that and it's very easy to maintain that because there's no more mystery there's no more game involved really at that point it's really all just about being a man right it's all about being the leader it's all about being the one who's going to be doing the the protecting right doing the one that's gonna be the provided you paying 80 of the bills you're the one who you're the one leading the relationship you wear the pants you made the decisions all that type of stuff bro that's what's gonna get her really really attached to you because women are feminine men are masculine that's just how it goes that's that's just that's the ways of life bro that's the ways of life all right so the more masculine you are the more feminine she's going to want to be right the more submissive to you that she won't want to be because that's what women want ultimately at the end of the day they want to not just feel wanted but they want to be in submission to you right that they're in a relationship with they want to belong to you they want to be your ride or die right so once you enter that relationship phase once you get to past the past the talking stage you know what I mean and her emotions are involved so much that she wants to be in a relationship now you know YouTube got her and now you know that your her attachment to you is going to Skyrocket the longer that y'all are together bro simple as that as long as you continue to be a masculine man about it as long as you don't turn into a simp and stuff like that so see this was very simple and very very easy bro if you follow these steps she's going to be obsessed with you I promise you that love you I'm not here peace