Hello peachies, welcome back to dear peachie. Do you have a friend who always looks expensive, and seems to radiate elegance and composure, giving off an impression of effortless grace and poise in everything they do? While some might attribute this to wealth, we assure you, you don't need to spend a fortune to appear refined and classy. We are not talking expensive like you’ve spent loads of money on designer branded pieces, and put them obviously on display. Instead, looking expensive is about confidence, consideration, care and elegance. It's more of the energy of how you want to present yourself to the world. This includes many facets of grooming, style and how you carry yourself, and combining all these elements together to create this elevated version of yourself that you're confident to present to the world. This could apply to your personal life, work, dating and more. So today we would like to share some tips on how you can level up your game without breaking the bank, all of which you can start adopting today! These tips will help you leave a confident, polished, and poised impression in your social interactions. We’re going to discuss everything from beauty to mindset and everything related. First things first, you need to get the basics right, starting with your foundations. Before you think about what to wear, it’s essential to make sure you’re well groomed and polished. Looking expensive means having a healthy, radiant complexion, which includes good skin, hair, teeth, and nails. Clear, radiant skin improves your complexion and shows that you take good care of yourself. It is so important to have a good skincare routine that agrees with you.This doesn’t mean spending a fortune on skincare products, but finding what works for you and committing to it. Drinking plenty of water, eating a healthy diet, exercising regularly, and getting adequate sleep and rest can naturally enhance your facial complexion, giving you a healthy glow from within. Wear sunscreen and stick to a skincare routine that suits your skin type. If you have skin issues, don’t hesitate to seek advice from a dermatologist. Good skin provides you a good and solid base for putting your makeup onto. Keep your eyebrows and facial hair well-groomed, and don't forget about the skin on your body. Exfoliate and moisturise regularly, to achieve an overall polished look like you're taking great care of yourself. Clear, healthy, and radiant skin, paired with a well-nourished and well-rested complexion, makes you look more attractive and sophisticated. When it comes to makeup, a simple everyday makeup style that suits your features is key. To look expensive, keep your makeup clean and polished. A light layer of foundation that matches your skin tone, along with subtle makeup, creates a timeless look. Aim for a pretty, prepped, and polished appearance without going over the top. A rich girl’s makeup look is almost minimalistic. Following on from skincare and makeup, next up would be hair care. Healthy hair is expensive hair. It’s hard to pull off that expensive look if your hair is brittle and damaged. Healthy hair has a natural sheen that exudes sophistication. While you don’t have to stop dyeing your hair, maintaining shiny, healthy locks can give you a naturally elegant and polished appearance. Just like skincare, you’ve got to understand your hair to make it look expensive on a budget. If you’re unsure how to take care of your hair, don’t worry, we’ve got you covered. Check out our recent video on haircare to help you achieve that lustrous look. The link is right up here. Aside from maintaining healthy hair, there are key qualities to consider when changing your hair color. Investing in your hair color can give you a totally different look, but only if done correctly. Knowing what makes a good hair color is essential. Here are six basic principles every hair color should meet to look luxurious. Expensive hair color looks natural and believable, as if it could be your natural hair color. It should appear to grow out of your head without any intervention from a colorist. Avoid One-Dimensional Color. High-quality hair color contains multiple shades blended together for a multidimensional effect that isn't a solid, one-color mass. This creates a more natural and luxurious look. Luxurious hair color incorporates a mix of different shades, known as highlights and lowlights, that are woven together. This prevents any single shade from standing out too much, adding depth and preventing the color from washing out your skin tone. Expensive-looking hair color features brighter strands around the face and darker shades in the back, mimicking natural hair color patterns, even for natural blondes who often have darker hair at the nape. The richest-looking hair color doesn't stray too far from your natural hair color. A good rule of thumb is to stay within three shades of your original color, enhancing rather than completely changing your true beauty. Just like what we've said just now, A glossy, shiny finish is just as important as the color itself. For hair color to look rich, it needs a healthy shine that gives it a three-dimensional effect. Moving right down your body, let’s touch on nails. They may be small but they make a big impact. Dirty and chipped nails can ruin your look, but don’t be pressured to get a manicure and pedicure every time. Just keep your nails clean and buffed. Trim your fingernails and toenails every two to three weeks. After you shower, rub a towel on your cuticles and moisturise with cuticle oil. If you do go for manicures or pedicures, choose shades that harmonise with your skin tone. Peach, milk, sand, pale pink, and beige shades emphasise natural beauty. Opt for short tips, they’re classy, chic, easy to maintain, and blend well with your look. Longer nails can be harder to upkeep and chip easily, which might affect your polished appearance, but the choice is entirely up to you. Dental care makes you look expensive. A white, sparkling set of teeth reflects excellent self-care and attention-to-detail. Healthy teeth are radiant, polished, bright, and naturally white. On the other hand, poorly maintained teeth can be chipped, dull, and stained, giving off a less polished impression. Here’s how to achieve that million-dollar smile with these good dental habits: Brush your teeth at least twice a day. Floss every day to keep your gums healthy. Use mouth rinse to keep your breath fresh. Visit your dentist regularly for check-ups and professional cleanings. Drink a glass of water after meals to wash away potential stains. Limit your intake of coffee and tea. Cut down on sugary or acidic foods. Quit smoking for better oral health and overall wellness. By following these tips, you can ensure your smile looks radiant and well-maintained, enhancing your overall appearance. First of all, If you want to look expensive and put together, you don’t need to have the budget to match it. However you do need to spend a little bit of time curating the perfect wardrobe that will compliment you. Many people get caught up in following trends or wearing what others suggest, thinking that's the key to looking expensive, chic and polished. But dressing ‘expensively’ relies on one’s budget less than you might think. Sure, you might not be able to splurge on that designer handbag right now, but looking polished isn't about flaunting as many logos as possible in an outfit. In fact, the most expensive-looking outfits often have no visible labels at all. Go for Quality, Not Brands Choose pieces within your budget and prioritise quality over quantity. Invest in timeless pieces made from natural fabrics like cotton, linen, wool, silk, and cashmere. Stick to classic, neutral colours that never go out of style. Avoid trendy, flashy pieces that will quickly date your look. Opt for high-quality, well-made items that can be mixed and matched to provide a timeless base for your wardrobe. Don’t be afraid to add pops of colour or unique accessories to make your look your own.You can also experiment with different textures, like a wool blazer or a silk scarf, to add interest and depth to your outfits. The key is to balance classic pieces with personal style so you look timeless but not outdated. Fit is everything when it comes to looking polished. Tailored pieces are perhaps the easiest way to elevate your wardrobe. If your clothes don’t fit well, you won’t look put-together. So find a tailor who can make sure all your clothes fit perfectly. Your clothes need some ‘grooming’ and maintenance too. Pay attention to details like loose threads, wrinkles, lint, or stains. Ensure your clothes are ironed or steamed to release any wrinkles. Regardless of the price range, wrinkle-free clothes always look better. A lint roller is your best friend, especially for dark-coloured clothes that easily show dust and hair. Running a lint roller over your clothes makes your look more presentable. A stain pen comes in handy for quickly fixing accidental stains. In addition to personal care, which we discussed earlier, taking care of your personal items is equally important for creating a polished and expensive look. Look at your phone case now. Is it yellowed or dirty? Are there fingerprints or smudges on your phone screen? Or glasses? Are there stains on your shoes or bags? Keeping these everyday items clean is a simple yet effective way to maintain a polished appearance. It shows that you pay attention to details and take care of your belongings, leaving a lasting impression of sophistication. To create a polished impression, it's essential to smell good all day. Basic personal care and hygiene are crucial—wear clean clothes, shower daily, use deodorant or fragrance, and opt for scented personal care products like shampoos, conditioners, body oils, or lotions. When it comes to fragrance, scents that smell expensive are usually fresh and natural, not too heavy, sweet, or powdery. Your fragrance shouldn't announce your arrival or fill the entire room. It should be subtle, noticeable only to those who come close. You don't have to spend a fortune on good perfumes that smell expensive, though high-end perfumes can be pricey. Look for deals at your favourite department stores and save up for something you love. Discovering your signature scent that reflects your personality and taste is another exciting area to explore. If you're interested in learning more about finding the perfect fragrance, let us know in the comments, and we might post a video on the topic! Maintaining a good posture is a simple yet powerful way to be more expensive-looking. The way you carry yourself affects how people respond to you and, at least as important, how you feel about yourself. When you stand tall and don't slouch when you sit, you appear more confident. Let us do spot check: are you slouching while watching this video? Sit up straight and hold your chin up! If you have a habit of slouching, try doing some exercises to improve your posture. If you would like to know about more tips on improving your overall posture to elevate your look, we have a video on that topic too. If you haven't watched it already, please give it a watch! Cultivating an elegant posture allows your clothes to sit better, and makes your frame appear slender and more elongated, you’ll feel more confident, empowered and motivated. With an elegant posture, you’ll certainly exude more grace and poise. Our body language can speak volumes without a single word. Regardless of how expensive your clothing or accessories may be, if you don't feel confident and comfortable in them, the look will fall flat. Confidence comes from within and cannot be bought or worn. Here are two key points to help you nail the sophisticated aura. First, reduce fidgeting. Nervous habits can make you seem uneasy and less confident. If you find yourself unsure of where to place your hands or where to look in important situations, try folding your hands in front of you and maintaining eye contact with the person you're speaking to. This will help you appear more composed and confident. Second, make eye contact. Looking people in the eye when you speak shows confidence and builds trust. Whether you're shy or socially anxious, making eye contact communicates sincerity and a solid connection. In social settings, a firm handshake and a steady gaze are crucial. Avoid looking away or appearing uncertain, as this can make you seem less confident and assertive. What we say often reflects who we are, so it's time for a little speech makeover to present ourselves better to others. First, speak slowly. Ever felt like your words were playing a game of tag during a speech or conversation? Speaking too quickly can make you seem anxious, like you're trying to outrun your own thoughts. Practice speaking slowly and deliberately. This not only makes you appear more confident and composed but also gives you time to think before you speak. Plus, a calm and assured tone is always attractive. Your tone and manner of speaking significantly impact your demeanor. Speaking hastily can make you seem like a squirrel on caffeine, while a lack of energy might make you sound like you're narrating a documentary on watching paint dry. Aim for a calm, steady tone, especially in public or professional settings. Lowering your voice slightly can enhance your credibility and make you seem more composed and persuasive. Stay calm and avoid raising your voice when you’re upset. Learn to speak calmly and evenly, even if someone is pushing your buttons. After all, who needs a loud argument when you can have a cool and collected conversation? Good courtesy and etiquette are essential parts of projecting an expensive persona. Start by expressing gratitude and politeness regularly. A simple "thank you" goes a long way. It's a small gesture that reflects respect and appreciation. Plus, it makes you seem like a genuinely nice person—which, let's be honest, is always in style. Dressing appropriately for the occasion is another key. Choose clothes that fit the event or setting. For example, wear formal attire to a wedding or business attire for a job interview. Consider the weather, time of day, and cultural norms. By dressing appropriately, you show respect for the occasion and the people around you. It's also a great way to avoid any awkward fashion faux pas, as nobody wants to be the one in shorts at a black-tie event! Putting away your phone during social interactions is crucial. When you're in a social setting, be fully present and engaged with the people around you. By putting away your phone, you signal that you are giving your full attention to the conversation. This shows that you value the person and the interaction, and that you're not easily distracted by your phone. Finally, listen actively and engage in thoughtful conversation. Pay attention, ask questions, and show genuine interest. Not only does this make you a more enjoyable conversationalist, but it also helps you come across as thoughtful and intelligent. And who doesn't want to be seen as the suave, sophisticated one in the room? Having education and taste is essential. Education is not just about attending prestigious schools or earning degrees, but rather about keeping an open mind and being curious about the world around us.Taste, on the other hand, involves having a refined sense of style, art, music, and design. It’s about having an eye for quality and beauty and appreciating the finer things in life. Here are some ways to cultivate education and taste: Read widely, by exploring books on a variety of topics. Visit cultural venues, by spending time in museums, galleries, and at cultural events. Expand your musical horizons, by listening to various music genres and attending concerts and shows. Travel, by exploring different countries and immersing yourself in their local cultures. Explore cuisines, by trying new foods and learning about food and wine pairings. You might think some of these activities might require some spending. However, the easiest and most affordable way to develop your taste and education is through reading. Develop a reading habit and dive into books on a wide variety of topics, including science, history, literature, art, and philosophy. As an old Chinese saying goes, "A mind enriched with knowledge exudes a natural grace". Reading enhances your demeanor by enriching your thoughts and perspectives. Reading allows you to focus and engage deeply with the material, fostering a sense of calm and intellectual growth that short videos can't provide. Books offer a rich, unprocessed experience, enabling you to stimulate your own thoughts and opinions rather than relying on someone else's interpretations. Cultivating education and taste takes time and effort, but it’s a worthwhile investment for creating a fulfilling life. Remember, true wealth comes from a rich inner self, which reflects outwardly in our appearance and demeanour. Lastly, let’s talk about how to not only look expensive but also feel it, because ultimately, mindset is key. First, Confidence is one of the most luxurious things you can wear, and it doesn’t cost a thing. It's a cliché, but confidence truly is the best accessory. No matter what you're wearing, if you feel good in it, you'll look good too. Even the most expensive clothes or accessories won’t look right if you’re not confident and comfortable in them. Confidence comes from within and can’t be bought. How you carry yourself is just as important as the clothes you wear, so stand tall, make eye contact, and exude your confidence. When you feel good in your own skin, it shows in everything you do. Second, never idolise any inanimate object or brand. Our generation is more susceptible to materialistic worship than ever. For example, think about the rivalry between Apple fans and Samsung fans. It's normal to have preferences, but they shouldn’t become a form of worship or identity. You can admire the spiritual or intellectual qualities in people, but not the material objects. Investing too much emotional energy into a brand or product indicates an attachment and an inner void. Once you understand this, all big brands like Chanel, Dior and Lamborghini will lose their undue significance. This realisation allows you to view material possessions more objectively and see people’s true qualities beyond their material wealth. You'll also shed the insecurity of feeling underdressed for certain occasions. True elegance lies in letting go of the obsession with luxury items and nourishing your inner self. Looking expensive isn’t always about money; it’s about how you care for and nurture yourself. It’s about trusting and looking after yourself. It is often a concept used for marketing products nowadays, but what’s more important is self-acceptance and having your own values and perspectives. While following these tips can bring a sense of refinement and elegance, it's important to keep in mind that these are simply tips to help achieve a fulfilling life. By prioritising your own happiness and staying true to yourself, you can create a life that reflects your unique personality and values. A person who lives authentically and holds strong personal beliefs is truly captivating and elegant! We hope you enjoy this content. So what’s your favourite take away from this video? Comment down below to let us know! Thank you so much for watching! We will see you in the next video! Goodbye!