Engaging Texting Strategies to Create Longing

Nov 15, 2024

12 Ways to Make Him Miss You Like Crazy over Text

Introduction

  • Article on making men miss you through texting.
  • Co-authored by Laura Bilotta, a dating coach and matchmaker.
  • Aimed at helping singles maintain an engaging texting relationship.

Techniques to Make Him Miss You

1. Give Him a Sweet Compliment

  • Men appreciate compliments on their looks, actions, or personality.
  • Examples:
    • "You always know just what to say to make me feel better."
    • "I bet you’re looking really handsome today!"

2. Thank Him for Something He’s Done

  • Show appreciation for his actions.
  • Examples:
    • "Thank you so much for the text last night; it meant the world to me."
    • "I really appreciated you coming over today."

3. Send Him a Flirty Text

  • Keep conversations fun and engaging with flirtation.
  • Examples:
    • "You make me smile every time I see a message from you pop up."
    • "You must be so tired since you’ve been running through my head all day!"

4. Ask for His Advice

  • Men like to feel valued and trusted.
  • Examples:
    • "Im making a playlist for us. What songs do you think I should include?"
    • "I’ve wanted to get back into reading. What are some of your favorite books you think I'd like?"

5. Remind Him of Your Memories Together

  • Use shared memories to evoke positive emotions.
  • Examples:
    • "I just heard the song we danced to on our first date."
    • "I was scrolling through some old pics and found some cute ones from our vacation."

6. Mention How Much You Miss Him

  • Expressing that you miss him makes him think about missing you.
  • Examples:
    • "Just wanted to let you know I’ve been thinking of you a lot today."
    • "I wish I could cuddle up with you right now!"

7. Share a Cute Pic

  • Share moments via photos to make him want to be with you.
  • Examples:
    • Send a cute selfie and say, "Private fashion show just for you!"

8. Set Up a Time to Get Together

  • Planning dates builds anticipation and excitement.
  • Examples:
    • "I’m so excited to see you again! When are you free later this week?"

9. Turn Him On with a Sexy Message

  • Use sexy messages to grasp his attention.
  • Examples:
    • "Just imagine what we’d be doing if we were together right now."

10. Send a Cute Goodnight Text

  • Ending the day with a text keeps you on his mind.
  • Examples:
    • "Goodnight. I’ll see you in my dreams!"

11. Keep Your Messages Positive

  • Lighthearted texts keep the conversation going.
  • Avoid serious topics over text; save them for in-person discussions.

12. Make Yourself Less Available

  • Limiting availability can increase his longing for you.
  • Wait for him to initiate conversations sometimes.

Author Information

  • Laura Bilotta: Dating coach with over 18 years of experience, known for encouraging intentional dating.
  • Article viewed over 899,962 times.

Additional Resources

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