something happened to me on a dark night
in 1976 was December 19 a day that will change my life forever it was the day I
died when I came back I did not come back the
same I did not come back what seemed like days past in 19 minutes
and over the course of the next few years I began to remember the greatest
mysteries revealed to me I discovered a secret beyond any secret
the sum of all secrets it's fine nothing Soloman it's cold it was the key to Solomon's wisdom the secrets of the Knights Templar and
of the Freemasons you must be stopped courage just might
be a boy be strong be brave I challenged myself to find out
everything found great teachers who knew this and
began to seek them out and travel the war and the meta secret
is revealed time has come I became a messenger to deliver all that
was made known to me hello there I'm Bob Proctor netha is a
nice word it's a word most people don't understand we talk about metaphysical
rules that won't like that stuff no it's just what you can't see with these eyes you got to see with an inner eye of
understanding meta is beyond the physical you know that 99% of our
population has been programmed to let the outside world control the inside if
you want to get what you want let the inside world control the outside that's
what the meta secrets all about the meta secrets and wealth and
abundance is doing what you love following your passion enjoying your
life being grateful for this moment realizing that in fact you already have
wealth and abundance you have wealth and abundance to the level that you allow it
in your life expand your level of openness deserving this and you can have
more wealth and abundance right now how do you become more wealthy you
become more grateful studies here in the US show that grateful people earn more
money and are better at innovation so the first step to becoming more wealthy
it's become more grateful find the good in your world right now and you'll take
a first step to become more wealthy the many secret to wealth is knowing exactly
what you want and then being willing to pay the price to get it most people
think that wealth just comes out of having this impression in your mind that
you're gonna live on abundant life that's an important piece of it but it's
incomplete if you look at the word attraction and the law of attraction the
last six letters spell action AC tion one of my favorite words is satisfaction
we all want to have satisfaction and again in Latin satis means enough enough
action satisfaction enough action produces the result you know I've been
very very successful with the Chicken Soup for the Soul books and it was
exhausting and you were lucky you're this great idea and we use the law of
attraction we visualize that we put up posters around our office that simulate
a bestseller list with our name number one we visualize book store windows full
of Chicken Soup for the Soul books all of which came true but there's a asking
and a believing and a receiving the three steps that I think of in law of
attraction and the second part of believing is taking action because if
you believe that your actions going to pay off you'll take the action so
believing this doesn't just mean like sitting there going oh I believe I can
be wealthy it means doing the things that produce wealth the key to abundance is to act in spite
of fear in spite of doubt in spite of worry
in spite of inconvenience in spite of uncertainty in spite of anything if
we're talking about metaphysical we're talking about beyond the physical so
what we've got to do is go inside we have been programmed to live from the
outside down we're letting what's going on outside of us control what's going on
inside if we're going to get into the meta side of our own personality we've
got to get away from this physical instrument we've got and move into the
higher side of our own personality and start to understand that we live
simultaneously on three planes of understanding and we work from a higher
to a lower potential if you're working with electricity any electrician any
engineer will tell you that you have to work from higher to lower potential if
you go contrary to that you're not going to get any use out of the electricity or
when you're working with the mind you don't start with the physical and work
on you start with thought and work in a factor other spiritual nature spirits on
the present were not evenly present in our place at the same time I can be
underwater and think I can be in an airplane and think I get the pleasure of
working with a couple of the astronauts that have been on the other side of the
moon and they could think not only could they think on the other side of the moon
they could transfer their thoughts to somebody here on earth it's just a form
of telepathic communication you know it's been said that if you
build it they will come I think if you build it and you build something with
true excellence and you distinguish it in the marketplace and you come up with
a selling proposition and you are aggressive in your marketing to the
world it's possible that people will come but it's not inevitable that they
will come and sitting around passively visualizing things is not likely to get
the world beating a path to your door my Mehta secret about wealth ultimately
is you've got to create a lot of value for a lot of people and if you do that
you will bring a lot of wealth back to you so by giving service and giving that
which helps other people improve their lives brings joy to them bring service
and products to them if you do that and you keep expanding that always be
thinking about expanding your service to others and if you do that wealth as a
foregone conclusion first thing quit listening to what
everyone else is telling you what to do and start paying attention to what you
want to do you see I can look back with my memory and I can remember going and
saying mom dad or to the teacher I want to do so-and-so and they'd say now how
are you going to do that see what they didn't understand is I didn't know how
to do it but neither does anyone know how to do the things they want to do
when they first think of it you don't have to know how you know two young
bicycle mechanics from Dayton Ohio in the United States of America introduced
us to a new kingdom they were the first ones to fly in airplanes the whole world
believed that you couldn't do that anything heavier than air is attracted
towards the center of the world you can't fly but they wanted to and so they
did well clarity to me is a very different
concept that I think a lot of people the first thing I want to know is what do
you think you're trying to accomplish the next thing I want to know is why are
you trying to accomplish it the next thing I want to know is if you
accomplish it what do you really think is gonna happen in your life why do
people come to me and they say I want to grow my business because I work a lot
and the business will be entrepreneurial well I teach a concept achievement
concept a concept that is predicated on taking action and implementing called
optimization optimization is getting the highest and the best use and result and
outcome of their time efforts your emotion your life your relationships but
you can't begin and this is where a lot of people I think really fall down you
can't begin to optimize until you take the time to observe examine and identify
not all but the scope of options and alternatives and other possibilities
available to you number one to achieve the goal and number two as an
alternative goal clarity is power just by being clear you
will automatically begin to magnetize things to you to your life the law of
mentalism is about the mind everything that we have ever created everything
that has ever existed existed first in the mind all thoughts at the beginning
of all things real all things that you can touch and feel began in the mind so
if you want to be wealthy you've got to decide what wealth is to
you define it what does it mean how much money do you have to have for me
financial independence meant having 30 million dollars producing income which
allows me the lifestyle I want without having to work and so I've achieved that
but I knew exactly what I wanted because I looked at what it would cost me to
live my lifestyle most people don't know their net worth they don't know their
income levels of what would be required to produce what they want they say they
want to own a yacht but they don't know what a yacht costs we don't know what it
costs for the slippage fee they don't know what it costs to maintain the yacht
so go out and create your ideal lifestyle and then figure out exactly
what it would cost to live it and then set that number as the number you want
to achieve then believe you can achieve it visualize that every single day take
action when the action comes ask for what you want reject rejection give up
any idea of failure just persevere until you continue on until you produce the
result you want the law of attractions a good starting
point for thinking about how to improve your life you want to align your
thoughts and your beliefs with what you want your life to be but the law of
attraction itself by itself won't allow to achieve the abundance that you need
there are certain steps that you need to take and these steps are all
incorporated and what we call the Metta secret and the Metta secret isn't one
solitary method or one solitary system the Metta secret is a combination of
tools methodologies and ways to understand the world and ways to
understand how we can change the world until I started looking at who I was and
who I wanted to become nothing changed because every time I would look and I
would dream something else or blame somebody else or just look in a
different direction that was not inside I would get more of what I was creating
because every time I created something people would react to that every time I
took an action that was blaming this or blaming that people would react to them
you know what and I would react to their reactions and I was creating an
environment that was busy instead an environment that supported wealth and
abundance if you look around there's nothing but
the abundance everywhere that you see you see the trees growing you see
businesses happening this is wealth this is prosperity this is abundance if it's
not happening for you it's because unconsciously you have beliefs counter
intentions negativity that actually blocks it from coming into your life
it's actually working the law of attraction all the time but it's
happening on an unconscious level the abundance is there the wealth is there
but if you don't feel it if you're not expressing it it's because inside of you
you may feel you don't deserve it this is part of the unconscious work that has
to be done in order for you to feel on a conscious real live earth level level
what's happening with abundance and prosperity abundance wealth is your
natural birthright if you're not feeling it it's because of your unconscious
beliefs the law of Correspondence simply stated is as above so below as within so
without the law of Correspondence is simply attesting to the fact that we are
human creatures physically present but we have minds and we have spirits so we
exist in more than just one plane we might even be multi-dimensional beings
with multi-dimensional thoughts and then maybe more to you than just meets the
eye if you want to be wealthy on the outside
you first have to become wealthy on the inside as above so below as within so
without first you have to become wealthy in your thoughts then you become wealthy
and your outer expression of that you have to have a wealthy attitude you have
to have a wealthy and inform about who you are and what's possible and when you
have that it will start to manifest outside of you if a person wants to take
a quantum leap rather than incremental steps they have to begin by
understanding that they can do that there's a marvelous little book it's
called you square I think what that means if you square a number you
multiply the number by the number don't you well when you square you multiply
your potential by your potential it's astronomical I mean you just go off the
board the man that wrote the book price printed he said when you're looking at a
quantum leap he says it looks ridiculous utterly but
in retrospect it looks like a natural thing to happen it was without effort
it's with ease and that's what quantum leaps are what you're really doing is
getting rid of limitations in your mind and you're letting your mind just take
off and build a great big idea and you start before you're ready you defy what
the masses are controlled by you've got to move into a space all of your own
understand you're working with an infinite power that's on the present
it's with you all the time it's closer than their breath and you get in harmony
with that and just release all thoughts of limitation and make up your mind
you're going to take it just compound your effectiveness that's essentially
what I did I didn't know what I was doing at the time I didn't understand
quantum leap but I took my income from 4,000 a year to 175,000 in a year and
then it went over a million and I had no understanding and what happened now
understand this I had been raised to believe that if you don't have a good
formal education that you'd never be able to do what I did if you don't have
experience you could never do what I did I had two months high school and I had a
bad work record but my income went from 4,000 you over a million a year now you
can do that and the first step is understanding that you can do it quit
listening to people tell you you can't and start to see yourself doing
something really big write it out on a sheet of paper begin by saying I am so
happy and grateful now that I have turned my annual income to a monthly
income it's not just about attracting things to
you it's about learning to trust what you're attracted to you are naturally
going to be attracted to certain kinds of people to certain movies over other
movies to places you want a vacation versus other places to workshops you
want to take or books you want to read versus other books trust what you're
attracted to it will take you where you need to go and it may not always make
sense to you I remember going to a seminar there was a woman teaching about
how to triple your income in a year and at that time I was probably more like a
hippie than i am the entrepreneur that i am today and my wife who is against
making money at the time thought it was evil and you should be in total service
and all this she said i can't believe we're going to that workshop where
they're gonna teach you about how to make all this money i thought you were
more spiritual than that i said honey i don't know why i'm attracted to that
workshop i'm going to go there so i'd sat down the woman next to me we started
talking interns out she was a veterinarian
and it turns out that our cat had feline leukemia at the time and i started
talking to her about that she said well i'm the world's expert on feline
leukemia and i said well i've heard there's no cure for that she said no but
there actually is a cure and i can teach it to you and so she called my
veterinarian told him what to do my cat lived for many many more years and the
local vet thought it should but see i was trusting my attraction to go to that
seminar and it led me in a path that saved my cat's life which was not where
my conscious thinking was but it was a very important goal to me to keep my cat
aligned those kind of things will start to happen most people on certain about something
they're uncertain about their next step here's your message do it do it whenever
you're uncertain about do it take this down you will learn so much more you'll
get so much further faster by actually getting in the game than doing it then
thinking about it forever one of my sayings is one step in the
right direction is worth a hundred years of thinking about the law of
Correspondence the law mentalism and the law of vibration all combined to help
you understand that the notion of wealth is arbitrary you're always wealthy in
comparison to someone else you choose a person to compare yourself with and your
wealth or your level wealth with and then you decide at that point to be
happy with the situation or to be unhappy and therefore change all of
wealth is subjective understand this and you understand that there's an ebb and a
flow to your finances the more comfortable you are with how you
interact with the world with the value you give in the world with the service
or the product that you give the world then you begin to realize your place in
the world and by realizing this you participate in the abundance that is all
around you at every moment and at every time it is all yours from the beginning
it was yours until the end it will always be yours the meta secret to relationships is to
know that the universe is giving you love right now when you give love to the
universe when you give love to another you will receive love in turn love is
the essence and nature of relationship relationships are a two-way street it's
not just about taking and giving and receiving and getting what you want but
it's also about giving I like to say that each person should take a hundred
percent responsibility for the quality of the relationship because if you take
fifty fifty whenever it's not working that's gonna be there fifty percent so
if you take a hundred percent and act as if everything in the relationship you're
creating it and when it isn't exactly what you want it to be sacrum how am i
creating that take that curiosity and use it as a tool and when you get the
answer like oh I'm not coming home on time I'm not listening I'm not doing
this then you have the opportunity to shift and do the thing that produces
relationship a friend of mine wrote a book called making relationships work
and the idea is there is work in making the relationship work so be willing to
do the work give as much as you get the more you give the more will come back
to have a better relationship with anyone in your life first you begin by
having a relationship with yourself treat yourself the way you would your a
very dearest friend love yourself regardless of all the crazy shenanigans
you pull believe me I do this every day so if you want a better relationship
with someone else love yourself relationships are part of what the
universe is giving you as a gift the first and most important relationship is
the one with yourself when you love yourself you heal yourself when you love
yourself you become a magnet that people want to hang around and you begin to
attract other people and new relationships it's all based on love
it's all based on non-judgement it's all based on total acceptance the universe
has a relationship with you right now and the universe wants to give you more
are you ready to accept it the concept that I can't live without you is the
tragic statement to me the idea that I need somebody else to complete my life I
need somebody else or my life's not worthwhile as a is a very sad statement
and I think someone needs to take a good look at themselves when they when they
say that when you start to think that thought stop for a second and realize
life is full of stuff and sometimes stuff is potholes sometimes stuff as
bridges are out ahead sometimes there's a detour in life I heard somebody once
say that sometimes the most beautiful scenes in life are the ones we observe
on a detour if you're gone on a detour and realized
that your life wouldn't have been the same if you hadn't taken that twist to
that turn in your life next time stuff happens
take a look maybe there's something better right around the corner the law
of cause and effect tells us that there no such thing as coincidences everything
that happens in this world happens because of a reason someone somewhere
created a cause it may not be something you are aware of it may not be something
we can even begin to realize or see at this level but at some level someone
somewhere or group of people even us we have created it and so as a result we
see the effect we see the effect all around us we see the effect everywhere
on this planet everyone asked me how in the world can I have a better a happier
richer a more joyous relationship it's very simple first thing is you got to
slow down enough to pay externally focused
it's all about them the more interested next turn we focused you are and the
other person the more extraordinary their experience will be and the more
than actually know reciprocated the second and you're watching me and I've
got a serious side you know that but you gotta get in touch with your childlike
sense of curiosity of innocence the third is you've gotta be in the here
and now and that's so trite and said so often but being in the here and now
means connecting deeply and being aware of what people are saying and looking at
them and and be responsive to their feedback and their mannerisms and the
last thing and the easy thing is to again as I said earlier enjoy the
process we are so busy o stressed in our life trying to get from one thing to
another trying to multitask that the greatest way to have wonderful
relationships is to commit commit not just the time but your being to being
there to connect this for me the meta secret to relationships is to be the
person you're looking for whatever it is you're out there looking for be that and
give it away if you're looking for someone as loving and kind and
compassionate generous you need to be loving kind and compassionate and
generous whatever it is you want you've got to be that and express that out into
the universe and whatever you express out is going to come back multiplied
the meta secretive relationships is for you to develop an identity that brings
out the best in your partner and helping your partner to be the best that they
can in order to bring out the best of who you are criticism seems to be a big problem if
you are really secure in yourself and somebody criticizes you and it isn't
gonna bother you now if you're insecure and somebody criticizes you it's really
gonna bother you you see 9 out of 10 times the person that's criticizing it
really wants to help you they just haven't really learned how to
communicate effectively but let's not let somebody else's criticism or their
way of helping us shake us if we're solid in our own self and we really
understand ourselves then we can handle it and it won't be any problem if
criticism really rattles your chain or rattled your cage or I'll really upset
you it's not the criticism to upset you it's not the other person's pinion that
upset you it's how you react to it and you see if you are really solid within
yourself you would respond to it you thank them for it and say but I really
don't choose to do that or you'd say well thank you that's
probably a good idea I'll try it but they're not gonna knock you off track so
it goes back to have a good sound self-image a good image of yourself
Maxwell Maltz wrote a beautiful book on that away background 1960 called psycho
cybernetics psycho cybernetics cybernetic is a communication mechanism
in our mind is the image that we hold of ourselves it's like a life governing
device well you've got an image of you just same as I have an image of me and
our image controls how we walk how we talk our we dress how we meet greet
people and it also controls how we handle criticism when it comes our way
and it will come your way just same as it comes to me and everybody we want to
be solid in our own belief about who we are and what we
let's really get to know our self and then rather than react let's respond it
doesn't matter how they approach whether they diplomatic and trying to help us or
whether they're trying to find fault it won't really make any difference we will
listen to what they have to say listen to it and then we'll either accept it or
reject it but it isn't going to affect the relationship with the other person
one bit there is masculine and feminine in
everything nothing is entirely masculine nor is it entirely feminine we have
different aspects of yin and yang of harshness and softness different aspects
of masculinity and femininity and everything if you take a look at life
and see it all as a combination see how we are always living in combination then
you begin to realize and to also appreciate the law of gender relationships are about communion taking
our life and making it sacred through connection with another human being
so communion and making sacred is what relationship is all about you know there's a lot of lonely people
around and if you're lonely I'm gonna let you in on a secret you're always
going to be lonely until you become friends with yourself if you are looking
for a company outside of yourself you're looking in the wrong place you want to
go inside and when you get to really to look at you you're gonna feel so good
about you you're gonna love yourself as you see as
a little kid you look probably taught don't love yourself that's conceit I
know I was and most of people I know that's not conceit that's a healthy
conscious awareness of who we really are I'm not talking about an ego trip I'm
talking about really becoming acquainted with yourself you've got to build a good
relationship with you or you're always going to be lonely when you get angry
look at it's okay this is a gift I need to release something here
and in that process relationship becomes a school for growth instead of just like
it's someone it's gonna please me look at how can I serve them and how can I
learn from them as opposed to how can I manipulate them to give me all my needs
met if you do that you're gonna end up with a much better relationship if you're in a relationship where you're
not experiencing full love the way to change it is not by changing the other
person it's by changing yourself if you look within yourself and you start to
feel grateful for everything about you as you change your relationship with
yourself magically the outside relationship will change as well
you will suddenly see it transformed you will suddenly see that there's love in
that relationship with that other person but you don't change the other person
you change you reviewed the first 26 years of my life my life was up to maps
and at the end of 26 years imagine living for 26 years I'm looking at
yourself you're in a happy second book I think I look at me and he told me him I
was one of the most miserable people he had ever met and he was right I was
playing miserable he said you're always he said learn to change as long as I
kept focusing on what led me to this point
which was it's going to create more the same he
said let it go forgive it if you're looking for love and not finding it it's
no doubt because of a lack of forgiveness in some area of your life
this is true for all of us you want to look in your life look at your past look
at all of your relationships and ask yourself where have I not forgiven
myself my parents my siblings my neighbours my
relatives my business partners where have I not forgiven when you go and
forgive you release the energy that allows the law of attraction to bring
new love and new relationships into your life how do you do this you look and ask
yourself where have I not forgiven somebody somebody's going to come to
mind it could be you the second thing you do is say can I forgive them can I
forgive myself whether you say yes or no you move to the third part of this and
you start to wonder what made that person act the way they did at that
point what made me act the way I did at that one point and you start to go deep
into understanding the psychology of behavior and you realize we're all doing
the best we can yourself included
at that point when you can forgive yourself
and you can forgive these other people whoever it might be for whatever may
have occurred when you forgive them you release all of the energy that's been
stuck psychically within your own mind and your body and your soul and when
that releases into the universe the universe now has an open pathway to
return to you new love new relationships new blessings it all begins with
forgiveness and you can do that right now talking about the greatest word in
the world leadership is a great word but no word compares with lot because there's life in love there's forgiveness
and love there are only everything there's thankfulness in love where do we
start because we find sometimes in families there's no love and marriage
isn't there's no love it's our learning it begins with me and when we started
learning we're not to loving ourselves and it begins with your learning to me
you could say your loving but unfortunately you love people you're
like love has to be unconditional loving those who don't lie now in my case but
my wife married me she said she loved me I told her I loved her
but it says we got married I was saying I love you she said well why don't you
I've liked it I say I do like it you have a funny way of showing it
I say well I love you enough to die for you try living a little and so I
discovered as loving as eyewash definition the law of gender the law of
vibration and the law of rhythm all of these figure in relationships you see
love is a dynamic any relationship it's a dynamic when you are actively relating
that's when it's alive that's when it's fun when you sit back and you start to
look at the relationship and it becomes static and becomes a relationship to be
assessed to be looked at but when you're relating to your partner or your spouse
amazing things happen it's dynamic it's moving it's alive and that's what all
love is supposed to be alive and so much more fun changes happen all the time we
change human beings change you change I change we all change but if you can
change together in the same direction amazing miracles take place words
feelings thoughts are all aligned and all of a sudden you can take on any
problem and it's not an issue that's what relationships are all about
that's what relating is all about that's what love is all about as mini Godavari is lunch create an
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said she rock so it's all what she need not feel as you've already seen from dr.
Masaru Emoto water makes up 85% of our body and the thoughts we think actually
create a vibration and in the water that has memory and so you have to think
positive thoughts again we go back to forgiveness and letting go thinking
positive thoughts expecting to be healthy not listening to what people
tell you not taking them beliefs I have been out of the Sun my whole life I've
never gotten skin cancer don't intend to get skin cancer and when stuff comes out
of I choose not to listen to it because I know that belief would affect me so I
believe that I am a person that my spiritual connection keeps me healthy
also though I work on the level of the physiology of the body the biochemistry
makes sense to play at that level I eat organic food I drink healthy
watered it's not contaminated with chlorine and all the stuff they put in
it so I filter my water I eat the right kinds of nutrients from my body I found
out what I'm allergic to and I've basically eliminated those from my diet
I exercise so exercise and keeping my body toned we want to have resistance
exercise we want endurance which means we need to jog and do aerobics and
things like that and we need to have flexibility things like yoga and Pilates
so we need a complete system to keep our body healthy and then a detoxification I
think it's the part that most people don't do enough with we are taking in so
many toxins in the air we breathe but if you will cleanse on a regular
basis I cleanse every Monday I just do a cleansing diet where I just drink
liquids and then I don't need anything else and my liver has a chance to get
rid of all the toxins or my bodies I want you to understand that you have a
marvelous mind and you can do anything with it and don't ever listen anybody
that tells you you can't you want to start to look at yourself not as a body
or as a name like I'm not Bob Procter Bob and Proctor just two words you've
never heard anybody fooling into school and say body's not coming today it's
sick never hear anyone say am hand it's my hand my body my name but you see
there's something wonderful about you and something wonderful about me and
it's the same thing we have a marvelous mind we're creative beings talk to your
body you're not a body you'd live in a body then this may sound silly because
maybe nobody's ever said this to you before but go around just repeating
maybe a thousand times yourself I'm not a body I live in a body I'm not a body I
live in a body I'm not a body I live in a body
then start telling your body to relax the meta secret to great health is to
feel good now you do that with good thoughts you do that with good food you
do that with plenty of sleep you do that by doing what you love that's the meta
secret the great health the meta secret to hell is to honor your
body listen to your body are you tired are you hungry are you
thirsty do you need time to play have greater health honor your body health
not just physical health not just eating the right things and getting exercise
let's talk about emotional health this means doing what you love loving
what you do looking forward each day researching
helping other people giving back this is the meta secret to emotional health to
me recognizing the divine component in us has a two-fold effect on the one hand
it's incredibly humbling because how many of us really live up to being godly
how many of us really really maximize the god-given talents that
we're given how many of us really live lives of fulfilled potential so on the
one hand it's kind of intimidating but on the other hand it's a very inspiring
it's inspiring to think I as a human being and capable of being godly I'm not
God I'm not going to confuse myself with God but I am capable of being godly I am
capable of a goodness which can resound around the world I am capable like God
of using language to bring things into existence an architectural drawing is
the languaging of a building into existence
a marriage contract is the languaging of a relationship into existence any sort
of contract does that a novel creates a world that may be more real to us than
the so-called real world that we are living in and being godly is both an
obligation which frankly I feel I fall vastly short of but also an incredibly
inspiring opportunity and the ancient traditions not only the one that I come
from but really all of them teach us this the logarithm is the very fabric of life
itself rhythm is everywhere things are born and
things die we move into a season and we move out of a season we go within and we
go with that we change rhythms flow in our emotions as well you cannot always
be feeling happy sometimes you feel sad you'll feel down and then you'll come
out of it whatever goes up must come down you've heard the language rhythm is
exactly that and the minute you begin to realize that all of life is all about
the law of rhythm then you can flow easily in bad times and then have more
fun in happy times when you start to expect rhythms know that if you are
happy in one direction you can also be unhappy in the other direction the law
rhythm surrounds us works with us and if you master it there's nothing you can't
do the meta secret to health and having
amazing energy is the ability to look at your world from a perspective that hey
things aren't always going to go your way but you know what as long as you
always do your best as long as you are focused on what you achieve and what
you're trying to accomplish that it's all going to work out I think one of the
most important keys is to recognize in life just about all the limitations that
we have or self-imposed to realize that is the greatest break out the greatest I
talked about staging jailbreaks in your life breaking out of the mental prisons
getting over the walls of the self-imposed impossibilities in life and
it is remarkable what happens when you realize take a look at what really is
holding you back and very often almost all the time it's you it's you the power
lies within you see humor is good it really is I don't
really understand what it does to you but I know it does something to your
brain Norman Cousins who had gone now but lived a long and a very very
effective life and he had been diagnosed with the disease and it was telling him
he was literally dying and one day he got thinking to himself if sadness and
sickness are hooked together then happiness and health must be hooked
together and so he had people bring in old movie films of Laurel and Hardy all
kinds of different old old actors funny funny stories and he started to play
them they made him move out of the hospital so he rented his suite of rooms
in a hotel and he had these movies playing all the time and he was laughing
a real belly loud it got better now I think you know when you're laughing
you're feeling good you start to laugh at yourself when you make a mistake or
laugh at yourself don't get serious with yourself
it plays a very very important role in a healthy relaxed life if you want to
study a further get into some of Norman Cousins material and he'll explain
exactly what it does to the brain that controls the vibration of the body start
laughing a little more have fun the line can't be all it is designed to be
without the body being everything it was designed to be but we basically thwart
both you can have a great relationship you're gonna have a great financial
situation you can have a great family relationship and the big problem in our
society certainly in Western society people do an exercise ninety two percent
of people doing exercise they don't eat they don't eat nutritious things they
don't take they don't complement against their to compensate it's a it's very
simple and if you break it down to the little steps like the our eating and our
thing you'll have the most rich satisfying fulfilling gratifying and
liberating life but you got to balance it he'll miss all appear all I know is
right now I don't have a voice I don't have my sight on I'm hearing my strength
is gone however I have never been more excited and thankful in my whole life
the law of vibration simply states that everything is in motion nothing stays
static at some level even though something may appear as if it's not
moving its molecules are moving its atoms are moving everything vibrates
launches your thoughts everything now I do understand that dis-ease cannot stay
in a healthy vibration it just cannot I also understand you cannot turn disease
into health but you can release disease and recreate health to see your body is
changing at the rate of millions of cells every second and it's the thought
patterns that you hold in your mind that control the vibratory rate of the body
your brain is an electronic switching station there's all kinds of material written on
thought on attitude and on health and I do know this if you are suffering from a
physical disease quit talking about it quit thinking about it
go to a very competent medical doctor and follow that person's advice because
he or she will tell you what to do physically but at the same time
instantly begin visualizing every molecule of your being in a harmie with
the law of vibration now I would have an affirmation that I would repeat I am so
happy and grateful now that every molecule of my being is vibrating in
perfect harmony with God's laws my body is getting healthier and stronger and
more vibrant every minute of every day and repeat that treat it like a mantra I can't predict what's going to happen
for you personally but I do know that hundreds of people if not thousands of
people have experienced healings and cures by beginning to change their
thoughts about what's going on in their body in my book the attractor factor I
talk about a person who had cancer she experienced the idea of forgiving
everybody and everything in her life and she went through the process of doing
that working with a coach she then went back into the doctor's office they
opened her for surgery and there was no cancer it was gone by forgiving
everybody in her life including herself she transformed her body she reached
this place of healing and this place of peace and as a result she experienced a
cure if you're finding yourself sitting here watching this and you're ill you've
got a chronic condition you're sick what you need to do is a couple of things
number one you need to first work on your attitude you need to believe you
can get healthy you need to not believe anyone who tells you you're gonna die or
it's terminal or it's going to take a long time literally we know that we can
get rid of a disease in minutes in the only minutes I had a cold once and a
person literally did an exercise with me my nose dried up my fever went away the
aching this went away in five minutes so we know the power of the mind we know
that you have to forgive and release so much work now being done on cancer where
we know there's resentment in different forms of resentment will come in two
different forms of cancer in the body so it's critical to get yourself aligned
with spirit when you are aligned with spirit through meditation through doing
the things that bring you joy through doing the things that align you and you
know what that is for you it could be singing could be walking in nature to be
petting your cat when you move into that state healing naturally takes place
through you there's this innate natural healing ability that's always working to
heal you if you get you out of the way by you I mean your ego mind your beliefs
your fears your doubts all of that stuff all the resentments you've held that you
haven't released that will keep you sick so you've got to do some kind of work to
get into the spiritual alignment and to release the negativity emotional pain is very real it's like
sorrow grief like grief comes in waves just sort of overcomes you then sort of
fades away you could have experienced some traumatic situation
anything from rape to the loss of a loved one or being held up
we're somebody invaded your privacy and in some way or another and in it and it
causes deep emotional pain what we want to realize is that we are bringing that
on ourself you say well wait a minute you're not bringing around yourself no
but you're reliving this situation we've got to separate ourselves from the
incident from the situation we've got to realize that it's a very real part of
life an attempt to separate ourselves from it and deal with it as best we can
and then let it go otherwise we're going to carry it with us
and we're going to keep experiencing it over and over and over again do it I'm a
single mother so most of us are mizuki certain etiquette
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evacuations name the vibration no design Agra
you're gonna get shot leave our focus official Fukushima there it was that's
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and also be sure to you know God or even though or - Chrissa eyewitness I a
beverage a lot in this active opportunity - miss over having a even
know or each key/value a Touhou Michael Kearney sale terminal Korea to stay and
it's correct / english name this Kara bazooka robbers know whatever the unit
are happy no this is not messenger to homelessness
and so the mocha tell jinguk always an Iraqi soldiers generosity the community
Sasuke not although your luggage or secret so we need more or at least the whole
semester so another the killed no kata you Nevada no winter but I said oh thank you can I
go since stress is caused in my opinion when we take our power and give it to
the problem we want to maintain the power I'm in control of me the power is
going to stay with me I am NOT going to let the condition the
circumstance or the challenge that I may be facing control me you can make a
decision right now but you are going to maintain your power
and you're going to let everything outside stay outside and you know that
when you're in a totally relaxed state the solution to problems come but
getting involved in these sophisticated stress management deals release the
stress let it go you're in charge of your body to say peace be still
visualize a beautiful lavender energy flowing right into the crown of your
head and circulating right through your body and then start to imagine every
molecule of your body vibrating in perfect harmony with God's laws you're
totally relaxed you're in charge of yourself there is no stress where
there's relaxation become peace be still don't even use that word anymore get rid
of it release it the laws of cause and effect of rhythm
and polarity come into play when we talk about your help your body is an amazing
Symphony amazing miracles taking place on every part of your body and what
holds it together our fields of force that we have you cannot even begin to
understand every day your cells are renewing until
you have new organs generated all the time in your body and your cells are
repairing themselves even as they remove toxins from your body I can't help to
wonder sometimes if you gave that entire Symphony a wonderful environment filled
with fields of happiness and radiant joy and vitality how that growing renewing
process might work a little bit better sort of like happy children in the
playground here's the paradox of being human real
happiness is only available in the moment if you're brooding on the past or
obsessed about the future even if you're looking forward to something that could
be magnificent in the future it's not quite the same sort of anchored
contentment that you get from really being in the moment we human beings seem to be perpetually
someplace else that's that's kind of like one definition of the human
predicament the human condition we are perpetually thinking about the past the
future something to the right something to the left something else
I think the paradox to happiness is you do have to have dreams and aspirations
and you have to be anchored rooted and happy where you are not always easy to
do but I keep trying happiness is a point of view
am I happy yeah I think I am how can somebody always be sad if whispers sad
include somebody that we love or or that when the project we were working on so
long doesn't work out temporary sadness is a very human condition maybe by finding things to do that make
you happy you see if you're miserable your mind is
focused on the past there's a method concept get you over a me miserable
concept gonna hardly focus on right now see you're miserable because of
something that happened happen or something she said her he said or they
did forget it gets in the past worrying about the future have you any idea the
number of electrical charges must fly through your body so this simple subject
of writing your name see your brain is an electronic switching space then
you've got brain cells you can choose to look at the good side of the situation you know it circulates through hundreds
of miles of passageway 33 seconds it carries all the food in and all
I haven't got any energy that's on now one of the most important things you
need to do in your life is discover your life purpose I believe that everybody is
born with an individual and unique purpose and when you are doing your life
purpose when you're living it expressing it fulfilling it you're happy and so
many people have talked about joy being your guidance system when you're off
purpose you're not happy you're not joyful and so this joy this inner
experience of heaviness and joy is a way of saying oh I'm on course I'm doing the
things I'm supposed to do Stephen Covey said you know you don't want to get to
the end of life and get to the top of the ladder and find out the ladder was
leaning against the wrong building it can be very very successful we see
people with all the cars and the toys and the money and the society
recognition and so forth but they're not happy because they're not fulfilling
their purpose think about it like this a rose has to be a rose a chrysanthemum
has to be a chrysanthemum a geranium has to be a dream and yet we as people have
been given choice the choice to pursue any number of things and do whatever we
want to do but unfortunately most of us have been talked out of our purpose
if you want to be happy come back into this moment and do what you love in this
moment you should absolutely work toward
improving your life improving the world improving your relationships improving
your finances every sort of conceivable improvement at a micro or macro level
should indeed be your agenda but if you are not happy with things the way they
are then your happiness is perpetually on hold pending a condition that doesn't
exist yet if you do that you will never be happy you have to realize that the
point of power in your life is in this moment people think about the future and
they throw their power into the future there is no future when it gets here
it's called now it's called this moment people think about the past and they
throw their power into the past but there is no past it's gone when you
think about the past you think about it in this moment this moment is all there
is and you can be happy in this moment when you are everything is taken care of
all is well happiness and achieving happiness is a
process it's not something you achieve right now and you're done and you have
your happiness it's something that you're constantly obtaining and
retaining through life and the way to do that is to really understand what brings
contentment in your life and to achieve them and one of the key things to
remember in terms of happiness is that part of this process is sharing
happiness with other people the more we share happiness and the more we teach
other people how to bring happiness and fulfillment in their life the more we'll
be happy and fulfilled so continue with your journey of greater fulfillment and
you'll have more happiness in your life the law of polarity is about dualism
everything exists in relation to something else there is no person that's
entirely good there is no person that's entirely bad there is no entirely hot or
entirely cold it's always hot in relation to something else that's colder
it's always colder in relation to something else that is hotter we move in
directions as opposed to moving in a static field we always move from one
place to another from one thing that's more pleasant to something that's less
pleasant or something that's unpleasant to something that's more pleasant there
is a movement and it's this movement exists because of polarity happiness is what you want and happiness
you can have right now why aren't you feeling happy why isn't anybody feeling
happy because psychologically they use unhappiness as a motivator they think by
being unhappy angry desperate frustrated whatever the feeling might be that's not
happiness that it will whip them forward it'll make them take action and it's
something that actually shoots themselves in the foot because when you
are happy now which is available to you right now you know what your choices are
you can see what your decisions are to be and you can more clearly decide on
what to do next it comes in to really understanding something about ourselves
we should start at a very early age and we should ask ourselves who am i you
know you know what really makes me tick and get to know our self we're in a
hurry to get a car or build a business or buy a house we should introduce
ourselves to ourself school hasn't done it our parents aren't doing it you go to
work for somebody they're not gonna do it so if you don't do it for yourself
you're not going to do it this deals between you and yourself Fogler said we
have seen the enemy they are us whatever has happened in your life whatever is
going on for you if it's not the way you want it any situation
consider the fact that everything happens for a reason and that reason is
there to serve you how can you reframe this how can you relook at this in such
a way that helps you that supports you that puts you on the path to success and
positivity again it doesn't help you to be negative it
doesn't help you to wallow all that can do is bring you down it's time to change
your mind it's time to refrain relook at it have a new perspective a new view and
put this in the light of this was there to serve you
there's no accidents in the universe this happened for a reason and that
reason is there to help you we grow up with the idea rich people aren't happy
well I know rich people that are laughing they're very happy and of
course I know people that are very wealthy and are very unhappy I remember
all night yell one time saying since it doesn't make any difference whether
you're rich or not if you're happy or not you might as well be wealthy and
then if you're miserable you can at least be miserable in comfort we've got
to understand that all the money in the world is available to us but we have to
earn it now that does not mean we should work this is where the meta secret
really comes into play working happens to be the very worst way to earn money
we should work for satisfaction people should go to work at what they love
doing when we think of work what we're really talking about is how we spend our
days work has a probably a bad energy attached to it we should spend our days
doing what we absolutely love to do when it comes to the fear of failure you
look at your life and you ask if I pursue my dream my passion my love and
it doesn't work out will I still be okay can i still love myself well life still
go on when you realize that the answer is yes you remove the fear of failure
when you remove the fear of failure you have energy to go forward and actually
make it a success well what about the fear of success when you are successful
you can make a difference in the world if you really want the world to be a
happy prosperous place contribute a happy prosperous person to it you the
Metta secret to happiness is that there is perfection in imperfection that when
we accept our environment for what it is and the people around us for who they
are we can make a big difference happiness what makes you happy everyone
is not the same for me it's research I love researching and writing and putting
multimedia programs together and this allows me to do something else that I
love traveling the world I travel more than 6,000 miles that's nine thousand
kilometres every week I've been to more than 52 countries I bought an airplane
every two and a half days I've been around the world more than 16 times in
just a couple of years and I enjoy that meeting new people meeting new audiences
helping people what makes you happy that's what makes me happy
a key component to lift yourself out of depression is human connection go
connect with another human being another powerful tool is movement and a third is
we laughter go play and have some fun and watch your spirits begin to lift the meta secret of life is to realize
that the journey is I believe the first thing a person should do is establish a
purpose why are you even here why do you get out of bed in the morning why are
you living I honestly believe every one of us are hardwired to do something so
how do you decide on your purpose you decide on it by asking yourself what do
I really love doing so you have your purpose this is what you're going to do
with the rest of your life and then you build a vision then your goal is taking
a bite out of that vision now when you do that properly you're gonna love what
you do when you wake up in the morning you can't wait to get going and you're
gonna be doing it until you go to bed at night therefore all of your day all of
your hours are filled doing with what you love to do
that's called living everything else is dying see there's a basic law of life it
says create or disintegrate you're growing or day I know what you love
dedicate your life to most of us when we approach happiness are looking for
someone out there to make us happy some event to occur and then we'll be happy
if I get to the retirement stage if I get my car if my wife is nice to me if
my son comes on one time then I'll be happy the truth is happiness is an
inside job it's a choice when I have an expectation
on how someone else should be I've given my power over to them what I want to do
is simply learn how to create joy and happiness inside myself and we can do
that in numerous ways by doing the things we love by focusing on the good
qualities in ourselves by choosing to focus on the good qualities and others
instead of being judgemental once we realize that happiness is an inside job
and I get to be as happy as I choose to be not as happy as other people make me
the reality is I can move into a state of pretty much constant joy and bliss stuff happens
life happens and then you get to choose look you have
a mission to do you have to find meaning in your life and you have to share it
with others there's a whole world out there that is suffering that is in
survival they are grieving and they are hurting you and I can make a difference
you begin right now by looking at your life no matter what's going on in your
life right now and you find the good in it the positive in it
the growth-oriented reasons for whatever it happens to be you find the good in it
and whatever is happening you turn it into something positive you turn it into
something good and you go and share it with the world you will become an
inspiration to others people model other people's behavior and that's how the
world changes you be that inspiration for success you be the model for change
you be that person that has meaning in their life and you will give meaning to
yourself and others it all begins with you you always have you have at this
moment you will always have the future the power to achieve to accomplish to to
have anything and everything you want in terms of monetary wealth prosperity in
terms of health in terms of happiness relationships however it will never ever
occur until and unless and until after you first are clear on the specific
goals number two you are very clear on the action steps operative word is
action steps you have to take number three you have an action step based plan
the strategy and the steps are just the cockroach you
implement it in a timely regular scheduled way before you monitor you
pulse you really paying attention to your progress and you adjust if it's not
what you want and you were just hired if it's better than you want and number
five you focus on other people's benefit you don't be self consumed you do those
five things the world really is your oyster you know you find people that are
quite comfortable with what's termed uncertainty the truth is there isn't any
uncertainty there's only the law and the law decrees
that everything happens the way it's supposed to happen if we built the image
in our mind of what we want and we're true to that image that will control the
vibration we're in that controls what we do and it controls what we attract now
the problem is we let that image get out of the way every now and then and we're
controlled by something outside and that takes us off track we've got to correct
it and come back on track but a person that has directs in their life there's
no uncertainty there's only good stuff coming it's stuff that's going to cause
the image in our mind to move into form it's so we wake up every day wondering
what part of it's going to show up today and where's it coming from and who's
going to deliver it every day holds something really good for us Alfred
Adler the great psychologist said I am grateful to the idea that has used me I
love that get a big idea and understand that
you're gonna see it move into form and that's just a certain is the night
following the day cuz that's governed by law to the laws of Correspondence of
vibration polarity and rhythm come into play when you talk about the meaning of
life and happiness we make our happiness dependent on what other people can do
for us instead of what we can do for ourselves you know that there's a
concept they don't teach you in school it's called enough sometimes what is
enough for one person may not be that way for somebody else and we want more
and when you want more you're setting yourself up for disappointment it's not
always will you get more sometimes you do but it's not all the time I don't
know who told us on this planet that everything is gonna go our way sometimes
things will go your way sometimes they won't we've got to learn to accept this
that's the rhythm and the flow of life all of life is filled with possibilities
and when you see possibilities well it allows you to accept failures as not
final failures are learning lessons the American Indians the Hopi Indians in the
southwest what they have a belief every day they wake up and pray to the Great
Spirit and they say o Great Spirit allow us today this day to make twenty
mistakes you see they believe that by making mistakes by failing you actually
learn more you add to this wonderful fountain the wisdom that is called you
over a period of time and if you don't fail they say you don't learn anything
so how many times have you failed I know I have failed a lot
but over the course of the years I did also knew something that was different
and that was that I was responsible for my own happiness I knew that there was
laughter everywhere but I also knew that if I wanted to participate that laughter
has to come from inside not from outside and that's the nature of spirit and
that's the nature of who you are and that's the meta secret to everything
possible this is our home we have nowhere else to
go Earth gives us everything we need to celebrate life everything you do will
either hurt or heal our planet you were brought here to learn many
lessons learn how to love who you are where you
are and the people you will surround exactly
just remember that you carry within yourself everything you need for the
fulfillment of your life's purpose you are the sum of all of your
experiences all of your choices you are a work you deserve more happiness more luck
more joy more abundance and especially life was never meant
you were meant to participate in this grand miracle called life and as you
begin to look all around you start now to taste smell hear and touch with your
heart the abundance that surrounds you you are indeed
spectacular fields of light if you want to know the many secret to life to
happiness live more love change the stories in your head
you short trip make it a good one you