[Music] this session reveals the power of honoring those placed under your authority john shows how wives children and employees can be positioned to flourish when they're under life-enhancing leadership and now session 10 honoring entrusted ones part one you guys are amazing yes jesus we love you so much and thank you for what you've been giving to us you know um those of you that are watching these guys are excited about what god has been given to us all right and we're just a bunch of excited people about the word of god around here all right come on now well let me say this welcome to session number 10. i can't believe it we're on 10 already all right and this session now we're finally getting into those who are entrusted to us so this is those who are entrusted to us part one are you ready go ahead and be seated we'll get right into the word now i want you to open up your bibles to psalm 127. i'm going to start and you know what let's save time put a marker in proverbs 13. so open up we're going to start in psalm 127 but before we even touch psalm 127 look up at me i'm going to do a little review matthew chapter 10 you've heard the scripture so much i'm just going to read it to you chapter 10 verse 40 through 42 jesus said he who honors you honors me now remember i am changing the word receives into honors because part of receiving is to honor correct correct he who honors you honors me and he who honors me honors him who sent me he who honors the prophet in the name of a prophet shall receive a prophet's reward that's person in authority we have talked extensively about that he who honors a righteous man in the name of a righteous man shall receive a righteous man's reward that is a person who is on our level we talked about that in the last session now listen to what he goes on to say and this is where one of my favorite parts of the whole message and whoever honors honors by giving one of these little ones everybody say little ones only a cup of cold water in the name of a disciple assuredly i say to you he shall by no means lose his reward now we turn our attention to those who are entrusted to us the persons who have been placed under our care or under our authority in scripture little ones are identified as small children or those who are entrusted to our delegated authority many little ones now listen to me carefully have been mistreated and even abused by those in authority this angers the heart of god for jesus in no uncertain terms warns us by saying this in matthew chapter 18 he said it will be terrible everybody say terrible for people who cause even one of my little followers to sin those people would be better off thrown into the deepest part of the ocean with a heavy stone tied around their neck don't be cruel to any of these little ones everybody say little ones i promise you that their angels are always with my father in heaven that scripture thereby showing that all of us have an angel that are watching over us that's a very sobering warning when jesus says it's going to be terrible you better believe it's going to be terrible why is he so stern about this i'll tell you why because god is the one who delegates authority all authority is from god we've shown that very clearly in earlier sessions from the word of god he is love and releases his authority for the purpose of love and protection everybody say authority is to love and protect if it is instead used to abuse take advantage of or harm the little ones it becomes a direct affront to him you see now wait a minute john it's a direct affront to the little one not to god oh no no no jesus said in matthew 25 verse 40. in it assuredly i say to you in as much as you did it to one of these least of these my brethren you did it to me so the way we treat those little ones those who are under our authority our children our wives the people who work for us etc right the people are in our churches is the way we're treating jesus that's a good place to say amen or ouch one of the two let me briefly um discuss in this session employment dynamics now i'm going to focus on ministry dynamics but this would apply to secular employment as well but i want to read what peter says in 1st peter chapter 5 verse 1 through 3 and this is from the amplified bible so if you don't have the amplified just keep looking up at me peter said i warn and counsel the elders among you the pastors and spiritual guides of the church as a fellow elder tend nurture guard and guide the flock of god that is your responsibility not by constraint but willingly not dishonorably everybody say dishonorably here's what dishonorably is motivated by the advantage and profits belonging to the office wow motive is a huge thing but eagerly and cheerfully not domineering as arrogant dictatorial or overbearing persons over those who are in your charge but be examples patterns and models of christian living to the flock the congregation i love that every pastor should meditate on that every minister should meditate on that every leader should meditate on that in traveling to thousands of churches over the years i've been exposed to a variety of leadership okay um you can use many different terms to describe some of the leadership that i've encountered over the you know the thousands of churches that i've been to you could say traditional leadership there's progressive leadership there's legalistic leadership there's team building leadership there's dictatorial leadership there's empowering leadership there's micromanaging leadership and the list goes on and on and on however you can narrow the existence of all leaderships into two categories and that is this life-enhancing leadership and life-draining leadership okay what makes the difference it's all found in the heart of the leader everybody say the heart the heart of the leader visionaries can approach the building of ministry one of two ways okay the dishonoring leader all right who drains life causing the little ones to stumble sees the people listen to me carefully as the vehicle to fulfill his vision did you hear what i just said the dishonoring leader sees the people as the vehicle to fulfill his vision did you get that the honoring leader all right the the life enhancing leader he's the true leader he sees his or her her vision as the vehicle to serve the people so do i need to say that again the life-damaging leader he sees the people as the means to fulfill his vision the life enhancing leader the honoring leader sees the vision as the vehicle to serve his people are you seeing that i said are you seeing that this leader honors those who is entrusted to their care it's amazing to me how heart motive in a leader will produce such different results i mean just the heart motive i've really been meditating on this lately because i've noticed in the scripture especially in the amplified bible how god says at the judgment seat our motives are going to be carefully examined everybody say motives why did you do what you do you see what i'm saying that's what peter's dealing with what i just read now you can look at the result the fruit because your fruit will show what your motives are and you know as leaders i think we should examine our fruit because jesus made a statement matthew 11 19 this is the new living translation he says wisdom is shown to be right by what results from it wisdom is shown to be right by what results from it so in other words was your motive to build your name to build your reputation build your vision to build yourself a name thereby you left dead bodies or was your motive to build a vehicle to serve people so you enhanced people and you and you built people are you with me the honoring leader will encourage the development of his people his or her greatest joy everybody say great is joy well the beat will be to see those entrusted to them as walking in intimacy with god and fulfilling and flourishing in their life callings are you with me so he wants to see two things he wants to see them in intimacy with god and he wants to see them flourishing in their life calling okay the combination of walking intimacy of god and fulfilling your life calling that combination is called this walking in truth let me say walking in truth i want you to listen what the apostle john said he said for i rejoice this is third john verse three and four he said i rejoice greatly when brethren came and testified of the truth that is in you just as you walk in the truth i have no greater joy did you hear what the apostle john said i have no greater joy than to hear that my children walk in truth what is walking in truth having intimacy with god and flourishing in your life calling the honoring leader's goal is to see the ones entrusted to his care walk in truth and go further than they've gone let me say further true fathers and mothers desire the success of their own children they want their children to go further this is why jesus said you're going to do greater works than me he set the example i want you to do greater things than i did that's the heart of jesus that should be the heart of us leaders so you really know that you're maturing into a father or a mother in a church when your desire is to see the people you're ministering to do better than you now see how saul is so opposite to that saul is threatened by david that's not the heart of jesus true fathers in the church true mothers in the church say man i want you to go further i want you to do more than i did i want you to do greater works i love this i love this man i love this the wise long-term leaders are the ones who continually pass credit for his or her success to those who serve them not superficially but from their heart okay i try to always think highly of those who are on our ministry team at messenger international we have over 50 employees i always when i think thoughts about them i make sure i never go to the negative realm i try to think positive i i i dwell on that because let me tell you something philippians chapter four verse eight this is the amplified says brethren whatever is true whatever is worthy of reverence and it's honorable everybody say honorable and seemingly whatever is just whatever is pure whatever is lovely and lovable whatever is kind and winsome and gracious if there's any virtue and excellence if there's anything worthy of praise think in way and take account of these things fix your minds on them so this is what i've learned i protect my thoughts now do i discipline do i correct oh yeah you better believe it but it's always quick it's done right but then i go right back and thinking wow what a great team i've got now i really learned this with my own wife several years ago um i was really upset with lisa and and this attitude it was building okay and it climax we had we had this argument and and and and i'm telling you i stormed out of the house and i was really really upset with lisa okay and so i i went walking to a field and she was some kind of upset with me let me tell you so i went walking to a field and and i was just like just just just just complaining about her in my mind i was complaining to god and all of a sudden i heard the holy spirit say this to me so clear he said i want you to thank me for the good characteristics of lisa i want you to think of some qualities that are good and thank me for them so the first thing i could think of one thing right away she is a great mom i said god thank you to lisa is a great mom as soon as i said it another quality came up and i said thank you that she's this then another quality came up i said thank you that she's this then another one started coming up thank you for that she's that then another one came up within 30 minutes i am like jumping up and down thinking i am married to the most amazing woman on the planet okay i'm serious now i come home i come home i come home and i remember she was in the bathroom and i walked in the bathroom i said lisa i want to thank you for this and this and this and this and this and you know what happened now i'm going to tell you the horrible way i behaved when i left probably would have taken her or any human being about a week to get over it because i was just nasty okay i'll just be honest but she immediately softened me why because from my heart i was honoring her i wasn't superficially honoring her i was honoring from my heart because why i started giving thanks you know i like to look at giving thanks as climbing a ladder i look at i like to look at complaining as falling down a slide how many of you know you go down the slide a lot faster than you climb a ladder so this is what i do with my employees with my children i may have to bring discipline and i may have to bring it quickly and swiftly and concisely but you know something my employees and even my children have said he said mom dad you know what you get angry at us and you discipline us and and it's over because because they've noticed we'll be joking with them you know 30 minutes later and and they said man you really well i said you know what i've learned this from god god really lets me have it there's i understand times i'll walk down prayer i'm gonna tell you the lord i felt like i was gonna die when he said what he said to me because he chasing me you know i was like oh but then after i go lord i am so sorry and i really repent it's like the lord said don't bring it up again because i'm kind of like cowering and the lord's like i've forgiven you it's buried in the sea of forgetfulness learn from it don't do it again but let me enjoy you now and you enjoy me so this is what i've learned with my employees if i keep a thankful heart if i think man god you've given us some great people you know what happens i'll honor them and you know what happens if i honor my employees this is what i really discovered what happens is i get a reward you know what my reward is my honoring them causes their gift to flourish in their life and you know what happens when their gift flourishes in their life it helps us fulfill the vision i'm called to do lisa is called to do are you with me so this is the funniest thing i've ever seen i've seen leaders go you know what you can't find any good people to work for you anymore i think your own mouth just answered the question for me of why you have problems and why you can't find good employees you destroy them with your own attitude then i look at leaders and i go into their church and they go man i got the best team i tell you these people are great they do things that are blowing me away and i watch those ministries they're flourishing they're coming up with creative things and i've learned i've learned from the word of god i've learned from the way god treats me and i've learned from watching some very wise pastors that i will not allow a negative thought in my mind about my employees well i've carried this over to every area of life with my children my wife because i learned it with my wife several years ago when i explained to you what just happened are you with me are you getting this oh i'll tell you this is good didn't it oh my goodness now now let me say this um i talk about it in the book about financially we need to honor those that work for us and i want you to read that in the book but i don't have time to talk about because i got to go on to children all right we're going to talk about children now everybody say children the greatest need for honor is in the home you're supposed to say amen okay in an earlier lesson we discussed the importance of children honoring their parents right well the converse is true i said the converse is true all other areas civil social and church would greatly benefit if fathers and mothers exemplified honor in their homes now this is the thing i have loved about my wife my wife understands honoring children and i'm telling you i've learned so much from lisa and the way she honors our children i'm telling you i i i know why god put me with this amazing woman because i had areas of great weakness in my life and lisa has areas of such great strength in her life and i am not listen i would not be the man i am today had it not been for release of a veer i'm going to tell you you never would have read one book by john bevere had it not been for lisa bevere and and i'm going to tell you something god has put you with mates in here that you needed you may have thought you picked her because she was pretty cute but if you were a young man who feared god and you married her let me tell you and even if you weren't and god knew one day you would fear him god said i'm gonna make sure they get hooked up right that's good preaching you know periodically i hear parents address their children in such demeaning ways it may be a father the way he speaks to us harshly to his his his tender daughter or maybe a a father criticizing the way his boy played on a field you know think about it a sports field not do i i'm very athletic i mean i love athletics thank god for athletics it kept me out of a lot of trouble when i before i met jesus um and and i think it's just great athletics you learn so many lessons in life okay through competing and uh yet but but i look at parents and they'll criticize just really let their kids have it because they didn't perform correctly on the field i think how sad it may be a mother who acts as though her children are embarrassment because they're not acting perfectly and you know i i know a woman who her father criticized her weight said hey hey turn let me let me look at you he says you're way overweight go weigh yourself you must weigh at least this and she went and weighed herself and she came back she was horrified she didn't know she had weighed that much and and he just basically gave her a lecture said you're fat and nobody's going to ask you out and you know what that behavior did from that father that caused that girl to go into anorexia and bulimia and thank god she got saved and at the age of 22 god totally healed her you know who that girl is that girl's my wife and you know what happened i i saw how how words of affirmation or or critical harsh words can destroy and ruin a person when i married lisa you know i remember when i met her she she she couldn't even fit into her wedding dress because she had gained so much weight she had such problems with food okay and i remember god totally healed her god said you go on a two feet take fast and i'm gonna show you why you have a problem food is an idol to you and you're happy you eat you're sad you're eating all this other stuff and so anyway i hope i'm saying it right and god totally healed her and i remember the day i married her she made it weighed 116 pounds and you know what's amazing i've been married at least 25 years this year she's had four of our most beautiful boys and she still weighs today 116 pounds and you know what's amazing she doesn't go to the gym really frustrates me i go to the gym and she doesn't but she doesn't go to the gym and somebody say well she's just you know genetically made up where she won't gain weight no no you have to understand this is the girl that was overweight at 21 years of age that way outgrew her wedding dress and couldn't even fit into it so genetically she it's not that it's called what well when i got married to her i just kept looking and said man you're a babe whoa are you good-looking i look at her constantly i say you know what if you would have told me 25 years ago my wife was going to look this good i would have had a party and i'm telling you because i constantly am telling her she's gorgeous she wakes up in the morning i remember the other morning i i was staring at her she was asleep and i was just staring at her beauty i was just sitting there thinking my goodness she's so beautiful she woke up and she looked at me says don't you know when people stare at you wakes you up i said i'm sorry baby i was just staring at your beauty i'm just staring at your beauty baby you know but but what happened was she got a husband who affirmed her and you know what happened it helped her flourish the bible says husbands are to what nourish and cherish nourish means you give with the person what they need to grow are you with me so if parents did their with this with their children are you getting this i said are you getting this you know parents dishonor their children not only by harsh or negative words but also by neglecting listen to me carefully by neglecting to communicate praise or acceptance at the appropriate time because how many of you know children frequently require what encouragement and direction and affirmation how many of you know that come on talk to me i hope you know that well let me say that children frequently require affirmation direction and encouragement all right they need to be told as well as shown that they are loved and valued if not chances are good to look for it in the wrong places are you with me son and daughters seek approval but if parents focus on the immature traits or flaws and they criticize those immature traits they'll send wrong message and reap the very opposite of what's needed for their children to grow and mature then you know then many times the parents will complain to their friends of their children's behavior so they got a a problem going on here they're saying you know my kids are this and this and this and this are you seeing what i'm saying and their kids end up becoming like that psalms 127 verse 3 says this you're in psalms 127. i told you open your bibles there remember i know we're just getting there now 20 minutes into the session but this is where i had your turn says behold children are a heritage everybody say heritage from the lord the fruit of the womb is a reward oh my goodness two things i want to point out here number one their heritage ever say heritage from the lord your children are heritage from the lord now listen what does heritage mean i'm gonna give you the definition from the dictionary the status conditions or character acquired by being born into a particular family or social clash class did you get that so you know what god's saying they're saying they're a heritage from the lord he doesn't say their heritage from the huge family the rockefeller family the trump family he said they are a heritage from the lord himself their status their condition their character is from the lord so the seed of his greatness is in them remember what god said i don't i hate divorce why because i want godly offspring they are a heritage the status of god is in them are you with me the social class of god is in them oh god you're getting this it is our responsibility as parents to pull it out are you with me so then they become what our reward so behold children are heritage from the lord the fruit of the room is a reward so when you've got the seat of god in them and you speak to that right and you nourish that and you water that you can get a reward how do you get the reward by honoring them every say honoring them gosh you know there's a minister i know i remember when lisa and i were young in our marriage we we heard this minister share the story he has a large congregation he said you know there was one of his board members um daughter was was just left the church and she was sleeping and living with men one man after another man after another another man and the woman came to this minister and she said my daughter is a she's a prostitute she's a harlot she's living with these men she's sleeping with them and this minister looked at her and he said the whole problem is the way you see your daughter and the way you speak over your daughter the way you see her is the way you're speaking over her you see the bible says we don't look at the things which are seen we look at the things which are not seen for the things which are seen are temporary they're subject to change but the things which are not seen the eternal truths of the word of god can never be changed are you with me i said are you with me that's second corinthians 4 8 all right so she began to speak my daughter is a disciple taught to the lord my daughter is that she began to speak the word of god over her daughter within two months that daughter was at the doorstep weeping and saying mother would you please accept me back and she was back serving the lord as of the day the minister shared that story you see the problem is parents speak into their children what they see instead of what the word of god says are you with me now this i learned from my wife i watched my wife now i'm gonna tell you when she she she was raising our our kids and they were young she would say you are a disciple taught to the lord you are an ambassador of christ you are an arrow of god are you with me and she would say this over and over again she said you know what you are born for signs and wonders because that's what isaiah says isaiah 8 to 18. she said your arrows psalm 127 verse 4. she said your disciples taught to the lord and great is your peace that's isaiah 54 13. and lisa would just speak that over them even in naming our children we were very very careful in the names that we gave them addison david is our oldest what does addison david mean beloved one worthy of trust austin michael regal one who is like god joshua alexander god saves and defends mankind arden christopher ardent and fiery one who is christ-like are you seeing this so every time we speak their names you know what we're doing we're speaking this over them are you with me i said now do we did we have opportunities to believe they were the opposite of what we were speaking you'd be naive to think we didn't okay so in our household we made the decision early that we would bring correction and discipline but when we but we would deal with the behavior and not with their character so when we discipline our children we never say them you're a bad boy none of our boys are bad boys we say that behavior was bad and you're an ambassador this is not the behavior of an ambassador are you seeing this so whenever you're dealing with your children honor them by not attacking their character discipline and bring correction ever say correction to the behavioral pattern now this leads me to another major uh a a major life lesson i learned when i was a youth pastor because because let me tell you something when when lisa and i had our two sons and they were real little toddlers we used to be horrified but like what christian parents were saying about their teenage children they were saying oh i wish we could lock them up until they were 20. they'd look at us and say oh i wish we could skip these teenage years so my wife and i are going is our kids going to turn into monsters well we realized that those people were speaking over their own children the very wrong thing they weren't speaking to the heritage they weren't speaking into the heritage to get the reward so we purposed we said our children aren't going to turn out this way we're going to love the teenage years and i'm going to tell you something i have a 20 year old sitting right here i'm looking at my 18 year old back there i have a 15 year we have a 16 15 year old now soon to be 16 and a 12 year old i mean we are enjoying the teenage years far more than the toddler years i'm saying that for me i don't know if lisa would say if she would stand up here i think she would agree with me because our children aren't absolute joy but let me tell you something i had an advantage i was a youth pastor and i got to see some things as a youth pastor when my kids were toddlers that taught me some major life lessons and one of the major life lessons i saw with parents and their teenage kids when i was a youth pastor was this parents didn't honor their children and the second thing they didn't do is correct their children now let me tell you something the bible says you spare the rod you hate your child how many of you now i'm going to interpret it this way you spare the rod you dishonor your child what happens when you honor your children you bring out the heritage so if you don't discipline your children you hate them you dishonor them you don't get the heritage now this is the thing i would sit in my office over two years week after week after week having whole families coming and sitting in my office with their teenage kids the mom and dad and these parents had this theology where they got it i don't know where that we don't discipline our children we love them out of their problems we're good christian parents we love them out of their problems i couldn't believe it those kids were a wreck they had no respect for authority they had no honor for authority okay they would speak to their parents like they were trash i remember one time sitting in my office and there's a teenage girl and she talked to her mom and dad like we were trash and i had to rebuke that girl and i'm sitting there thinking why aren't you doing this because they believed in this loving them out of their problems so this is the pattern i noticed there were parents that all they did was criticize and correct their children and their children resented their parents all the children i never saw one exception of this all the children that the parents tried to love them out of their their their their their their disobedient behavior they try to love them out of it their children hated their parents literally hated their parents and hated other authority but why don't we just listen to what god says god says i'll give you the scripture okay proverbs 13 24 he who spares his rod everybody say rod that is correction that is disciplined that is punishment hates his son or he dishonors his son but he who loves him disciplines him promptly are you getting this talk about children being a reward you know i could go on and on and on you know there's a story i give in the book and i want to tell it to you briefly solomon wrote this right because he had firsthand account of the tragedy of not disciplining honoring your children by disciplining them because david had many sons by different wives isn't that right the oldest son was ammon the third born son was absalon absalom was the son of a different wife than ammon you following me absalon has a real sister in the sense of she is the same mother of david named tamar she's very beautiful ammon has lusting after her convinces her to be able to bring food into him he rapes her then he despises her and kicks him out right tamar used to be a royal virgin a daughter of the king wore the beautiful robe of the royal virgin daughter right now she's got to live in shame in absalon's house for two years absalom waited for his dad to correct ammon and his dad did nothing nothing so now what happens the offense builds an absalon of hatred toward what ammon and his own father for not bringing correction well he satisfies because he waits silently for two years for david to bring correction he doesn't so ammon does it or epsilon does it himself throws a party and has two scoundrels kill after no has some some guys kill ammon right so he has to flee for three years he's in hiding and now the fence is growing deeper and deeper with his own father for not bringing correction and so his father finally brings them back and what does apsalon do because his his offense has not been taken care of he starts winning the hearts of israel to himself and saying if i was king i would do this and he literally stole the hearts of the men and women of israel and he turned the men and women of israel against his own father king david the man after god's heart and as a result of what he did absalom was killed absolutely killed in in the pursuit of joab and david's men and even david said do not harm him but yet he was killed now i look at this here's a daughter a daughter who was probably bitter because her dad didn't do anything here's a son who lost his life because he was murdered by some scoundrels that his brother hired and here's a young man who probably would have been king absalon who loses his life all because his dad didn't correct he who spares the rod solomon writes hates his child correction is so important that is one of the ways we honor our children is by bringing correction and i'm going to say it again my children when we bring correction let me tell you something we're stern we're swift we're concise when it's over it's over i mean man we don't go to bed with something on our hearts we make sure it's done we're laughing we're hugging if we're not laughing we're at least hugging and by the next day we're laughing again okay you understand what i'm saying but our kids know we we love them we love them love them love them and but yet we're going to protect them by disciplining them we're going to honor them by disciplining them are you with me i hope you get this all right now let me tell you about a reward ever say reward i want to tell you about the direct i'm getting lisa and i are getting to see the reward right now that comes by honoring our children i look at addison addison's sitting here on the front row and addison graduated magna laude which is high honors from his high school and was accepted at one of the top ten business universities in the country and he calls me because he had been working for a ministry in summer at summer jobs during high school and he was working for a ministry that summer before he went to university called me in july and he said dad do you have a minute i'd like to talk to you i thought oh boy this sounds like one of those big conversations i said okay what's up what do you want to talk about he said do i have to go to university i said excuse me he said can i please help you and mom get this message out i want to work for you full time i said hold on a minute yes you certainly can so he came on and i told our staff and let me tell you something kids that work for their parents in ministry have a whole dynamic to work through and that is you got to get the difference between the relationship at home and the relationship is dad not being my dad but my boss and i remember i told our director of staff i said listen i want you to make sure that they get don't get special treatment above other ones just because they're bevere children and so they did that and after six months the director of staff came to me and said listen john can i please put addison in his supervisor position he has extraordinary leadership abilities i said absolutely i said and i knew that this man you know i'd made it very clear to him don't do anything unless you know this is right so he puts addison in this position and it's our church relationships department and our church relationship department we just basically call churches all over the united states because 14 000 churches use our curriculums and and they basically get our curriculums into the hands of those pastors and resource them pray with them encourage them love them on the phone well addison took the supervisor position of the position of that department and he looked at me and he said hey dad what will you do if i triple the growth of this ministry and i said you tripled the growth of this ministry i said i'll do this for you guys and it was a nice reward well you know what they more than tripled the the department in one year and i got news for you i've watched him in leadership he's an amazing leader he stirs those guys rallies those guys he values those guys he honors those guys when i walk into that department there is such life enhancing going on why because addison here he is he's got he's got a 40 year old man who's been a friend of mine for years working in his department and yet that friend honors addison because addison honors him and you walk in that department there's such love there's such commodity and yet they're flourishing and so i'm sitting here looking at here's my son now has tripled the growth of leases in our our ministry that god has entrusted us with and we are going to churches now as a result of him ministering the pastors on the phone that i never ever would have gone to had addison not had that position that's a reward for a mom and a dad wouldn't you say for honoring their children see you next week all right all right coming up in session 11 you'll learn how to get the whole council of god into your marriage so that your prayers are not hindered and you'll gain valuable insight on how to truly honor women in the church that's next time session 11 honoring entrusted ones part two [Music] you