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Traditional Roles of Women in Households

foreign we're back with another edition of 15 minutes with the captains and today we're going to talk about you Wicked lazy women that don't like to take care of your house they don't like to clean your house so watch this give me some rock chapter 25 start at verse 16. it's the book of Sirah chapter 25 and verse 16. I had rather dwell with a lion and a dragon than to keep house with a wicked you know what the Bible says the Bible says I'd rather dwell with a lion and a dragon these are two animals that will destroy you that will kill you the Bible says I'd rather dwell with them than a than than to keep house with a Wicked Woman and now watch this read on it's going it's going it's gonna go into it a little bit because this is what you gotta understand about you Wicked lazy women and and normally them be the sisters that the lazy sisters the sisters that don't like to clean their house the sisters that don't like to uh cook the food for their husband that all they want to do is go get a Happy Meal McDonald's things of that nature these be the loud mouth ratchet ghetto women that all they do is this is the type of sister we read about that's why the Bible says I'd rather dwell with a lion and a dragon than to keep house with a Wicked Woman read on verse 17 the wickedness of a woman changes her face and darkeneth her countenance like sackcloth her husband shall sit among his neighbors and when he heareth it shall side guess what a brother that has a sister like this a type of woman like this that she lazy she she she useless in the house here it is he go to he go to work he work he busts his behind 16 hours to make sure that the bills is paid that there's money to buy food to come home to a filthy dirty house guess what it says this type of brother with this type of woman when he around his neighbors when he around his his friends his Circle it says he sized bitterly like wow here she goes whenever she come around he like this is what this woman ah you know my damn nerves that's how I would be read on all wickedness is but little to the wickedness of a woman the Bible says there's all wickedness is but little to the wickedness of a woman Rita let the portion of a sinner fall upon her come on as the climbing up a Sandy way is to the feet of the age so is a wife full of words to a quiet guess what then be the ones that's full of words if you if you typically examine the one though the sisters that got all mouth always got something to say clap backs disrespectful all they want to do is argue and and contention then be the ones that's lazy that don't want to clean their house that don't want to take care of their house they don't give a damn about how their kids is dressed they let bet and MTV uh raise their kids them usually be the sisters with that with that type of map with a mouth on them that usually is their attributes you see it all the time the Instagram models freaking Facebook uh uh uh uh models all they wanted they always on social media all the time uh uh and they look good and we're gonna and we're gonna read that they look they look good this is she beautiful she bad them usually be the ones not saying all of them but typically them were the ones that are lazy no good women and they full of words a mouth that's why scriptures say it as a climbing up of as the climbing up a Sandy way is to the feet of the age meaning an old man trying to climb up a Sandy Hill that it's impossible to deal with he fall he it's unbearable so is the wife full of words to a quiet man watch this read on stumble not at the beauty of a woman that's why the Bible tells you do not stumble at the beauty of a woman because a lot of times Brothers will get caught up with no good useless because that's what you are you useless women because of the beauty of how they look how they appear everything ain't sweet yeah it might look good on the outside all kept together I'm telling you a lot of times the sisters that that go above and beyond with the makeup and not now don't get it I'm not saying that is anything wrong with sisters wearing makeup there's nothing wrong with sisters wanting to be beautiful I understand that but when you really examine a lot of times the sisters that go above and beyond with trying to make themselves appear to be beautiful that's why it's called make up because you're making up a face a lot of times when they go above and beyond especially you see it all the time on Instagram Facebook Twitter Tick Tock them usually the ones that's all like that usually they the ones that got all the issues usually they the one they stink they got all the issues at home they house stink they they they they the clothes ain't never washed the the uh the house is always a mess because they always on social media they always on Instagram but when you see the pictures you'll be like dang she she put together she nice oh she she look like she smells sweet tell you that's why the Bible says stumble not at the beauty of a woman come on and desire her not for pleasure because you see that beauty and you see all that and instantly what happens you start Desiring her for pleasure now realize that that's a whole demon because she ain't been taught right she ain't been trained right she ain't been taught how to guide her house I understand his sisters understand this yes you do not know how to guide a house you do not know how to raise children you do not know how to love your husband you have to be taught that understand that and guess what in America here in Babylon we our sisters ain't been taught that give me that uh uh Ezekiel 16 44. because this is what you got to understand and a lot of women trip up on this just like your mother was was guess what nine times out of ten you're that same way and a lot of sisters even come into this truth with that same baggage not realizing that just just look at your mama look at how she move and how she deal and how she how she uh conducts herself a lot of times out of 10 you have those same traits you have those same attributes and then when you come into this truth instead of acknowledging that instead of acknowledging that yeah my mama wasn't no good and I probably ain't either I need to change you deny it and guess what you bring that same garbage into this truth and you do this you don't you do the same thing your mother did give me that uh Ezekiel 16 44. The Book of Ezekiel chapter 16 and verse 44 behold everyone that uses Proverbs shall use this proverb against thee come on saying as is the mother so is her daughter as is the mother so is the daughter understand that it's a cycle just like your mother was guess what you're gonna be and guess what just like you are your daughter is going to be so when you come into this truth when you come into this knowledge understanding that yeah uh I don't I don't know how to raise children I wasn't properly taught how to raise children I wasn't properly taught how to clean a house how to guide a household how to direct my house to write how to move as a uh proverbs 31 because I said say that yeah I'm a proverbs 31 Shalom daughter of Sarah a lot of y'all be full of BS full of full of dung because you ain't moving like a proverbs 31 and we're going matter of fact give me that get Proverbs 31. let's let's get some examples of how women actually conducted themselves in the scriptures because our sisters have to be taught how to love their husbands how to love uh how to be keepers at home matter of fact before you get proverbs 31 get that in Titus Titus 2. because I'm quoting it let's get the scripture get Titus 2 uh start at verse three because understanding sisters coming out coming into the uh uh and the truth out the world you ain't know I understand I don't care how good you think your mother was I don't care how how the right you think they are there are some levels that you ain't get right and you have to be taught according to the scriptures now you do have some women that yeah they might have certain standards uh uh and there's good there's certain things that you learn uh uh like you see a lot of northern kingdom how the the women uh moved a certain type of way they were keepers at home so yeah those are good attributes that you bring into the truth but many of our sisters that that's not that's not every occasion that's not something that is as common amongst our people especially Judah many of y'all were raised to be ratchet black women and that's just the truth that's that's society and guess what you come into this truth and you're raising your daughters to be the same way but watch this Titus 2. verse three the book of Titus Chapter 2 and verse 3 the age woman likewise that they be in Behavior as cometh becometh Holiness understand this it says that aged woman the Aged woman in this context is that senior system that sister that's been in this truth laboring she's an age woman that senior sister this ain't talking about your Grandmama because many of y'all grandmamas is wicked as hell I know my I know for sure my Grandmama I I remember I try to go to him like Grandma you know you're supposed to wear be wearing uh pants you didn't even come up wearing dress she's like yeah I know but I worked hard to get these pants on I don't care what that Bible say I'm wearing these pants a lot of y'all grandmamas is wicked as hell so that ain't the age woman some of y'all sisters be counseling with your grandmamas and your Mamas and wonder why your house is all jacked up wondering why you got all these issues because you ain't going to an aged woman according to the Bible because the Aged woman according to the Bible is that senior sister that's been applying God's Commandments you can you can look at her and see okay yeah she's drinking to her house of white her kids is in order you go to her house her house is in order so the age woman is talking about that that that elder sister that senior sister that's been laboring and keeping God's Commandments read on this is the age woman the age woman likewise that they be in Behavior as becometh Holiness because the age woman is supposed to be in behavior is coming Holiness Holiness according to the Bible is keeping God's Commandments come on not false accusers not giving too much wine not drunk or three teachers of good things that's what that age woman is going to be a teacher of good things read on that they may teach the young woman to be soaked because guess what the age woman it's supposed to teach the young women to be sober right to love their husbands to love their husbands this goes back to what I I was saying you have to be taught how to love your husband right to love their children you have to be taught how to love your children Society has not taught you how to love your husband Society has not taught you how to love your children that's why you see our our community is jacked up the way it is because we've been taught the opposite we've been our sisters have been taught how to hate their husbands how to hate their children read them to be discreet chase our sisters have not taught been taught how to be discreet and chaste meaning protect your virginity protect uh sexual morality how how to not be a thought and uh and and a you know keepers at home keepers at home our sisters have to be taught how to be keeper at home how to maintain how to keep your house in order how to hold the fort down and guess what sister that that includes you cleaning the house that includes you uh making sure the kids is in order they got clothes there's certain things is done making sure food is prepared and we're gonna read that when we go to proverbs 31 because that is a Proverbs 31 Woman she knows how to hold it down at home she ain't lazy she ain't idle she's she ain't sitting at home on Facebook and Tick Tock all damn day while her husband is at work busting his behind to make sure food is on the tape to make sure the bills are paid while you at home ain't doing Jack Swag then as soon as the husband get home all you do is run in your mouth you're a Wicked Woman Reno good obedient to their own husbands sisters you have to be taught how to be obedient to your husband and you're going to learn that from the sisters that are doing it Reno that the word of God be not blasphemy so now watch this give me proverbs 10. proverb not proverbs 10 proverbs 31 I'm sorry proverbs 31 because a lot of sisters say I'm a Proverbs 31 Woman let's let's dive into Proverbs 31. because this is the medicine that that you sisters need and if you apply the scriptures then you'll you'll make that change but if you were evil Wicked Woman guess what God going to destroy you so it's time to change stop being lazy and shiftless and clean your house proverbs 31. The Book of Proverbs chapter 31 and verse 10. who can find a virtuous woman for her price is far above remember the Bible says says who can find a virtuous woman her price is far above rubies because what you're going to understand a virtuous woman is hard to find and her price is up there it's ARB of rubies read on the heart of her husband to a safely trust in her guess what this type of assistant this type of woman a proverbs 31 her husband safely trusting her Reno so that he shall have no need of spoil he have no need of spoils he ain't out looking around come tell you that that the NAT the nagging ungrateful woman is usually the one that ain't her stuff ain't together because she idle she said no Tick Tock all day looking at everybody else's relationship sitting on Facebook all day a Proverbs 31 Woman the heart of her husband safely trusted her where he ain't worried about nothing he know everything gonna be held down so he can go out and do what he got to do to make sure everything is together Deacon did a class uh uh um basically and he mentioned about why things usually are rocky why things aren't going the way they're supposed to in a marriage is because of a role uh identity uh displacement I probably butchered it but basically though you're confused on what your role is and usually sisters that you see are lazy that uh don't want to clean their house they got it confused on what their role really is and usually those are the ones that have a problem with submission they they always nagging their husband they always talking back to their husband and they they have submission issues watch this read-on she will do him good she will do him good and not evil all the days this type of sister would do her husband good and not evil all the days of her life this type of sister she knows her husband been at work all day when he come home he ain't gonna have to worry about nothing the house is going to be clean the the everything's gonna be took to put together food gonna be ready cause she know yeah my husband just got through working so uh doing his role so let me make sure my role and my duties is handled on our end so that there's peace in the home because remember sisters you're supposed to be a pillar of rest your desire is supposed to be unto your husband you're supposed to submit unto him as unto the Lord so that's your role in duty but whenever there's confusion whenever thing when when things when you have role identity when you confused on what your role is that's where you got issues and problems watch this jump down the verse uh uh 27 watch this verse 27. when you get a chance read the all of Proverbs 31 10 and down and that's going to give you an example but we're going to skip around for time's sake give me a verse 27. proverbs 31 and verse 27 she looketh well to to the ways of her household it says this type of woman looking well to the ways of her household right and it is not the bread of idleness this type of sustain Idol she ain't sitting around she ain't sitting around while the clothes is piling up uh like you know you got to do laundry she ain't did laundry in two three weeks I think I'm exaggerating this is real stuff she ain't did laundry in two three weeks it's going on a month clothes is piling up she's sitting on Facebook Tick Tock that ain't this type of sister that ain't a proverbs 31 she don't eat the bread of idleness she sees what what's got to be done and she and she handles it she looks as well to her house hold that give me sirach 26 and 16. it says she looked as well to the ways of her household chain Idol so if you say your proverbs 31 system if you're Proverbs 31 Woman this is what you're going to be doing and if you ain't doing this you ain't a Proverbs 31 Woman give me that to rock 26 read verse 16. the book of sirach chapter 26 and verse 16. as the sun when it arises in the high heaven so is the beauty of a good wife in The Ordering of her house the Bible says it is a beautiful thing Society has made our sisters believe that is is is on is uh evil is uh disgusting to be a housewife to be so uh someone that is at home a husband uh takes care of you and all you do is make sure the house is in order Society has made you think that that is a vile evil thing the Bible said it is a beautiful thing read that again as the sun when it arises in the high heaven listen you y'all seen a sunrise you sitting back you see the sunrise it's beautiful you're like dang that's bad right there that's beautiful it says just like that read so is the beauty of a good wife in The Ordering of her the beauty of a good wife in The Ordering of her house because a lot of sisters don't realize the house is that's your domain that's where you get to set things in order and things of that nature okay I'm gonna make sure the house is I want I want the house clean like this I want the clothes put over there all right the dishes gonna be like this all right look the kids clothes gonna be over here all right no y'all don't do you got the kids in order you're like no you don't do this you know that if you want to order something if you want to run something run your house make sure your house is clean that's where you need a robot a lot of times is when it gets that that road identity confusion that you that you you want to you want to play role reversal you wanna you wanna be the head you want to run everything nah that ain't what the Bible that ain't how the Bible uh that ain't how God created you so run your house read that verse again as the sun when it arises in the high heaven so is the beauty of a good wife in The Ordering of her house so go back proverbs 31. this right here is medicine for the soul and if you apply it guess what you're gonna get the kingdom you're gonna have peace in your household ultimately that's that's that's that's that's how you do it everyone has to remain in their role now yeah there's gonna be troubles In the Flesh yeah there's gonna be certain things that happen but it ain't gonna be to the magnitude of what some people are dealing with to where you got P wrong identity confusion you you confused on what your role is supposed to be no you supposed to be the keeper of home you're supposed to order your house you're supposed to be a good wife that takes care that ain't lazy that ain't idle go back proverbs 31 readiverse Again The Book of Proverbs chapter 31 and verse 27 she looketh well to the ways of her household and eateth not the bread of idleness watch this get us sirach 34-27. let's get some muscle Rock 34 and 27 because ultimately that's why nine times out of ten when you examine sisters that have these issues that can't keep the house clean that can't keep up with their role a lot of them they will always say I'm overwhelmed or I I I it's just so much nine times out of ten they really ain't doing nothing nine times out of ten they on social media all day they got the time they're just on YouTube all day social media all day they ain't doing their Idol they're idle watch this uh Sorak 34 27. 33 I mean yeah 33 27 I'm sorry the book of sirach chapter 33 and verse 27. send him to labor that he be not idle come on for idleness teacheth much evil idleness teaches evil understand that's not Satan get you Satan wants you to be idle Satan want you on Tick Tock all day say you won't tell you that that Tick Tock it's a device that is so The Tick Tock is of the devil I I ain't gonna lie yes the Lord is using it for good and we're going we're going to use it but for a lot of people some of y'all need to stay off Tick Tock because I'm telling you get on Tick Tock and two hours later you you'll look up you'll blink in two hours is gone you're like what the hell happened you don't scroll through about 200 videos and that idleness breathes wickedness read that bottom part again for idleness teacheth much evil come on set him to work that's why the Bible says set him to work that you be not idle idleness teacheth much evil that's why I go back to proverbs 31 this is that's why the Proverbs 31 Woman she don't eat the bread of idleness because that sister has wisdom she has understand she understands that idleness it's gonna breed evil so let me get on my job so I ain't idle same thing you see how we Brothers move the brothers is moving and shaking they ain't caught up in a bunch of BS why because you have the understanding that when you're idle when you eat the bread of idleness is going to produce evil because you ain't moving your mind ain't moving you idle give me that Proverbs chapter 31 and verse 27 come on she looketh well to the ways of her household and eateth not the bread of iron this type of sister don't eat the bread of idleness give me uh Proverbs 14 1. Proverbs 13 and 1. The Book of Proverbs Chapter 13 and verse 1. come on a wise son heareth his father's instruction but a scorner here is not verse 14 and 1 14. The Book of Proverbs Chapter 14 and verse 1. every wise woman buildeth her house the idea what the Bible says every wise woman will build her house right but the foolish plucketh it down that's what a lot of sisters don't realize you are foolish women because you're plucking your house because think about it oh man uh uh a man is only going to take so much a man is only going to walk into his house being dirty so many times a man is only going to walk in now I'm not justifying a man snapping or going crazy but a lot of times you sisters y'all beat it down y'all be pushing Brothers to the brink a man is only going to walk into his is only going to work 16 hour days to walk in to his house in chaos and dirty uh food all over the foe clothes everywhere kids all jacked up a man is only gonna do that so much before he snaps now righteous brother he he he's going to know how to deal with it and deal with it right but understand that sister you foolish sisters all you're doing is plucking your house up read that verse again every wise woman buildeth her house so a woman that is wise a woman that has wisdom and understanding guess what she gonna do she gonna make sure she's doing what she got to do to to build her house up to make sure she's that pillar of rest she's at peace when her husband comes home everything's in order everything is aligned to write and guess what if she don't know how to do it or if she she needs help guess what she gonna go to that age woman she's gonna go seek counsel on how to make it happen because she understands I'm lacking in this area so obviously I need help so let me let me let me go counsel with the sisters and maybe something I don't see or maybe they have some some things that I can Implement that I can do so that I can build on my house and build my house up and be that pillow arrest to my husband you know but the foolish plucketh it down with her hand but a foolish woman she gonna continue to be on Tick Tock she gonna continue to be on Instagram she's gonna continue to nag nag at her husband and she gonna continue to think that I I'm right I don't do nothing wrong and I'm just so overwhelmed and I just can't do it and guess what she's gonna pluck her house up next thing you know her husband gonna be gone or her husband gonna she gonna push her husband to the brink to where he commit adultery or he go find another woman I understand that now I'm not justifying it but that's what happens we see it over and over and over again that's what happens watch this uh give me give me first timothies chapter 5 verse 14. teen let's get some more first Timothy's 5 verse 14. the book of First Timothy Chapter 5 and verse 14. come on I will therefore that the younger woman Mary bear children guide the house you should read it over and over and over because a lot of y'all sisters come up out of Babylon thinking that I'm telling you Society has our sisters thinking that that's not how our four mothers roll that's not how a woman is supposed to roll you're supposed to be an independent you can't tell me nothing woman will know when you examine the Bible our four mothers always guided their houses they were keepers at home they took care of the house read the verse again I will therefore that the younger women marry bear children guide the house I would that the younger women marry bear children guide the house really give none occasion to the adversary to speak reproach and you're not supposed to give no occasion for the adversary to speak reproach everything's supposed to ain't nobody supposed to be able to see hoes in your house when people come to your house they're supposed to be to see it not to saying that they ain't gonna be problems and issues because there will be but our wise woman our righteous woman she gonna make sure every her eyes is dotted and teases cross and however she got to attain it she gonna do it under the guidance of her husband because her husband is walking how he's supposed to be I understand that so watch this that's crazy give me Hebrews two Hebrews two and one I'm gonna do with this Hebrews chapter 2 and verse 1. the book of Hebrews chapter 2 and verse one therefore we ought to give the more Earnest heed to the things which we have heard lest at any time we should let him slip so I pray I got some understanding out of today's 15 minutes with the captains apply what is written in the scriptures that's what's going better your household understand what Hebrews 2 is saying meditate on this study on this so that these things don't slip and with that we say shalom foreign [Music] [Applause] [Music] [Music] [Music] Nations [Music] [Music] [Applause]