Finding Joy in Rejection

Oct 2, 2024

Lecture on Rejoicing in Rejection

Introduction

  • Referencing Gospel of St. Luke, Chapter 2, Verses 6-12.
  • Emphasized inclusivity of Jesus' message "for all people."
  • Theme of lecture: Rejoicing in Rejection.

Key Biblical Story

  • Mary and Joseph's journey to Bethlehem.
  • No room at the inn, leading to Jesus' birth in a manger.
  • Angel's message to shepherds about the birth of a Savior.

Main Points

Rejection in Jesus' Life

  • Jesus' life began with rejection (no room at the inn).
  • Rejection throughout his life, including choice between Jesus and Barabbas.
  • Rejection foretold his future sacrifices.

Personal Reflection on Rejection

  • Rejection is difficult but teaches valuable lessons.
  • Rejection should be seen as redirection.
  • Many experience rejection sensitive dysphoria – a heightened response to rejection.

Biblical Characters and Rejection

  • Joseph and Mary; Joseph's struggle with understanding Mary's pregnancy.
  • Joseph's respect and private handling of the situation.
  • Angel reassures Joseph of Mary's divine pregnancy.

Walking by Faith

  • Joseph and Mary’s journey symbolizes faith without constant reassurance.
  • Importance of enduring faith when God is silent.

Rejection as a Path to Growth

  • Handling rejection determines life's success.
  • Rejection as a test of faith, akin to a magnometer.

Psychological Aspects of Rejection

  • Rejection affects self-esteem and personal identity.
  • RSD (Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria) and its impact on individuals.

Metaphors and Symbolism in the Birth of Jesus

  • Manger symbolizes Jesus as the 'Bread of Life'.
  • Swaddling clothes (milk rags) and Jesus as 'Milk of the Word'.
  • Shepherds present at the birth, representing Jesus as the 'Lamb of God'.

Conclusion

  • Rejection is part of divine direction.
  • Encouragement to rejoice in rejection, trusting that it leads to greater things.
  • Final call to embrace rejection as a step towards one's destiny.