Overview
The lyrics explore the emotional meaning behind being called affectionate names, contrasting past negative experiences with a current relationship where such terms feel genuine and loving.
Past Experiences with Affectionate Names
- Being called "sweetheart" was experienced as passive-aggressive and insincere.
- Negative encounters at bars included confrontations over perceived attention from others.
- In the past, being called "honey" or other terms was associated with judgment, insecurity, and sadness.
- "Lovely" and "late night" calls from others felt manipulative or lacking in genuine praise.
Impact of the Current Relationship
- The current partner redefines affectionate terms, making "honey" feel sincere and meaningful.
- Their touch and words transform negative associations into positive emotional experiences.
- The relationship brings comfort, acceptance, and new possibilities ("play house," "pick New York").
- The partner expresses genuine awe and stays through the night, offering stability.
Emotional Shifts and Reassurance
- The narrator finds healing from past hurts through the partner's authentic affection.
- Being called "honey" now feels empowering and desired, not diminishing.
Key Themes
- Contrast between hollow, passive-aggressive affection and authentic love.
- The significance of context and intention in how affectionate names are received.
- The journey from insecurity and past wounds to acceptance and emotional safety.