Five Strategies to Make Men Chase You

Introduction

• Exploring what men truly want and how to get them to chase you.
• Discussing five practical strategies.

1. Ignore Him

• Tactic: Ignore his calls, texts, DMs (TikTok, Instagram, Snapchat).
• Reasoning: Men are more attracted to women who are less attainable.
  • Speaking frequently makes you appear attainable and less attractive.
  • A "dream girl" is unattainable; men enjoy the challenge of winning her over.
• Goal: Make his attempts to reach out without dates painful, forcing intentional action from him.

2. Manage His Anxiety

• Natural Reaction: When a woman likes a man and invests in the relationship, she wants to ease his anxiety.
• Problem: Easing his anxiety prevents him from becoming obsessed and emotionally invested.
• Solution: Allow him to feel some anxiety as it increases his emotional investment.
  • Example: If a man is anxious about your feelings, acknowledging but not fixing it increases his obsession.

3. Keep Details Vague

• Avoid Trauma Dumping: Sharing insecurities makes you seem mundane and uninteresting.
  • Example: Discussing personal flaws (like a pimple) makes them more noticeable to others.
• Reasoning: Men fall for the "dream girl" image, they project their ideal attributes onto her.
• Goal: Retain an air of mystery to allow men to project and stay interested.

4. Do Not Validate Him

• Avoid Physical Validation: Giving access to intimacy validates his efforts, reducing his interest.
• Avoid Emotional Validation: Do not overly express how much you like him, keep certain feelings to yourself.
  • Reasoning: Over-validation gives him a sense of power and reduces his need to impress you further.

5. Maintain High Standards

• Unattainable Dream Girl: Hold high standards to appear unapproachable, making men work to gain access.
  • Men are attracted to women they need to work for; this chase increases their interest.
• Example: Demonstrating high standards challenges him to try harder and make more effort.
  • Result: Men go crazy for women for whom they have to exert effort.

Conclusion

• These strategies aim to make men more invested and persist in chasing you by leveraging their innate tendencies and emotional responses.