Overview
Interview with Jared Tendler on trading psychology: balancing emotion, intuition, system design, risk, and long-term development for traders, including prop firm dynamics.
Emotion in Trading
- Goal is not elimination; correct faulty perspectives that create excessive emotion.
- Optimal emotional zone varies by individual; avoid flat or overamped states.
- High emotion can disable emotional control centers, leading to paralysis and revenge trading.
- Passion, motivation, curiosity are essential; purely robotic removes drive.
Evolution, Temperament, and Causality
- Primitive wiring influences fight/flight, but causality can be understood and corrected.
- Temperament varies: fiery vs. easygoing; align system and style with temperament.
- Nature and nurture both matter; childhood patterns can surface, but not for everyone.
Intuition vs Emotion vs Instinct
- Instinct (unconscious competence): repeating what you already know; not learning new.
- Intuition (unconscious, new pattern recognition) requires a knowledge bedrock.
- Emotions can masquerade as intuition (e.g., fear in FOMO/revenge trades).
- Distinguish markers:
- Emotional masquerade: tight chest, shallow breathing, death grip, urgency.
- Real intuition: calm “aha,” normal breathing, relaxed hands, curiosity.
- Develop a separate test account to validate intuition after ~24 months experience.
Pattern Recognition Research
- Body detects bad patterns earlier than the mind: stress response at ~40 cards; awareness ~70; conscious recognition ~100; full behavioral shift ~120.
- Application: emotions may sense patterns before conscious awareness; avoid confusing with biases.
Learning Stages and Time
- Conscious competence needs calm; emotion blocks access.
- Procedural memory (deep skills) lives below emotional systems; requires time and reps.
- Tiger Woods swing change analogy: two years to be instinctive under pressure; trading similarly requires sustained practice under real market stress.
Backtesting, Sim, and Real Trading
- Backtesting and sim are helpful but emotionless; cannot replace live trading.
- Academic mindset “fail → study more” can mislead; sometimes fix emotional execution, not add info.
- One trade ≠one game; treat a trade like a single play, not the full result.
Using Emotions Productively
- Emotions can add edge once mastered; expert “thin slicing” augments systems.
- Clean out biases to absorb more reality; marry system and intuition instead of suppressing emotions.
Gambling vs Trading
- Gambling: betting on a negative edge or violating your system.
- Trading: betting on a positive edge; be “the house.”
- Early phase can be R&D; past incubation, avoid “hope” and negative-edge behavior.
Variance, Hot/Cold Streaks, and Probability
- Accept variance; short-term results are noisy; use internal process metrics short term.
- Hot-hand fallacy is nuanced: your state can improve odds marginally; press when truly “in sync.”
- In drawdown, either maintain size if confidence stable, or size down to rebuild clarity.
Risk, Sizing, and Scaling
- Standardized risk can control emotions but limits flexibility.
- Size A+ setups larger than B; sometimes stop taking B setups if confidence is fragile.
- Take breaks on hot streaks to avoid overconfidence-driven drawdowns.
Confidence
- Confidence is an emotion reflecting perceived skills/edge; can be inaccurate.
- Overconfidence often arises from under-skill and illusion of control.
- System quality outranks confidence; make confidence more accurate via honest data and corrections.
Stoicism, Corrections, and Band-Aids
- Stoicism/meditation are short-term crutches to stay functional.
- Diagnose root flaws (perfectionism, expectations, competitiveness) and build durable corrections.
- Train new beliefs into procedural memory; frees bandwidth for market perception.
Social Media and Dopamine
- Ultra-processed content degrades internal state; increases volatility and drains focus.
- Curate intake; schedule real breaks; avoid filling breaks with feeds.
- Dopamine is a resource for focus; replenish by boredom tolerance, structured breaks, reduced seeking.
Aligning System With Psychology
- Adjust timeframes and trade management to fit temperament (e.g., quick BE for loss-averse).
- Recognize limits; overengineering around flaws can cap growth; use temporary adjustments to regain momentum.
- Physical, mental, emotional energy gating access to intuition; manage energy first.
Neediness and Life Constraints
- Trading from financial need often harms performance; be realistic about time/energy limits.
- Adapt style to life (e.g., swing with day-trade logic) to reduce decision load and fatigue.
Prop Firms: Tool and Traps
- Use prop firms as incubation to become independently profitable; long-term perspective.
- Discipline benefits exist, but avoid easy reset buttons; gambling mentality erodes skill.
- Leaderboards/certificates can inflame biases; focus on process and future skill requirements.
Key Terms & Definitions
- Emotional Control Center: Higher-brain function for regulating emotion; degrades under high arousal.
- Unconscious Competence (Instinct): Automatic execution of known skills; no new learning.
- Intuition: Unconscious detection of new patterns; requires foundational knowledge.
- Procedural Memory: Deep, nonverbalized skill memory below emotional systems.
- Illusion of Control: Overestimating influence on results; drives overconfidence.
- Positive Edge: Strategy expected value > 0 after costs (e.g., rake, slippage).
Action Items / Next Steps
- Map your optimal arousal zone; define personal markers for over/under-activation.
- Create a two-column profile: real intuition markers vs emotional masquerade markers.
- Build an “intuition test” sub-account; log signals, state markers, outcomes.
- Journal causes, not just feelings: identify expectations, biases, illusions driving spikes.
- Standardize A/B setup taxonomy with sizing rules; remove B setups during fragile periods.
- Institute 1–2 minute off-screen breaks each 15–60 minutes; no feeds during breaks.
- Curate social inputs; timebox consumption; practice short “boredom reps.”
- Define a drawdown protocol: size-down thresholds, process metrics, scheduled recovery breaks.
- For prop firm users: ban intra-day resets; commit to dig-out plans; track skills for post-funding stages.
- Conduct periodic system–temperament alignment reviews; adjust timeframes/management as needed.
Structured Concepts Summary
| Concept | Definition/Principle | Practical Markers/Rules | Implication |
|---|
| Optimal Emotion Zone | Balanced arousal supports execution | Flat = bored/tired; Overamped = FOMO, revenge | Personalize target state |
| Emotional Hijack | High emotion weakens control centers | Awareness with paralysis, train to step away | Prevent revenge cycles |
| Instinct vs Intuition | Instinct repeats; intuition detects new | Instinct = automatic; Intuition = calm aha | Separate signals in logs |
| Masquerading Emotion | Fear posing as intuition | Tight chest, shallow breath, urgency | Counter-signal behavior |
| Procedural Memory | Deep skills below emotion system | Requires time, reps under pressure | Backtesting insufficient |
| Variance Framing | One trade = one play, not game | Process metrics > short-term P/L | Reduces overreaction |
| Hot-Hand (State) | State can marginally raise odds | Press when genuinely “in sync” | Avoid overconfidence jumps |
| Risk Sizing | Size by setup quality and state | A+ > B; pause B in fragile confidence | Maximize expectancy |
| Confidence Accuracy | Emotion reflecting perceived skill | Journal illusions (control, certainty) | Stabilize confidence |
| Stoic Band-Aids | Short-term control aids | Pair with root-cause corrections | Free bandwidth long term |
| Dopamine Hygiene | Resource for focus and access | Curated inputs; boredom tolerance | Better intuition access |
| Prop Firm Discipline | Constraints as training | No reset gambling; dig-out plans | Build skills for independence |