Unlimited CEUs $59 @ALLCEUS I'd like to welcome everybody back to nbcc code
of ethics 2023 now yes I know it's 2024 but they put out this code of ethics in 2023 this is
part two of eight and I am Dr Dawn-Elise Snipes your host we are going to review the 2023 nbcc
code of ethics Point by Point specifically today focusing on personal values unavoidable
harm confidentiality bartering multiple relationships and harassment now we have to go
over confidentiality and multiple relationships because when you look at ethical violations
those are the two most common areas where people run into trouble and so we're going to go into
detail about that again I am going to be asking you questions hopefully they're not rhetorical
and to get your input about some of these things things um that we talk about today in part one
we discussed the seven ethical principles and the ABCD e for ethical decisionmaking we also
reviewed nbcc core values and professional responsibilities so let's move on today
we're going to talk about more things that we as clinicians need to do and we
need to make sure our agencies are doing counselors shall take proactive measures to avoid
harming their clients and avoid imposing personal values on those who receive their Professional
Services how might we or our organizations do this directly or indirectly Now by directly I
mean we actually tell them you should think this way or you should feel this way you here the shs
in there and the boundary violations all over the place obviously we won't don't want to do that and
hopefully we don't directly come out and impose our values but indirectly we may impose our values
and so again I'll ask how do you think you might see this happening for example when somebody walks
into your lobby what do they see what do they hear do they hear um gospel music over the loudspeaker
do they hear heavy metal what do they hear do they hear silence um what do they see in terms of your
Decor are you communicating to them that it's you have a welcoming safe environment for everybody
or only for people who fit a certain description and that's indirectly imposing our values another
way we can indirectly impose our values is in our assessment when we're going going through and
we're asking are you married or um what is your spouse's name for people who are in Partnerships
that don't want to get married that feels like a judgment for people who are in polyamorous
relationships that definitely feels like a judgment if we ask somebody about their partner or
their spouse and we assume that it is a monogamous heterosexual ual relationship then again we are
I call it indirectly imposing our values we're not coming out and saying it but we're not being
respectful of the fact that other people may have different values how do we elicit our clients
personal values if we're going to try to avoid imposing ours that's great but it's also important
to understand what our client values are what is important to you what is helps you feel safe what
helps you have your rich and meaningful life and the best way we can do this is by talking to them
and and not necessarily just the assessment or in the clinical session notice how they're dressed
notice you know if they come in and they've got a t-shirt on for um you know Five Finger Death Punch
well then you know they probably like heavy metal and you may talk to them about that if they you
know you can talk about things that you observe you can show interest in your clients to learn
about their values in terms of a values activity some things that we may um impose on people
Independence versus interdependence and this is a big one when in Addiction Counseling for
example sometimes we're talking about setting boundaries and having to um step away or back up
from a relationship and in some families cutting off somebody you know separating from your
parents because they're dysfunctional um and they're contributing to your condition that's not
okay um it's the family is the core unit not the individual in the United States a lot of us have
been raised where the individual is the core unit and the family's there great but if they're not H
you know we'll find other family that's not true with all cultures so we need to be respectful of
that even if the CORE family has issues and All Families have issues we need to help the person
figure out how to navigate those issues in the best possible way to help them move toward their
recovery in terms of spirituality and and this can be a big one some people are very spiritual but
not religious some people may have a different religion and thinking about how you talk about
spirituality and what you communicate about spirituality and I'm a firm believer now this is
my opinion I'm a firm believer in authenticity not having you know all my Decor in my my office
being in your face this is who I am but I am not going to avoid putting things in my office
that are meaningful to me however I will also tend to complement those with things that I know
may be comforting and meaningful to my clients sexuality is another issue and it's not just uh
your sexual orientation it also has to do with sexual practices and we talked about this a few
weeks ago with Kink and BDSM some people engage in those behaviors and they find them um empowering
they enjoy those behaviors they're not causing them mental distress in any sort of way but what
we can cause mental distress if we are not aware of think in BDSM practices if we pathologize
something that even the American Psychological Association has dep pathologized we need to be
very sensitive in how we approach sexuality and relationships which takes us to relationship
structures um there are a lot of people who believe in a monogamous relationship but there
are also a lot of people who don't there are a lot of people who have different relationship
structures that work for them there are also Blended families and depending on your views and
your values about divorce for example you may inadvertently impose your values so I I encourage
you to think about each of these things and look around your office and evaluate your paperwork
and think about uh interactions you've had to to assess am I imposing my values am I communicating
to clients in ways that might make them feel well this is not safe to talk about parenting oh that's
a big one a lot of people have very different parenting Styles and while I might not agree with
necessarily the way my client is parenting their child it's not for me to impose my values unless
obviously the child is in um in danger if you will medication use is another value some therapists
are very predication use and some clients are not some clients are very predication use and some
therapists are not this is especially a poignant issue when we start start talking about uh
medication assisted therapy and opioid use disorders educate yourself about medication use
be understanding or willing to accept if your client is on um medication assisted therapy
it's something that needs to be talked about and some people will be on it forever the um
DEA guidelines are really you're supposed to be on it for like 18 months and then taper
off it's supposed to be a transition thing but for a lot of people it's not however harm
reduction we need to examine our beliefs about that and again recognize that the client has
autonomy back to last week has autonomy to choose the interventions that they feel will be
most beneficial to them some people don't think that counseling with a therapist is okay they
think they can talk to their Pastor or their priest or their you know spiritual leader um
and that may be okay but it's not okay to talk to some random stranger at an agency which a
lot of us are in that position of being some random stranger in an agency being sensitive
to that I know my grandmother was raised in in the time when you kept your dirty laundry if you
will that's what she called it uh between behind closed doors you didn't go out and tell people
about it therapy was not something they did back in the 40s and 50s thankfully a lot of Americans
have started to embrace therapy but recognizing hey not everybody's comfortable with this and
you're like well why are they in my office if they don't believe in counseling with a therapist
they may be involuntary somebody may have said if you're going to stay in a relationship with me
if you're going to avoid jail if you're going to keep your kids if you're going to fill in the
blank you have to go to therapy so we need to be sensitive to people's values what other values
might we white that wow might we impose on people while y'all are thinking about that we're going
to move on to unavoidable harm now sometimes there is unanticipated and unavoid and or unavoidable
harm and when that harm happens we need to seek to address it so what is unavoidable harm you're
thinking I've done this whole um non- ment thing I've evaluated my practice of course I'm not
going to do harm to my clients well you might and that's where it's unanticipated or unavoidable
sometimes it happens um so thinking about what is unavoidable harm how is it harmful and how can
you address it mandatory reporting it's there for a reason it is is there to keep people safe if
you will if they're um if you know of child abuse elder abuse or if somebody is acutely suicidal
or homicidal with a um intended victim you know if there's imminent harm we need to take steps
to address that issue and sometimes well not sometimes always that can feel really uncom
comfortable if we're having to do something that our client doesn't want us to do obviously
if they're feeling suicidal and they're like hey I really need to go to the crisis stabilization unit
great I'll make that transfer um but if they are not wanting to then that clinical decision comes
up so what harm does this cause well let's think about it if somebody um [Music] is taking away
your freedom or if somebody is telling on you if you will that can remind them of Prior traumas
when they have been powerless when people have gone behind their back um how can we address this
ideally you're authentic and you're upfront with your clients when it's safe to do so uh about
hey I I believe that you need to go to CSU and be evaluated by a psychiatrist I believe that
there is a requirement based on what you've told me that we report what's going on um because
there may be some child abuse if the person maybe is in a domestically violent relationship
letting them know ahead of time again when it's safe to do so for both the client that you're
working with as well as unintended victims or um the children or whatever having them make
the report in your presence and documenting all of that um or you making the report with them in
your presence so they don't feel as anxious about well what did you say or you know you did this
behind my back we want to do as much as we can to help clients recognize what's going on
why it's happening and help them navigate the process now it's not always possible
and when it's not possible when you have to do something without your client's knowledge
for the safety of the child for example that probably means that your relationship with that
client is not going to is going to be permanently damaged it's possible to work through it but
the occasion is pretty rare that a client is um ready to resume treatment with you after
you have made an abuse report uh regarding them okay so we do need to recognize they're
coming to you they're sharing with you they're being vulnerable with you and then you say all
right stop stop stop now now we got to get this other PE group involved and there's going to
be an investigation or something and that can feel very traumatizing and the person can feel
very powerless you mean I could lose my kids you mean I am locked up for 72 hours so we do need to
consider that um relationship changes when we are doing work with people um and they are processing
things and I saw this a lot in residential treatment when people would oh they'd be working
hard 30 days 45 days but their family wouldn't be doing anything when in terms of changing or being
part of the process so when they discharged they had changed but their relationships had stayed
the same which often caused conflict and sometimes ended up causing actual relationship changes where
the person in recovery said you know what I can't be in a relationship with you if you're going to
continue using or I can't do this right now um and that is ultimately we hope in the best interest of
the client that they're making that decision but it's still devastating when when whenever we have
to end a relationship it can be devastating and the other person may experience you know uh grief
over the loss if there are children involved that could be that unanticipated or unavoidable harm
creating a dependence on therapy is another issue that we need to uh be very cognizant of we don't
want our clients believing that they need us and I know that sounds weird um we're there to help
them we are a instrument to help them move toward their rich and meaningful life we are a catalyst
for change but we don't want them to think that every time the weather changes they need to
come in and get our opinion we need to help them develop the skills and tools to move toward
their rich and meaningful life and develop that support network that doesn't include us eventually
emotional discomfort or simp symptom exacerbation this is pretty common especially if you're
doing any sort of trauma work where you're having to look at some of those things the person
hasn't wanted to look at for a while how can we address these things um and relationship changes
dependence on therapy emotional discomfort part of of that comes with talking with the client
consistently about what skills they have what they're empowered to do what they want to
do engaging them in the process when you start talking about trauma making sure that they
have the skills of distress tolerance and down regulation before you start opening that Pandora's
Box and empowering them to set the pace of how quickly you're going through the process making
sure that they have a safety plan if they're going through some intense stuff in therapy making
sure that they have a plan for the rest of their life that will help support them through the
process having unre unrealistic expectations by the client or the therapist some clients will
here's a perfect perfect example I had one client who went went through a rapid detox program and
they told him that he did this rapid detox for 72 hours and he would be completely detoxed and he'd
be fine well he heard I go through this I'm not going to have postacute withdrawal my body's going
to be healed and I'm going to be hunky dory and that's not the way it is 72 hours gets the drugs
out of your system it doesn't give the nervous system time to repair itself it doesn't give the
hormones chances to rebalance it doesn't help the person identify cognitive distortions it doesn't
help the person deal with the things that they did in their act of addiction that they may feel
regret about so waking up from that it was sort of a rude awakening because yes he was clean but he
was still experiencing post-acute withdrawal uh so we want to make sure that clients have reasonable
expectations for what we can provide them in treatment I can't fix you you have to do the work
I can give you the tools I can teach you how to use them but you have to do the work something
that has been going on for 20 years we're probably not going to fix in two hours helping people
really wrap their head around what to expect and on what timeline likewise therapists can have
unrealistic expectations that make the client feel like hey I failed if the therapist thinks okay
you should be fine in you know 10 weeks and at the end of 10 weeks the client's going yeah I'm still
really not feeling great that's an important thing to understand and the therapist may also feel like
the client hasn't made enough progress which often instead of the therapist saying could I have done
something to improve this client's treatment it often comes down to what did the client fail to
do that kept them from moving forward so we end up inadvertently hopefully blaming the client
for their lack of progress and that's not okay either we need to step back and look and say hm
what did I miss why did this person not progress as quickly as I thought they could um if you have
somebody who is chronically relapsing instead of having this expectation that you go through
treatment and you're never going to relapse that's unrealistic uh looking at relapses
as learning opportunities and recognizing that if somebody relapses it's not my fault
as a therapist it's not the client's fault as you know a human being we missed something
so we need to look at this and we need to set more realistic expectations for this person um
and finally misdiagnosis particularly if there are multiple conditions sometimes people come
into my office and they've got a laundry list of diagnoses and a lot of them overlap and some
of them like totally overlap so and and the DSM very clearly says to give the diagnosis if it's
not better explained by another diagnosis so if you have two diagnoses that thoroughly explain a
person's symptoms we need to figure out which one it is um so differential diagnosis is important
now why are too many diagnoses problematic well if you have this mountain of diagnoses how do you
feel I mean if I have one thing to tackle or even two I'm like okay I can do this if I've got 15 I
may feel helpless I may feel feel overwhelmed at even the prospect of moving forward so we want
to make sure that we are not overdiagnosing people likewise we want to make sure that we're
not misdiagnosing for example if something um we in my opinion we really need to examine
people's behavior to identify if they are responses to trauma if they're responses to trauma
we need to look to a trauma based diagnosis like PTSD or cptsd instead of something that's more
pathologizing like the personality disorders and well that's that's a different class that's to
two Saturdays three Saturdays from now um but we do want to recognize that the importance
of making an accurate diagnosis to provide an accurate treatment one of the ways we can do this
is by communicating with clients I sit down with them with the DSM you I do a lot of things with
my clients because I don't want them to think what I'm doing is somehow magic we sit down
with the DSM and we talk about each symptom and when I after the assessment I do my write
up of their integrative summary and in the next session that we meet we go over it to see
if they agree or they disagree and my goal or my hope is to really involve them in the process
so they are uh so they feel empowered to address these issues when they come up again counselors
shall respect each client's privacy and shall solicit only information that contributes to
the identified counseling goals or facilitates the counseling process and is also consistent
with counseling protocols first um Golden Rule in any of the programs that I've ever supervised
and in my own practice explain the wise if I'm asking you something if I want some information
I'm going to tell you why I want it it's not just because I need to fill in a blank I am asking you
to do this because this is why I'm asking you to do it or asking you to tell me about it it's
important that we also respect clients rights to say no standardized intakes can sometimes be
very intrusive and at the beginning of the intake it can be very helpful to avoid making them feel
uncomfortable to avoid un um unintentional harm letting them know hey you have the right to tell
me I don't want to answer that you don't have to answer any of the questions you don't want to and
that is a strategy that can be very empowering for the clients because a lot of times they've been
told they have to do this they have to do that they've just met you they don't know you from
Adam's house cat they may not want to tell you everything so we do want to be sensitive to
what we require in our intakes to what kind of information we require people tell us and we
want to make sure that we don't elicit unnecessary details if Joe is upset because something happened
you know somebody died okay um we're going to meet him where he is we're going to talk about okay
you're upset let's talk about this I don't need to get in down into all the details well who was
this how close were you blah blah blah I'm going to let Joe tell me about that person that passed
and and Empower him to sort of Take the Lead it doesn't matter to me in the big scheme of things
in treatment it doesn't matter what relationship this person was to Joe if Joe's devastated about
the death then we're going to deal with the grief counselors shall not share client
information without specific written consent by the client or legal guardian except when necessary
to prevent serious and foreseeable harm to the client or others or when otherwise mandated by
law or regulation we have some mandatory reporting things if you are involved in HIV prevention you
may have some mandatory reporting for communicable disorders but we need to know what we're required
to tell and what we're not we need to be familiar and I have multiple classes on hippo regulations
we need to be familiar with that that's our um Health Care information privacy and AC um
accessibility act um we need to be familiar with all of the rules and there's a lot of
them there are things that you'd be surprised like um zip code that can be considered
protected health information you also if you work with people who are substance abusing
you need to be familiar with CFR 42 part two this is the Federal Regulation that
goes the extra step to prevent people from being penalized for seeking treatment
for substance abuse ISS issues it goes the extra step to put a barrier you're supposed
to actually keep the substance abuse progress notes in a different section of the uh
of the file because and they have to be uh requisitioned or subpoena in a different way
than other things just like when your records are subpoena that doesn't include the mental health
progress notes by default they specifically have to ask for those we need to keep clients informed
at the beginning about mandatory reporting and if necessary bring it up again during the treatment
process if we feel that they need to be have a refresher the other issue that comes
up in confidentiality is how can you ethically share information for consultation
or supervision one of the most common ethical guards if you will is if in doubt seek
supervision okay well but I don't have a signed release of information from
my client to talk with you about this and that can be sort of circumvented as
long as you don't provide any um identifying information you talk about them as client X
you and if you're in a really small town this becomes very difficult and it's probably
better to get a release of information um for consultation or supervision
at the outset which you can do even in a big city um but eliminating any
identifying information is important also recognizing that you're talking to
another person that is bound by hippo regulations sorry have a tickle in my throat now this was a change it used to be
prohibited to do bartering with clients and this is one of the changes that they made and
it says counselors May accept Goods services or other non-monetary compensation from
clients only in cases where no referrals are possible or appropriate now that has
I would say if you're going to engage in bartering I would consult with at least
one other professional to see if you're not thinking of a particular referral if the
referral is not possible we need to ask why because a lot of people can access tele mental
health now so even if you don't have a referral right in your little small town there may be
one in the next town over and that the person could access virtually um if the referrals are
not appropriate for some reason then okay then you can continue you seeing the person and and I
have a question mark there because I really racked my brain to try to think of situations where
a referral wouldn't be possible or appropriate and I was struggling to come up with some
because you know tella Health has opened so many um options for us it could be that there
isn't somebody who specializes in that client's particular issue that is on their insurance
panel it's the best I could come up with and in in that case all right the arrangement
is discussed with the client in advance obviously if you're going to engage in
a bartering relationship you're going to have some sort of negotiation The
Exchange is of a reasonable equivalent value and this is one that gets s for a lot
of clinicians um because there are a lot of clinicians that will take you know a dozen
eggs for treatment if they're inclined to engage in bartering they're likely also
inclined to not um have the reasonable equivalent value there are some who also
overestimate the value of their services and so so we need to make sure that it's reasonable
and equivalent how can you do this you can go online and I'm going to give you some examples in
a minute but you can see what that service or that um item or whatever uh would cost in fair market
value The Exchange does not place the counselor in an unfair Advantage if the exchange requires
an evaluation of the person 's work they're doing work for you like they're doing lawn care or
painting your house or something then you have you're in the position of evaluating did they
do enough did they do it well and that can get really sticky if you are engaging in bartering
in an ideal situation there would be someone else that the person would be reporting to if
it's a service for example the arrangement is not harmful to the client or their treatment and
is documented in the counseling services agreement you got to document you got to write it down both
of you sign it um and it needs to be Revisited periodically so how do we ensure equivalent
equivalency and maintain fairness one of the most common bartering things is food if
you're working with someone who um is in a rural area they may provide you food food
Goods instead of cash money so I went online and I found in community supported agriculture
the large serving large weekly serving is $42 two dozen brown eggs $12 and one gallon of goat
or cow's milk $8 so that added up to 42 uh 44 uh that added up to close to a reasonable rate for
counseling so you do need to look at that arts or crafts if the person is an artist and they paint
this beautiful painting you want to make sure that they're getting fair market value um if they're
crocheting blankets for you same sort of thing go on Etsy go um look at things that are done by
hand going on Amazon is not not the equivalent because that's something that's mass-produced by
machines if they're doing something by hand you need to compare it to something equivalent if
they're doing if they tailor your clothes for you maybe you need somebody who knows how to
sew office cleaning house painting Lawn Care all of those are things that I've heard of
as far as bartering is concerned and they can get very tricky it's very important that the
contract is explicit what you expect and how it's going to be evaluated or assessed if for
example you're getting food from the client's farm and they bring you a box of produce and
you're like o I don't like radishes I don't like asparagus I don't no Take that away that's
that's not the deal in a CSA you get what you get and it's important that you're aware and
you're both on the same page now for house cleaning I have a question mark after that for me
my opinion um that feels too familiar I wouldn't not that I wouldn't trust my clients in my house
but that feels too familiar having them in my home cleaning my house and you know my toilets and you
know seeing all my stuff whatever my stuff is um because that's in my home I'm authentic and
that's very personal to me and that may feel too much like a dual relationship in some ways
now you may not feel that way but just being aware despite best efforts how might nonverbals
contribute to harm give you the example of lawn care if you're you have an agreement that
you're going to provide an hour of count Ling for the client mowing your lawn every
week and you go out and they mowed your lawn and you're like what is this they did a crappy
job um and your face shows that then the client may feel rejected they may feel like you you
are disapproving of them um if they give you a painting and it's not exactly what you wanted
but it's what you would ask asked for um and your face expresses that that can be devastating
because art is very um personal to the artist if the client's part does become substandard how
do you ethically terminate Services how do you say you know we had this agreement but you're
not holding up your end of the bargain so um I need to refer you out how do you avoid the client
feeling feeling like they're being abandoned um you know there's a lot of issues that you need to
consider before bartering ideally in the bartering contract have something in there about termination
of services for any reason and how you're going to make referrals multiple relationships counselors
shall strive to avoid multiple relationships this is more than dual but multiple and be mindful
of engaging in counseling relationships with those individuals with whom another relationship
such as a Community Connection a friendship or a work relationship exists so when they talk
about multiple relationships they're talking about you're seeing them as a client then
they also may be your neighbor and you may be on the homeowners association with them
now you're in multiple relationships with them what are multiple relationships this
is not an ex exhaustive list but again if you live in the same neighborhood and you're
on the same homeowners association board or going to the same home homeowners association
meetings if you're part of the same PTA group or any other board or group membership even
a church um it could be defined as a multiple relationship now if you're in a church that has
80 80 congregants and you both happen to go to that church acknowledging that you might see
each other is one thing if you are in the same Bible study together that's when we start getting
into a multiple relationship because you're not just seeing each other and passing but you're
actually engaging with that other person being a pastor or spiritual leader for the person and
I know it it's done um but according to nbcc and and ACA if you are seeing somebody in a spiritual
setting and then you're also seeing them over here as a counselor not as a PO not as part
of your pastoral duties but as part of your Counseling Practice um it can be considered
a dual relationship and it can get kind of Muddy um when you're doing both of those things
especially when it starts concerning other people social media or in real life friends no if
they're your client they're your client they're not your friends on social media or in real life
don't date your clients I mean I shouldn't even have to say that I shouldn't but I do seeing a
co-worker a friend or a neighbor's spouse child or parent in therapy um one rule that a former
supervisor of mine um always used to reference he called it three degrees of separation and so
if you know this person you don't want to see their spouse or child um if you are seeing the
their grandchild for example that's the third degree of separation and possibly it might be
okay if you're seeing a friend of a friend of a friend okay but it gets very sticky when and
you're seeing somebody that is close to somebody that you're close to because they can misperceive
things as violations of confidentiality so that's a whole different thing we could go into but
according to both ACA and um nbcc we need to be very cognizant of multiple relationships and
and those aren't just romantic relationships you don't want to see a client who's distant related
to distantly related to you you don't want to be seeing your third cousin in therapy um they may
show up at the family reunion and that's you know going to be a problem and business relationships
you don't want to open a business with a client and you want to be very careful when patronizing
a client's business or practice especially if it's a service business provided by them for example
you're seeing them as your doctor your vet your plumber um your auto mechanic now if the person
runs a small antique shop you know that might be less problematic but you still need to be
conscious of how might this impact our ability to work together when we discontinue treatment
how might this impact our relationship in the event that a multiple relationship develops in
an unforeseen manner for example you're seeing Sally in therapy and then two weeks ago she moved
into your neighborhood and now she's um part of your HOA or she moved into your neighborhood
and your kid her kids started going to school with your kids and they became Fast Friends
huh okay well this is going to be a little tricky we need to discuss the potenti potential
effects with the client if our kids want to play together you know that's fine I'm not going to
you know break that up however I need to talk with Sally about how she feels about it and how we're
NE going to negotiate this um and if she wants to start seeing a different therapist take reasonable
steps to resolve the situation including termination and the provision of referrals and
document the discussion in the client's record again both of you signning it's too easy I'm sorry
it's unethical but I know I know of people who've done it it's too easy to write down yeah we had
this discussion and sign it when you actually didn't so both people need to sign it counselors
will exercise caution and avoid explo exploitation or the appearance of exploitation before entering
into a non-counseling relationship with a former client for at least 5 years 5 years is our big
number now it used to be two years a long time ago um some state boards still say two years but
the ethical code says five years and you're going to hear that in several times over the next few
weeks counselors will discuss with the former client important relevant considerations including
you know if we're going to do something all right it's been at least five years all right we
were in counseling relationship together for you know was it 10 weeks or was it two
years you know that there's a different level of intimacy that may de may have developed and
maybe a different level of dependence that may have developed the nature and circumstances of the
client's counseling um if they were seeing you for example for marriage counseling and now you think
you're going to start dating them uh you know I I'm thinking that feels pretty icky um so you you
want to consider what you were seeing them for were they there they were an involuntary client
the court said they had to come and they did their time and they got out that's somewhat different
but again you still have to respect that five-year boundary the likelihood that the client will
want to resume counseling once you start seeing them in a different kind of relationship that's
off the table so if they want to see you again then you can't and possible negative effects or
outcomes it's important to brainstorm what these outcomes might be and continue to assess with the
client and or former client and yourself if there are things going wrong in the relationship is it
because you had a the counseling relationship and and there's an because there is an unequal power
dynamic in counseling relationships we strive to make it equal but it's not and the counselor
often has a more power in the relationship in some ways and that can commun um can translate
into other types of relationships 5 10 years later counselors will respect the autonomy of
each former client and not use undue influence to form any sort of relationship with a former
client Business Development maybe you had this client they did wonderfully in treatment and
you're like hey why don't you go out and promote my practice and bring me new clients because
you know you were you were just wonderful uh that's not okay and obviously you don't want to
use undo influence to form any sort of personal relationship when we're working with clients
we need to consistently reflect on our personal values and make sure that we're maintaining that
boundary between what we value and believe and what the client values and believes we can meet
we can agree we can disagree but we're going to respect that boundary and as I mentioned it's
important that we we reflect on whether we are indirectly imposing our personal values um
through our Decor through our approach um to treatment through our um assessment through
our documentation whatever it is we do need to be consistent one of the ways that we can also
protect against violating this is consistently talking with clients about whether they feel
respected if they feel like their values and thoughts are being respected great um and if
not then we need to say tell me about what makes you feel uncomfortable or in what ways
you feel your values haven't been respected sometimes there's going to be unavoidable harm
one of the most common is relationship changes when some one person goes through treatment and
their family hasn't um that may end up causing distress in those relationships until the family
members all come together and uh make changes or until those relationships are ended we do need
to respect confidentiality um I will be doing another presentation on CFR 42 part two because
they just made a bunch of changes to it um so I will be doing another just wildly exciting
presentation on that in the upcoming weeks bartering is now accepted under certain conditions
but we do need to be very explicit in our B in our contract and the bartering contract and it needs
to be signed by both parties and re-evaluated periodically to make sure that the client feels
like they're being treated fairly and obviously the clinician feels like they're being treated
fairly and we need to be very aware of multiple relationships and and too often we mistake
multiple relationships because we think all we're talking about is romantic relationships
or maybe online relationships but no no it's not that um it's also um seeing for example seeing
a coworker seeing a neighbor seeing a neighbor's husband or well I guess he'd be your neighbor
too but you get my point A lot of times we don't consider the non-romantic relationships and
how they may constitute a ethical breach in part three we're going to discuss something called
boundary extensions avoiding harassment preventing abandonment and a whole bunch more thank you
for being with me today I know this was a well it was ethics so it wasn't one of those
wildly exciting things that you're going to rush back to your office and go hey I feel
energized but it is a good reminder for us um of what we need to do and we need to make sure
again our agencies are doing our agency policies practices environment constitute or communicate
ethical behavior and create an environment that feels safe and emper EMP powering to all of
our clients and all of the people served one of the ways and while I'm waiting if you have any
questions what another one of the ways you can do this is by getting a focus group together of the
people served or survey them when they come in if you don't want to do a focus group to find out
what they might like to see hear whatever um in your organization what changes might they like to
see in order to feel feel safer and more empowered