all right I would have paid probably more than $1,000 to have this video at 13 14 15 16 years old because I want to be sharing with you 13 pieces of wisdom that I wish I knew at those ages and look bro I'm no millionaire and I don't claim to be one all right I'm just a regular ass dude who makes videos outside that's it however I am in a position where some of you want to be in if you look at the subscribers and you know the success I've seen I wake up every single morning in my work and I'm still 18 in high school so I believe a lot of you will get a lot of value out of this because I know I would have if I was those ages I mentioned before so if you are 13 to 20 years old for however long this video is just lock in these 13 pieces of advice are going to go from the least to the most important things that I wish I knew at an earlier age now the first thing it is to never leave what your childhood self adored now I don't mean playing with monster trucks outside playing with Barbie dolls and that type of stuff no I mean the things when you were maybe primary school years you're maybe 8 to 12 years old what you like doing for me that was video games a lot of us leave what our childhood selves adored and we lose that spark we lose that you know interest of Life 3 months ago I decided to play Minecraft for the first time in I think a couple of years to be honest like sat down and actually played Minecraft and bro I couldn't even describe the feeling I felt alive again if you can turn that that into a career go ahead if you can't then you probably don't want to do it all day cuz you're not going to set yourself up for an amazing future but never leave it especially if it that you know it lights that spark within you the second thing never light yourself on fire to keep others warm this is so common amongst the younger generation bro you look at any High School half of the kids don't follow this rle they turn into people Pleasers because they think High School is their world that's the only that matters their status at school but brother it's not I've seen some of my friends and so many people who I you know grew up with in year seven which is Middle School for uh the Americans out there that have changed so much because they've adapted to other people's liking other people's interest and not their own and these people bro this is out of pure love and respect I haven't achieved anything and I feel sorry for them simply because they put other people's validation before their own they lit thems on fire to keep other people warm please don't do this number three at a young age clearly identify your success and abide by this definition every single day with whatever work you put in all right Andrew Tate's definition of success is money cars and probably Fame I'm not too sure but that probably is his success it might have changed but back in the day it definitely was my definition of success is waking up every single morning getting to do what I love just like this find yours maybe is attention maybe is Fame there's no such thing as a bad or a good definition of success it's how you use this definition of success that can make it good or bad Fame for some people has brought them an amazing life Fame for other people has brought them a really life it's how you use it that matters and you need to identify this so it sets you up for an amazing life and not an amazing life someone else want you to live number four this one's going to piss off a lot of people but it's to never and I mean never talk behind someone's back or associate with people who talk behind someone's back to your face especially if you know or they know this person personally just know don't hang with these people don't adopt this mindset bro all right it's Behavior it genuinely is if you have something to say to someone say it to their face or don't say it at all personally with me with my best mates I talk to their face in like you know a brotherly way but I glaze them behind their back just because of how good of a friend they are I can't do anything else number five I know it might sound a bit feminine for all the boys watching this video but it's true treat yourself like a plant to maximize energy productivity and your health and your happiness drink a lot of water eat good food yeah if a plant doesn't get hydrated if it doesn't get its Sun it dies bro the simple basic self-improvement habits everybody talks about yeah but they're so important your sun your water your diet getting out in nature sleeping well all of the basic things bro don't ignore them because that is the foundation for whatever you do number six if you're going to compare yourself to others do it in the right way or do not compare yourself at all if you're going to compare yourself to other people either compare in a healthy way okay what can I learn from this person how can I gain from this person what can I do to become a better person out of this person's qualities yeah don't compare yourself and envy this person and get all jealous and and you know get stuck in a mindset that you're never good enough it's not healthy man if that's you just compare yourself to who you were yesterday that's it with me I'm a toxic comparison person I compare all the time and I always need to remind myself of this it's not worth it man Life's too short to compare all right number seven to be honest this one should be higher but the only reason it's not is because it doesn't apply to a lot of areas in life and it is to never ever make a permanent decision based on a temporary emotion never do it if you're angry frustrated at something or someone never make a decision that is permanent based off this emotion I used to be that type of guy who would get angry over the littlest things that my parents and my friends they might have called me something that I took really personally my parents might have you know told me off for doing something a little bit wrong and I would always say the wrong things yeah and my relationship with some of my friends didn't really diminish cuz we were kids and everyone did it but we went through some rough patches we shouldn't have went through with my parents I argue with them more than I should have simply because of this if you need to make a bold and permanent decision make sure you calm yourself down first take a couple of days you know rest relax recover and then make it I think this is eight I'm pretty sure when you're doing good you're never doing as good as you think you are but when you're doing bad you are never doing as bad as you think you are when you're winning when you feel like life's really amazing you have to remind yourself that it's not going to be like this forever it isn't that should mean though that you live this moment that is you know amazing to its fullest but then when life isn't going the best you must remind yourself that this is temporary yeah in a week or two or in a month or in a couple of days it will all turn around it's a temporary event you are not doing as bad as you think you are when you remind yourself that you're not doing as good as you think you are when you are doing pretty good the same is going to happen over here and this leads me on to the next You Know lesson here I think it's number nine or 10 I can't exactly remember and that is at a young age to Value as many things as you possibly can that are inside your control the problem with with this generation is that we we we value the wrong things we value the things outside our control other people's opinions cars money houses all these things that not that are not us I want you to Value the things that are you your personality your character your speaking skills the skills that you've developed right because these are the things that are going to make you the money that are going to get get you the cars the houses the attention whatever you desire you're going back to the number three I think it was if you value the things outside your control you are destined for misery you are cuz you have no control over it the definition of somebody who is free is somebody who does not value externals they value internals number 10 I want you to care more for how your success is achieved rather than the success itself how are you making 10K a month how did you become a millionaire so many people get lucky you will see people win the lottery you'll see people blow up on social media and their lives just all all of a sudden figured out they're making 20 30 50k a month just from one random video but why were they successful luck they had no skills it was simply luck and they failed to develop the skills and that's when they fell off you see it all the time I want you to care more about how you're successful all right cuz that's going to set you up for an amazing future what type of person did you become in the process what skills have you developed what character traits have you developed these things forego your success helping you create even more now the last three if you're going to listen to Three I want you to listen to these all right and this one's kind of this kind one this one kind of stems off the last one but number 11 always remember why you started if you said a big goal you have a big ambition you have big aspirations always remember why you started you see so many people online their ego get ahead of them right they they see a little bit of success and then now and this this is just an example but but their content is so much different than it was now because their ego has gotten through them always remember why you started something okay you wanted to make money why did you want to make money you didn't want to make money so you could boast on other people you wanted to make money to retire your parents you wanted to make money so you could get out of like the shitty job you're in that was it nothing else so don't go any further number 12 you hear me say this so much but I only say it cuz I truly believe it is one of the most powerful quotes ever at trees Roots must reach hell for its leaves reach heaven you need to experience some sort of hardship some sort of challenge some sort of failure you need to experience this fully experience all the emotions attached to it sadness grief frustration pure anger to experience the best of emotions to experience that success that you wanted to all right I'm here to say it the suffering you're going through right now people clanning you with school for going after your purpose right not really fitting in with your friends anymore all this pain you wake up and it's kind of boring but you know you're working towards something great it's not for nothing bro you're just simply digging and soon enough the plant will rise and 13 this goes for I'd say 90% of the people who is who are watching this right now especially of younger age it's to relax and just enjoy your youth it is the best piece of advice I can give you we get one shot of this and I don't want you to work all the time because these other 12 things have been related to kind of work yeah maybe 10 of them have been related to working hard right this is the this is the best advice I can give you enjoy your youth but also set yourself up for an amazing future play the game with the boys go out there play your favorite sports even though it might not be beneficial to you towards your business or your grades or whatever you care about but brother time spent having fun is not time wasted we remember memories memories they last money doesn't last money always comes back time doesn't all right I want you to live it to your fullest and living it to your fullest is different for everybody so live it to yours that's it I'm not here to keep you any longer I hope you found this valuable and I'll will catch you in the next video PE my asses all