Understanding Similarity and Attraction

Aug 14, 2024

Lecture on Similarity and Attraction

Key Concepts

  • Similarity: A major predictor of attraction among individuals.
  • Factors of Similarity: Includes attitudes, beliefs, interests, age, race, religion, economic status, and educational level.

Research Findings

  • Surveys and Studies:
    • Close friends and couples often share common attributes.
    • People tend to befriend or partner with those similar to them in many aspects.

Experimental Study

  • Setup: University students in a lab setting.
    • Participants: Believed to be playing a game with another student, who was actually a confederate.
  • Conditions:
    1. Saw a real image of the other player.
    2. Saw an image with their own facial features morphed into it.
  • Results: Participants more likely to cooperate and trust when the other player had morphed facial features.
  • Conclusion: People prefer individuals with similar facial features.

Additional Findings

  • Attraction and Voting:
    • More likely to find someone attractive if their facial features are morphed with ours.
    • More likely to vote for candidates with morphed facial features.

Similarity in Relationships

  • Longevity of Relationships:
    • Relationships tend to last longer the more similar the individuals are.
  • Perceptions of Similarity:
    • Alignment Over Time: Interests may align more over time as couples share.
    • Perceived Similarity: Couples might perceive themselves as similar, affecting survey outcomes.

Potential Bias

  • Similarity Bias: Tendency to like those similar and exclude those who are different.
  • Implications: While similarity draws people together, it might also lead to exclusion based on differences.

Summary

  • Overall Effect: Similarity can both strengthen relationships and introduce biases against those who are different.