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Transform Yourself to Reignite Love
Jul 31, 2024
Love Advice TV: How to Make Someone Want You Again
Introduction
New studio setup with Coach Adrian and Coach Alex.
Focus on making your ex regret losing you and wanting to be with you again.
Emphasis on personal transformation, not just getting your ex back.
Goal: Lay the foundation for a healthy, sustainable relationship.
Key Concepts
Personal Transformation
Essential for making someone want you again.
Most of the audience has the capacity to reignite the spark.
Common issues: complacency, neglect, external pressures (work, family, etc.).
Importance of regaining the spark and being the person your ex fell in love with.
Accepting the Breakup
Critical to move forward and create a new relationship dynamic.
Accepting the breakup does not mean giving up on getting back together.
Helps avoid being trapped in past mistakes and guilt.
Allows for personal growth and setting new foundations.
Steps to Personal Transformation
Reconnect with Qualities and Values
Focus on what makes you a good person.
Avoid dwelling on past mistakes and guilt.
Understand that everyone makes mistakes.
Change Your Behavior
Avoid begging, crying, and asking for redemption.
Aim to become a new version of yourself by learning from past experiences.
Engage in new activities and focus on personal growth.
Sell Your Life
Show that you have a great life now, not to make your ex jealous, but to show personal growth.
Use social media to display new behaviors, activities, and professional focus.
Friends and family should see your transformation.
Projection
Use NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) techniques to project your new goals and activities.
Help your ex see the new you and forget past issues.
Importance of Patience and Detachment
Be more patient and detached than your ex.
Avoid seeking validation from your ex for every action you take.
Focus on genuine personal transformation.
Allow time for your ex to sense your change and be drawn back to you.
Avoid Old Habits
When your ex starts to show interest again, don’t revert to old behaviors.
Maintain the new, positive habits and behaviors you’ve cultivated.
Ensure the new relationship is built on new, healthy foundations.
Practical Tips and Tools
Focus on activities that build your confidence and happiness independently of your ex.
Use the projection technique to show your ex the new version of yourself.
Engage in activities that you are passionate about and that bring you joy.
Stay consistent in your new behaviors, even when your ex begins to show interest.
Conclusion
Be patient with the process of personal transformation.
Embrace the journey of becoming the best version of yourself.
Subscribe to Love Advice TV and follow their podcast for more tips.
Utilize the bonus videos and coaching for personalized guidance.
Remember, the goal is not just to get your ex back, but to build a healthy, lasting relationship.
Final Note
Thank you for listening and engaging with the content.
Coaches express gratitude for the community’s trust and participation.
Encouragement to continue personal growth and transformation.
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