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Babysitting Rules and Teenage Rebellion

Mar 31, 2025

Lecture Notes: The Babysitters Code

Introduction

  • The story revolves around unwritten rules for babysitters, particularly teenage girls.
  • Boys who babysit tend to break rules but are still loved by children.

Babysitting Rules

  • Unspoken, intuitive rules govern behavior.
  • Boyfriends may visit unless explicitly forbidden.
  • Master bedroom is always off-limits.
  • Eat what you like, but never break the seal on any bag or box.
  • Clean up evidence of your presence.
  • Consume food cautiously to avoid noticeable depletion.

Character Profile: Terri Snyder

  • Terri is an experienced and in-demand babysitter in River Run.
  • Known for adhering to babysitting rules.
  • Terri once hid evidence of overeating by packing pistachio shells in her coat.

Clients: The Morrows

  • Generous clients; trust indicated by leaving pistachios accessible.

Client: The Delafields

  • Mrs. Delafield, young and beautiful, married to Mr. Delafield, older and wealthy.
  • Unusual couple in River Run, their past and choice of residence are mysterious.
  • Mr. Delafield is often away; Mrs. Delafield hires Terri on Tuesdays.

Unusual Discoveries

  • Mrs. Delafield's underwear drawer is filled with elegant lingerie.
  • Terri discovers a small, beautiful handgun in the drawer.
  • The gun intrigues Terri and becomes part of her babysitting routine.

Mr. Delafield's Reaction

  • Mr. Delafield discovers Terri with the gun but reacts nonchalantly.
  • He insinuates Terri can keep the robe and indirectly the gun.
  • Their interaction is awkward yet uneventful.

Shifts in the Delafield Household

  • Mr. Delafield stops coming home; his absence becomes noticeable.
  • Mrs. Delafield becomes vibrant and excited about moving.
  • Terri is paid less, indicating financial changes.

Conclusion

  • Terri decides to take the gun and an emerald-green slip, feeling it enhances her.
  • She rationalizes that something making her feel beautiful should belong to her.

Themes

  • Exploration of teenage intuition and rebellion.
  • Perceptions of wealth and propriety in suburban settings.
  • The idea of beauty and possession intertwined with personal growth.

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