The Art of Speaking With Impact

Dec 20, 2024

Lecture Notes on The Power of the Human Voice

Introduction

  • The human voice is a powerful instrument capable of significant impact, from inciting wars to expressing love.
  • Many people feel unheard when they speak.

Seven Deadly Sins of Speaking

  1. Gossip:
    • Speaking negatively about someone not present.
    • Unreliable as the gossiper may speak ill about others.
  2. Judging:
    • Difficult to listen when being judged.
  3. Negativity:
    • Hard to engage with constant negativity.
    • Example: Complaining as a form of viral misery.
  4. Excuses:
    • Avoid taking responsibility and blaming others.
  5. Exaggeration:
    • Demeans language and leads to lying.
  6. Dogmatism:
    • Mixing opinions with facts, hard to engage with.

Positive Speaking: The HAIL Method

  • HAIL stands for:
    1. Honesty: Truthful and clear in speech.
    2. Authenticity: Be yourself and stand in your own truth.
    3. Integrity: Keep your word and be trustworthy.
    4. Love: Wish others well; temper honesty with kindness.

Utilizing the Voice Toolbox

  • Register:
    • Use deeper registers for authority.
  • Timbre:
    • Preferred voices are rich and warm; can be trained.
  • Prosody:
    • Employ sing-song for meaning; avoid monotone.
  • Pace:
    • Vary speed for emphasis and interest.
  • Silence:
    • Use silence effectively; avoid fillers like 'um'.
  • Pitch:
    • Use pitch variations for emphasis.
  • Volume:
    • Adjust volume appropriately; avoid constant broadcasting.

Preparing for Important Speaking Engagements

  • Vocal Warm-ups:
    • Techniques to warm up include breathing, lip and tongue exercises.
    • Exercises:
      • Deep breathing with sighing.
      • Lip trills and tongue exercises.
      • R rolling and siren exercises.

Conclusion

  • We currently live in a noisy world where effective communication is lacking.
  • Imagine a world where sound is consciously created and consumed, enhancing understanding.
  • Speaking consciously can transform communication and create a beautiful world.