The Arts of Charisma and Allure

Introduction

Speaker: Jills
Focus: Helping women step into power, tap into divine feminine, and become their best selves.
Course Announcement: "Awaken Your Feminine Energy" available for pre-sale.

Definition: Charisma is a blend of two key traits:
- Warmth: Likability, approachability, trustworthiness.
- Competence: Presence, confidence, inner authority.
Personal Reflection: Most people have a natural tendency towards either warmth or competence.

Walking into a Room:
- Keep head up, eyes up, and chest open.
- Avoid hiding behind phones; instead, take up space with relaxed movements.
Eye Contact:
- Use appropriate eye contact to build connection and intimacy.
Smiling:
- Smile genuinely, using your whole face. Genuine smiles involve squinting eyes.
Nodding and Leaning In:
- Nod during conversations to show engagement.
- Occasionally lean in to show interest.
Overall Body Language:
- Maintain confident and relaxed body language.
- Avoid fidgeting or rushing; stand up straight.

Being Interested, Not Interesting:
- Focus on others; make them feel seen and heard.
- Utilize thoughtful questions during conversations.
Generous Compliments:
- Compliment thoughtfully and specifically.
- You can also compliment others while speaking to a third party.
Re-establishing Attention:
- If someone gets interrupted, direct attention back to them (e.g., “What were you saying?”).
Remember Details:
- Recall names and previous conversation points; ask follow-up questions.

Stay in Your Energy Bubble:
- Maintain your energy despite external pressures; remain grounded.
Stop Craving Attention:
- Let go of validation-seeking behaviors to enhance confidence.
Self-Respect:
- Believe in yourself and your qualities to naturally attract positive attention.

Self-Belief: Trust in your ability to be charismatic and alluring.
Course Reminder: "Awaken Your Feminine Energy" pre-sale for one week.
Related Video: "How to Have a Magnetic Aura" recommended for complementary topics.