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Ethical Dilemma of Promises in Relationships
May 29, 2025
Lecture Notes on Ethical Dilemma Regarding Promises
Background
Yvonne and Zaina: Married couple and co-founders of a non-profit aimed at curing a life-threatening disease.
Funding: Primarily from Yvonne's successful company.
Tragic Event: Yvonne is in a car accident and on her deathbed.
Yvonne's Last Wishes: 1) Continue using company funds for the non-profit. 2) Recommit to a pledge of no remarriage.
Zaina's Dilemma
Timeframe
: A decade after Yvonne's death.
Circumstances
:
Pharmaceutical companies are on the brink of discovering a cure.
Zaina has entered a new, happy relationship.
Conflict
: Balancing her promise to Yvonne with her new life and happiness.
Philosophical Perspectives on Promises
Tim Scanlon
Interpersonal Expectations
: Promises create expectations that influence plans of others.
Yvonne's Situation
: She can no longer plan, leading to a complex decision for Zaina.
John Rawls and David Hume
Preservation of Societal Values
:
Hume
: Promises signal trustworthiness; breaking promises undermines reliability.
Rawls
: Keeping promises is a matter of fairness; upholding social practices is a justice issue.
Relevance to Zaina's Case
: Does societal value apply to promises made to the deceased?
Coercion and Duress
Most philosophers agree that coercion or deceit voids promises.
Questioning the nature of Zaina's promise to Yvonne under duress of death.
Yvonne’s requests were not threatening, raising legitimacy issues.
Self-Determination Perspective
John Locke
Natural Right to Self-Ownership
: People have rights that limit others' influence over their choices.
Promises may not override Zaina's right to make personal choices, including remarriage.
Yvonne's Rights and Legacy
Authority Over Legacy
: Legal protections for the deceased may influence how Zaina should handle Yvonne's funds.
Zaina's belief: Yvonne would want funds to go where they are most needed.
Identity Considerations
Feminist Philosophers (Natalie Stoljar & Catriona Mackenzie)
Identity Construction
: Our identities are shaped by societal relationships.
Zaina’s identity is intertwined with her marriage to Yvonne; honoring promises can affirm her identity.
Conclusion
Zaina's Position
: Complex interplay between personal happiness, commitment to Yvonne, and societal implications.
Final Reflection
: What would you do in Zaina’s situation?
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