Intentional Parenting and Community Building

Mar 13, 2025

Lecture Notes: Intentional Parenting and Community Worship

Introduction

  • Hosts: Montana and Ally, a mother-daughter duo.
  • Theme: Intentional parenting.
  • Acknowledgment of both in-person and online attendees.

Announcements

  • D Now Event: March 21-22, for students to worship and hear sermons.
    • Need for 60 drivers.
    • Drivers must be 25+, with a valid driver’s license.
  • Help Build Hope: Scheduled for March 29.
    • Family-friendly event, children 5+ can participate.
    • Project involves building two houses.
    • Opportunity for community service and family bonding.

Worship Session

  • Songs focusing on trust, faith, and seeking God's presence.
  • Encouragement for congregants to prepare emotionally for the sermon.
  • Invitation to new attendees and emphasis on community building.

Community Update

  • Hosted the first parenting conference with a significant impact.
  • Emphasis on the role of parents as primary disciple-makers.
  • Online resource page for family discipleship available.

Sermon Introduction

  • Focus: Intentional relationships and parenting.
  • Speakers: Phil and Brooke, from Intentional Parenting Ministry.
  • Introduction to the challenges of modern parenting.

Parenting in Modern Times

  • Societal challenges: broken families, identity confusion, digital addiction.
  • Impact of hyper-individualism on parenting.
  • The importance of recognizing and addressing personal Brokenness.

Key Concepts and Tools

Inner Work

  • Philippians 2: Importance of working out salvation with God’s help.
  • Emphasis on continuous self-improvement and transformation.

Forgiveness in Family

  • Teaching children about forgiveness based on Ephesians 4:25-32.
  • The practice of sincere apologies and reconciliation.

Attention

  • Giving intentional, focused attention to children.
  • Addressing questions kids need answered:
    • Do you see me?
    • Do you care that I'm here?
    • Am I enough for you?

Blessing

  • Importance of speaking blessings into children's lives.
  • Framework for giving a Biblical blessing: appropriate touch, spoken message, attaching high value, picturing a special future, and commitment.

Testimony and Personal Stories

  • Shared experiences from Phil and Brooke.
  • Emphasis on the impact of blessings and parental involvement.

Conclusion

  • Encouragement for families to integrate these practices at home.
  • Prayer and community blessing to conclude the session.
  • Invitation to worship and participate in the church community activities.

Final Worship and Dismissal

  • Closing worship song focusing on blessing and community.
  • Encouragements for continual spiritual growth and engagement.