Five Rules For a Brighter Future

Introduction

• Observations and five rules to find and bring your spark to life

Rule 1: Go After the Things You Want

• Story: Friend and I at a Central Park run event with free bagels.
• Two perspectives: seeing what you want vs. seeing the obstacles.
• Lesson: You don’t have to follow the traditional path; find a way to get what you want without hindering others.

Rule 2: Take Accountability

• Historical Example: 18th-century Puerperal fever and the medical community’s reluctance to accept handwashing.
• Lesson: Sometimes you’re the problem. Take responsibility for both successes and failures.

Rule 3: Take Care of Each Other

• Illustration: U.S. Navy SEALs and who makes it through their selection process.
• Lesson: Success comes from helping those around you. Learn to ask for and accept help.

Rule 4: Be the Last to Speak

• Example: Nelson Mandela’s leadership approach in tribal meetings.
• Lesson: Listen fully to others before sharing your own opinion.

Rule 5: Stay Humble

• Story: A former Undersecretary of Defense’s realization about the perks of his position.
• Lesson: Perks are for the position, not the person. Stay humble and grateful.