it is so much going on but I ain't got nothing to do with it it's a whole lot of whole lot of going on it's a whole lot of lot of going on there a whole lot of whole lot of going on it's a whole lot of lot of going on it's Monday and you know what that mean if it ain't about me then I'm a first on the doing and I'mma talk [ __ ] I'm sugar honey IC tea do you want to now period I said what I said now Move Along [ __ ] before you get r p you can't stick with me come on girls let's get it Monday [Music] Monday Monday Monday M it's a whole lot of whole lot of going on there a whole lot of lot of going on a whole lot whole lot of going on a whole lot of lot of going on hey creeps and welcome back to Messy Monday as you already know you can't sit with me unless you are Po and that is pretty on purpose now before I start what I need you to do is to go hit that like button I need 10,000 likes if we can easily get 200k 300K views stop and hit that like button for me please and thank you and then go in the comments and say hey friend can we get at least 2,000 comments and 10,000 likes let's do that for me I come on here every Monday All I Ask y'all to do is just engage with me period oh and what did you do friend you made it to another week like I always say shouts out to you for making it through another week we've had so much going on from this presidential debate from attempted assassinations to just everything from illnesses to sickness to depression whatever is going on in 2024 is going on but my friend you made it and I'm so proud of you for sticking it out okay I love you so much thank y'all for coming here every Monday to watch me and act up with me and Kik and gossip and if it ain't about me let's Kik period I love y'all okay now let me give a shout out to my friend and that is Deontay hey [ __ ] okay Deontay I see you a Barb that's what's up [ __ ] shout out you for being the first to comment on my Twitter post you have my post notifications on and I greatly appreciate that it lets me know that you want to see what the hell I got to talk about and what the [ __ ] I got to say so thank you child y'all go over like his post retweet his post follow him cuz he is a Barb um you know connect with each other whatever the case may be cuz we are a zavian what a zav does is we stick together cuz we are very strong all right you guys I love you thank you Deontay and [ __ ] you is now my friend hey [ __ ] all right let's go on again into y'all's favorite part and that is the [ __ ] the sugar honey ice tea because you girls love staying in some [ __ ] first for the sugar honey ice te we have Li greef now when they posted this I said oh my God they done got him I thought they got him I said I know the Grim Reaper ain't dead he be the one killing everybody noo shave but I was like what's going on girl come to find out World on the curve is they said the Chicago rapper was arrested on Sunday for allegedly raping in Los Angeles now don't get me to line I I don't know I ain't got nothing to do with this is what the streets are saying so don't shoot the messenger literally now what made it the Kik is booy booy was a reporter hey I'm at the hotel downtown they just took L ree to jail he came out handcuffed they had all his bags so if anybody L re people y'all need to check on they just took him to jail U some dude came down say some woman say lied on them or some [ __ ] so now how the hell booy get there I don't know booy just be everywhere booy be on every type of rund de V and in the right spot at the right time to get the right information now booy know he mess it kabo ain't nobody know [ __ ] if you would have said nothing but for you to come out and tell that man T boo you missy girl any got any people any L people the Grim Reaper people they just took them to jail downtown LA and put them in the car y'all need to tap in with y'all people now boo I know people love you and you known as everybody uncle whatever the case may be but you wrong for that you said go check on the ground you said the grand reaper family go check on your grand reaper when really they need to be go checking on that girl because allegedly now if they did go out to eat whatever the case may be and she went back up to his room she is not obligated to give that man any type of co co she ain't got to do that now you got some folks on the side saying well she should have went up to the room okay the [ __ ] you went on a date you can go to the room and yeah you might have had your intentions that you did want to F but then you get in the room you might change him like oh the room dirty his balls a little musty I don't think I want to do this no more so when somebody say no no means no I don't give a [ __ ] if she promised you sex when you got to the room I don't give a [ __ ] if y'all was kissing and then all of a sudden now she say no no means no so they said the girl allegedly ran up down the steps and [ __ ] [ __ ] whoop and girl it is what it is child I don't know these men just be so horny Go Jack your little penis and go to bed [ __ ] wrong with y'all y'all just you want to throw yourself on people that a weak ass five minute hump and pump dick don't nobody want that all the time ain't this the same man that [ __ ] or pissed on himself when them people beat him up I don't want to have sex with him either but you know I don't know what my room whatever well let me H cuz child I love Chicago and I want to be able to step foot in Chicago and I know what the gr Reaper is capable of so I'm going just keep this real cute and cordial and honey just know no me no and it is what it is if it ain't about me everybody don't want y' little pee PE next Cas next for the sugar honey ice te we have bab baby now child I I I want to say what I want to say cuz y'all know I can get real down and real dirty but because this is a sensitive topic and a lot of women go through this I'mma trade it lightly so bad baby recently posted that you know her and her man had a little altercation and you know some things happen I'm not going to show the picture cuz we saw it last week eyes was messed up you know it was really graphic and a lot of people were actually on her side you had some people talking [ __ ] whatever the case be after she told on the man she post the dad now remember that's when everybody started flipping the RP like oh girl okay you going back because when you can say I love that man more than I love myself then girl we already know especially when you got a child involved no you need to love your child and then love yourself and before all that love God and you can't even love God and your child if you don't even love yourself because you already putting them in before you put them before now so when we got there we already knew what the [ __ ] was going on and then when you start making up excuses like oh well this doesn't usually happen to this this extreme I don't give a [ __ ] you already said it happened so guess what it's going to keep escalating and now that you showed him he can get away with doing it like this now he's definitely going to do it and the fact that you came and you bought it public thinking it was going to scare him to get his act together you lowkey made it worse cuz now he's like oh you want to take that [ __ ] to the public I'll [ __ ] you up even more if you do that [ __ ] again girl you better protect yourself that's what you need to do and protecting yourself is getting away way but what has happened is you overlooked and you forgave him for the little minor to you minor issues to now where it escalated allowed a baby to form now you're stuck because you have that baby you have that Bond and you have that connection that you think you have so now it's harder for you to get away when you should have got away that first time so I know people going to be like wello you don't understand you've never been in the domestic body relationship I hate when people say that I've never been in one because I'm not going to lie nobody to put their hands on me one time because when you allow it one time there's going to be another time there going to be a third time and then before you know it you're stuck because you love that person you think you hush though and then I kept reading it says and and making this post there was no point in attacking him so it's like you're you want to protect him and his image but did he protect you look at your face he didn't give a [ __ ] about your face he didn't give a [ __ ] about you that baby but oh I it wasn't to this extreme ever oh I um this wasn't to attack him everything's about him him him him him that's how we knew you were going back and then this person said if you cared you will leave that man cuz he'll abuse you in front of her and that's when bad baby said well who said I'm going bad and then guess the [ __ ] what I'm can't without you ladies that is why people do not take domestic violence serious you go out and you give that cry for help and then when you get that cry for help and people are standing behind you people are loving you people are there for you you go back that's why cops don't come running and and taking the men to jail and leaving them in there until it's too late leave at the beginning ladies leave at the beginning and then you go out you in public like this man didn't just do this to you have a good day all right can we get one more wave all right where's the baby at are y'all having day night where's the baby she's so cute she's at home like I said people at the end of the day I I can't say you can't help but it's hard to help somebody in a domestic violence relationship it just it really has to be them wanting to leave when they've gotten that deep there's nothing you can say there's nothing you can do there's nothing you can show there's nothing and today have had enough and hopefully it's not too late and that is why I say it all the time love love love love love yourself because if you don't love yourself then nobody else can love you I'm going to say it until I can't say it anymore all right well she's back and this time if it happens she probably won't come to social media so keep her in her prayers I hope she's safe and it is what it is if it ain't about me ladies run so you can be free next case next for the Shoney ice tea we have C now this ain't messing this is just us be messy so Cali came out and she showed everybody you know she's pregnant whatever the case it be she's expecting a child so congratulations to her she looks so beautiful but we all want to know who the baby daddy cuz I don't think we've seen her with nobody know all of us know she used to talk you know what I'm saying we like all Duke probably sliding down the wall like a woman in the movie who got cheated on by her husband and she in the shower was just upset crying I don't know I actually think Duke is doing just fine Duke hey so the girls went running around the curb they was looking trying to see who the [ __ ] the girl baby daddy is a child it's supposed to be him this um is NFL player who work for the who play for the Chiefs he had some so I don't know y'all get the Dig and let me know if this is real cuz the right now is allegedly so I don't know but I mean I can see it all right if it ain't About Me C and have a baby next case next for sh ice te we have cash do and Tracy now as y'all know cash doll has had her second baby by him whatever the case may be and we thought that it was you know all lovey doy and doves and Paradise but it's not so cash had did a post delete and what it said was single and I don't give a [ __ ] about y'all saying I have two kids about him I'm just a baby mama blah blah blah I'm not dealing with anything just to keep my family together now to me when I saw that that gave me I'm mad at him [ __ ] you you didn't want to answer to me talk on the phone reply to what I had to say so you know what [ __ ] you we done and you just acted out of emotions that that's what that gave me it didn't give anything else like she was seriously done it just gave me T potential and I love me some cash off but I know a t potential when I see one and I'm feeling it was a issue that they done discussed before and he ain't changed D me talking about keep your head up what you think wrong with me man I'm okay man now sir if you really want to be clear you outside walking around in in walk around in circles you ain't good baby you're not good you didn't think she would take it to this extreme so now you embarrassed so that's why people tell you to keep your head up because what you not going to do is find somebody like cash and I don't know why it's so hard for you men to show that you're not okay in a breakup because if you love somebody and you had sexual relations with somebody and then somebody had your children you obviously cared about this person so that act like you just don't care is the reason why she posted what she posted on her Instagram story because you acting like you don't care stop trying to hide y'all feelings with people let the pride go and if you [ __ ] up in a relationship just say I [ __ ] up like y'all men got to stop thinking it's cool to have these broken homes if the woman is showing you that something is bothering her fix it and women if the man is showing you that something is bothering him fix it y'all too comfortable with these broken homes for me so I guess people were talking about it in the blogs or even to her personally or in the comments under her pictures and cash comes out and she says this mad about my breakup more than me why y'all keep coming on here talking about y'all sorry for my breakup leave me alone now cash I [ __ ] with you girl but we wouldn't have known about the breakup if you wouldn't have brought it to us so yes we going to have our opinions yes we going to voice it cuz that's what social media is it is a place of just a big bow full of mess and drama and [ __ ] and if you don't want the drama and [ __ ] don't post it what if I was lying what if I was lying about what I post what if I was lying y'all just took it and run with it cuz y'all so happy to hear some bad news girl don't try to go fix it and say what if he was lying s if you going to stay friend you going to stay just to just say you was pissed he made you mad and you reacted friend I feel like it's women y'all should just we should put our so first anyway and that ain't got nothing to do with just men it's just period we bring so much to the table it's just I want do do y'all can I ask them like do y'all believe in God hello Jesus Christ I don't think a lot of y'all believe in God that's why y'all move and be so [ __ ] cruel to people y'all need to start believing the God go talk to him go sit down go go get on your knees and pray anyway just St having these people babies if y'all don't really want to be with these people just why can't y'all just [ __ ] and let it be that I don't know but anyway I feel she's just a little embarrassed because she is a mother of two and now you're going to be single but um I feel like it was just an argument that's all it was she reacted a certain way they going to end up fixing it she's a Pisces they be real bipolar girl they going to be back together in 3 to five business days she just real mad about something so let's just let it go and leave leave it alone and it is what it is but please y'all stop thinking that children are less than a marriage a marriage you can get married to somebody and not have children and just go get a divorce paper and y'all are gone but when you have that baby that is a commitment to that person for life I don't give a damn if you move on 20 years later and your baby turned up in 18 and child support is done you're still connected to that person for life that is something serious y'all stop thinking that just having babies is just having babies even if you do want it just for you and you want a child it's serious a baby is serious and if it ain't about me let's keep keep next case all right you guys that is all I got for the sugar honey iced tea I know we're moving a little fast but this week there really wasn't a lot of mess it's just been a bunch of President debate stuff so I'm actually good we could just move on through this okay let's go on and get into this mess first of the doet we have duve and Britney now as y'all know duve and Britney have been separated they got a child whatever the case may be everybody thought they was just living their life single woo woo woo well child dub had ended up going on a vacation to C with his family and this video surface and everybody was like wait a minute what is going on when this happen when you get this [Music] now dub said he wasn't angry about the video surfacing a bunch of couples here I'm like bro I'm not going to be lonely by myself you know what I'm saying I don't want to be lonely I don't want to be by myself bro I don't want to be like one of these old dads N I ain't trying to be like your dad that never recovered I don't want to be like your uncle that never recovered get the drinking and cuz they miss they woman no bro go move on it's a million people in the world and you don't have to end things with somebody spiteful uh me and and Britney are fine but just because something didn't work with somebody else that do not mean lonely be lonely never going to choose to be lonely bro um at all you know what I'm saying I feel like I have a lot to talk about and I need to talk about that with somebody but if you seen the video that video is old like I don't I I look 20 in these videos like if you see this picture I look hella hella young if you seen it I don't want to put light to it or if you seen it but that thing is because is I feel like once you don't know something about once you don't know anything about somebody it makes the relationship better me for example let giving people an advice if you like a girl and y'all kicking it don't follow them on social medias girl that y'all see on there I I know I know none of her social medias cuz I don't you know what I'm saying like it doesn't matter all I'm saying is is like uh that video is old it's not like new it's not like yesterday it's not like last month it's not the other month but like I said I do have a personal life I do put y'all in my personal life but I do have another life but y'all don't know anything about my private life and I think we going to keep it like that and when it gets exposed it's kind of better like I said I'm not angry or anything I'm not mad at anybody for exposing that I'm enjoying my uh Mexico trip and I choose company over being alone bro I choose it any day I choose it any day lot of people y'all going to have your opinions and I want yall to have your opinions um one thing I do want to say is before you make that opinion is is that me and Britney are great friends and me and Britney are a partner Partners to a great great kid he knows that she knows that I know that and but me and her still have to live our private lives now if y'all end up getting you know seeing little private stuff then it's cool now child a lot of folks is spooked cuz they like okay first of all he never showed Britney this type of affection this type of lovey D [ __ ] that he showing this new girl and they really upset with the mama and the sisters and them whatever because they like girl they really didn't like Britney anyway they was giving her hell and all that but now y'all all over this girl you know what I'm saying it's like what's T what's going on but they say that this new woman better watch out because they you know they was all in Britney face too but now they in your face but you know when you dating somebody the family going to like who you with regardless and not your ex but they said they def really like her I don't no don't get me to lie okay well child Britney did a Q&A people were asking her how did she feel about the video and this what she had to say are you okay with du bringing around another female already or you actually don't care I can't stop anything a grown man does I can't stop anything any grown person does just like a grown person couldn't stop nothing that I do so to answer the question no I don't care if dejon brings around another female I have no problem with that I have no problem with her as long as my son is getting treated right we good once something go wrong with that little boy in there we got a problem now to me you got to remember they were high school lovers and you know back in high school you think this person might be the love of your life and being in a monogamous relationship is tough it's hard work and everybody can't do it and some people do grow out of love or you know people are changing every day we're becoming a new person we're learning something new we're we're learning new things that we do and don't like and maybe they just grew out of loving each other so I don't think it was hard for me to come back from relationship cuz I wasn't in love I just was comfortable I wasn't in love with Dej anymore I was just it was just the history basically that kept me from leaving and then me wanting my son to grow up in a two pin household but that's why it wasn't hard so to answer your question that's the answer so it wasn't hard it was just get out the house if I was in the house when we first broke up if I was in the house I was sitting thinking about it I'm not even going to purp to y'all but I just told myself like just leave the house leave the house leave the house so now that I'm able to sit in the house and I think about it cool and as y'all heard Britney said it wasn't hard for her to leave and move on now because she wasn't in love anymore when a person clocks out and they're not there anymore you will just deal you're just comfortable cuz this is all you know all I know is to just wake up and be with you then it was time for them to go so let him be with somebody who he wants to do that with you know and like he said he don't like to be lonely so that new girl might want to watch out are you just being with me because you don't want to be by yourself sometimes people will be with you cuz they don't want to be lonely then they stop doing some of the things they were doing and now you going to leave so then he don't want to be lonely again then he going to go to somebody else just because he don't want to be lonely sometimes it's okay to be alone to learn yourself to figure out who you are so now when you get in a relationship with somebody you know how to do and adapt to things because you know how to be alone so now you're not just depending on somebody to be there because you're lonely oh all you broken people that's why I be saying no broken homes and this is that so you can learn how to love from a family that really love each other who's been there for each other who's going to teach you how to fight and stay together that's why it's good to have a mama and a dad and a just two people who love each other are just two loving people who love each other if it ain't about me let's keep keep ESC next on the Ducket we have J versus deari and N now as y'all know deari has been out of the scene for a minute but he's now coming back into social media because there was supporter that had saw him in Atlanta he was roaming around it looked like he may have had you know defecated himself or whatever the case may be I don't know what it was but it was something on the back of his pants and he was looking real discombobulated and this is what it look like you okay dear ain't you the influencer yes what's wrong I don't know who to trust in life like that's all that's and I look at on my own mirror to trust myself sometimes but I don't know what God me prayers for just walk out all right okay thank you thank you thank you all now why a supporter would record that and post it I don't know that's real [ __ ] up on their part but you know that's how this world is and it is what it is so then J goes up under and he responds to some emojis now J I ain't the one to gossip but the girls in the curb said they don't even know why you laughing when you was in the shower y'all love me some J but this what they said they said when you was in the shower your draw was on the floor if you had doodle streaks in your JW now you wouldn't even hi had doodle streaks but he had he got doodle streaks so why would you even be laughing at somebody with doodle seon with you I don't know so after they were saying all of that noooo then saw J's coming and N went up on and said I don't even know why you laughing at the situation cuz when you was in a vulnerable state of your life you came to me and been about a lot of stuff and I know some things on you that you told me that I could tell some folks so you might want to watch yourself and N all said J I don't know why you trying to act like deari is your op cuz he's not he's just a man that broke your face and you went to court you red and things like that so child I don't know what I'm getting is the way deari was introduced to all this stuff is they had did shrooms and got them from Deo allegedly is what I'm hearing this is a while back and you know y'all got to understand there's different types of shrooms out there you got psychedelic shrooms you got all these other type of shrooms and maybe that boy was just high as [ __ ] and you really weren't lce you was just [ __ ] up it was that introduced him to the drugs candy it was dbo that introduced him to the candy Deo didn't mean it in that way though he was having some of it and deari wanted some so deari took seven to eight of them and said oh stron don't do nothing to me I can do this I could do this that that and the third chcken it like a chin they told him he needed to calm down he said no I don't need to do nothing okay cool Mari started tweaking once he started tweaking he ended up punching Trey in the lip end up beating Trey up M of all of that when he got on the train tracks and he started tweaking Lena tried to help him guess what he did when the boys left out just guess he strangled banet when I said what after the hell he just put that girl through yes he did yes he did yes he did really get laced in Jael laced in Jael I think I got laced out of jail you got laced somewhere and had something to do with jail yeah then I went to jail right after for that that's the crazy part about it wait so how did you get lace huh how did you get lace uh I was with my friends and [ __ ] and then we just all ate some and then I just got the wrong end of it I guess I ate too much what was what what what did y'all eat mushrooms and they so basically somebody like whoever y'all got this it was l no I don't think it was whoever so honey I don't know what's going on y'all kids just need to stop trying to buy up y'all's feeling and putting a Band-Aid on them with drugs and Weed and Alcohol and stuff like that because at the end of the day the stuff is still going to be there and these things cause anxiety and depression what you have to do is face your problems head on and get through them not trying to cover them this is a this is aot of I guess we going have to see if um Nuno GNA spend the block he did also say he going to spend that block for um deari oh Lord so is J N gonna buy it all right well if it ain't about me let's keep getc next to the D we have Cory and Manny versus cor now we've been talking about this hopefully it's starting to wind down whatever the case may be so y'all know Cory end up dropping him what was like a 2hour long response to Corman song whatever the case may be dur during the video Cory really didn't tell us anything new it's stuff we already knew the most receipts he did have was the ones with Mei that we've already seen you know what I'm saying so that was nothing new um he never really addressed the situation about the abuse he just said they were fighting each other the other allegations that Carmen put on him he never really addressed he started but then he stopped and go something else you sit here and you say booy was living with y'all for a moment but where's booy why booy ain't saying nothing you know what I'm saying it's always you have these receipts and these but we never see anything new there was all these cameras in the house where's the footage from the cameras you know what I'm saying it's just it's always something but it's not everything from Cory so I don't know whatever the case may be it's [ __ ] we've already seen and heard so Corman drops her second half where she was sitting down where I think a person named cat whatever the case may be um discussing her immigration and everything else with lawyers and all this stuff that Cory was trying to hold over her head what happened with the lawyer situation girl cuz they keep on calling me telling me your paperwork is ready and that you good to go girl no I talked to them already they said I got Pro when we called that lawyer afterwards what's going on with her paperwork we sick of this being held over her head y'all got paid blah blah blah and they said that Cory wasn't responding to the emails they would not proceed without him doing whatever and he never would do it so that was the whole process of your paperwork because people think when you're married you're already considered like it illegally here but but there's a process you have to go through we called the LA was like Hey do she need to hide out hey do she need to do she need to take the baby somewhere hey and the lawyer said no she don't need to do all of that she good she can legally be here because she's in the process I don't know you guys we going to see what happens hopefully this works out for her so now that this won't be held over her head um and then Maddie comes out and Maddie wants to sit here and she says this you know you know that me getting out the car open door for you is so extra you can open the doors to get out now I can open it for you when you get in any who I do believe that you teach a man how to treat you the reason why I say that is because different men come from different backgrounds for one but two different men deal deal with different type of woman they don't make another woman less than the other but different woman require different [ __ ] in his past according to him he's not used to having to do certain things that I require of him and that's what I mean by like if I was raised a certain way like my daddy opens all my doors my daddy carries all my bags my daddy touches every Bill like that's principles that I was raised on I have a father in my life I had my father my whole life I'm a daddy's girl like as y can see so with that being said I'm not going to date a man my dad always say if he can't treat you better than me then it's a waste of time and so that's how I see it like I'm like the girl that likes inside of the sidewalk I like I like roses every single week all things that CJ is required to do because that's a standard that I set Maddie that's great y'all known each other for how long and y'all already getting tattoos of each other this already seems like it's not going to move right I mean I don't know and you stand on your dad that taught you all this stuff but everything you doing right now is obvious of what your daddy taught you you know what I'm saying like you're getting a tattoo don't even know the man they say that allegedly you might be pregnant hopefully this man ain't moved in with you cuz why you're moving in this man but shouldn't be moving in with the man or just something coming at it together as a I don't know girl it just seems like you doing damage control for Cory like I see we see all the videos you know you showing him cooking for you he's opening the door are you trying to Rebrand him to make the people see like oh maybe you are the woman that's going to change him as a man girl I don't care what nobody said you can't change a man a man going to change when he want to change he just sat there and told you could have opened the door yourself and he you was giggling and smiling but you still had let me hush all right y'all tell me what you think what you feel in the comments if it ain't about me let's K okay next little we have p and now last week this took everybody by surpris because Quan end up going on social media saying he was done he put on his dead sister and everybody was like oh he put on his sister we know he's serious cuz he ain't never done that and just all this other stuff right then he was seen at his mama house e there she was seing at the airport going back home with the children by herself w y y y fast forward now that I made a video they sitting down together and they had a whole lot a whole lot a whole lot of to say I mean I decided to take it to social media and uh say something and I had posted that I'm single for life and um put on my sister um may God rest my sister soul anyone that knows me Ren knows that when I said what I said I meant it with everything in me like it was like I meant that to the call like I meant what I said and that's why I said it I wouldn't have said it if I didn't mean it um but it was just a huge mistake with me uh bringing it to social media that was not something that Quan ever said because he was looking for attention or like this was not something that happened or we did for attention or clout or followers and things of that sort because you know like you were saying earlier there is a lot of people that go to social media with these things and they have these fake story lines and all this type of stuff like Juan would never ever in a million years say something like that unless he felt strongly about it you know what I'm saying like you said this was a serious situation this was not something for like play this was not like a joke this was not nothing like that this is some real life [ __ ] that we're going through together and that's how he felt in the moment and that's why you said that yeah um Quan's obviously not the only person that has to apologize for all the stuff that happened on social media I also have to you know s out an apology in the first place because of all this happening in the first place obviously like that's the main reason why we're even able to sit right here um obviously I had some apologizing to dquan and he accepted my apology and not to why were even able to sit right here but also to you guys because um just because in the moment when everything was happening you know a lot of people were having assumptions and stuff like that and you know I ended up responding to someone on Twitter and like telling you guys basically or this person to mind their business and that wasn't right of me you know what I'm saying because at the end of the day you guys are confused you guys left at at luk I hadn't spoke about anything yet um so that wasn't right of me to be telling you guys you know to mind your business or for me to even have the audacity coming off like that when this happened because of something that I left and you know what I'm saying you know what I'm trying to say like it I had no place to be even doing that I should have never said anything on social media at all life or whatever like a lot of them were wondering like oh did we actually break up like can we please let them know like what's going on cuz you guys had no idea so I posted that that's how it felt um I meant it but in reality at that time I had Risa blocked no Communications I didn't like we we weren't in yeah we weren't in the right space to even be around each other right so when I posted that I meant that you know but I realistically I didn't you communicate yeah we didn't have a conversation so to break up you have to have a conversation there has to be some type of agreeance like you have to be in agreeance that this is what we're going to do um there was no conv instead I I did react immaturely and just you know just set that although I meant it I should have you know but I was just not in the space to even you know talk to her so um so technically no didn't break up but um I wasn't joking when I said what I said exactly people were trying to say that my kids weren't my kids like somebody tried to say that savior wasn't my kid they're saying I slept with someone else and I got pregnant by someone else they most were saying like oh the last one isn't yours and stuff like that false false I'm not even going to get into that that's just complete nonsense so that's false that I I slept with another man that I went through my phone and you saw me talking to another man or something like that just all that all right I'm going to tell yall this that's false and if it was that we wouldn't be sitting here right now trust and believe that so um that's not true it's not true we decided that we're not going to share what happened there's no point of sharing what happened especially if we're going to decide to move forward yeah we still have to keep privacy understand went to social media so we do have explaining we already kind of screwed up with bringing at the social media me me bringing it the social media in the first place cuz with me or us not really saying anything or saying what happened um look at all that transpired uh with the RAS and people making things up again I'm not saying anybody's wrong for doing that I take I take accountability for that um it was wrong to even bring it to social media but just seeing how that went I could imagine if like if we shared what happened it you know what I'm saying it would just make matters worse so we would we decided to keep that private we're the reason why we're even able to sit right here is because I had to take accountability for something I had to apologize to call he had to accept my apology and that's why we're even sitting here you know I'm saying like we said we're going to keep some as much privacy as we can at this point like to not share exactly details but I just want you to know that it wasn't something that like it was a serious situation and how he reacted was valid because those were his feelings and he was upset he felt disrespected and you know it's something that I need to moving forward you know work on things with myself as well and be sincere with everything that I'm saying and just show him you know that I'm sorry like we said we're going to be working on things and I mean it's going to take some time we might need some time yeah we might need some time to you know just get back to ourselves but once we get to that point of course we going to get back to posting and just being our authentic selves and you know promoting positivity and just being happy and of course you know sharing our lives with y'all and making y'all happy also yeah you guys know how much qu and I love each other like I love you love you too so much and you guys see that like it was never fake it was never something like oh we were just doing this you know what I'm saying um we've always just shared our genuine selves so yeah that's just what we want to do moving forward as well once things you know once we're in a better place and all that stuff like what I'm saying um but yeah that's pretty much the plan now I don't know about y'all but me seeing that you know it it kind of pulled me a little ways when I saw I was like oh girl this was all just for show but when I sit down and I really get into it I don't think she cheated physically but what I do feel is that he caught her entertaining a guy that's what I feel that's why it's so simple for him or not simple but easy enough for him to sit back down with her discuss it and say let's work on it I think she have might have got you know in relationships you've been with for somebody so long you get comfortable and then somebody can inch their way in and start talking to you and you feel fresh and new again like oo this person's talking to me got and then you end up getting caught so I think he caught her entertaining somebody cuz they don't want to talk about it cuz I don't think wants to ruin her image and people don't want to say oh you dealing with that she'll do it again so they're keeping it private to protect their relationship so they can work on it and not let outside opinions make them choose what they want to do with each other so that's why he got mad came on social media said what he said oh you can do this for somebody you can do that you can love them like this but they don't love you cuz I'm telling you like he said in that video if she would have cheated phic Al he would not be sitting right there but I think she was entertaining somebody and by her entertaining somebody he's like damn I'm giving you all this I'm doing this I'm doing that and that's not enough that you have to go entertain somebody else that's what I think happened and that's why it's easy enough for him to say you know what well let's work on this let's work on us it's going to take time because now he has to build the trust back the Loyalty you know can I actually deal with this can I really forgive her cuz yeah and if you look at her she's good she's like yeah we got to do this you know um he shouldn't be the only one that had to apologize cuz he went you know um public with this but I had to apologize for my things too and that's why she I feel he was like well no you know you [ __ ] up why you telling people start our business on the internet fussing that fans and stuff when [ __ ] you really [ __ ] up so you can't tell Post St out your business cuz you [ __ ] up how can you say [ __ ] you know what I'm saying you [ __ ] up don't make it like you was this good person I'm just overreacting for nothing you gave me a reason to react and that's why I reacted period you you you should have just stayed the [ __ ] quiet and let me be mad and let the people say what they saying because you [ __ ] up I think he really don't want to be there I think she just really cried baby I'm sorry I'm not going to do it again please to get me I and because he genuinely does love her he's taking her back but I feel when people do that so soon you're doing it because you you knew you really still love that person but is it what you really wanted to do I think they should I think they should have stayed separate for a second just you know just to breathe maybe like a week or two and then come and have this come ation because then once all this settles is your trust still going to be there you know what I'm saying are you going to be walking around saying what she doing what is this what is that my God I don't know I wish them well I hope it works the way they wanted to work I'm glad they were mature enough to you know try to work on it cuz that's what relationships are working on things I'm right well tell me what y'all think in the comments tell what you feel do you what you think happened y y y it is what it is if about me let's keep okay all right you guys that is all I have for the Messy Monday like I always say send me the mess in my Instagram DM send it send it send it put it in order say this is what happened this what's going on this who said this this who said that put me all the information together cuz baby I don't go looking forward okay um I love you guys like I always say I only make one you if you don't be you then nobody else will and until then stay messy and I will see you next Monday next C it's a whole lot of whole lot of going on it's a whole lot of lot of going on a whole lot of whole lot of going on a whole going on