what's up lovers how are you doing today today I am making a video about how to make a girl wet while sitting next to her just sitting you don't gotta put your finger in her [ __ ] no not yet she's just gonna be wet just for you so just to let you know you gotta follow some steps you cannot jump ahead no because if you jump ahead you might scare her off she might feel like okay you're a little creepy it's all about the sexual tension and the vibe that you're gonna establish between you and her so in the vibe and the sexual tension is not there it's not gonna work so make sure you're not like jumping ahead and be like up you don't say that you don't do that you don't think that that's later even baby telling you yeah you don't do that one of the main secrets to build sexual tension is to actually uh not tell her act like it's a secret you don't want her to know what you're feeling for her that you're like sexually attracted to her you know it's like you know like I tell you all the time [ __ ] love [ __ ] mystery so if she doesn't feel like you're feeling her like that in the beginning she's gonna be like oh okay so maybe you know and then she's gonna start like moving by herself just because she doesn't [ __ ] know what you're thinking so that's an easy one it's like I don't know how to really explain it but it's like you gotta be a little settle you cannot be too out there telling her how you feel telling her like you would like to [ __ ] her like you cannot be like that you gotta see a flirt a little bit but not too much also another way is like make sure you compliment her sexually make sure also you tease her so she doesn't really know does he like me does he not it's kind of weird I think he does you know you got to make her a little confused so now that you know that there is some type of sexual tension what you do is number one you sit close you find a way to sit close to her where both of your arms can touch where you can touch her leg maybe when she's laughing or when you're laughing or like then maybe she can touch you she can initiate but you gotta Sit Close to her because if you're like not close there is no way to touch so for example find an excuse like maybe you guys are at a restaurant and you're sitting across from here now you want to show her something come next to her don't show her the phone like this come next to her and be like yo look at this this is crazy or you show her a meme or something something fun hopefully or funny so now that's your excuse to sit next to her you don't go over there just acting like oh can I sit next to you no no no you don't do that you're coming sit next to her with the purpose of showing something that's the lie or maybe there is an article you want her to read come next to her and you read her the article you know you're reading together like find a [ __ ] excuse but don't tell her I'm coming over because I want to build sexual tension no yes when you touch her the touch has to be settled and not like it was like force like let me grab your titty like not like that like I said if you're laughing and then it's like you can touch she can touch you so make sure you're not like obvious you kind of have to come off as like it's an accident or if you guys were already sitting next to each other then you can do the same when you want to show her something you get closer to her you make sure your arms and your legs [ __ ] touch her and that you know you had to come closer because the phone was too far or you couldn't hear each other whatever find something and then okay the trick on this one when you come and sit too close because it's gonna be called a little too close because you're touching her make sure you change the Focus right away to like what your shoulder knowing her because that's going to be like okay she's gonna that's gonna take her mind off of the fact that you're touching her you're gonna be like yeah look at this you know crazy huh and like so her mind is not on you touching her her mind is on what you're showing but at the end of the day you're still [ __ ] touching the [ __ ] the the lady number two keep her interested so now you're already sitting next to her don't get boring because as soon as you're boring as soon as there's nothing else to show she's kind of gonna be like well go back to your seat you know so make sure it stays interested that it stay fun you guys are still laughing so what I would recommend you to do is tell her a little secret hopefully it's not a big one but tell her something that you are comfortable telling and that she's not gonna look at you like a creep you know uh okay secret so now she's gonna fail that connection okay easy to me is like talking clothes because he's telling me something that he doesn't want everybody to hear so now she's feeling that uh emotional connection and she's spinning the the touch and also if you see that she's like pulling away and not like really uh taking you in you know it's because you haven't dealed enough sexual tension and she's not really comfortable around you yet so make sure like to read the signs when you know maybe you show the thing and then she's like okay and then she moves that's not a good time so that's the sign for you to back up too number three stop not talking flirty to her yes so you guys had that cool conversation now this greatly you need to move on to something that's a little flirtatious maybe you want to compliment her about something I know you guys don't like complimenting I am telling you it goes a long way and be very settled with it like you can say something like you smell great the fabric of your shirt is really nice you can say like little things your eyes are really nice you know you don't need to elaborate I know sometimes I tell you do say something about uh like you know top-notch compliment about her energy you know your energy feels amazing but you gotta be very subtle and you're gonna have to read her is that a compliment that's gonna be like to her oh okay or is she gonna be like okay you a little too close get the [ __ ] off you know you gotta read the [ __ ] then after that you just keep the conversation casual you know you drop a little flirt here and there you know not too too much but a little so she knows like yo we're not gonna be friends like there's I'm trying to do something here number four touch her fingers yes you gotta be settled everything I'm telling you today is [ __ ] settle it's not like okay number one is this number two is this number four [ __ ] grab her figure no you you gotta be smooth with it like being smooth is a is a quality that some men don't have so if you have that you know it's just like it goes with the flow it feels like it goes with the flow and probably for you you don't even need to think about it it's just you know what you're doing you know but touch your fingers in a subtle way for example maybe you give her your phone to hold hold this and then make sure that you're touching your hand at the same time you know you guys are gonna touch you need to touch the finger find a way or like maybe you're like oh let me see this ring and you look at her ring so you can hold her hand like yes touch your [ __ ] hand and then you can tell her oh my God your fingers are very pretty wow you know you can that's not sexual but that's still a good compliment so by now when you know you touch her hand she has like okay this [ __ ] trying to do some [ __ ] but as long as she's enjoying you as long as you're taking your time you're doing all of this in a slow manner she's just gonna be like okay what else he has in mind right now like she's gonna start thinking okay what's up another trick to touch her hand is like you can pretend that you don't have to read palms so you you hold her hand you're like let me see you know I can do that like and then you read okay I see you doing good things like big things you know you can make it funny I don't know some people would be like well I see you getting married soon you know you you say what you say and you see how she responds like you gotta know the [ __ ] a little bit number five whisper in her ears yes it's maybe other people around maybe it's loud maybe you're at the movie theater so you're trying to talk in your ear and not too loud you know maybe you have something very important to tell and you don't want anybody else to hear you gotta find a way maybe you are the club maybe you are the bar it's too loud you need to talk to her in her ears like me I I don't know me I go crazy somebody talks to me but especially if I mean you don't okay what I'm gonna say you might come off creepy but if I like you it's not gonna be creepy so you gotta know if she likes you or not but if a guy talks in my ear and like grab me by the neck while he's talking in my ear yo or if his lips kind of like graze my um ear like here and they are not crazy like not baby what you're doing or like not like that but like a little bit touching yeah so make sure you read her body language because it's just like what you doing you already know this is not really good for you or if you want to be bold you could say some [ __ ] like I wish it wasn't so many people around this right now you know so now she's like oh this [ __ ] sorry it is a little bold I agree but if you build the sexual attention and if she already wants you in area she's already like yes I I'm liking this number since reach out from across her yes you guys sitting and you're like excuse me and you grab something so now your whole body is on top of her you guys are getting closer so now she's like you know in her mind if she's liking you already she's already like yo if he's on top of me like oh what is this [ __ ] gonna do to me throw me in the air jump on the deck you know she she's gonna go and have all these thoughts about you make sure when you cross over it's like touching her also when you reach over I would say try to have your arm your arm not your hand kind of like Grace on her breast yes her titties I'm telling you because it's like it's an accident I know you guys are gonna tell me sexual harassment all that [ __ ] if the [ __ ] likes you she's not gonna think it's sexual harassment she's gonna be like actually you can grab my titty right now you know so make sure the [ __ ] likes you that's always and then also when you do that play innocent like you didn't even feel it don't act like embarrassed and you're like oh I'm sorry no you're not sorry because it was intentional keep it moving you didn't even notice number seven we build her reciprocation so pretty much whatever you do if the [ __ ] likes you she's gonna start doing the same [ __ ] she's gonna start talking in your ear she's gonna start like being more next to you more like it's just I don't know it's like I was out touching a guy on my leg and then the guy kind of like was telling me I'm too close right there I know [ __ ] don't like me oh maybe oh he's not ready for me just yet I didn't build the sexual attention yet you know so or maybe he's not the type who knows but I'm telling you watch for the science like she if she likes you and if she's feeling the sexual attention and stuff she's gonna do the exact same thing you're doing to her once you see that she's doing that you just play along and then you know there is more touching there's more talking in the air there is more all that [ __ ] now when you see like she was doing some [ __ ] to you now you can maybe put your hand on her leg you know you can go a little further or put your arm on her shoulder like you know you can do a little more or maybe even if you're bored enough touch your [ __ ] face yes [ __ ] do it and number eight take it further if there is an opportunity so now she seems like I'm telling you now she's [ __ ] dripping [Music] you know now it's dripping fast in the underwear the underwear are wet wet wet she can't wait to take them off at this point so you gotta be bold talk to her in the ear touch with your lips again a little bit and tell her do you want to get out of here do you want to come back to mine find something try it if she says no but it's okay if she says okay let's go you know then you win so hopefully she's not crazy like me she's not gonna be like okay let's go you know but she was like okay just one more drink you know she's gonna find an excuse to say okay we're going to your house for a woman don't drink when you know damn well you're going to [ __ ] but yes take your shot take your shot because if you don't take it you'll never know and go home and you're like I think she like me or even sometimes she might be bored and text you yo what happened why you didn't ask me to come over or something you know girl sometime I'll just waiting for you they're ready but you guys are a little scary and you feel like no it's too soon that she's gonna say no scared of being rejected don't be like that take your [ __ ] shot if the [ __ ] says no okay it's no move on next another [ __ ] is Gonna Wanna [ __ ] that's all I have for you today so hopefully you like this video you like share comments and uh you can also follow me on Instagram at many love Excel and at Melly nah go yes all right guys I will talk to you tomorrow ah