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Islamic Views on Attraction and Marriage

here's a question for the men who are watching suppose you're walking down the street and you see a beautiful woman what do you do some of you are thinking well i'd ask for her number or try out my awesome new pickup line yo baby how you like your eggs in the morning scrambled or fertilized but what if you're already married what do you do then do you still ask for her number or use a lame pickup line alright here i am what are your other two wishes if so then you're a total dirtbag unless you believe in the quran which allows men to have up to four wives in that case you could already be married and still approach a woman as a second or third or fourth wife so you could ask her for her number or try out an islamic pickup line are you sure you're not the prophet because you robbed my heart yo girl you want to share my prayer rug girl i know you're a muslim because your body is slamming are you sure you're not the shaytan because you fell from jenna yo girl i know i'm only allowed to marry four but you're a ten i like your burka i'm wondering if i could talk you out of it girl i need to break my fast can i have a date are you sure you're not the black stone because i just want to give you a big slobbery kiss but suppose you're a muslim and you've already massively exceeded the four wife limit suppose you already have nine or eleven wives not to mention multiple sex slaves you're walking down the street and you see a beautiful woman what do you do fortunately for us the prophet of islam has the answer he always does doesn't he sahih muslim 3407. it was narrated from jabber that the messenger of allah saw a woman then he came to his wife zainab who was tanning a leather and fulfilled his desire then he went out to his companions and said a woman comes in the form of a devil and goes in the form of a devil if one of you sees a woman let him go to his wife for that will repel what he feels in his heart now what does muhammad mean when he says that having sex with his wife will repel what he feels in his heart i think it's obvious but he elaborates in sahih muslim 3409 jabber said i heard the prophet say if one of you likes a woman and feels attracted to her let him go to his wife and have intercourse with her for that will repel what is in his heart so muhammad saw a woman and he was attracted to her sexually so he went to zainab's house she was busy working but muhammad made her stop what she was doing so that he could have sex with her then he went and told his followers that a woman comes in the form of a devil and goes in the form of a devil and that if a man sees a woman and is attracted to her he should run home and have sex with his wife because that will help alleviate his sexual desire all right there's a lot to think about here let me share my thoughts first take a look at the chapter heading for these hadiths recommendation to the one who sees a woman and is attracted to her to go to his wife or slave woman and have intercourse with her again this is about muhammad history's greatest moral example being sexually aroused by a woman and then running to zainab to quote fulfill his desire notice that a man can run home either to his wife or to his slave girl yes islam allows men to have sex slaves but david i thought that islam abolished slavery well islam did abolish slavery in one particular area fantasyland here on planet reality muhammad and his followers bought owned sold and traded slaves and they had sex with them second how much self-control and willpower did the prophet of islam have if he couldn't see a woman walking down the street without running back to zainab's house and saying stop what you're doing there's an emergency in my though i need you to get into the bedroom because i can't stop thinking about this sexy woman i just saw to be fair i think that if you don't have much self-control or willpower and you become sexually aroused while running some errands you should go to your wife instead of sitting around obsessing over the woman you saw but think about this how many women do you walk by every day probably a lot do you have to run home every time you see a woman and keep in mind muhammad saw a woman in 7th century medina she would have been dressed pretty conservatively but muhammad still couldn't control himself this means of course that you and i and pretty much everyone we know have far far more self-control sexual self-control than the greatest man who ever lived third on this particular occasion notice which house muhammad went to he went to zainab to fulfill his desire who was zainab zainib was the former wife of muhammad's adopted son zayd one day when muhammad went to visit his adopted son zaid he was greeted by zayd's wife zainab who was wearing very little clothing what happened next we read in the history of october volume 8 page 2 she jumped up in haste and excited the admiration of the messenger of god so that he turned away murmuring something that could scarcely be understood however he did say overtly glory be to god the almighty glory be to god who causes hearts to turn what do you think the narrator means when he says that zainab excited the admiration of muhammad long story short muhammad's adopted son zayd heard that his adopted father slash prophet was lusting after his wife so he divorced her so that muhammad could have her people complained about muhammad marrying the wife of his own adopted son so muhammad abolished adoption in islam what a prophet putting all of this together muhammad saw a woman walking down the street and he started lusting after her so he ran to the house of zainab a woman he married after breaking up her marriage by lusting after her wow no wonder allah says in surah 33 verse 21 of the quran that muhammad is a wonderful pattern of conduct he sure sounds like one fourth when muhammad saw this woman walking down the street and he had to run to zainab for some relief he already had somewhere between 9 and 11 wives not counting his sex slaves and muslim sources report that he would have sex with all of his wives in one day sahil bukhari 5068 narrated anas the prophet used to go around have sexual relations with all his wives in one night and he had nine wives sahih bukhari 5215 narrated anas bin malik the prophet used to pass by and sexual relation with all his wives in one night and at that time he had nine wives side note check out the chapter heading whoever had sexual intercourse with all his wives and then took one bath only yes history's greatest man would have sex with nine women but would only take one bath can you imagine what he would smell like when he was climbing on top of poor wife number nine this is a law's pattern of conduct sahil bukhari 268 narrated qatar honest bin malik said the prophet used to visit all his wives and around during the day and night and they were 11 in number i asked hannes had the prophet the strength for it anas replied we used to say that the prophet was given the strength of thirty men and saeed said on the authority of qatar that anas had told him about nine wives only not eleven muhammad was having so much sex that his followers were bragging that he had the sexual strength of 30 men and keep in mind we're ignoring the sex he had with his slave girls and yet despite being the most over sexed man in the world he couldn't see a woman walking down the street without going into a sexual frenzy and running to one of his wives if someone were to make an accurate film about the life of muhammad it would be on a porn site fifth in islam women are required to cover themselves there's some dispute as to whether they can leave their faces uncovered or they have to cover their faces as well but think about why they need to be covered who founded this religion a man who would lose his mind when he saw a woman walking down the street so i asked the muslim women who are watching what's the real reason you cover yourselves the real reason you cover yourselves is that your prophet couldn't control himself around women so he demanded that women cover themselves muslim women have been covering themselves for 14 centuries because their religion was founded by history's greatest horndog sixth to you christians who are watching can you even imagine reading something like this about jesus or about peter or about john or about paul can you even imagine having to read about jesus seeing a woman and then having to run to have sex with another woman and then saying that women are devils we don't have to deal with this because the key figures in our religion were men of integrity men of honor men of self-control not the epic pervert who stands at the center of islam thank god we don't have to follow muhammad so those were my thoughts when i read sahih muslim 3407 but over the years i've learned one thing from the comments section other people notice things that i don't so in the comments please share any additional insights you've drawn from the hadith we started with as an added bonus the apostate prophet and i agreed ahead of time that we would both make videos about this hadith we didn't confer on what we'd say in our videos beyond the passage we'd be discussing so i have no idea what he's going to say in his video let's all click the link and find out what ap has got to say about his former prophet lusting after some random woman i hope to see you there in the comments section