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Understanding NBCC Code of Ethics 2023

Unlimited CEUs $59 @ALLCEUS I'd like to welcome everybody back to nbcc code  of ethics 2023 now yes I know it's 2024 but they  put out this code of ethics in 2023 this is  part two of eight and I am Dr Dawn-Elise Snipes   your host we are going to review the 2023 nbcc  code of ethics Point by Point specifically today   focusing on personal values unavoidable  harm confidentiality bartering multiple   relationships and harassment now we have to go  over confidentiality and multiple relationships   because when you look at ethical violations  those are the two most common areas where people   run into trouble and so we're going to go into  detail about that again I am going to be asking   you questions hopefully they're not rhetorical  and to get your input about some of these things   things um that we talk about today in part one  we discussed the seven ethical principles and   the ABCD e for ethical decisionmaking we also  reviewed nbcc core values and professional responsibilities so let's move on today  we're going to talk about more things   that we as clinicians need to do and we  need to make sure our agencies are doing   counselors shall take proactive measures to avoid  harming their clients and avoid imposing personal   values on those who receive their Professional  Services how might we or our organizations do   this directly or indirectly Now by directly I  mean we actually tell them you should think this   way or you should feel this way you here the shs  in there and the boundary violations all over the   place obviously we won't don't want to do that and  hopefully we don't directly come out and impose   our values but indirectly we may impose our values  and so again I'll ask how do you think you might   see this happening for example when somebody walks  into your lobby what do they see what do they hear   do they hear um gospel music over the loudspeaker  do they hear heavy metal what do they hear do they   hear silence um what do they see in terms of your  Decor are you communicating to them that it's you   have a welcoming safe environment for everybody  or only for people who fit a certain description   and that's indirectly imposing our values another  way we can indirectly impose our values is in our   assessment when we're going going through and  we're asking are you married or um what is your   spouse's name for people who are in Partnerships  that don't want to get married that feels like a   judgment for people who are in polyamorous  relationships that definitely feels like a   judgment if we ask somebody about their partner or  their spouse and we assume that it is a monogamous   heterosexual ual relationship then again we are  I call it indirectly imposing our values we're   not coming out and saying it but we're not being  respectful of the fact that other people may have   different values how do we elicit our clients  personal values if we're going to try to avoid   imposing ours that's great but it's also important  to understand what our client values are what is   important to you what is helps you feel safe what  helps you have your rich and meaningful life and   the best way we can do this is by talking to them  and and not necessarily just the assessment or in   the clinical session notice how they're dressed  notice you know if they come in and they've got a   t-shirt on for um you know Five Finger Death Punch  well then you know they probably like heavy metal   and you may talk to them about that if they you  know you can talk about things that you observe   you can show interest in your clients to learn  about their values in terms of a values activity   some things that we may um impose on people  Independence versus interdependence and this   is a big one when in Addiction Counseling for  example sometimes we're talking about setting   boundaries and having to um step away or back up  from a relationship and in some families cutting   off somebody you know separating from your  parents because they're dysfunctional um and   they're contributing to your condition that's not  okay um it's the family is the core unit not the   individual in the United States a lot of us have  been raised where the individual is the core unit   and the family's there great but if they're not H  you know we'll find other family that's not true   with all cultures so we need to be respectful of  that even if the CORE family has issues and All   Families have issues we need to help the person  figure out how to navigate those issues in the   best possible way to help them move toward their  recovery in terms of spirituality and and this can   be a big one some people are very spiritual but  not religious some people may have a different   religion and thinking about how you talk about  spirituality and what you communicate about   spirituality and I'm a firm believer now this is  my opinion I'm a firm believer in authenticity not   having you know all my Decor in my my office  being in your face this is who I am but I am   not going to avoid putting things in my office  that are meaningful to me however I will also   tend to complement those with things that I know  may be comforting and meaningful to my clients   sexuality is another issue and it's not just uh  your sexual orientation it also has to do with   sexual practices and we talked about this a few  weeks ago with Kink and BDSM some people engage in   those behaviors and they find them um empowering  they enjoy those behaviors they're not causing   them mental distress in any sort of way but what  we can cause mental distress if we are not aware   of think in BDSM practices if we pathologize  something that even the American Psychological   Association has dep pathologized we need to be  very sensitive in how we approach sexuality and   relationships which takes us to relationship  structures um there are a lot of people who   believe in a monogamous relationship but there  are also a lot of people who don't there are a   lot of people who have different relationship  structures that work for them there are also   Blended families and depending on your views and  your values about divorce for example you may   inadvertently impose your values so I I encourage  you to think about each of these things and look   around your office and evaluate your paperwork  and think about uh interactions you've had to to   assess am I imposing my values am I communicating  to clients in ways that might make them feel well   this is not safe to talk about parenting oh that's  a big one a lot of people have very different   parenting Styles and while I might not agree with  necessarily the way my client is parenting their   child it's not for me to impose my values unless  obviously the child is in um in danger if you will   medication use is another value some therapists  are very predication use and some clients are not   some clients are very predication use and some  therapists are not this is especially a poignant   issue when we start start talking about uh  medication assisted therapy and opioid use disorders educate yourself about medication use  be understanding or willing to accept if your   client is on um medication assisted therapy  it's something that needs to be talked about   and some people will be on it forever the um  DEA guidelines are really you're supposed to   be on it for like 18 months and then taper  off it's supposed to be a transition thing   but for a lot of people it's not however harm  reduction we need to examine our beliefs about   that and again recognize that the client has  autonomy back to last week has autonomy to   choose the interventions that they feel will be  most beneficial to them some people don't think   that counseling with a therapist is okay they  think they can talk to their Pastor or their   priest or their you know spiritual leader um  and that may be okay but it's not okay to talk   to some random stranger at an agency which a  lot of us are in that position of being some   random stranger in an agency being sensitive  to that I know my grandmother was raised in in   the time when you kept your dirty laundry if you  will that's what she called it uh between behind   closed doors you didn't go out and tell people  about it therapy was not something they did back   in the 40s and 50s thankfully a lot of Americans  have started to embrace therapy but recognizing   hey not everybody's comfortable with this and  you're like well why are they in my office if   they don't believe in counseling with a therapist  they may be involuntary somebody may have said if   you're going to stay in a relationship with me  if you're going to avoid jail if you're going to   keep your kids if you're going to fill in the  blank you have to go to therapy so we need to   be sensitive to people's values what other values  might we white that wow might we impose on people while y'all are thinking about that we're going  to move on to unavoidable harm now sometimes there   is unanticipated and unavoid and or unavoidable  harm and when that harm happens we need to seek   to address it so what is unavoidable harm you're  thinking I've done this whole um non- ment thing   I've evaluated my practice of course I'm not  going to do harm to my clients well you might   and that's where it's unanticipated or unavoidable  sometimes it happens um so thinking about what is   unavoidable harm how is it harmful and how can  you address it mandatory reporting it's there   for a reason it is is there to keep people safe if  you will if they're um if you know of child abuse   elder abuse or if somebody is acutely suicidal  or homicidal with a um intended victim you know   if there's imminent harm we need to take steps  to address that issue and sometimes well not   sometimes always that can feel really uncom  comfortable if we're having to do something   that our client doesn't want us to do obviously  if they're feeling suicidal and they're like hey I   really need to go to the crisis stabilization unit  great I'll make that transfer um but if they are   not wanting to then that clinical decision comes  up so what harm does this cause well let's think   about it if somebody um [Music] is taking away  your freedom or if somebody is telling on you if   you will that can remind them of Prior traumas  when they have been powerless when people have   gone behind their back um how can we address this  ideally you're authentic and you're upfront with   your clients when it's safe to do so uh about  hey I I believe that you need to go to CSU and   be evaluated by a psychiatrist I believe that  there is a requirement based on what you've told   me that we report what's going on um because  there may be some child abuse if the person   maybe is in a domestically violent relationship  letting them know ahead of time again when it's   safe to do so for both the client that you're  working with as well as unintended victims or   um the children or whatever having them make  the report in your presence and documenting all   of that um or you making the report with them in  your presence so they don't feel as anxious about   well what did you say or you know you did this  behind my back we want to do as much as we can   to help clients recognize what's going on  why it's happening and help them navigate   the process now it's not always possible  and when it's not possible when you have to   do something without your client's knowledge  for the safety of the child for example that   probably means that your relationship with that  client is not going to is going to be permanently   damaged it's possible to work through it but  the occasion is pretty rare that a client is   um ready to resume treatment with you after  you have made an abuse report uh regarding   them okay so we do need to recognize they're  coming to you they're sharing with you they're   being vulnerable with you and then you say all  right stop stop stop now now we got to get this   other PE group involved and there's going to  be an investigation or something and that can   feel very traumatizing and the person can feel  very powerless you mean I could lose my kids you   mean I am locked up for 72 hours so we do need to  consider that um relationship changes when we are doing work with people um and they are processing  things and I saw this a lot in residential   treatment when people would oh they'd be working  hard 30 days 45 days but their family wouldn't be   doing anything when in terms of changing or being  part of the process so when they discharged they   had changed but their relationships had stayed  the same which often caused conflict and sometimes   ended up causing actual relationship changes where  the person in recovery said you know what I can't   be in a relationship with you if you're going to  continue using or I can't do this right now um and   that is ultimately we hope in the best interest of  the client that they're making that decision but   it's still devastating when when whenever we have  to end a relationship it can be devastating and   the other person may experience you know uh grief  over the loss if there are children involved that   could be that unanticipated or unavoidable harm  creating a dependence on therapy is another issue   that we need to uh be very cognizant of we don't  want our clients believing that they need us and   I know that sounds weird um we're there to help  them we are a instrument to help them move toward   their rich and meaningful life we are a catalyst  for change but we don't want them to think that   every time the weather changes they need to  come in and get our opinion we need to help   them develop the skills and tools to move toward  their rich and meaningful life and develop that   support network that doesn't include us eventually  emotional discomfort or simp symptom exacerbation   this is pretty common especially if you're  doing any sort of trauma work where you're   having to look at some of those things the person  hasn't wanted to look at for a while how can we   address these things um and relationship changes  dependence on therapy emotional discomfort part   of of that comes with talking with the client  consistently about what skills they have what   they're empowered to do what they want to  do engaging them in the process when you   start talking about trauma making sure that they  have the skills of distress tolerance and down   regulation before you start opening that Pandora's  Box and empowering them to set the pace of how   quickly you're going through the process making  sure that they have a safety plan if they're   going through some intense stuff in therapy making  sure that they have a plan for the rest of their   life that will help support them through the  process having unre unrealistic expectations   by the client or the therapist some clients will  here's a perfect perfect example I had one client   who went went through a rapid detox program and  they told him that he did this rapid detox for 72   hours and he would be completely detoxed and he'd  be fine well he heard I go through this I'm not   going to have postacute withdrawal my body's going  to be healed and I'm going to be hunky dory and   that's not the way it is 72 hours gets the drugs  out of your system it doesn't give the nervous   system time to repair itself it doesn't give the  hormones chances to rebalance it doesn't help the   person identify cognitive distortions it doesn't  help the person deal with the things that they   did in their act of addiction that they may feel  regret about so waking up from that it was sort of   a rude awakening because yes he was clean but he  was still experiencing post-acute withdrawal uh so   we want to make sure that clients have reasonable  expectations for what we can provide them in   treatment I can't fix you you have to do the work  I can give you the tools I can teach you how to   use them but you have to do the work something  that has been going on for 20 years we're probably   not going to fix in two hours helping people  really wrap their head around what to expect   and on what timeline likewise therapists can have  unrealistic expectations that make the client feel   like hey I failed if the therapist thinks okay  you should be fine in you know 10 weeks and at the   end of 10 weeks the client's going yeah I'm still  really not feeling great that's an important thing   to understand and the therapist may also feel like  the client hasn't made enough progress which often   instead of the therapist saying could I have done  something to improve this client's treatment it   often comes down to what did the client fail to  do that kept them from moving forward so we end   up inadvertently hopefully blaming the client  for their lack of progress and that's not okay   either we need to step back and look and say hm  what did I miss why did this person not progress   as quickly as I thought they could um if you have  somebody who is chronically relapsing instead of   having this expectation that you go through  treatment and you're never going to relapse   that's unrealistic uh looking at relapses  as learning opportunities and recognizing   that if somebody relapses it's not my fault  as a therapist it's not the client's fault   as you know a human being we missed something  so we need to look at this and we need to set   more realistic expectations for this person um  and finally misdiagnosis particularly if there   are multiple conditions sometimes people come  into my office and they've got a laundry list   of diagnoses and a lot of them overlap and some  of them like totally overlap so and and the DSM   very clearly says to give the diagnosis if it's  not better explained by another diagnosis so if   you have two diagnoses that thoroughly explain a  person's symptoms we need to figure out which one   it is um so differential diagnosis is important  now why are too many diagnoses problematic well   if you have this mountain of diagnoses how do you  feel I mean if I have one thing to tackle or even   two I'm like okay I can do this if I've got 15 I  may feel helpless I may feel feel overwhelmed at   even the prospect of moving forward so we want  to make sure that we are not overdiagnosing   people likewise we want to make sure that we're  not misdiagnosing for example if something um   we in my opinion we really need to examine  people's behavior to identify if they are   responses to trauma if they're responses to trauma  we need to look to a trauma based diagnosis like   PTSD or cptsd instead of something that's more  pathologizing like the personality disorders and   well that's that's a different class that's to  two Saturdays three Saturdays from now um but   we do want to recognize that the importance  of making an accurate diagnosis to provide an   accurate treatment one of the ways we can do this  is by communicating with clients I sit down with   them with the DSM you I do a lot of things with  my clients because I don't want them to think   what I'm doing is somehow magic we sit down  with the DSM and we talk about each symptom and when I after the assessment I do my write  up of their integrative summary and in the   next session that we meet we go over it to see  if they agree or they disagree and my goal or   my hope is to really involve them in the process  so they are uh so they feel empowered to address   these issues when they come up again counselors  shall respect each client's privacy and shall   solicit only information that contributes to  the identified counseling goals or facilitates   the counseling process and is also consistent  with counseling protocols first um Golden Rule   in any of the programs that I've ever supervised  and in my own practice explain the wise if I'm   asking you something if I want some information  I'm going to tell you why I want it it's not just   because I need to fill in a blank I am asking you  to do this because this is why I'm asking you to   do it or asking you to tell me about it it's  important that we also respect clients rights   to say no standardized intakes can sometimes be  very intrusive and at the beginning of the intake   it can be very helpful to avoid making them feel  uncomfortable to avoid un um unintentional harm   letting them know hey you have the right to tell  me I don't want to answer that you don't have to   answer any of the questions you don't want to and  that is a strategy that can be very empowering for   the clients because a lot of times they've been  told they have to do this they have to do that   they've just met you they don't know you from  Adam's house cat they may not want to tell you   everything so we do want to be sensitive to  what we require in our intakes to what kind   of information we require people tell us and we  want to make sure that we don't elicit unnecessary   details if Joe is upset because something happened  you know somebody died okay um we're going to meet   him where he is we're going to talk about okay  you're upset let's talk about this I don't need   to get in down into all the details well who was  this how close were you blah blah blah I'm going   to let Joe tell me about that person that passed  and and Empower him to sort of Take the Lead it   doesn't matter to me in the big scheme of things  in treatment it doesn't matter what relationship   this person was to Joe if Joe's devastated about  the death then we're going to deal with the grief counselors shall not share client  information without specific written consent by   the client or legal guardian except when necessary  to prevent serious and foreseeable harm to the   client or others or when otherwise mandated by  law or regulation we have some mandatory reporting   things if you are involved in HIV prevention you  may have some mandatory reporting for communicable   disorders but we need to know what we're required  to tell and what we're not we need to be familiar   and I have multiple classes on hippo regulations  we need to be familiar with that that's our um   Health Care information privacy and AC um  accessibility act um we need to be familiar   with all of the rules and there's a lot of  them there are things that you'd be surprised   like um zip code that can be considered  protected health information you also if   you work with people who are substance abusing  you need to be familiar with CFR 42 part two   this is the Federal Regulation that  goes the extra step to prevent people   from being penalized for seeking treatment  for substance abuse ISS issues it goes the   extra step to put a barrier you're supposed  to actually keep the substance abuse progress   notes in a different section of the uh  of the file because and they have to be   uh requisitioned or subpoena in a different way  than other things just like when your records are   subpoena that doesn't include the mental health  progress notes by default they specifically have   to ask for those we need to keep clients informed  at the beginning about mandatory reporting and if   necessary bring it up again during the treatment  process if we feel that they need to be have a refresher the other issue that comes  up in confidentiality is how can you   ethically share information for consultation  or supervision one of the most common ethical   guards if you will is if in doubt seek  supervision okay well but I don't have a   signed release of information from  my client to talk with you about this and that can be sort of circumvented as  long as you don't provide any um identifying   information you talk about them as client X  you and if you're in a really small town this   becomes very difficult and it's probably  better to get a release of information   um for consultation or supervision  at the outset which you can do even   in a big city um but eliminating any  identifying information is important   also recognizing that you're talking to  another person that is bound by hippo regulations sorry have a tickle in my throat now this was a change it used to be  prohibited to do bartering with clients and   this is one of the changes that they made and  it says counselors May accept Goods services   or other non-monetary compensation from  clients only in cases where no referrals   are possible or appropriate now that has  I would say if you're going to engage in   bartering I would consult with at least  one other professional to see if you're   not thinking of a particular referral if the  referral is not possible we need to ask why because a lot of people can access tele mental  health now so even if you don't have a referral   right in your little small town there may be  one in the next town over and that the person   could access virtually um if the referrals are  not appropriate for some reason then okay then   you can continue you seeing the person and and I  have a question mark there because I really racked   my brain to try to think of situations where  a referral wouldn't be possible or appropriate   and I was struggling to come up with some  because you know tella Health has opened   so many um options for us it could be that there  isn't somebody who specializes in that client's   particular issue that is on their insurance  panel it's the best I could come up with and   in in that case all right the arrangement  is discussed with the client in advance   obviously if you're going to engage in  a bartering relationship you're going   to have some sort of negotiation The  Exchange is of a reasonable equivalent value and this is one that gets s for a lot  of clinicians um because there are a lot of   clinicians that will take you know a dozen  eggs for treatment if they're inclined to   engage in bartering they're likely also  inclined to not um have the reasonable   equivalent value there are some who also  overestimate the value of their services and   so so we need to make sure that it's reasonable  and equivalent how can you do this you can go   online and I'm going to give you some examples in  a minute but you can see what that service or that   um item or whatever uh would cost in fair market  value The Exchange does not place the counselor   in an unfair Advantage if the exchange requires  an evaluation of the person 's work they're doing   work for you like they're doing lawn care or  painting your house or something then you have   you're in the position of evaluating did they  do enough did they do it well and that can get   really sticky if you are engaging in bartering  in an ideal situation there would be someone   else that the person would be reporting to if  it's a service for example the arrangement is   not harmful to the client or their treatment and  is documented in the counseling services agreement   you got to document you got to write it down both  of you sign it um and it needs to be Revisited periodically so how do we ensure equivalent  equivalency and maintain fairness one of the   most common bartering things is food if  you're working with someone who um is in   a rural area they may provide you food food  Goods instead of cash money so I went online   and I found in community supported agriculture  the large serving large weekly serving is $42   two dozen brown eggs $12 and one gallon of goat  or cow's milk $8 so that added up to 42 uh 44   uh that added up to close to a reasonable rate for  counseling so you do need to look at that arts or   crafts if the person is an artist and they paint  this beautiful painting you want to make sure that   they're getting fair market value um if they're  crocheting blankets for you same sort of thing   go on Etsy go um look at things that are done by  hand going on Amazon is not not the equivalent   because that's something that's mass-produced by  machines if they're doing something by hand you   need to compare it to something equivalent if  they're doing if they tailor your clothes for   you maybe you need somebody who knows how to  sew office cleaning house painting Lawn Care   all of those are things that I've heard of  as far as bartering is concerned and they can get very tricky it's very important that the  contract is explicit what you expect and how   it's going to be evaluated or assessed if for  example you're getting food from the client's   farm and they bring you a box of produce and  you're like o I don't like radishes I don't   like asparagus I don't no Take that away that's  that's not the deal in a CSA you get what you   get and it's important that you're aware and  you're both on the same page now for house   cleaning I have a question mark after that for me  my opinion um that feels too familiar I wouldn't   not that I wouldn't trust my clients in my house  but that feels too familiar having them in my home   cleaning my house and you know my toilets and you  know seeing all my stuff whatever my stuff is um   because that's in my home I'm authentic and  that's very personal to me and that may feel   too much like a dual relationship in some ways  now you may not feel that way but just being   aware despite best efforts how might nonverbals  contribute to harm give you the example of lawn   care if you're you have an agreement that  you're going to provide an hour of count   Ling for the client mowing your lawn every  week and you go out and they mowed your lawn   and you're like what is this they did a crappy  job um and your face shows that then the client   may feel rejected they may feel like you you  are disapproving of them um if they give you   a painting and it's not exactly what you wanted  but it's what you would ask asked for um and   your face expresses that that can be devastating  because art is very um personal to the artist if   the client's part does become substandard how  do you ethically terminate Services how do you   say you know we had this agreement but you're  not holding up your end of the bargain so um I   need to refer you out how do you avoid the client  feeling feeling like they're being abandoned um   you know there's a lot of issues that you need to  consider before bartering ideally in the bartering   contract have something in there about termination  of services for any reason and how you're going to   make referrals multiple relationships counselors  shall strive to avoid multiple relationships this   is more than dual but multiple and be mindful  of engaging in counseling relationships with   those individuals with whom another relationship  such as a Community Connection a friendship or   a work relationship exists so when they talk  about multiple relationships they're talking   about you're seeing them as a client then  they also may be your neighbor and you may   be on the homeowners association with them  now you're in multiple relationships with them what are multiple relationships this  is not an ex exhaustive list but again if   you live in the same neighborhood and you're  on the same homeowners association board or   going to the same home homeowners association  meetings if you're part of the same PTA group   or any other board or group membership even  a church um it could be defined as a multiple   relationship now if you're in a church that has  80 80 congregants and you both happen to go to   that church acknowledging that you might see  each other is one thing if you are in the same   Bible study together that's when we start getting  into a multiple relationship because you're not   just seeing each other and passing but you're  actually engaging with that other person being   a pastor or spiritual leader for the person and  I know it it's done um but according to nbcc and   and ACA if you are seeing somebody in a spiritual  setting and then you're also seeing them over   here as a counselor not as a PO not as part  of your pastoral duties but as part of your   Counseling Practice um it can be considered  a dual relationship and it can get kind of   Muddy um when you're doing both of those things  especially when it starts concerning other people   social media or in real life friends no if  they're your client they're your client they're   not your friends on social media or in real life  don't date your clients I mean I shouldn't even   have to say that I shouldn't but I do seeing a  co-worker a friend or a neighbor's spouse child   or parent in therapy um one rule that a former  supervisor of mine um always used to reference   he called it three degrees of separation and so  if you know this person you don't want to see   their spouse or child um if you are seeing the  their grandchild for example that's the third   degree of separation and possibly it might be  okay if you're seeing a friend of a friend of   a friend okay but it gets very sticky when and  you're seeing somebody that is close to somebody   that you're close to because they can misperceive  things as violations of confidentiality so that's   a whole different thing we could go into but  according to both ACA and um nbcc we need to   be very cognizant of multiple relationships and  and those aren't just romantic relationships you   don't want to see a client who's distant related  to distantly related to you you don't want to be   seeing your third cousin in therapy um they may  show up at the family reunion and that's you know   going to be a problem and business relationships  you don't want to open a business with a client   and you want to be very careful when patronizing  a client's business or practice especially if it's   a service business provided by them for example  you're seeing them as your doctor your vet your   plumber um your auto mechanic now if the person  runs a small antique shop you know that might   be less problematic but you still need to be  conscious of how might this impact our ability   to work together when we discontinue treatment  how might this impact our relationship in the   event that a multiple relationship develops in  an unforeseen manner for example you're seeing   Sally in therapy and then two weeks ago she moved  into your neighborhood and now she's um part of   your HOA or she moved into your neighborhood  and your kid her kids started going to school   with your kids and they became Fast Friends  huh okay well this is going to be a little tricky we need to discuss the potenti potential  effects with the client if our kids want to play   together you know that's fine I'm not going to  you know break that up however I need to talk with   Sally about how she feels about it and how we're  NE going to negotiate this um and if she wants to   start seeing a different therapist take reasonable  steps to resolve the situation including   termination and the provision of referrals and  document the discussion in the client's record   again both of you signning it's too easy I'm sorry  it's unethical but I know I know of people who've   done it it's too easy to write down yeah we had  this discussion and sign it when you actually   didn't so both people need to sign it counselors  will exercise caution and avoid explo exploitation   or the appearance of exploitation before entering  into a non-counseling relationship with a former   client for at least 5 years 5 years is our big  number now it used to be two years a long time   ago um some state boards still say two years but  the ethical code says five years and you're going   to hear that in several times over the next few  weeks counselors will discuss with the former   client important relevant considerations including  you know if we're going to do something all right   it's been at least five years all right we  were in counseling relationship together   for you know was it 10 weeks or was it two  years you know that there's a different level   of intimacy that may de may have developed and  maybe a different level of dependence that may   have developed the nature and circumstances of the  client's counseling um if they were seeing you for   example for marriage counseling and now you think  you're going to start dating them uh you know I   I'm thinking that feels pretty icky um so you you  want to consider what you were seeing them for   were they there they were an involuntary client  the court said they had to come and they did their   time and they got out that's somewhat different  but again you still have to respect that five-year   boundary the likelihood that the client will  want to resume counseling once you start seeing   them in a different kind of relationship that's  off the table so if they want to see you again   then you can't and possible negative effects or  outcomes it's important to brainstorm what these   outcomes might be and continue to assess with the  client and or former client and yourself if there   are things going wrong in the relationship is it  because you had a the counseling relationship and   and there's an because there is an unequal power  dynamic in counseling relationships we strive to   make it equal but it's not and the counselor  often has a more power in the relationship in   some ways and that can commun um can translate  into other types of relationships 5 10 years   later counselors will respect the autonomy of  each former client and not use undue influence   to form any sort of relationship with a former  client Business Development maybe you had this   client they did wonderfully in treatment and  you're like hey why don't you go out and promote   my practice and bring me new clients because  you know you were you were just wonderful uh   that's not okay and obviously you don't want to  use undo influence to form any sort of personal relationship when we're working with clients  we need to consistently reflect on our personal   values and make sure that we're maintaining that  boundary between what we value and believe and   what the client values and believes we can meet  we can agree we can disagree but we're going to   respect that boundary and as I mentioned it's  important that we we reflect on whether we are   indirectly imposing our personal values um  through our Decor through our approach um   to treatment through our um assessment through  our documentation whatever it is we do need to   be consistent one of the ways that we can also  protect against violating this is consistently   talking with clients about whether they feel  respected if they feel like their values and   thoughts are being respected great um and if  not then we need to say tell me about what   makes you feel uncomfortable or in what ways  you feel your values haven't been respected   sometimes there's going to be unavoidable harm  one of the most common is relationship changes   when some one person goes through treatment and  their family hasn't um that may end up causing   distress in those relationships until the family  members all come together and uh make changes or   until those relationships are ended we do need  to respect confidentiality um I will be doing   another presentation on CFR 42 part two because  they just made a bunch of changes to it um so I   will be doing another just wildly exciting  presentation on that in the upcoming weeks   bartering is now accepted under certain conditions  but we do need to be very explicit in our B in our   contract and the bartering contract and it needs  to be signed by both parties and re-evaluated   periodically to make sure that the client feels  like they're being treated fairly and obviously   the clinician feels like they're being treated  fairly and we need to be very aware of multiple   relationships and and too often we mistake  multiple relationships because we think all   we're talking about is romantic relationships  or maybe online relationships but no no it's   not that um it's also um seeing for example seeing  a coworker seeing a neighbor seeing a neighbor's   husband or well I guess he'd be your neighbor  too but you get my point A lot of times we don't   consider the non-romantic relationships and  how they may constitute a ethical breach in   part three we're going to discuss something called  boundary extensions avoiding harassment preventing   abandonment and a whole bunch more thank you  for being with me today I know this was a   well it was ethics so it wasn't one of those  wildly exciting things that you're going to   rush back to your office and go hey I feel  energized but it is a good reminder for us   um of what we need to do and we need to make sure  again our agencies are doing our agency policies   practices environment constitute or communicate  ethical behavior and create an environment that   feels safe and emper EMP powering to all of  our clients and all of the people served one   of the ways and while I'm waiting if you have any  questions what another one of the ways you can do   this is by getting a focus group together of the  people served or survey them when they come in if   you don't want to do a focus group to find out  what they might like to see hear whatever um in   your organization what changes might they like to  see in order to feel feel safer and more empowered