Transform Yourself to Reignite Love

Jul 31, 2024

Love Advice TV: How to Make Someone Want You Again

Introduction

  • New studio setup with Coach Adrian and Coach Alex.
  • Focus on making your ex regret losing you and wanting to be with you again.
  • Emphasis on personal transformation, not just getting your ex back.
  • Goal: Lay the foundation for a healthy, sustainable relationship.

Key Concepts

Personal Transformation

  • Essential for making someone want you again.
  • Most of the audience has the capacity to reignite the spark.
  • Common issues: complacency, neglect, external pressures (work, family, etc.).
  • Importance of regaining the spark and being the person your ex fell in love with.

Accepting the Breakup

  • Critical to move forward and create a new relationship dynamic.
  • Accepting the breakup does not mean giving up on getting back together.
  • Helps avoid being trapped in past mistakes and guilt.
  • Allows for personal growth and setting new foundations.

Steps to Personal Transformation

Reconnect with Qualities and Values

  • Focus on what makes you a good person.
  • Avoid dwelling on past mistakes and guilt.
  • Understand that everyone makes mistakes.

Change Your Behavior

  • Avoid begging, crying, and asking for redemption.
  • Aim to become a new version of yourself by learning from past experiences.
  • Engage in new activities and focus on personal growth.

Sell Your Life

  • Show that you have a great life now, not to make your ex jealous, but to show personal growth.
  • Use social media to display new behaviors, activities, and professional focus.
  • Friends and family should see your transformation.

Projection

  • Use NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) techniques to project your new goals and activities.
  • Help your ex see the new you and forget past issues.

Importance of Patience and Detachment

  • Be more patient and detached than your ex.
  • Avoid seeking validation from your ex for every action you take.
  • Focus on genuine personal transformation.
  • Allow time for your ex to sense your change and be drawn back to you.

Avoid Old Habits

  • When your ex starts to show interest again, don’t revert to old behaviors.
  • Maintain the new, positive habits and behaviors you’ve cultivated.
  • Ensure the new relationship is built on new, healthy foundations.

Practical Tips and Tools

  • Focus on activities that build your confidence and happiness independently of your ex.
  • Use the projection technique to show your ex the new version of yourself.
  • Engage in activities that you are passionate about and that bring you joy.
  • Stay consistent in your new behaviors, even when your ex begins to show interest.

Conclusion

  • Be patient with the process of personal transformation.
  • Embrace the journey of becoming the best version of yourself.
  • Subscribe to Love Advice TV and follow their podcast for more tips.
  • Utilize the bonus videos and coaching for personalized guidance.
  • Remember, the goal is not just to get your ex back, but to build a healthy, lasting relationship.

Final Note

  • Thank you for listening and engaging with the content.
  • Coaches express gratitude for the community’s trust and participation.
  • Encouragement to continue personal growth and transformation.