hello gorgeous ladies today is day three of the seeds of wealth and we are talking about harvesting which is ultimately the thing that we all really really want to do is harvest and reap the rewards of all our beautiful work so i'm very excited about this one so today's like the most important part really because it's all about once you've planted the seeds and after you've watered the soil and you're doing all the things how do you actually receive what you've been working so aligned to create so i'm very excited about today so one of the main issues around receiving is that we feel guilty about receiving and very often the reason we don't feel very good about receiving is because we don't have the best examples of people receiving so when you think of how your your mother would receive a compliment or a gift you have probably seen her do things like you know you look so beautiful what this old thing oh my gosh i've had this for ages i bought this at the thrift store oh my gosh no it's terrible it's even got holes in it really you think so i've gained 10 pounds when when you watch people constantly reject compliments it starts to feel like that's the way it should be yes they're bird noises all the money vibes um okay and already you made my mind expand i have a new i have hard time receive time and space okay uh so true not good examples at all about receiving anything my parents money story is dreadful i'm aware of it i just don't know how to change it for myself so even before [Music] even before money because money is just an energetic currency and it's just a result even before money we got some examples of how to receive just in general that we're not great you know when you're at the restaurant and somebody wants to pay the bill and your parents go no no no don't you dare don't you dare take out your wallet i got this you know put that down put that away i'm gonna pay you know and you know why did you buy me that you shouldn't have and like no you no no you don't need to and you shouldn't have and they can't receive compliments they don't receive gifts well and it feels like in an environment like that it's really hard to just be really excited and expressive when people give you things when the example that you have is that when people give you things you got to be like extra super humble you've got to be like no no no no i don't need this but the fact is when you think about it most people love to give like it's one of our favorite things in the world to give and we really check in with ourselves the thing we enjoy the most about giving is how it makes the people we give to feel like that's the most incredible piece of it is being able to give to someone and watching their face light up and be like oh my gosh this is exactly what i wanted i've been working on being a better receiver good christina hi shannon so what we really desire more than anything in the world is to give people what they want and to have their face light up like a christmas tree and to feel like we nail it but we've all been conditioned to receive like you shouldn't have no no no i can't possibly i couldn't possibly accept this gift you're giving me really i'm jumping up and down sideways i'm so happy because it's what i want but i can't possibly receive this no no please take it back why when you think about it if you can think of a time where you gave to someone and they said no no i can't possibly accept this it's too much no you shouldn't have how did that feel is that the response you wanted is that what you were hoping they would say no no i can't possibly please take it back were you like wow you're so humble i love giving to you i love how you give it back to me and tell me i shouldn't have that's the way it's reason i gave it to you such a beautiful person thank you for rejecting my gifts in such a humble way i appreciate you for that is that how you feel when it's your friend's birthday and you think about the perfect gift and you buy it for her and she's like no oh my gosh no no no i can't accept this or you're like oh my gosh you're nailing this reaction this is exactly why i went out of my way spending time and money on you for you to react like this i'm so happy that you're rejecting me this feels great like that's not it you want oh oh my gosh i wanted this oh my gosh i'm so happy oh my gosh i'm so excited and when you have a friend or a sister or a parent or a person in your world that's an excellent receiver notice you really enjoy giving to them it's like it feels so good because i get to make you happy i know that when i give to you i nail it so it is normal that in the world we receive more when we are excellent receivers melissa says i typically feel awkward accepting gifts my birthday's in two days so this message is in perfect timing happy birthday in advance happy birthday in advance happy birthday in advance happy birthday in advance happy birthday events so we want people to be happy we want people to feel good the goal in giving is to create a good vibe because the the frequency and we've been talking a lot about energetic alignment the frequency of giving is a high vibrational frequency when it comes from a place of desire now there is a time in your life and you will know you can probably tap into the feeling inside and you know exactly the difference the feeling of wanting to give versus the feeling of needing to give like when someone expects something from you when someone has demanded something from you when you're just like expected to and it feels like you have to give that does not feel the same right so there's a different energetic currency to desiring giving as an as there is an energetic currency of needing to give would you agree with that if you're feeling inside like oh my gosh it's my best friend's birthday i'm going to buy her something i'm so freaking excited i'm going to give her this i'm freaking out versus like got to do like a christmas exchange at work and it's got to be this much and i don't really have the money for that and i don't really want to and i picked gina at the office and she's a she's a jerk and like hey i don't i don't want to buy her toilet rolls when i want to buy her and i'm very upset that i've got to buy her something nice and i'm just right so there's a very different energy and those two things so when you're giving from a place of desire to give when it's like i i am so excited to give this gift that energetic frequency is very high so the energetic match to that kind of giving is a high vibrational receiving it only makes sense that you would receive on a high vibe like that when you are given to on a high vibe like that there's a frequency so in order to receive high vibrational giving you have got to become a high vibrational receiver if not what happens is people they get your number real quick they get they get you real quick they're like i i hate getting presents for this person she's the worst receiver but i feel like i have to because she's my best friend or she's my sister she's my cousin she's my niece whatever it is i've got to give her a gift i hate buying for her it's the biggest waste of money no matter what i buy her she never accepts it well you become a match for misaligned giving when you are a bad receiver that sucks by the way we don't want to be that we want to become a vibrational match for high vibrational receiving this is the first thing that needs to change in our self without before we can even access this with money this needs to be something that we learn vibrationally on the inside you have got to be a match for high energetic frequencies of giving high vibrational frequencies of receiving are attached to high vibrational frequencies of giving you cannot be an energetic match for 10k if you cannot receive lunch you can with with high vibrations you cannot be an energetic match for winning first class tickets to paris if you have a hard time receiving a sandwich for the from the deli as a gift it doesn't work if you can't receive a compliment how are you going to receive a payment and there may be days where you're like well some days i feel like i can receive the compliment like if i feel that i'm beautiful today and someone gives me a compliment i can say thank you it's just that a lot of times people give me compliments when i don't feel beautiful so that's like saying on the days where i feel like i believe i'm going to be an energetic match for money i receive money on the days that i don't believe i'm going to be an energetic match for money i don't receive money well then what if you just believe that whether you're having a good day around money or a bad day around money money always makes its way over to you if you fear oh my gosh today i'm having bad thoughts about money i'm going to be broke no one's going to pay me you become a mismatch for money but if you believe even on days where i doubt money surprises me money always flows to me i'm an energetic match for money regardless of what my fears are then you can be an energetic match for compliments regardless of what your fears are carrie you made it you won the crystal water bottle carrie carrie winter russell carrie winton russell carrie winter russell until carrie winton russell this is a very classy name and it's very hard to say fast you won the crystal water bottle uh increase my money vibe yes i received the gift i gave myself of afe shows my capacity to receive has grown so much thank you melanie oh my gosh i freaking love that that's so amazing that is so amazing so it's i'm so happy sarah so one thing that's so life-changing is when you learn to receive like you care about the giver when you learn to receive like you genuinely care about the giver you change the energetic frequency of receiving so if when your best friend buys you a gift you care more about the fact that she's gotta love her experience of giving to you then the fact that you should be humble and that it's weird to receive because what if you don't deserve it and what if blah blah blah blah if you cared more about her experience of giving to you then you needing to prove to her that you're humble you'd become much higher frequency if it was like i want us both to experience this in such a beautiful way i want to receive i'm happy with the gift this is the worst part like i'm happy from i'm happy that i've received this gift i'm so happy but for some reason there's this past conditioning that's telling me that i shouldn't and that i should be humble but that doesn't make my person that just gave to me feel any better so what's a win-win situation is i receive what i desired and the person who gave to me i received from them the way they desired me to receive when they decide decided to give to me and then i empower them to do what to desire to give to me more which is good for both of us because people always want people to give to it's such a huge part of the human experience to give we're always looking for excellent receivers in our life who can i give to that nails the receiving game you know uh this person didn't really nail that i don't really want to give them to them anymore this person freaking nailed it what else can i give them give them sell them i sell my couch what can i give you want this how about this give you things learn to receive like you care about the giver and change the energy of the experience yes if i receive from my husband i care about him as a giver if i receive from me i care about me as the giver this is huge i've tried to practice just saying thank you when someone gives me a compliment but i always have the urge to say something else besides just thank you you can say thank you it feels so good to receive that compliment imagine if you said something to me and you said you know oh melanie i love your top and i was like oh this no this is ugly how awkward is that it's like okay i mean i don't think so i don't think it's ugly you look beautiful [Music] but if i'm like ah thank you like if i receive it if i'm like oh thank you so much thank you it feels so good to receive that then it's like yeah i said a nice thing which is really why why why we're kind in the first place you can just think i like your top without saying it or you can say it but if you say it it's a gift and if i'm terrible at receiving it you probably never say it again so my receiving of the compliment determines whether or not you're going to feel comfortable complimenting me again if i'm like that is so kind of you that means a lot to me that you know it feels so good to hear that like thank you i really love this topic i just bought it thank you for saying that i i feel really good like that's like yay you know i said something good it was met well i'm happy with this conversation you look great no i look terrible i wish i had said nothing this is that awkward you don't want to create that for ourselves or for other people right so we create such a beautiful experience when we receive beautifully and it's the same thing with money the universe wants abundance we live in an abundant world we really do live in an abundant limitless world so there is no lack of anything there's no lack of money there's no lack of food there's no lack of anything we live in an abundant world but there are areas that are completely in the dark not because there isn't enough in the world but because there isn't enough there like i don't have enough money this month but it's not that there isn't enough money in the world it's just that i don't have enough money this month it's it's an isolated event for an isolated person in an isolated place and yes in some areas it's isolated countries and it's isolated you know neighborhoods but there's a whole mindset there there's a whole vibe there there's a whole reality there and there's a way that the world interacts with that reality and there's a way with the the way that they interact with the world they're they're such a different mindset when we're in fear and scarcity we put out such a different vibe when we're in fear and scarcity than when we're in abundance and it this is how you can tell us it kind of attracts itself into small communities or bigger communities it can become a poverty epidemic or a wealth epidemic like it's contagious i've had people tell me just hanging out with you i feel like i make more money and i just just hanging out with you i got a raise i got this i got that like i'm not even an entrepreneur and i've just been making more money since i hang out with you it's like i just believe and then it comes because it i'm just all tangled in my wires here it really does make an energetic difference when you believe that money is there and money is everywhere and when you believe that it's not it also makes a difference and the thing is the crazy thing is it isn't right or wrong or good or bad it's just unpleasant it's just unpleasant to not have money and i know because i have been in the place in my life where there was no money it's just unpleasant but it isn't right or wrong and it isn't good or bad it just doesn't feel very good so the bottom line is wealth feels good and it feels good when we're good people and it feels good when we're taking care of everything else in our world as well because you can have all the money in the world if you're sick it will not help you if you're dying it will not help you if you are heartbroken it will not help you if you are alone and with no friends it will not help you if you've been shunned from your community it will not help you if you are unable to walk talk see fly whatever it is it doesn't save you from that so it doesn't it doesn't fix things what it is is just another resource that you can have it's just another power force it's just another thing that you have that's all it is and not having it is like well why wouldn't you it's not like it's the one thing that'll solve everything it's just often in life when we don't have something it feels like the one thing that would change everything you know i work with women who are so wealthy and they're they're nailing it they just cannot get a man and they're like why yeah you know it's like it doesn't matter that i'm successful that i'm young that i'm beautiful it doesn't matter until i have a man that loves me that wants to marry me that wants to sweep me off my feet like what's wrong with me i need a men and then there's women who've got the most incredible relationships the most beautiful kids they're in beautiful health they can't figure out the money thing and they're like if i just had money and then there's the women who've got the money and they've got the men except they're incur in consistent pain all the time and they're like if i had health the thing we don't have is the thing we think is going to change everything that's why it's so important for us to work on everything we've got to be so incredibly grateful for what we've got and to focus on being excellent receivers for the things that come to us effortlessly because the thing with the law of attraction is we receive through the path of least resistance in our life what that means is wherever you believe the most that something is coming it's coming so if you believe that that health is easy going to the gym is easy getting physical gains at the gym is easy well no matter where you struggle you know if you get your butt to the gym you're going to look the way you want to look you know if you know that no matter what happens in your life your relationship is set there's nothing that could break that you two are just set if you believe that your husband's the one that's got the power to make all the money whatever you desire it's going to come through the place where you know it's going to come so what we've got to get to is the place where we believe that we are extraordinary receivers not just good extraordinary because what people have in common in every area where they excel is they know they can do it you look at a fitness person if you were to tell them like i struggle and i can't do it they'd be like yes you freaking can what are you talking about of course you can't what are you talking about if i can do what you can do it what do you even mean it's easy look it's like yeah but no it's not easy yes look but it's not i can't do it well i can look it's like you these these amazing women they're just like this is so easy and the women who are in amazing relationships you tell one of those amazing women in relationships that having a man today is hard it's really hard to find a good man no it's not all men are this way no they're not yeah they are no they're not try to tell a woman that's already got a man that's head over heels in love with her that finding a man is hard she'll be like no it's not it's only hard when you don't believe it's for you or when you when you're having a hard time with it so through the path of least resistance things become easy so you've got to tap into the path of least resistance around money meaning you believe it's going to come and being surrounded by people who've got incredible financial blueprints is good for the soul being around people with extraordinary men is good for the soul being around women with extraordinary bodies is good for the soul if you learn to love it and see it as evidence that it's possible instead of a trigger as to why you don't have it or it's not fair that you don't have it so in everything there is in the world we can access it as long as we're willing to do the work because it's our resistance that causes the boundary it's not hard work to go get it it's hard work to take down the boundary it's how hard work to take down whatever we've got in the way because the thing itself is not difficult it's the blocks and the fears and the guilt and the shame and the pain and the hurt and the story that's that's the problem because wealth is just an energetic currency and that love is just an energetic energetic currency and health is just an energetic currency that you're either aligned to or not and i have been out of alignment in love majorly to the point of destruction self-destruction and pain i have been out of alignment with money to the point of living in bankruptcy in a car i have been out of alignment with health hospital trips end of my rope out of alignment you can be out of alignment with all of it it is actually the journey to get rid of the block that's the hardest work i kind of forgot how many downloads i get when i hear you speak every damn time yes so what we really desire in this lifetime is a limitless wealth limitless health limitless love limitless experience exponential joy constant growth and evolution over time that's all we desire it's what we want but then we're given an opportunity on a microscopic scale to do this and we freak out and we don't do it even in the smallest thing like a freaking compliment we jam up like don't say nice things to me i don't know how to respond to this kind of kindness i'm afraid i won't look humble no i'm ugly i look like a toad i feel much better now but yes please i'm an energetic match for 10k months bring on the money the universe is like this doesn't work it doesn't work you can't be you cannot be unable to fit a compliment in your basket and try to fit 10k cash in it it doesn't fit so it's about doing the real work the inner work because ultimately it is a lot harder and i mean a lot a lot a lot a lot a lot a lot a lot a lot harder a lot harder to fail than it is to succeed and i realize this now it was harder for me to live my life failing once you get in the vibrational vortex of success you wonder where you've ever been in your whole life before it's just like what was i thinking why was i fighting so hard for this not to happen what was i protecting why on earth have i not been living this my whole freaking life i don't understand it is hard to live with limitations but on on the other side of those limitations is like you realize you get to accept compliments and hear them like you're beautiful when your husband looks at you first thing in the morning and you're like you're you've got makeup here and you're just like and he's like you're perfect you're so hot you're beautiful and you're like what's wrong with you like you're stunning you're stunning the moment you wake up with a little bit of makeup smudged and your hair a mess you look like a wild woman you can't handle it you're beautiful and you're so freaking smart and you're so brave and you're funny and people are going to want to tell you that because you make them feel good and they're going to want to tell you i love you you're beautiful you're funny you've got to learn to take that hearing you say those compliments made me smile in such a genuine way my hubs is going to be seeing so much more of this and this is the thing like if you want more compliments and if you want people to tell you they love you and you want then you got to be good at receiving it it's got to feel good to them to re to say things to you i don't feel good when i tell someone she's beautiful and she's like no i'm not i feel so awkward i'm like um okay note the self don't say that again that's a song what if someone desires compliments and gifts but never gets them so that comes from a place of need usually if you're like i really like why it's like it comes from a place of lack when you notice that doesn't happen it's like oh i don't get compliments i want compliments i want to have compliments i wish i had compliments i don't have compliments she has compliments so it's maybe just looking at yourself in the mirror more often during the day and saying i look good today and letting yourself say that letting yourself feel that so what we want to create is a world where we are a vibe like we are the we bring the vibe we are the vibe it is a vibe it's all a vibe and it's a good vibe we are the vibe together we rise we are the vibe we bring the vibe we are the the vibe it is a vibe it's a vibe it's a whole freaking vibe it's a vibe perfect to me i will do this so what i want more than anything in my life is to be around women that i can love with all my heart and they're gonna let me i hope this lands i want you to let me love you the way i do because it's so frustrating to have to fight you to believe me that i care i want women who let me love them who let me spoil them and who let themselves be so freaking happy when they get things from me when i do things for them and when we go i want women who are on the vibe who get the vibe and who it i want i let me love you right i want that and i want i want that because when you really feel that i i freaking love you and i care about you and i this is so fun for me like i love you i love this work i l i love these conversations when you let me love you i love you more and you're gonna find in your life when people let you love them you're gonna love them more let me love you let me spoil you let me freak believe me it's like if this is let it be real just let it be real let it be love let it be respect let it be beautiful like you you get to just this is the frequency of abundance and living in this feels like limitlessness you get to feel this in the world and this is the thing when you let me love you i love you more when when i'm when i love when i love the world i'm in i love it and and i'm allowed to love it and i'm allowed allowed to express my love of it i love it more when kevin lets me love him and i and i look at him and i'm like i i freaking love you like i i love you so much like i feel it in my soul and he's like you know when he looks at me and he's like will you marry me i'm like yes you know do you know kevin asks me to marry him every day so this is a thing this is this is a vibe let me tell you about this vibe kevin so right now i am currently in the process of getting my engagement ring upgraded again it's a little intense but we've started making a lot more money than when he first originally asked me and the the goal was to have very very big engagement we couldn't get there at first so it's been an incremental process and i've actually really enjoyed it because it's been a lot of fun um so the thing is every morning and the ring at first was small enough that they didn't say anything about it so i would go to sleep with the ring but every morning he we would wake up and i would look at my ring and just like looking at my ring like oh and he'd be like he would say while i'm looking at my ring will you marry me and i look at my ring again and i say of course i'll marry you so he would do that then we got the ring upgraded and they told me you shouldn't sleep with it because when you sleep with it you could it could get stuck in the sheets and it could all the things so i had to take the ring off because the diamond was too big and it would get it could get pulled you know the little things that hold the diamond together come on so every morning when i woke up he would wake up and he would say will you marry me with my ring every morning will you marry me will he marry me will you marry me and it's just been like what the heck is happening like what what is happening every morning every morning that i am with this man he asked me to marry him and sometimes in the middle of the day he'll just look at me and be like will you marry me and i feel it sometimes like he asks me sometimes and i feel that butterflies in my soul and i know the more i let him love me like that the more he loves me so this the thing is i've always kept the same bend and what i do is i upgrade the diamond because i want to have the same bend he gave me the first time so what happens is at tiffany's they take the band they send it out to new york they put a different diamond on it they send it back so this ring so now they took my ring because they had to send it they had to put a different diamond on it and send it to new york to put a new diamond on it so then i had no ring on my finger now last year i had no ring on my finger when we upgraded my ring and i was stressed because every few days or every few days every few minutes i would go you know how you do this with your ring i would do that and realize the ring wasn't there and have a panic attack for two weeks i was like i was a mess i was a hot mess every few minutes i go he'd be like it's being fixed and i was like oh yeah like freaking out so this year he actually bought me a cartier ring so he bought me this this ring from cartier so that's a little diamond and it's all the little car taping so i've got this one and when when i get my ring back from being fixed it will go from this hand to this hand and i'll wear it on this one as a gift and i will put the ring on here so it should take a week or so but i'm gonna get to go visit the ring which is gonna be fun because the thing is that they still have to engrave it they sent it back to hawaii they forgot to engrave the new skew of the new diamonds we've got to send it back it's a whole thing but i'm going to go visit the ring i've got visitation rights on this ring so that's going to be fun um i'm going to get to go visit it and see what it looks like then i've got to send it back fix it and send it back to me in two weeks ah freaking out so in two weeks i'm gonna have my freaking ring which i'm very excited about but he asks me every day to marry him and the thing is our engagement story is a little wonky um because there was some things happening in our world and he it was one of those like you know like notebook moments where your heart's ripping out of your chest and i'd been gone for a month and i was wondering if maybe he would maybe you know if i wanted to get married and i was realizing this on my trip to europe and i really didn't think he was ever going to ask me and i thought you know what maybe i need a break to see if this is the right guy for me while i was in europe he realized he wanted to marry me and he went and he bought the ring and he asked my father over tomahawk steak if he could have my hand in marriage my father cried and he said yes and he had the ring and then he booked my ticket wrong back from europe and i had to go all around europe to make it home and i was angry and i was upset and i was disheveled and i was a mess and i told him i didn't want to see him and i got to the airport and he was standing there and he'd been there for like 12 hours because he didn't know when i was going to land because i wasn't speaking to him anymore because i was angry and when i got to the airport he got down on one knee in the middle of the parking lot and he said before i run out of time will he marry me and i was like what in the parking lot well i'm dirty and smelly and angry why would you do this and he said because if you can say yes to me now then we can make it through anything and i cried and then i i loved him again and it was beautiful and was romantic and we were like ah then we were engaged and it was beautiful but that was not the proposal that i was expecting in my life you know you hope and you wish for like an eiffel tower proposal and instead of it was like montreal airport down one knee in october with makeup down my face and my hair like this after a flight and i'm like i hate you like that was the proposal so it was very beautiful testament to our love but it was definitely not the vibe so he actually got down on one knee for real in hawaii a few a couple of weeks ago on the beach he like got this table he he he he got this amazing like private waiter dinner experience on the beach it was the most amazing dinner just me and him a little white table tablecloth on the beach with the fire torches and the amazing food and the me beautiful like the most romantic thing i've ever had and he got down on one and he was like i didn't i didn't do it right the first time and i'm so grateful that you said yes to me but i just want to say and he did the whole thing he got done on when he asked me to marry him like the perfect setting so i got the hawaii proposal and now the ring is being grown and life is beautiful and it's like it's all in abundance but i receive love from him every day and i can tell you if i would have just berated him about the proposal made him feel bad about it or tell him it wasn't enough or complain or if we didn't have that magical will you marry me thing if our relationship wasn't just as beautiful now as it was i don't know i actually don't know that he would have done it again but it's like there's so much love and there's so much knowing that it's gonna be good you know he knows he's gonna nail it with me if he puts the intention he puts the attention he's gonna nail it and that makes him able to just give me and i and i love it because he nails it and because he nails it he does it more because he does it more than it nails it you know so i'm an excellent receiver when it comes to kevin i just know he just know we just know he knows how to give i know how to receive it's just this magical dance that we do and we're both so happy in it so my relationship just works and i i have this dance with my sister and i have this dance it's just such an incredible thing it's learning to be an extraordinary receiver he did it right the first time but the second time was epic story worthy and magical yes my busy part of me blocks me from receiving the love my partner tries to give sign i'm going to receive more yes yes yes the cutest engagement and this are the spur of the moment ones filled with love i agree your stories always make me cry beautiful you're so funny i love you so this is where like you've got to learn to receive everywhere does your husband feel like a man when he gives to you is he like i know how to give to my wife she's i love giving to her i'm always thinking about what i can give to her because when i give to her i feel like a man i feel like she just i know what you know if i want to feel good and i want to do something good because giving is a masculine energy if i want to feel good like i know how to give to my woman and i know she's going to give me that feeling of like i nailed it does do you give him that it starts at home it starts with letting your mother mother you it starts with letting your husband romance you it starts with letting people give to you then you ask the universe to play then you ask the universe to play you've got to open your heart to receiving this whole humble thing it is an old paradigm it is an old old paradigm we live in a world where people want to be happy where people create experiences where desires can be met at a click of a finger where everything is possible you have got to learn to receive like a pro it is your life mission to be the best receiver in all of your world there is no better receiver than you people want to give you everything this is the new thing the waiter gives you a free champagne you freak out somebody does something for you you're like thank you it feels so good it feels so good to receive that you just made my day thank you receive from people learn to receive from people the universe only gives on high vibrational frequencies when it comes to big things that you desire the big things that you desire only exist on high vibrational frequencies 10k pay in full clients 20k pain full clients 100k pain full clients 100 clients paying a thousand dollars a month non-stop effortlessly so easy an ongoing coaching business that works that thrives people saying yes to your mastermind people saying yes to private coaching people saying yes to your offers effortlessly those are high vibrational desires if you are not a high vibrational receiver you are out of alignment with high vibrational receiving it doesn't matter that it's two completely different conversations because the way you do one thing is the way you do most things and the way you receive one thing is the way you receive most things this means that you're the kind of person believe it or not that would receive 10k from the universe and somehow make it mean that it was a fluke that it's not enough that you're gonna run out that it won't last that you'll never do it again if you are not a high vibrational receiver even when you do receive you will find a way to make it low vibration and the universe does not play that game with you the universe is a vibrational field you don't you don't receive what you say you want you receive an energetic match for who you are in the world that's what you receive this is what i want to help you untangle in exponential wealth by the way it's this energetic vortex this energetic field that you're entangled in that's not necessarily the one you want to be in there is an energetic match for the life that you desire and there are things to do to untangle everything that you've created to get here and it's a fun journey it's a fun journey because it's got little rewards all the way through and there's evidence all the way through and there's celebrations all the way through and in exponential wealth we celebrate all day every day you're gonna see people popping up left and right all day every day people celebrating succeeding all the way all the way all the way all the way all the way it is so much fun in there in that container because you're going to learn to untangle at a high vibrational level i'm not going to take you through the trenches in this program i'm going to teach you how to receive at the high level of vibrational receiving that feels good we're not going to go into deep childhood wounds and start untangling demons of your soul because you don't actually need that for high vibrational receiving believe it or not high vibrational receiving comes with high vibrational healing this doesn't mean you're does not mean you're not going to cry i'm going to tell you you're going to cry but you're going to cry liberation tears you're going to cry tears of like oh my god you're going to cry tears of oh my god those tears not tears of like not in those tears tears of like like i am awakened like that those tears like it's a feeling of like beaming into the world like that it's the best way to explain it i'm ready to learn how to receive can't wait to get back into explanation exponential wealth vibes i can't wait love exponential wealth once you wake up and realize those lower energetic people in your life it's time to let them go or learn how to rewire your connection to them which you can also do tears of liberation i needed to hear that high vibrational healing leads to high vibrational receiving ready for this so excited for liberation tears this is this gets to be good and it gets to be fun and it gets to be magic and it gets to be high vibe and it gets to be all the things and what i'm the most excited about when it comes to money for me in my life is the game of consistent growth and it's not even about because the thing is after a certain point you don't need the money anymore so if you only know need what's going to happen is that once you hit a certain amount where you don't need more you have a really hard time growing your business you're going to have a really hard time growing your wealth and this is where this this comes into play with my women who are already making 10 20 30 40 50 60k 70k 80k 90k a month and they're like how do i grow this like i don't need more money so i find myself hitting my goals faster than i used to in the month and then i'm like meh don't really need it and then i get myself all caught up i don't know what to sell i don't know what to do i don't feel like going live i don't feel like doing this i don't feel like they're not blah blah blah everything's just kind of p because i don't have the fire i don't have the fire because i don't know how to calibrate to desire vibes if you only know how to fight for what you need when your needs are met you stop growing because needs are comfort and most people want their needs to be met so they can be comfortable but there's no growth in comfort which means the minute you kick in the minute you you cozy into those comfort vibes you're like i could do something more for my business or i could watch netflix with wine world domination netflix with wine netflix you know so we have a hard time getting ourselves to a place of like i get to have it all when we get caught in the comfort chain because it's so comfortable it's so cozy it's like i mean i'm already i'm good i don't really need it so i'm not really interested in your needs i'm interested in your desires because your needs are actually low vibrational when you think about it need is here and if you are one millimeter below that line you're lacking and it's pretty tight game that's playing a pretty freaking tight game with the universe if i aim for my needs one millimeter below i'm lacking no wonder i'm stressed no wonder i'm nervous no wonder i'm always playing last minute no wonder i'm always by the seat of my pants by the the something of my teeth i don't know what that the grit of my teeth this i don't know you know that that thing that's why is because it's either i nail exactly what i need or i'm lacking that's a really difficult thing to get behind in life you're always running you're always on the edge of lack it's very hard to manifest that way so you've got to be in masculine energy you've got to be working you've got to be doing because if not if you get if you miss it if you miss it you're lacking if you if you miss the mark you're lacking can't afford that so you got to do you got to do something you got to do something right now so your masculine masculine masculine you don't you don't let yourself crack to let the light through you can't afford to crack if you crack you fail you crack you lack this is what we're ultimately doing we're learning to play a game where we tap into desires and we allow ourselves to crack open because when you play in the field of desire you're not going if you don't get what you desire you're not gonna crack you're not gonna lack if you don't hit your desire you don't lack you just don't have your desire you're still above your needs your desires are so energetically higher than your needs so if you don't get your desires all you experience get ready for this all you experience is disappointment and disappointment is the most difficult emotion for females to feel guilt and shame are the hardest for men disappointment is the hardest for women when we are disappointed by a thing by a person by ourselves it is the hardest emotion to handle so we try to avoid disappointment by creating situations where we this appointment's not even a thing i'm not going to be disappointed if i lack i'm going to be terrified afraid like you name all the emotions and if i can't feed my family and if i fail i'm going to feel guilt and shame i would rather put myself in that situation where i aim for what i need and if i miss it then i lack and then i feel guilt and shame i would rather put myself in that vibrational pain than to aim for what i desire and be disappointed all my needs are met everything's fine i'm above and beyond but i'm disappointed we hate that women do not handle disappointment well and it's usually because at a in us at a small age when we love our parents more than anything in the world and we believe that they're superheroes the first heartbreak we feel real heartbreak is when they disappoint us and they do something they promised they were going to do and they don't and they say that we're going to take us somewhere and they don't and we wait and they don't show up and for little boys is when they get in trouble for something that they did that they didn't think was wrong like bring a rat home that's dead and they're like look mommy and they're like they usually get guilt and shame and they want to impress their mom and their mom gets mad at them or she's disappointed when the mom is disappointed the son feels guilt and shame we women feel disappointment first guilt and shame is the hardest for men disappointments the hardest for women so we could live a life where we have all our needs met and we never need to play in the vibrational field of need ever again but for that we'd have to be willing to feel disappointed sometimes but that's such an elevated gap like this is such a different energetic playing field but we don't want to try and fail because what if we fail but you wouldn't fail you'd just fail this month yeah but then i'll be disappointed tapping up you can do this you can handle this yeah like i wanted a dog my entire childhood i never went my dad promised me we'd go to disney world we'd never go i remember my first disappointment my first disappointment i ever had my dad and i had a jar that we were or it was a pepsi bottle and we had put all black tape around it and that this was going to take us to disney world he was going to take me to disney world and every night he would empty his pockets we'd put the change inside the bottle and it would get heavy and he would even sometimes put 10 bills and all the bills and something happened in his business and he cut it open without telling me and i found it open and empty and i i got we are not going to disney world and the feeling of that empty bottle i will never forget how i felt it was it was the first biggest heartbreak of my life like months of every day putting money inside of that together it was our routine and then all of a sudden we stopped doing it and i went to go find the bottle and it was open cut open and empty then i didn't want to believe anything i didn't want to believe when people said we're going to do that i'd be like yeah yeah why why not believe why not send all the vibrational alignment to go to things to believe in things because it hurt too much to find an empty bottle so i stopped believing when people said they'd do things i stopped believing i stopped believing and i started manifesting a lot of people who broke their word because you attract what you believe and this is what i believe so when i started rewiring that i was like if people want to break their word to me i will be okay and if they break their word it's probably because something extraneous happened in their life and it is they did not want to hurt me they're probably hurting and ashamed and guilty and embarrassed you know so we've got to do the emotional work we got to do the deep work to be stronger so that we can play in the field of desires and not the field of need because you're going to notice that you if you have a hard time receiving you play in the field of need all the time and when you have a hard time receiving something from like a gift from someone it's because you don't need it if you hadn't eaten in a month and someone wanted to take you to the restaurant you would freak out you'd be like oh my gosh thank you thank you thank you thank you thank you thank you but because you don't need your friend to buy you lunch you can pay for it yourself you don't want her to go out of her way and spend money on something you don't you don't need to do that you didn't need to do that why did you do that you didn't need to do that you didn't have to do that you don't have to do that you don't have to say that you don't need to do that it's all about need all of it because if you tap into desire people want to give you gifts that's because they desire to and because you desire to receive it it's all based on desire when you believe that your man only wants to touch you because he needs his needs to be met instead of he desires you it feels very different to get intimate with your men if you believed he desired you you'd feel so differently about him wanting to touch you if you think he just needs to get his needs met it's like get off me you don't let people in when you think everybody's doing everything about needs when you think people who are selling to you are selling to you because they need you to buy you don't want to buy from people like another sleazy sales person needing me to buy their program my men trying to get his needs met someone else needing something from me when we live in need we we imagine everyone else is too and it starts to create a world where we're constantly feeling like people want something from us needs something from us we live in a completely different vibrational field when you start to live your life based on your desires you start to see that other people also live by their desires and you try to you start to attract people who live based on desire so learning to tap into the vibes of desire helps you see the vibes of desire in other people helps you believe the vibes of desire in other people let me love you because i desire to because i need something not because you need to or i need to just let me love you and let your clients desire to pay you and let your boss desire to give you a promotion need is such a low vibrational thing it's such a low vibrational thing i need a pause button for you so much mind blowing so the thing with harvesting is you've actually got to pick the fruit and it's the silliest simplest piece of the equation but i can plant the seed and i can water it all i want and i can wait for the aligned timing and i can see a beautiful shiny amazing beautiful fruit but if i do not pick it it will rot on the vine if you do not pick it it rots on the vine if you do not go and get what you have created you don't get it even if it's there even if it grew if you don't know how to receive it it rots on the vine i guarantee you you have had gifts that were never given compliments that were left on the tip of people's tongue i guarantee there are nights your man fell asleep wishing he could make love to you and it came from the most beautiful connected desiring place in the world and he didn't move out of fear that you wouldn't believe his intentions i guarantee there are people who almost paid you i guarantee it almost happened you have left a lot of fruits on the vine so in order to be an energetic match for receiving the thing that you've worked so aligned for you've got to become an excellent receiver and learn to pick the fruit so start in your life in the most simple things notice your aversion to compliments your aversion to small gifts your aversion the way you receive the awkwardness and like yeah sure the way people want to give you something and then you never get back to them or you're like yeah that would be great i'll let you know notice how many things rot on the vine in your life when people say you leave money on the table that's like you leave the fruit on the vine if you're an excellent receiver the universe favors you because you become a funnel like i am here and i am ready give me everything i am an energetic match for all of your fruit send it to me i will pick it i will eat it i will savor it i am ready pineapple season is here you just have to pick the fruit you planted it you watered it you trusted it you've got to learn to pick it you've got to learn to pick it it's always pineapple season and pineapple season is always coming because you always plant seeds every day and you always water every day and you trust regardless of circumstances every day and the fruits are always there ready for picking always great things come to me because i love all up on those things that come to me the path of least resistance more of that universe yes please so i hope you have enjoyed this seeds of wealth training just three short days but has such an option an opportunity to create a shift if you let it i just want to give you again the lowdown it's it's really simple how exponential wealth works can you did this feel like an hour to you these conversations they feel like over an hour like we when i get into the vortex with these things we start talking and it feels like time stops it's really extraordinary so i've got four huge downloads for you and there's also some coursework and some bonus work for you to do in there um but there's four huge modules that we're going to dive into that are just soul opening like we're gonna talk about the reframe earning spending debt all the things like we're gonna rewire the whole machine and it's such an incredible program to go through and and it's a whole month a whole month of money talk that rewires and you celebrate and i teach you how to really anchor into the desire vibes and we practice it like this is a place for you to integrate it it's not just information it's the journey of transformation and integration inside the program exponential wealth was the program that shifted my income from i need it to what do i do with the extras that's so freaking cool exactly that's why i decided to do it fb if i could hear you talk every day for a year holy cow i can't even imagine who i'd be ah i've done every many program on the internet nothing rattled my stubbornness like this i love it i know i'm afraid to make a commitment promise that i don't know believe i can keep this is such a huge mirror though this is such a huge mirror because when you look into this mirror what you're seeing is that this program is triggering something that's way bigger than this program whatever you're afraid of like that commitment that promise what you're afraid of disappointing yourself with it shows up in other areas in your life it's what makes you not quite go all the way in your business and what makes you not go quite all the way in other areas is this fear that you might go all in and then be disappointed this is just a mirror of a bigger thing and this is what's so incredible in in the programs that i create i feel like they're like a microcosm of a bigger thing you know you come in and it's like a smaller scale life decision that mirrors the bigger scale life decisions because how we do one thing is how we do most things so you just get to face something that usually happens on a big scale on a little manageable scale and then you can see it like it zooms out the problem so far out that you can clearly see it so actually when you heal it in the program you start healing it on a bigger scale so i understand your fear but fear only exists when you want something when you don't want something you don't feel fear you just feel no fear is the feeling you get inside when there's something you want and you don't really know how it's gonna go because if you knew how it was gonna go you'd just want it you wouldn't have to feel fear and if you didn't want it and you didn't know how it was going to go then it would just be whatever it's when you want it and you don't know how it's going to go that it's scary and the fact is that's what a next level looks like if it were on this level you knew how to you know how to do it the next level is i can't see and i don't know yet how to do that fear is the thing you don't yet know how to do fear is the thing you desire that you don't yet know how to do that's what fear is that's what fear is as exponential wealth is what grew my business in one year 400 percent you hit the nail on the head melanie yes it's time for us to shift that i want to be confident for every step of the way before i go all in but see i honor courage over confidence every time confidence comes with results you're not confident until the results are in but you are brave when you decide that you're in when you don't know but you're ready to go find out i honor courage over confidence every time afe is such a great container all the programs for a year a year of melanie join afe i love you you read me perfectly we also make fear something seems so bad it actually is the best thing is yet to come yes that's exactly what i thought and so i did a fee scary but exciting you're amazing something is happening right now the confidence comes so true yes i've done so many terrifying things and yet spending money scares me still the year two oh the year two years i took exponential wealth i got a promotion three times at my job and i doubled my income each year to two years after that's amazing strengthening my scary muscle yes i sew on the details of afe and exponential well so exponential wealth got four modules they're three hours each they're very intense they're absolutely extraordinary you watch them i suggest you watch them each three times if you can it's a lot but it won't feel like a lot because it's gonna be like today you know like an hour just flies by you're going to watch me instead of netflix and it's going to be fabulous that's the plan you're going to be able to ask questions there's going to be q and a's you're going to get to get your answers your questions answered and you're really going to get to be in the vibes of the conversation huge chunks plus the q and a's but you want to do this program not like you have replays forever you want to do this program like the transformation is now the time is now you want to listen like your life depends on it now and that's where the biggest transformation happens because what i recreate with my program is that most the time what changes us in life is a thing that happens there's something that happens it's an experience my programs are an experience you feel it's not just a conversation i have with your brain you you feel it like something happened there was a tr something just shifted in you something just happened like it's a journey within the program so the goal is not to go through and be like oh you know it doesn't matter if anything i'll catch the replay i'll watch it next week next month i'll watch it next year you know it's like you will still have time to catch up on everything because you've got a month inside of the container so it won't happen that you won't have time to watch it but it's just not something that you get to just pull up all the time you get you've got to make the decision to reinvest in yourself and re and and redo it when you want to do it again the time is now exactly and you you take the program that way you get so much more results than when if it feels like you can do it forever because that's not how life changes life doesn't change later when you feel like it life changes now in the moment where you do something about it it changes now in that instant where you finally get it it changes now in the instant where you feel it in your gut in your body like it's a full awakening it happens now in one instant in one instant and that's what we're creating in these programs when they're there for a short period of time look at this i'm brewing up the universe my energy is like um it just kind of it's in the moment right now and you get to really embody that in these programs because there is a timing it's like i gotta show up for this while it matters and that's right now thank you so much for an incredible three-day master class i have had the time of my life with you thank you i love you you're beautiful and you smell nice now go be excellent receivers i will see you soon