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Lecture on High Value Men and Women
Jul 1, 2024
Lecture on High Value Men and Women
Introduction
The lecturer identifies himself and a colleague as "high value men".
Asserts that most women are "low value".
Cites the YouTube channel "Think Before You Sleep" as evidence supporting this view.
Men's Refusal to Date Women
Claims men often refuse to date women, but reasons are not solely due to homosexuality.
Mention of Heather's "requirements list" for a potential partner to illustrate women's high standards.
Heather's Requirements List
Lists Heather's requirements: age between 30-45, financially stable, no kids, 5'10" or taller, and more.
Asserts Heather is low value despite her high standards.
Emphasizes that some of these requirements are basic, such as being kind and not wearing sweatpants.
Critiques Heather's list as overly detailed and exclusive.
Comparison of Men's and Women's Preferences
Asserts that men only want three things in a partner: attractiveness, not being rude, and good housewife skills.
Characterizes women's lists as overly extensive compared to men's.
Criticism of Heather
Claims Heather appears "crazy" and notes she has "crazy eyes".
Deducts points from her "value" for her age and business ownership.
Criticizes her dessert business as a potential sign of future weight gain.
Contradictory Statements
Lecturer acknowledges that Heather's list may not be unreasonable but questions her value due to appearance and behavior.
Contradictions evident in expectations, such as avoiding sweatpants but rejecting someone with a baking business.
Analysis of Single Mothers
Next example focuses on a single mother claiming to be responsible.
Argues that single mothers are inherently irresponsible due to their status.
Criticizes her physical appearance and claims single mothers can't be good partners.
Views on Women and Humor
States that men do not value humor in women, contrary to typical partner expectations.
Suggests traditional roles and caretaking abilities as more important.
General Criticism of Women's Demands
Lecturer finds women’s dating standards unrealistic given their perceived value.
Views expressed about single mothers and overweight women illustrate extreme opinions.
Endorsement of Narcissistic Viewpoints
Views expressed about appearance, maternal responsibilities, and personal habits show a narrow, prescriptive perspective on gender roles.
Implicit belief that women's primary value rests in physical appearance and submissiveness.
Conclusion
Summary that only "traditional" attributes should matter in evaluating potential partners.
Heavy reliance on subjective and anecdotal evidence.
Emphasis on personal biases over balanced or comprehensive views.
Final Thoughts
Lecturer's arguments are based on broad generalizations and extreme viewpoints.
Contradictions in stated views reveal inherent biases and a limited perspective on human relationships.
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