Lecture Notes: Who is Thinking About You?
Introduction
- Discussion on identifying who is thinking about you.
- Explore their thoughts and intentions.
Identifying the Person
- Playing the Victim:
- The person may blame others.
- Possible blame towards you.
- Coping Mechanisms:
- Involves usage of substances like alcohol.
- Struggles with addiction.
Relationship Dynamics
- Absence and No Contact:
- Currently not communicating; absence from each other's lives.
- No apology or reconciliation from their side.
- Behavioral Patterns:
- On-off relationship, hot and cold behavior.
- Possible ghosting after conflicts.
Emotional State
- The person is not happy and struggles with self-reflection.
- Desire to Reveal:
- Wants to tell the truth or reveal something.
Deep Dive into the Person's Thoughts
- Playing the Victim:
- Alternative paths not taken, like apologizing.
- Heartbreak:
- Acknowledgment of hurting you.
- Use of substances as coping mechanisms.
Potential Actions
- Thoughts of Reaching Out:
- Considering an impulsive action or communication.
- Delayed by their internal struggles and fear of consequences.
Intentions and Current Focus
- Work as a Distraction:
- Focus on work to forget about you.
- Reminders of you are constant.
- Desires:
- Naughty thoughts and a desire to rekindle.
- Lack of strength and confidence to act.
Soul Connection
- Rings and Swans:
- Indication of a deep soul connection or contract.
- Future intentions to apologize or reach out.
Your Perspective
- Self-Worth and Value:
- Recognizing own value and not waiting passively.
- Expectation of future contact but maintaining self-respect.
Conclusion
- The continuation of the situation will be explored over the next six months in an extended analysis.
- The person has intentions but struggles with acting upon them.
Note: Further exploration will be done in the extended session to predict future actions of the person and their coping strategies. Membership details were provided for further access.