Exploring Narcissism and Mentalization Therapy

Nov 18, 2024

Podcast Discussion: Narcissistic Personality Disorder & Mentalization-Based Therapy (MBT)

Introduction

  • Discussion on Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) and mentalization-based therapy.
  • Key personalities involved:
    • Anthony Bateman: Co-founder of MBT.
    • Bob Drak: Clinical Director of MBT Clinic.
    • Brandon Unruh: Psychiatrist and psychotherapist.

Participants and Roles

Bob Drak

  • Clinical social worker.
  • Focused on treating NPD and Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) using MBT.
  • Runs individual and group therapy sessions.

Brandon Unruh

  • Psychiatrist and psychotherapist at Mclean Hospital.
  • Mentored by John Gunderson, influential in BPD diagnosis.
  • Medical Director at Gunderson Residence.

Anthony Bateman

  • Visiting professor at University College London.
  • Focuses on clinical work and training in mentalizing, research on antisocial personality disorder.

Understanding Narcissism

Types of Narcissism

  • Grandiose: High self-perception of greatness.
  • Vulnerable: Contingent self-esteem, based on external validations such as accomplishments and appearance.
  • Both types share entitlement and antagonism traits.

Relationship with Other Disorders

  • Overlay with antisocial behaviors, particularly in grandiose narcissism, leading to social disruptions.

Mentalization-Based Therapy (MBT)

Core Concepts

  • MBT focuses on the ability to reflect on mental states in oneself and others.
  • Target is to enhance the affective vocabulary of patients, helping them identify emotions like sadness and shame.

Problems in Mentalizing for Narcissists

  • Overconfidence in perspective-taking: Difficulty in seeing other perspectives.
  • Impaired empathy: Harder to empathize when self-esteem is threatened.
  • Externalization of blame: Tendency to blame external factors for personal failures.
  • Black and white thinking: Difficulty in tolerating ambiguity.

Treatment Approaches

  • Initial Alliance Formation: Critical in engaging NPD patients.
  • Affect Elaboration Pathway: Enhancing inward reflection and emotional vocabulary.
  • Empathy Development: Context-dependent deficits addressed by normalizing vulnerabilities.
  • Formulation in MBT: Writing up a formulation that includes mentalizing problems, shared with patients, to guide treatment.

Challenges in Treatment

  • High dropout rates due to lack of dependency-seeking behavior in NPD patients.
  • Co-constructed therapeutic relationship, emphasizing empathy and engagement.

Key Takeaways

  • MBT is effective in managing both narcissistic and borderline personality traits.
  • Treatment success stories demonstrate recovery and improvement in self-esteem regulation.
  • Emphasis on understanding narcissism as a continuum of normal human experience, not just as a disorder.
  • Importance of addressing pathology in self-esteem regulation for therapeutic success.

Conclusion

  • The discussion highlights the complexities and nuances in treating narcissistic traits using MBT.
  • Encourages a broader understanding and empathy for individuals with narcissistic vulnerabilities as part of the human experience.