Understanding Death and Grief Management

Oct 16, 2024

Chapter 14: Death and Dying

Introduction

  • Understanding death is inevitable and part of life.
  • Nurses frequently deal with death.
  • Reactions to death vary based on:
    • How death occurred (sudden vs. expected)
    • Age of the deceased
    • Cultural and spiritual beliefs

Grief and Mourning

  • Grief: Feeling or expression of loss in response to death.
  • Anticipatory Grief: Experienced when anticipating the loss due to terminal illness.
  • Mourning: Process that follows death, leading to the resumption of normal life.
  • Maladaptive Grief: Persistent difficulty recovering from loss.
  • Bereavement: State of having lost someone.

Theories of Loss and Grief

  • Kubler-Ross's Stages of Grief:
    1. Denial - Blocking the reality of death.
    2. Anger - Upset and looking for someone to blame.
    3. Bargaining - Seeking more time.
    4. Depression - Sadness and despair.
    5. Acceptance - Preparing for death.
  • Bulby's Stages of Mourning:
    • Protest, Despair, Detachment
    • Numbing, Painful Stage, Disorganization, Reorganization

Types of Losses

  • Loss of a spouse, parent, child, fetus, or sibling.
  • Different impacts based on relationship, age, and circumstance.

Facing One's Own Death

  • Patients may express awareness of impending death.
  • Importance of listening and discussing fears and needs.

Developmental Understanding of Death

  • Varies by age group:
    • Children - Limited understanding.
    • Adolescents - Feel invincible.
    • Young adults - Unexpected.
    • Middle adults - Aware of aging.
    • Older adults - Preparation and acceptance.

Signs of Approaching Death

  • Withdrawal, decreased senses, activity changes, breathing changes (e.g., Shane Stokes respirations), vital sign changes, loss of control, body cooling.

Legal and Ethical Considerations

  • Self-Determination Act: Opportunity for advanced directives.
  • Advanced Directives and Living Wills: Legal documentation of treatment wishes.
  • Durable Power of Attorney: Assigning someone to make medical decisions.
  • DNR Orders: No resuscitation desired.

Ethical End-of-Life Issues

  • Euthanasia and Right to Die: Assisted death, controversial topic.
  • Palliative Care: Focus on symptom management and comfort.
  • Hospice Care: Comfort-focused, not curative; requirements include life expectancy of <6 months.

Care After Death

  • Autopsy considerations and family time.
  • Importance of offering support and clergy involvement.

Hospice and Palliative Resources

  • Support groups and counseling available.
  • Local resources (e.g., Hospice of Southern West Virginia).

Conclusion

  • Importance of understanding and responding to grief, mourning, and ethical considerations at end-of-life.
  • Refer to provided handouts for further information.

This concludes the notes for Chapter 14 on Death and Dying. Be sure to review the specific handouts and resources mentioned for a deeper understanding of hospice and palliative care.