Benefits and Challenges of Deleting Social Media

Jul 20, 2024

Lecture on Deleting Social Media

Personal Experience

  • Deleting social media is challenging.
  • Fear of missing out on news and friends' activities led to hesitation.
  • Rationalized that missing out might not be so bad (recognized they had few friends).

Initial Impact of Deletion

  • Felt weird initially, started scrolling through other apps (Gmail, photos).
  • Realization: Scrolling is a coping mechanism for boredom.
  • Decided to physically distance from the phone to avoid compulsive usage.
  • Experienced boredom but saw it as an opportunity.

Positive Changes and New Activities

  • Boredom spurred exploration of new activities:
    • More outdoor walks (up to 6 times a day with the dog).
    • Indoor activities (tidying up, journaling, family board games).
  • Reminisced about childhood excitement and rediscovered simple joys.

Increased Productivity and Self-Connection

  • Significant boost in productivity without the phone.
  • Realized the extent of phone's power and time it consumes daily.
  • Emphasized how the phone affects productivity, procrastination, and distractions.
  • Found peace and self-connection by minimizing phone use.

Mental Battle and Overcoming Challenges

  • Acknowledged the mental battle in putting the phone away.
  • Felt rejuvenated, like experiencing the world anew.
  • Described peaceful solitary experiences (e.g., visiting parks alone).

Reflection on Social Media Consumption

  • Criticized the quality of content on social media (e.g., Instagram, Facebook, Twitter).
  • Noted the addictive and often meaningless nature of social media content.
  • Emphasized the importance of a digital detox for mental reset and better life control.

Conclusion

  • While difficult, deleting social media was ultimately worthwhile.
  • Encouraged others to try reducing screen time for better productivity and mental clarity.
  • Asked for audience feedback and aimed for increased subscribers.