Lecture Notes: Power Differentials and Conflict Resolution in Churches

Key Concepts

• Matthew 18 Misuse:
  • The text is often used incorrectly when there is a power differential.
  • Originally intended for sibling, brother-sister relationships, not hierarchical structures.
  • Suitable for ordinary inter-human relationships and interpersonal breakdowns.
  • Not meant to serve as a universal conflict management solution.

Issues with Church Practices

• Misapplication of Matthew 18:

  • Churches often use it as a blanket template for reconciliation in all conflicts.
  • This is considered a mistake and misuse of the text.

• Conflict Resolution Process:

  • Advocates for starting with one-on-one confrontation before escalating.
  • Many resort to public platforms like Twitter when initial steps fail (e.g., private discussions, prayers, involving two or three people).
  • Churches sometimes ignore issues, leading individuals to go public out of desperation.

Observations on Church and Justice

• Public Disclosure Necessity:
  • Most justice outcomes in church-related issues emerge only when matters are made public.
  • Indicates failure in the church's handling of allegations with integrity and vulnerability.

Conclusion

• The current approach reflects poorly on Christian institutions' willingness to address allegations effectively and openly without external pressure.