hello my beautiful people and welcome to your guidance message this is dream The Chosen Seer thank you so much for tuning in I do hope you're doing well feeling safe and feeling blessed because you are so I have a message for someone out there but as always after receiving a message I encourage you to pray to the Lord for confirmation that this is indeed your message from him to you so this message here is uh quite a heartbreaking one but it's a message of truth that will help someone to finally let go of an unhealthy relationship so as you can see from the title what I wrote is this relationship will not work because you are dealing with someone who is unforgiving you see the Bible teaches us the importance of unforgiveness because unforgiveness it it distances it'll distance you from God unforgiveness will also to block blessings from entering your life I mean think about it this way every time we we pray to the Lord for something we are in a way asking him to forgive us for our own sins and to still grant us what we want forgive us for our trespasses right as we forgive those who trespass against us that is a part of the Our Father prayer um and so every time every single time you close your eyes you get on your knees and you pray to God for something thing you are in a way asking him to forgive you for your sins forgive you for your wrongs and to still Grant you the blessing that you are asking for and so it is extremely hypocritical to be an unforgiving person especially when you know God forgives us all the time for sinning as human beings we are sinful people sinful beings but God continues to forgive us and grant us our blessings he continues to protect us as well even though we don't deserve His blessings and so that is why as Christians if you read the Bible uh one of the biggest things that God urges us to do all the time is to be forgiving people unforgiveness is a disease it's a disease uh it it will make you sick it is also a blessing blocker one of the biggest ways that you yourself can block your own blessings from entering your life is by being an unforgiving person because how can you say that you are ready for something new how can you say that you are ready for new blessings when you're still stuck on the old how can you say that you want to enter your future when you're still stuck on the past it means that you're not ready unforgiveness means that you are not ready for the new blessings the new people places and things that that God has prepared for you it is a big blessing blocker unforgiveness also uh prevents our prayers from being answered so there are times where you will be praying and praying and praying to God for something but that prayer will go unheard because unforgiveness will distance you from God sometimes we are too far from God for him to even hear our prayers to recognize it to honor our prayers to him so just keep in mind the importance of forgiveness you're dealing with an individual and this could be you right um it's not always going to be the other person's fault in life we have to be able to you know humble ourselves put aside our our pride and ego in order to uh confess confess our sins and admit our wrongs that is the only way that we will change that is the only way that we will see any form of improvement um in our lives but if you believe that you are perfect and you're never in the wrong and it's always the other person's fault then you're never going to make any changes and therefore you will never see any changes in your life right in order to see a different outcome in your life you have to do things differently all right so this message could be for you or someone who you are romantically dealing with but the message goes this relationship isn't going to work because you're dealing with someone who is unforgiving okay or someone is dealing with you and you are being unforgiving and that is why the relationship isn't going to work out I see this unforgiving person to be extremely uh intolerant of people they are so unforgiving that they do not love people they don't like people loving someone is one thing right but liking them is another this person is so unforgiving that they do not like people they don't respect people they don't respect your feelings and emotions you see this person doesn't listen to what you say to them this person doesn't uh recognize the amount of work the amount of effort that you have put into this relationship this person doesn't honor the things that you have done for them they are ungrateful this person is very intolerant of people they reject love they reject people and so it's very difficult you know uh uh dealing with with people like this and if you're not careful uh you may become just as hurt broken and bitter as them because you're trying to give love to someone who doesn't want to receive love okay and if you're not careful I I have no doubts that in this relationship there could be a lot of projection where uh instead of them taking a look at the mirror they're too busy pointing a finger at you uh and calling out your flaws uh this relationship that you're in makes you feel like you can't do anything right because every every time you try to do right by this person they some way they they they some way somehow will flip it back on you and make you feel like you're doing something wrong make you feel like you are the bad guy it's like you in this person's perspective in their eyes from the way they treat you it's as if you can't do any any right even though you have done them right so many times this is an ego bruise you're in a kind of relationship that could surely bruise your ego and and uh scar your self-esteem it can destroy your self-esteem when you are when you're trying to be in a relationship with someone who doesn't recognize you know your your qualities right your good traits and characteristics they're always pointing out your flaws you're dealing with an individual who is extremely pessimistic they don't see the good in people places and things you're dealing with an extremely negativ minded individual um and if you're not careful uh they can easily project onto you as in they will paint a picture of who they are and then convince you that that's you all right so this relationship isn't going to work out and it's it's about time that you finally Choose Yourself Choose Yourself over this relationship because yourself is all that you have you are responsible for yourself and you can't keep on putting yourself in these uh sorts of circumstances and predicaments where you continue to get hurt um what I find very interesting about your lover your your romantic interest your love interest um is that this is an individual who refuses to do the work on themselves as in they refuse to heal they see their problems trust me this person isn't oblivious whatever you know about them they know it times 10 they know themselves who doesn't know themselves don't don't bother telling people about themselves they know themselves some people are just good at ignoring the truth and projecting onto others to convince themselves that you know they're perfect and that they don't they don't need to do the work but what I find about it's very risky to be around this type of person uh because they refuse to heal and it has distorted the unforgiveness in them unforgiveness rules this person unforgiveness has has has taken over them you see they refuse to heal and so they remain unforgiving and so this is an individual who isn't very likable there is a lot of rejection that I see this person is is doing rejecting good people rejecting change rejecting positivity rejecting love rejecting forgiveness this person is Cho using Darkness over over light and love is light and that is why they behave so unloving because this person is in the dark and there is no love in the dark you are depriving yourself of Love by choosing to be with this individual you're starving yourself of love you need love love is what nurtures US I keep on seeing a specific person who is becoming ill you're becoming sick while being with this person love is healing love is light love is nurture you see you're becoming sick it's affecting your medical health because you're not receiving the love that you need to nurture you to heal you nurture is also growth when we're loved enough we will see Prosperity we will see growth we will see success you may be noticing um a lack of forward movement in your life a lack of prosperity in your life because you're not being loved correctly you're being deprived of love so you're not receiving that that that that nurture that nurture is like nutriance that the body mind and soul needs to grow to prosper to heal so you may have even seen some changes in your health while being with this individual and if you're not careful you're going to start seeing changes in your beliefs your belief system this person wants to change your belief system they want to get you to start uh having a lack of faith people who are unforgiving uh they tend to not have faith in God so when you're having conversations when you're having discussions with this individual and you bring up your faith they may reject it they may actually make you feel bad for having faith if you're having conversations with this person and you try to bring up your dreams your goals your Ambitions they may actually shut you down and discourage you they don't have faith this person is cold and ruthlessly um idealistic and what do I mean by ruthlessly idealistic this person isn't a dreamer they don't dream they don't have faith they don't believe I absolutely see this person the longer you stay with this person the more they will rub off on you and you'll start picking up on some of their ways you'll start forgetting your dreams you'll start uh losing your ambition you'll stop becoming inspired you will lose your creativity because by choosing to be with this individual you are choosing Darkness over light and God is light overall what I'm simply trying to say is this relationship is pushing you away from God it's pulling you away from God it's distancing you away from God it's straying you away from God and God is light so the further you move away from him the more you enter the dark you lose sight of light the moment you lose sight of God you lose sight of light and that's when you will start to live in darkness and that is horrifying you will start to feel trapped bound stuck restricted uninspired unmotivated hopeless I say it all the time when the devil is ready to attack you he will present himself to you as a lover but this lover is a false lover a counterfeit anyone who sabotages your relationship with God anyone who pulls you away from God was not sent by God they are not the man or woman who God has chosen for you they are someone who the devil sent to you God will never send you someone who will negatively influence your relationship with him your God chosen spouse is someone who will push you towards God encourage your relationship with God increase your faith in God not pull you away from God so ask yourself was this person sent to you by God or by the devil is this relationship of light or of Darkness there is no hope in this relationship that's the last thing that I'm hearing thank you Holy Spirit the last thing that I'm hearing that there is no hope in this relationship God is hope God is Faith and you need his light and his light is shining on you to guide you to guide your path out of this darkness that you call a relationship do not lose sight of Christ the moment we lose sight of Jesus Christ is the moment we lose sight of light the moment we lose sight of Christ is the moment we lose sight of ourselves you're losing yourself whoever you are that that is resonating with this message you're forgetting about who you are and if you're not careful you will become someone unrecognizable where you wake up one day and you look at your life and then you think to yourself what have I become this is not who I am and some of you you may have had your dreams crushed by this person who you're choosing to be in a relationship with this relationship is a Dream Crusher God is saying come back onto your rightful pathway before you met this person remember what your life was remember the plans between you and God remember that straight pathway that the Lord paved for you written in the Book of Proverbs Chapter 3: 5 God is saying it's not too late to reconcile with him make amends make amends with God mend your relationship with God God is calling you back to him you have forgotten yourself you have forgotten who you are because you have forgotten about God you're losing yourself as you lose hope as you lose your faith you also start to lose your own self we are children of God we are children of God and so when we lose when we lose lose God when we lose sight of God we end up losing ourselves because we come from God we come from God and we need him the Lord is shining his light over you to guide your pathway out of this darkness that the devil has deceived you into believing that it is a relationship ship I hope that this message reaches every person that it was meant for if you enjoy the message please don't forget to like comment subscribe to support the channel and if you are seeking spiritual guidance and insight I welcome you to visit my website where you can book